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Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by bukatyne(f): 8:22am On Jun 04, 2019 |
Gloriagee: And what has this got to do with the deleted topic? There are times the wife/husband might be sick for longer periods and sex the last thing on their minds. How does this negate the topic? |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by crackhaus: 8:25am On Jun 04, 2019 |
ibkayee: |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by ibkayee(f): 8:26am On Jun 04, 2019 |
bukatyne: I did not mention anything about advocacy of physical abuse in my comment, you brought it up and are essentially countering a point I did not make. 1 Like |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by bukatyne(f): 8:27am On Jun 04, 2019 |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by bukatyne(f): 8:30am On Jun 04, 2019 |
ibkayee: You needed to read the other thread to get the link. You say marital rape is sex without consent in marriage. I say marriage gives consent therefore, there can be no rape in marriage. However, during the act, a spouse can be assaulted and should seek redress for physical abuse or attempted murder in severe cases. |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by cococandy(f): 8:41am On Jun 04, 2019 |
I was able to read to read the second article. I must say first time I’m hearing about this. Thanks for sharing. In most men they occur simultaneously so to say bukatyne: |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by ibkayee(f): 8:51am On Jun 04, 2019 |
bukatyne:I read the thread. And I said what’s not illegal isn’t always ethical. I also pointed out how far back these laws were written, it is important to consider the era. You can rape your spouse, you just can’t be prosecuted for it, but that does not mean it is not wrong. I saw what you said about physical abuse in the thread, it just hasn’t got much to do with what I’m saying. The rape that can be committed without physical abuse is the one I’m talking about since you already addressed the ‘severe case’ conditions concerning physical abuse. 4 Likes |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by eyinjuege: 8:51am On Jun 04, 2019 |
bukatyne: As she deems fit, right? How do you seek redress for damage/ injury to your spirit and soul? Perhaps stabbing him will be a form of redress as she felt her life was in danger. Perhaps holding a lifelong resentment for your 'for better for worse' molester will do the trick. Perhaps poisoning him to be rid of the filth is enough redress as deemed fit. Or perhaps developing an extra marital relationship with someone else who treats you like a woman with more to offer than your vj is enough redress. You will be surprised at the number of women who seek succour outside of their marriages because they are seeking redress. 7 Likes |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by Richy4(m): 9:12am On Jun 04, 2019 |
Gloriagee: Okay... If what I have posted made U happy, I'm glad for u... It shows that you are easily amused |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by bukatyne(f): 9:17am On Jun 04, 2019 |
cococandy: You are welcome. |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by bukatyne(f): 9:18am On Jun 04, 2019 |
ibkayee: Forceful sex without physical abuse? How does that work? |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by bukatyne(f): 9:24am On Jun 04, 2019 |
eyinjuege: How she seeks redress in accordance with the law is solely up to her. Afterall, sexual abuse or what you call marital rape is not the only abuse done to wives in marriage. We have physical abuse (even without the sex), emotional abuse, financial abuse, physiological abuse etc. How does she seek redress in the other scenarios? @adultery: it is funny. How does she intend to give consent to this new lover? Instead of her to work on her marriage and open up sexually to the one man who has the right, consent, etc. to her body, she rather seeks other men who by law must seek her consent everytime And absurdly, she is willing to do so. |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by Gloriagee(f): 9:28am On Jun 04, 2019 |
Dude, I try to see the humor in life's situations. Doesn't mean I'm dumb.... Richy4: 3 Likes |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by bukatyne(f): 9:54am On Jun 04, 2019 |
Just stumbled on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5223054/ladies-only-get-here-love#down Wives should be this excited with their husbands. It however reminds me of this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/4436386/transactional-vs-validational-sex |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by ibkayee(f): 10:05am On Jun 04, 2019 |
bukatyne:We keep veering off on tangents, dunno why we’re focusing on the topic of physical abuse despite what I’ve said. Rape can happen via threats, emotional manipulation, verbal abuse and any other way you can coerce someone into doing something they don’t want to do without inflicting physical injuries. 7 Likes |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by bukatyne(f): 10:11am On Jun 04, 2019 |
ibkayee: The previous OP would have helped you understand. Rape via threat, emotional manipulation and verbal abuse. If someone says you should put your hand inside fire else he would slap you, would you put it? This is my understanding of a threat. I would like examples of your second paragraph. |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by ibkayee(f): 10:35am On Jun 04, 2019 |
bukatyne:There is a spectrum of sexual assault, it isn’t just physical abuse. If a person I knew could inflict some sort of harm on me told me to put my hand in fire else he would slap me, there’s a chance the pressure/fear would force me into doing it. Or if they were in a position of power to threaten my livelihood for example, spread rumours about me etc, essentially holding me back in an area of life in one way or another. Threatening a family member/friend, threatening my child etc. 4 Likes |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by bukatyne(f): 10:41am On Jun 04, 2019 |
ibkayee: You have not explained how this works in marriage. |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by ibkayee(f): 10:45am On Jun 04, 2019 |
bukatyne:Imagine every situation I’ve written in my reply, but the person going through it is married and the perpetrator is their spouse. 5 Likes |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 12:09pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
bukatyne:Yes 2 Likes |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by essenceplus: 2:25pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
crackhaus: You almost made me crack my ribs with laughter from reading this. You're actually spot on. Once a mods feelings or the feelings of people close to the mods are touched, you'll be more than lucky not to have your bank akkant broken . If its the popular one, you're dead, they'll twist things to fit their narrative. No matter what goes down,you'll take the fall |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by LilMissFavvy(f): 2:49pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Hmm.....it seems you are still convinced there is nothing like marital rape. I think the best advice you can read so far, is that ''you should have paraphrased the Topic as a question, not a statement'', I can recall you even told me it was a statement. Too bad that after I wasted so much time and followed the thread, it's wiped off. Tho am still trying to understand if that thread was worse off than the miseducation threads which I don't even follow, but which I think is much more offensive. bukatyne: |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by essenceplus: 2:52pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Our very own lil favvy with those juicy advice. Hmm, seems we have promising materials here. Sips kunu |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by crackhaus: 2:54pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
essenceplus:Lmao.. I tell ya. Some of them can be so petty, it's hilarious. |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by essenceplus: 2:56pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
cococandy: Shut up. I pity young galsbwho pay attention to your rubbish. Nonsense, always extremist with her myopic reasoning. |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by essenceplus: 2:58pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
bukatyne: You think that one you tried so hard to explain to reasons better than an ape. Bully start taking note of comments here and their posters. Coco is drenched in her delusional thinking that one day all men would die living the world with just females alone |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by essenceplus: 3:01pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
crackhaus: My brother all the mods. I've watched them from the sidelines well enough to know the power they arrogate themselves with. Its why the country needs a referendum as soon as possible. Let forward thinking people have their republic and not nr yoked with dimwits. |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by essenceplus: 3:03pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
crackhaus: How can they think objectively when they think through their emotions, that's for the few that even think. |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by essenceplus: 3:07pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
bukatyne: Preach. You see why I follow your comments. Objectivity. Note people who think through their emotions and wear their hearts on their slvees. The roap map to change and development starts with doing things differently, and for this to be done differently there has to be an examination of what's not right within a faulty system and then make corrections and improvement. Make no mistake, Africa is stuck in mediocrity, even Nigeria as a result of a laxity to follow through with this learning process. |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:11pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
My dear, I try to share my little contributions from time to time, send down down the kunu, cheers. essenceplus: |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by essenceplus: 3:11pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Ranchhoddas: Yes. Spot on 100%. Once the cabal is against you forget it. |
Re: Any Reason Why My Thread On Marital Rape Was Deleted? by essenceplus: 3:12pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Come get it in person. Cause each time I see your moniker, I quickly rush down to read ya comment. And . Ah it flows out |
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