@Renderhelp,

I used to be a frequent customer of a popular brothel in my area where I met my wife.

She was a sex worker there and I became her favorite customer. She started giving me huge discounts, sometimes when I was very broke she would tell me to pay later. Sometimes she lends me money which I never had intentions to pay her back.

I had to deceive her that I loved her to enjoy more benefits, I did this because I was very poor. I'm a graduate but I had no job then.

She later got pregnant for me. I told her I wasn't the father of her child and even if I was I had no money to start a family. She begged me and told me she was going to buy me an okada with the money she had saved. The only reason I decided to take her in as my wife was because of the okada she bought.

After 3 years of living together I have come to love my wife and daughter but I am suspecting she is seeing other men.

Sometimes before I go out in the morning to ride my okada, I usually drop 500 naira for her to cook with. When I get back home in the evening she will serve me a rich meal with lots of meat. I usually want to ask her where she gets the money from but the food is too tempting to say no to.

She also helps to pay the house rent when I can't and she provides our daughter's school fees. She sells cups of rice on a small scale in front of our compound so I pretend that is where she gets her income from.

I am afraid that one day she will give me AIDS or any other disease with her lifestyle. I am also jealous that she is seeing other men. I'm afraid that if I argue with her she will stop giving me money.

My close friend advised me to borrow the money she is saving to open a provision store and also sell my bike and run away to another state for a year to punish her.

I don't have peace of mind, what should I do??

Ftc
Okay, Am coming back to Reply...

Were you not the same one that said your husband is worse than a pig

Plz don't try dis......yhu already knw who she was b4 yhuengagein it...tho i'm young and lack experience of marriage but with my little experience in bf/gf relationship plus Naija movie...i'll advice yhu just separate with her if yhu ain't comfortable with her lifestyle...let her knw yhur mind....plz don't listen to yhur friend dat ask yhu to borrow her money she sweat to gather...it won't b nice...cuz laslas yhu sef won't b able to utilised d money well...yhu'll end up in square one...if yhu knw yhu ain't interested again...just separate 4rm her and sell d bike and move to anoda state...but don't borrow or move her savings...my one million kobo advice

this is why women dont do stuff for men. Nigga ain't loyal

Lonewolf98:
Were you not the same one that said your husband is worse than a pig

He/she is bisexual in nature.
Don't mind the op abeg.

Well... Stay your lane. All this thought is even because you know her lifestyle from the scrath. Test yourself, and if HIv negative, you're lucky too.

In fact just be happy for the kind of person she is, and I can say you're lucky too. The only spot is what she was before, and story has changed now.

Old things has passed, she has already been given unto you what a bona fide wife should do.

Am not sure she's not truthful to you.

Blessing in disguise.

I rest my case.

funmisticqueen:
this is why women dont do stuff for men. Nigga ain't loyal

Don't mind jare!

80% of Nigerian ladies are prostitutes but just about 20% have left their houses to be staying in whorehouse or brothels. I will advice u don't quit. Reason, it's her trade and her profession. by marrying her, you've only withdrawn her license but you can't completely take her off the trade. What you do is talk to her, let her know that for the sake of the child she needs to curtail her excesses. Up your game in providing for the family. Giving her 500 to cool is nonsense a meal costs me a single dude like 2k. Let her see actions that truly u want to do anything that will make her stop. Help her start a business but not selling beer and cigarette but stuff like foodstuffs.

funmisticqueen:
this is why women dont do stuff for men. Nigga ain't loyal

I thought you would advise him better....

Anyway, you can take a man out of gutter but you can take gutter out of a man. ...

My brother , not all opportunity are blessings in disguise , there are some that are just like eternal bondage and disaster....
Try all you can to do your responsibilities as a husband and thereafter if she still continue , threaten her with divorce and see her response ....if she doesn't change , then separation is the best answer

You both arent good people. She's used to her love peddling. You care about the money.

glink2015:


I thought you would advise him better....

Anyway, you can take a man out of gutter but you can take gutter out of a man. ...

My brother , not all opportunity are blessings in disguise , there are some that are just like eternal bondage and disaster....
Try all you can to do your responsibilities as a husband and thereafter if she still continue , threaten her with divorce and see her response ....if she doesn't change , then separation is the best answer

as much as this advice is great. The guy doesnt deserve it. He married a woman cause of an okada, he doesnt confront her, because the meal is tempting, he stays married cause of the money. Who does that. He cares about the cash, if he didnt he would have long straightened out things with her...

u had skin to skin sex with a prostitute?

sit her down. talk it out one on one. be a man.

All this people from the west nawa oh

Lonewolf98:
Were you not the same one that said your husband is worse than a pig

op obviously have a forum and imports private messages here in order to get advice

Just be patient so you can get that HIV from her.

Renderhelp:
@

How much will I get if I submit my own made up story?

sheungeek:
sit her down. talk it out one on one. be a man.

What are you saying, once a stripper always...

Guy you just acted Nigerian movie wetin be the title ?
How could you marry prostitute among all the whole women in this world.

simplelex:
u had skin to skin sex with a prostitute?

Abi ....it is after one child you are now thinking about HIV

Lonewolf98:
Were you not the same one that said your husband is worse than a pig

Wanted to ask the same thing but I figure our Op is a relationship expert.

This here is hilarious

Why not business of beer and cigarettes?

DrHoganObi:
80% of Nigerian ladies are prostitutes but just about 20% have left their houses to be staying in whorehouse or brothels. I will advice u don't quit. Reason, it's her trade and her profession. by marrying her, you've only withdrawn her license but you can't completely take her off the trade. What you do is talk to her, let her know that for the sake of the child she needs to curtail her excesses. Up your game in providing for the family. Giving her 500 to cool is nonsense a meal costs me a single dude like 2k. Let her see actions that truly u want to do anything that will make her stop. Help her start a business but not selling beer and cigarette but stuff like foodstuffs.

oyatz:
Why not business of beer and cigarettes?

A lot of men will be making passes and advances at her and again and she may just see it as another opportunity to flow with the energy. Truly of all the business ventures I can open for my lady, beer and cigarettes are not an option

U expect us to believe this stupid rubbish!? Bastard child!

All your topics are interesting heheheheheheh...

Lonewolf98:
Were you not the same one that said your husband is worse than a pig

that same her husband inherited her elder brother's wife, he also is addicted to porn and his/her neighbour have seen the unclad body of the his/her wife twice hahahahaha

Sharming95:
Plz don't try dis......yhu already knw who she was b4 yhuengagein it...tho i'm young and lack experience of marriage but with my little experience in bf/gf relationship plus Naija movie...i'll advice yhu just separate with her if yhu ain't comfortable with her lifestyle...let her knw yhur mind....plz don't listen to yhur friend dat ask yhu to borrow her money she sweat to gather...it won't b nice...cuz laslas yhu sef won't b able to utilised d money well...yhu'll end up in square one...if yhu knw yhu ain't interested again...just separate 4rm her and sell d bike and move to anoda state...but don't borrow or move her savings...my one million kobo advice

No offense, but aren't you worried that typing like this will make you forget how to spell some words correctly?

Ebonygirl1:


No offense, but aren't you worried that typing like this will make you forget how to spell some words correctly?

naah....ain't bothered...cuz wen it tym for exam....i knw my spelling well and day knw me too


Thanks 4 yhur concern...

Nice meeting yhu tho

Story sounds fake to me.