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Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 8:32pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: Lol... Na tfare and feeding go swallow half of her monthly stipend./... Miscellaneous spending still dey there... AIRTIME,DATA,HAIRDO,CLOTHINGS.... |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 8:34pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
OP feels rent is #80,000 per annum in Lekki and environs |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by victorian(f): 8:34pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide: Firm having her data does not mean they know her. She's still a stranger to them and they will see her as one. I'm NOT trying to be pessimistic here but that's the truth. I'm talking from experience anyways. Shebi she will come to Lagos on Monday and ask them politely, she will hear with her ears And moreover is the label : IM THE RIGHT PERSON, stamped on their foreheads? Sighs human beings sef |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Antoniosmile: 8:36pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: Thanks for all the contributions so far. The idea is not for me to use all the salary to take an apartment but money from other sources could come and I can also look for a partner/roomie to join in paying for the accomodation. It's just that this whole thing is improtu |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by victorian(f): 8:39pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide: Any reasonable person will know, she will stay more than one month before finding her feet in lagos and renting an apartment. Except she joins a church in Lagos, become a worker in the church, explain to pastor and let him allow her live inside the church. She can be their cleaner. Some church do it. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 8:39pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
victorian: Stop confusing the girl based on your emotions EXAMPLE .... IF I AM HUNGRY NOW, ISNT IT BETTER I GO STRAIGHT TO A CANTEEN AND ASK FOR FOOD OR LEFTOVER SEF...... THAN BEGGING YOU FOR CASH..... THAT IS HEADING SOMEWHERE Now you understand what i meant by BEGGING THE RIGHT PEOPLE If she were your family, would you give the same advice to allow them pass the night in a strangers house..........A TOTAL STRANGER WITHOUT A TRACE |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:39pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide: the babe might as well look for a r/ship with immediate accommodation and be done with fooling herself on NL... but hey, if she is one of them religious type, she can go to her local church/mosque and see if baba pastor no go ask for some "affection". |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:43pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Antoniosmile: sista, you have to be realistic.... the majority who will help you, will have some ulterior motives, but then again, the majority who are thinking of helping would think YOU have ulterior motives. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 8:46pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: I swear.. Nothing is free in Lagos. One has to pay a price at a point even if it seem free at first Make the girl first comot her mind say she wan use her first salary rent house.. If she is religious as you typed earlier, the can follow that path too.. But where will she pass the night on monday? |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by victorian(f): 8:46pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide: Well u are right too but if she's my family? I will tell her to locate a White garment church in Lagos. Join them. Explain to the Alagba about her predicament. When he prays and see vision, and he sees she's a good lady? He will allow her sleep in church and she will become a full member for as long as she stays there. At least I know white garment church do assist in such to anyone who joins them or some few Pentecostal churches. But white garment Is sure banker, if she's desperate about it than total strangers. So that will be my advice 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Antoniosmile: 8:47pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: True though. Thanks I've been putting a lot of calls through to the people I know in Lagos. But disappointment here and there, I'm hoping for the best though if the job was really meant for me. I had to share it on this platform just for me not to put all my eggs in one basket. |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Antoniosmile: 8:50pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
victorian: Thanks sis. I think I'll have to follow this advice at a point, if all seems not to be forthcoming or I'll just have to stay back in Benin |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:50pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide: this is friday afternoon, she still has a full weekend to decide what type of madness she wants to get herself into.... sunday will even be a great time for confession during church proceeding (for better appeal to other xtians) 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Antoniosmile: 8:51pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Thanks all for the contributions thus far. |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 8:52pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
victorian: Good idea too... I know about the white garment assistance as well.. But will the O.P buy the idea? Is the OP a responsible girl too?? Who knows |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:53pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Antoniosmile: remember, nothing is free in this world... especially in Lagos. sometimes being safe is better than some story that will (later) touch the heart |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by missyojo(f): 8:54pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
OP, I really pray you get the needed help at this point in time. I don't reside in Lagos would have assisted. Cheers!!! 1 Like |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Antoniosmile: 8:56pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: Very true. A lot is just going through my mind. No sane human being would one to be begging a total stranger for assistance unless it's totally necessary |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 8:56pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: I tell you... "I am working in LEKKI" sounds sweet and catchy but no one will tell you the sadness behind it...The stress and the little stipends that isnt worth the stress sef. But yes, we all have to survive |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by victorian(f): 9:12pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide: Don't worry if she's responsible or not When the Woli or Alagba starts praying, he will see vision if she's good or not. And If she's a responsible lady, then they will accept her to be staying in church with other members who also live in church. She should just be ready to clean and help in the church activities that's all. So, Op there lies a great solution in front of you And if within a month, a single upwardly male church member falls in love with you , then glory be to God. I hope the feeling will be mutual. You will graduate from sleeping in church to moving in with a trusted church member, who will be willing to court and marry her. By then Alagba can vouch for her and other church members. That's how things happen sometimes But if she doesn't fall in love with any man there or none falls In love with her? She can stay as long as she desires, until she has saved money to rent a place of her own. Easy peasy! Problem solved. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 9:16pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
victorian: lol.. |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by victorian(f): 9:18pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Antoniosmile: You are welcome dear I'm trying to be realistic as I can be The white garment Church will help. If you are a good person, they won't turn u down and they will even help in other spiritual aspect of your life that needs prayers as well. So it's a win win situation. After work, search for a white garment church in that area on the island and do your findings and be ready to be humble to the people u meet there. Ask of the Alagba and open up to him Or her. Church is your best bet In this situation. |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by victorian(f): 9:19pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
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Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by nlPoster: 9:26pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
victorian: |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by nlPoster: 9:29pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Op did you check any of the links at all to see if at least one is workable? https://www.rentsmallsmall.com/ https://erasmusu.com/en/erasmus-lagos/roommate https://www.propertypro.ng/property-for-rent/flat-apartment/shared-apartment/in/lagos?sort=amount&order=asc https://homes.trovit.ng/index.php/cod.search_homes/type.2/what_d.single%20room%20lagos/sug.0/isUserSearch.1/origin.2/order_by.price/ |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by victorian(f): 9:30pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
nlPoster: What is it? Why the frown? Nobody is ready to help her, at least church can! So why frown? |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 9:32pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
victorian: That fall in love part got me OP must fall in love kia kia |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by victorian(f): 9:34pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
nlPoster: Oh that. Well If she has the money, she can contact them. |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Happyguy201: 9:35pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
madam will u be able to feed your self ? if yes then i might talk to my sister on your behalf she lives in the island and owned a small beauty saloon |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by victorian(f): 9:37pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Carbon2Oxide: Hehehehehehehehe You are funny! But Yes o! Emergency love is allowed in this case. She must love o! Very crucial at this level. Desperate times calls for desperate measures. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Fidelismaria: 9:42pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
How do you intend to get accommodation with a month salary? |
Re: Help, I'm In Need Of Accommodation by Carbon2Oxide: 9:45pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
victorian: Hehehe! Even if the guy has incomplete set of teeth, she must love ni o |
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