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Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Mrexcell(m): 6:05pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Elder0001: Nigerians always abuse civilization even the European and American women don't name the kids they give birth to the name of their father, were are Nigerian ladies learning this one from now? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by GMbuharii: 6:07pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
That's why we have Hilary Rodham CLINTON. Who wanna put off the name of a US president?! How many remembers the Kardashian patriarch? Before the Kim fame,the wife bore her own name but after the fame,she tried in vain to be known as a Kardashian,she even wept bitterly!!!!! All in vain Bird brains sef Btw,the foolish French under17 coach should be sacked and guillotined. How can you be 2-0 up and play complete defensive game in 1st half!!!! What a big idiot!! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Litmus: 6:10pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
This belief that women own babies because they carry and give birth to them is yet another African world destroying idea born of white narcissism. Reality is, Men and women are custodians of babies not owners. As for what surname a child ought to have, human societies decide this. In matriarchal societies, children may bare surnames related to mothers’ side of family, while in Patriarchal societies such as Nigeria children bare surnames on fathers’ side of family. As these are societal traditions not god-given, it may be that as gender cultures in societies evolve, we may arrive at the equitable position whereby female children adopt mothers’ surnames and male children adopt fathers surname. When children attain ages where they are able to leave the care of their parents, society allows them to adopt whichever surnames they chose. After all, equality and emancipation belongs to men, women and young people. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Martinez39(m): 6:15pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Omar09:They are the embodiment of double standards and hypocrisy. They love to hype themselves and talk arrogantly but once shit hit the fan, they do a complete 180°. Even at that, they maintain their entitlement and hubris. Yes most men mess up I know. Like the fact where before a woman gets a job here in Nigeria the boss has to sleep with her. But do you know what baffles me, they would never report such person to the authorities rather they will take up the opportunity and when things go sour they run their mouth claiming he slept with me before giving me a job and all of a sudden, they loose their sense of shame. They wouldn't remember they gave in for the sex and it takes two to tango.I usually suspect that gynocentrism will get stronger, more brutal, and more oppressive due to the rising number of weak men and fathers with each passing generation. Sometimes I wonder if Ubunja, iLegend, and other red pill men are wasting their time fanning out red pill messages but when I remember that I was able to save one from a toxic girlfriend, I keep hope alive. It's depressing. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by seguun(m): 6:15pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Already in Islam, one is addressed with his or her father's surname... therefore a Muslim doesn't have any problem with his wife using her father's surname 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by kikelomojessy(f): 6:23pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
I hate making a big issue when there shouldn't be any. We women like wahala where there is none. The surname I have was given to me by my father so my kids will bear the papa's name. That's why I avoid too much ladies talks. When you start now by dragging irrelevant things with your hubby, you will never be happy. 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by dfrost: 6:27pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
pocohantas: poco poco... I salute oOo. When issues like this that are trivial crops up, it makes me wonder less why marriages are failing everyday. Anyway, how are you and yours jare? |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by dfrost: 6:28pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
kikelomojessy: Thank you sis. Feminists, feminists, feminists, what exactly do they want? Nobody has successfully explained to me so far. |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Uchimah: 6:31pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
@ Hon. Chief Cyn- When men play God, they end up in misery. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Nobody: 6:35pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Yea, IF she ever gets married, Which is Never going to happen.. Not with the Atitude. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Promismike(m): 6:37pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
[quote author=Geminita1 post=84078906]They have a point but personally i can't wait to drop my surname and adopt my partner's. Every time i tell people my surname, they just laugh at me. [/quotes]what the saw name |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by mechanics(m): 6:38pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
That's wrong of them, since their husbands paid their bride price, they must take up his name. |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Nobody: 6:38pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
For all that her fantasy to come Alive, She have to get married first, Get pregnant and give birth to the kids. Which may never happen. I am guessing she forgot such process. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Uchimah: 6:38pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
You might as well carry drink to the man's house to pay his dowry, and also em-pregnant YOU MIGHT AS WELL CARRY DRINK TO IS PARENTS HOUSE TO PAY HIS DOWRY, AND ALSO EM-PREGNANT HIM. VERY SOON YOU WILL TELL GOD TO STEP DOWN FROM BEING GOD SO THAT YOU CAN TAKE OVER. NA SO THE MALE VERSION OF BOBRISKY DEY START. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by genq(m): 6:40pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Olalan: Lol |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by ctleurocollege: 6:45pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
All the laws we subject women to are man made, if they don't obey it, it won't kill them. The only problem women have is singleness of purpose that's why we make wicked laws then bully them to obey 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by pocohantas(f): 6:46pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
dfrost: We are fine. People now expend energy on too much nonsense. Person just sleep, wakeup, start to drag which name pikin go bear. Anyway, nothing concern me and man (and woman) wey no get sense. This one no be my real life problem. We keep our egos at the doormat 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Akuruoulo(m): 7:11pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Geminita1:Laf Back At Them Nah . Ur Surname The Sound Funny ? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by yommen: 7:13pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
[quote author=payman post=84078859]nonsense...if person buy new gadget no be im name go dey d receipt?wen d ladies start paying dowry we will adopt their names.[/quote Yes, most especially Igbo bride price. |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by midnighter(f): 7:14pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Geminita1: Lol, its good to be a woman So what of your father and brothers who are stuck with the funny name for life and beyond 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Akuruoulo(m): 7:18pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Born2Breed:. Mehn , This Is The Most Funny Post Of The Year. Bur 90% Percent Of Their Fight No Make Sense 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by dfrost: 7:24pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
pocohantas: Na so oOo my sister. I went to check the twitter handle of the said female that started this rubbish. Lo! and behold she is a bisexual according to her bio. And according to her posts, she doesn't mind licking her fellow woman's . This world have finish pata pata 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Respect55(m): 7:24pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
No feminist is HAPPY 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by BluntBoy(m): 7:30pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Ladyhippolyta88: My sugar, this brand of feminism must be crushed. It is too toxic and it appears like a battle of the sexes. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by beeniemccoy: 7:32pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Basically women who come out to utter such nonsense are those that have been ill-treated by men. No woman whom her husband has bestowed much love on can utter things like this... But then again you can never please a woman. If they accept this one now, they go still come up with another thing for future. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by DeHumbleTboy: 7:34pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Olalan:this this is is is bruuuutaaaaall |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by DeHumbleTboy: 7:37pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
I can't even marry a lady who uses social media. My babe is not on any social media platforms. And most importantly she's a virgin so I don't think I have anything to do with this shits. Pwehehehe 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Monday60655(m): 7:37pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
You shouldn't have ranted that you birthed them. You should have said that you paid your husband dowry and as well pregnant yourself. Attention seekers |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by BeeBeeOoh(m): 7:39pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
dfrost:Yea mehn |
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by olatunjin(m): 7:42pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
IamPlato:You valid
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Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by BluntBoy(m): 7:51pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
ctleurocollege: Which wicked laws? If you want to know how men became so powerful and how patriarchy came about, then you may want to look at nature. Nature made the average man larger than the average woman due to the level of testosterone. So, women had to seek protection and superior stock (children) from these men. The children ordinarily bore their fathers' names. And the women were proud to have their kids bear the name of the man. Then, agriculture was discovered, and it further worsens the case for women as men (due to their physical strength) also dominated during that period. Men became wealthier than women and they had so much money that they could even buy women if they wanted, and they married as many women as possible. How is this man's fault 1 Like |
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