Carmit:
Hope some males won't take advantage of this sha

Carmit:
Hope some males won't take advantage of this sha

Miniso:
Am about can't help it... Madam pm for a rent free

Antoniosmile:


I just pray they don't.
Mankind just needs to be kind to another

Antoniosmile:


I just pray they don't.
Mankind just needs to be kind to another

Carmit:

I pray you see oo...
I'm a lagosian but don't have the room.
I'm male!

Carbon2Oxide:


It would be safer if you resume work on monday, discuss with your female colleagues at work. Im so sure one of them at least will spare you accommodation for a week. Then you can start from there

flokii:


@OP you should go with this option to be on the safer side.. you might be lucky to get accommodation from the company or your boss.

Carbon2Oxide:


Else ehn... she might just end up with the "Either i bang you or you get outta my house" option

Carbon2Oxide:


It would be safer if you resume work on monday, discuss with your female colleagues at work. Im so sure one of them at least will spare you accommodation for a week. Then you can start from there

flokii:


@OP you should go with this option to be on the safer side.. you might be lucky to get accommodation from the company or your boss.

Antoniosmile:
Please, I don't know if this is the right place to put this.

I stay in Benin and I just got a job on the island (lekki) in Lagos. I don't have a place to stay until I get paid to get my own accomodation. If anyone can assist me, I will be mostly grateful till I'm financially bouyant to take my place. It's very very urgent as I need to resume work on monday.

Ps: I'm a female.

Mods do the needful please.

victorian:





It's not that easy. Her female colleagues dont know her, she's a new employee. All of them will be sceptical to allow her live with them. None of them will agree sef. Too many complications with women living together, how much more ladies who are strangers to themselves. They will say no.

Sighs the only option she has is this medium.

And she should pray very well, that bad people won't contact her as helpers. Only the good ones should see this advert and help her.

Op just pray for divine connection . Cause nobody trust anybody anymore.

Carmit:
Hope some males won't take advantage of this sha

Antoniosmile:

I just pray they don't.
Mankind just needs to be kind to another

victorian:






Even her boss if Na man, will request for sex every now and then. If he were to accept her live in his place.

Times are terrible.

Never pray to be at Mercy of any human being.

Never.

victorian:






Even her boss if Na man, will request for sex every now and then. If he were to accept her live in his place.

Times are terrible.

Never pray to be at Mercy of any human being.

Never.

victorian:





It's not that easy. Her female colleagues dont know her, she's a new employee. All of them will be sceptical to allow her live with them. None of them will agree sef. Too many complications with women living together, how much more ladies who are strangers to themselves. They will say no.

Sighs the only option she has is this medium.

And she should pray very well, that bad people won't contact her as helpers. Only the good ones should see this advert and help her.

Op just pray for divine connection . Cause nobody trust anybody anymore.

Basically, you saying that a total stranger is safer than her colleague at work?

MrBrownJay1:




nothing in life is free, especially when begging total strangers on online forum.

she should rightfully assume the position she put herself into, and accept what comes with the territory.... and hope that being sexually used/abused is only what she will get from such desperate plight (and not something more sinister like ritual or kidnapping etc)

Antoniosmile:

It's so sad hearing this.
Nevertheless, thanks for your candid advice. But I don't think we should have met before, before helping one another

Antoniosmile:


Thanks so much for this.
I'm grateful.

It's indeed a difficult time as I may loose the job if not in Lagos tomorrow

Antoniosmile:


It's so sad hearing this.
Nevertheless, thanks for your candid advice. But I don't think we should have met before, before helping one another

MrBrownJay1:


you gotta be honest with yourself and the dangerous madness you want to put yourself (others) into... in this day and age when innocent people are being butchered for ritual etc. here you are gladly hoping that some stranger let you (a stranger) into their home and have you sleep there.

i wouldnt trust YOU just like i wouldnt trust ANYONE who accept to have you sleep in their home.

Carbon2Oxide:


Else ehn... she might just end up with the "Either i bang you or you get outta my house" option

Carbon2Oxide:




Basically, you saying that a total stranger is safer than her colleague at work?

How do you know her colleagues wont allow her even if its to pass the night?

"Divine connection"? Lets be realistic here please

Monday is a little over 48hours from now

Carbon2Oxide:


It would be safer if you resume work on monday, discuss with your female colleagues at work. Im so sure one of them at least will spare you accommodation for a week. Then you can start from there

Carbon2Oxide:


See ehn, let me tell you the blunt truth. I live on the mainland but i work on the island

This one youre travelling all the way from Benin to work in Lekki,Lagos, and you have no accommodation. Im not trying to discourage you babe.... but


Do you think you can get an accommodation easily after you get your first pay? Think about your expenses for the month(Tfare,feeding, e.t.c). You might not even get an accommodation in your preferred location cos of cost or other factors.

I am not being negative here

victorian:







Let's be realistic, shes not familiar with anyone at new place of work.

Her colleagues are also strangers too.

And trust me, no one in her work place will agree to accommodate her except a Randy guy who is single .

Abi? Uv forgotten that women don't want any other woman to come in and sleep with their bfs or fiances or husbands. That's how most women brains are wired. If a fellow female colleague needs to squat with them for a while. Except they've been friends for donkey years, if not forget female colleagues helping her. They will see her as competition. What if my man sees her and want to bed her? Will she resist him because most women know u don't give cat, a roasted fish to keep and hold for you.

Even Pastor wife will not allow a stranded female to come sleep over in their house, how much more colleagues she has not met before. They don't even know her.

Her best bet is online.

And if none is forthcoming from now till Monday. Let her come to Lagos, talk to her boss and see if there is staff quarters available.
Simple.

Op, the job is not a do or die affair

Nothing in life is do or die

Just keep an open mind, whatever happens at the end, just thank God.