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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Kiezodumah(m): 2:02pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
This story doesn't just add up. I believe it was made up. Can't u guys read in between the lines? It didnt flow |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Lantosed: 2:02pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
successmatters:a sensible man shouldn't marry a karchika as a wife because when the good times ends the take their leave. when you marry a God sent woman I mean iyawo alalubarika losing a job will never an issue. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Awe4luv(m): 2:04pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
golddeejay:my brother, as much as I pity the guy I will still say it's his fault po, he should have stepped back, I was in his shoe some times last year, I asked the lady out,she told me let's just be friends to see if she will later develop feelings for me, but pestered her and she gave, guess what, guy man suffer, chai! Iya ma je mi o...learn to leave a lady once she gives U a reason why she doesn't love you....ire ooo 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by freemi(m): 2:12pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
BigJoe19:thats hw i am buildin my self o. .mke woman no carry m shine |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by rubyjan(f): 2:25pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
[quote author=ReeLoaDead post=81580283]So how short is this your brother that her village people are complaining?[/quote Lol, please ooo I'm eating, I don't want the food to get stuck in my throat pls. Very funny. 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Imotman(m): 2:29pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by engrchykae(m): 2:30pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Awe4luv:mine was devastating. some women are devil personified. three months to our traditional wedding,I saw a contact on her phone with the name " my love" I thought am the one na as husband to be very soon. I looked closely and saw that its not my number so I confronted her and she told me its her mopol friend. she started explaining how the guy loves her so much. I got angry and told her " then why are you not with him,why didn't he come to collect the list " I called her father and lodged my complaints,the father later called back telling me how she has changed. I called her and warned that if such happens again I will reconsider my position in marrying her. do you know that this statement was registered in her heart for revenge. I married her and after seven months she left me to get revenge and make me lose of all I spent in footing the bills of the traditional wedding. I have learnt to be mean in handling relationship with women. before I pity them and wrong myself to please them. but not anymore. what pains me most is that my siblings whom I first got married are now with kids each while this devil was deceiving that she is pregnant and I registered her ante natal. when she attended for six months,I wasn't seeing any sign of pregnancy and she would tell me how she had flat tummy,how the doctor is surprised at her flat tummy. I will be like,flat tummy in six months ? I told her to go for scan which she did reluctantly. results came out no pregnancy . she started telling me how a prophet told her that time would come when her pregnancy would be appearing and disappearing. how somebody is manipulating her pregnancy. I told my mum to help her meet those women in the village who help in such matters. that was when they told her that she should tell her husband the truth. she came back packed her things in our house in the village and travelled to her parents. later came town took her things and left. if I assist my mum financially,there will be trouble in the house. if she add her own money in preparing food,I must refund her. she knows my pay but I don't know her financial status. she hides her financial status from me. I thank God she left as I feel liberated 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Brock1: 2:30pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Brock1:we all operate conditional love. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by bukatyne(f): 2:38pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by princfred(m): 2:42pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Smile4mee01:All correct. If she isn't investing her resources especially financial the man is on a long thing any man who get hoodwinked and shamed into not having the wife bring out her money based on ego is ignorant of women's selfish antics. How I hate selfish women. 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Awe4luv(m): 2:43pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
engrchykae:oh boy! this one mad ooooo, thank God for my life, ijo ope mi Ree ooooo.......chai! what a world well in my case, I was always scared of marriage coz I knew once U made mistake in choosing the wrong woman then U done, so before I dated that idiot, I went to a prophet to pray over it, I wqs told I shouldn't proceed with her, but I turned deaf ears....lol...so I got what I wanted merely because she physically fits into my dream woman, beautiful, slim, light in complexion, sexy, tall etc.... but right now the person am with was sanctioned by thesame prophet that warned me over the first so I think am half secured..... |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by bukatyne(f): 2:45pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Oko oro. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Elliot2(m): 3:16pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Awe4luv:lol. you make it sound that all whites don't believe in supernatural powers. if people say they experience it,then who are you to tell them otherwise? |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Salt3: 3:24pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
DAT Lady must be an Igbo. I'm talking from experience. Igbo ladies are always like that except for a rare few |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Ozugbo(m): 3:24pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Bros,move on.I'm a victim of this n I ve since moved onn life is now so blossom for me. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Ozugbo(m): 3:24pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Bros,move on.I'm a victim of this n I ve since moved on n life is now so blossom for me. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by OlawaleBammie: 3:36pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Tunagee: yea, dat is d ultimate condition, soo on point. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by jman77(m): 3:39pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by engrchykae(m): 4:10pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Awe4luv:my guy na God go save men o |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by mechanics(m): 6:11pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
hmmmm, that's the consequences of one not seeking the face of God for His will, beauty is not everything. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Nobody: 6:21pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
mechanics: See them |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by mechanics(m): 6:49pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Sholaani:lolz. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by mechanics(m): 6:49pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Sholaani:lolz. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by charlsecy(m): 7:56pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
akinade28:She knew. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by okewumi: 9:56pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
engrchykae: Nawa. Ooo Sometimes when you watch deliverance program and you see women and ladies display under the anointing, you will pity men. They can make you and reck you . Sometimes the demon inside them will make sure they destroy the part of their husband and amount him to nothing. I am just watching Emmanuel TV deliverance program in Israel. If God open your eyes sometimes, you will know that some ladies are great grandma in spirit rem. Watch and pray. If you have carry over in school, you can correct and pass within a year but carryover in marriage can be everlasting regret. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by mceze(m): 12:14am On Aug 26, 2019 |
Princeofasia: How do you know what's on my mind? Na wetin I go do be that! |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by benji93: 12:35am On Aug 26, 2019 |
True, but i don't think that adage works for the men and women of today. Most of the ladies in those days were loyal, so you don't have to worry about their loyalties, all you got to do is work hard and take good care of them. Times have changed, women are becoming more financially capable- independent, if you would have it. So unlike some other adages that trasncend time, this one is subject to time. That being said , i could also say that the adage the adage is implicitly encouraging hardwork among men (you can't make the money if you don't, unless your father na Dangote), so your understanding of it really depends on how deep you look. felaismyhero: |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by benji93: 12:44am On Aug 26, 2019 |
I am not understanding what you are writing, are you equating attraction to genuine love? udemzyudex: |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by udemzyudex(m): 12:47am On Aug 26, 2019 |
benji93: Equating? Read the post again, maybe you will understand it this time. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by benji93: 12:49am On Aug 26, 2019 |
I think someone explained this earlier- sometimes contract jobs earns you money that will take you years to accumulate from federal employment. Your opinion on his irresponsible investments, supposedly, is well taken. freemi: |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by benji93: 12:55am On Aug 26, 2019 |
Honestly, on reading again as suggested, i would think it means love + attraction =genuine love. But your thoughts are not clear enough. You seem to be of the opinion that love and attraction are two different things, but love and attraction actually overlap as far as i am concerned. How can you love someone without being attracted to them one way or another? udemzyudex: |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by oshaosha2014(m): 1:43am On Aug 26, 2019 |
If you par adventure lose it nko, na to go die remain abi Like that’s the end of one’s life. successmatters: |
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