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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Nobody: 5:46pm On Nov 19, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
i tried staying away after her boyfriend confronted me.. but she was begging me to at least be her best friend that I should not leave her life completely.
there is no boyfriend anywhere. The guy is just dating himself

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 5:52pm On Nov 19, 2019
niaralandtopuser:
there is no boyfriend anywhere. The guy is just dating himself
bros u harsh o

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Fizzymike1(m): 5:56pm On Nov 19, 2019
Bitches every where

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 5:56pm On Nov 19, 2019
MrBrownJay1:


bro, again, you have to be honest with your own self....A) you are indeed a r/ship breaker and B) this woman is in a r/ship and you fully well know that the dude is uncomfortable with you being around his woman ( to which you have agreed to back off)... only for you to do exactly the same thing AND even considering her deceitful dishonest disrespectful demands.

here is what you should do: tell her you would do anything she wants the day she breaks up with her man, and you can confirm it with HIM.

then you can be happy with this cheating woman until she cheats on YOU the exact same way.




she reacted in such a way because of A) your cheap tricks (staying around her while saying you would back off) and B) you snitching on her man (despicable dude).... how can you expect their r/ship to get better?!?! you have to take your fair share of the blame for having their r/ship being such a failure (partly thanks to you).



well done....brotha "captain save a hoe"
bros I was willing to back of.. you should have seen the way this girl cried and plead that I should not leave her life completely...i agreed to be her best friend.. there was no issue at first but just recently she started behaving abnormal.i told her I v always respected the fact that she has a man.. that if I was in his shoes, I will be feeling bad to what she is doing.
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Nobody: 5:57pm On Nov 19, 2019
This matter is really simple, I think.

Isn't relationship meant to be fun? Isn't one's partner meant to make one happy and fulfilled? Isn't it appropriate so as to avoid infidelity and problems that one should seek a partner that his/her heart feels strongly connected to and finds delight and solace in?

So if someone makes a mistake in fulfilling the above criteria, and the relationship is still at "relationship" stage, shouldn't the person correct it before marriage?

If the girl doesn't like the guy, it's very simple. Let her break up with him. Let her explain to him in the simplest and most gentle terms and manner. Let her make him realise that she wouldn't be happy neither will she commit to the relationship If they carry on because her heart is not with him and the guy wouldn't be happy either and eventually the relationship will still hit the rocks or will be filled with problems till the end.

Then let her go for who she loves.

But why did she accept to be in the relationship with him in first place? Girls can be funny ehn

No wait, guys do it too. in short, human beings can be funnyundecided

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:02pm On Nov 19, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
bros I was willing to back of.. you should have seen the way this girl cried and plead that I should not leave her life completely...i agreed to be her best friend.. there was no issue at first but just recently she started behaving abnormal.i told her I v always respected the fact that she has a man.. that if I was in his shoes, I will be feeling bad to what she is doing.

again bro....you gotta be HONEST with your own damn self. if you "say" you will back off, then you DO IT. if the babe can simply call you and you will run your mouth like an emotional girl on her period (and rat her man out), then its clear that you sir are only plotting against this dude all along.
you CANT be the best friend of this deceitful dishonest disrespectful woman... because you fully well know what she wants, and you know that it aint RIGHT. stop pretending to not understand what is going on here. part of the problem is YOU

how can you respect the fact that she has a man when you told her man you would back off, and continued your rubbish instead?!?!?!?!?!

funny enough...men like you would be upset when she starts dating you and having "bestfriends".....lol!

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by AfroKnight: 6:08pm On Nov 19, 2019
If you go ahead and nak her, it will end in tears. Avoid girls like her.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 6:26pm On Nov 19, 2019
MrBrownJay1:


again bro....you gotta be HONEST with your own damn self. if you "say" you will back off, then you DO IT. if the babe can simply call you and you will run your mouth like an emotional girl on her period (and rat her man out), then its clear that you sir are only plotting against this dude all along.
you CANT be the best friend of this deceitful dishonest disrespectful woman... because you fully well know what she wants, and you know that it aint RIGHT. stop pretending to not understand what is going on here. part of the problem is YOU

how can you respect the fact that she has a man when you told her man you would back off, and continued your rubbish instead?!?!?!?!?!

funny enough...men like you would be upset when she starts dating you and having "bestfriends".....lol!

bros I backed off. I used my mouth to tell him I will know my limits.. he even said I can still stick as a friend and watch her be happy but I should know my limit.. I said no problem.it was just recently this lady changed and heaven knows I have talked to her about it. I am honest with myself... i take some of the blame
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 6:29pm On Nov 19, 2019
OladimejiRufai:
This matter is really simple, I think.

Isn't relationship meant to be fun? Isn't one's partner meant to make one happy and fulfilled? Isn't it appropriate so as to avoid infidelity and problems that one should seek a partner that his/her heart feels strongly connected to and finds delight and solace in?

So if someone makes a mistake in fulfilling the above criteria, and the relationship is still at "relationship" stage, shouldn't the person correct it before marriage?

If the girl doesn't like the guy, it's very simple. Let her break up with him. Let her explain to him in the simplest and most gentle terms and manner. Let her make him realise that she wouldn't be happy neither will she commit to the relationship If they carry on because her heart is not with him and the guy wouldn't be happy either and eventually the relationship will still hit the rocks or will be filled with problems till the end.

Then let her go for who she loves.

But why did she accept to be in the relationship with him in first place? Girls can be funny ehn

No wait, guys do it too. in short, human beings can be funnyundecided
bro everything was fine until recently she started acting funny.
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Nobody: 7:35pm On Nov 19, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
bro everything was fine until recently she started acting funny.

yes now. Her statement explains that.

She said she's been keeping it from and didn't know how to tell you. That's why everything seemed "fine" until she spoke out.

I hope you get?

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 7:43pm On Nov 19, 2019
OladimejiRufai:


yes now. Her statement explains that.

She said she's been keeping it from and didn't know how to tell you. That's why everything seemed "fine" before until she spoke out.

I hope you get?
yes bro
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Nickisindigo(m): 7:43pm On Nov 19, 2019
lol
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by kenir(m): 7:46pm On Nov 19, 2019
Lets try this convo
girl: sonflex you have changed o

sonflex: swiri how do you mean

girl: you haven't been calling as usual, neither have you been texting, what's wrong? Did i offend you?

sonflex: no babe, it's complicated

girl: then uncomplicate it

sonflex: hmmm, you will not understand

girl: talk!

sonflex: ur boyfriend had a chat with me and politely asked me to stay away from you cause he's not comfortable with how close we are

girl: my boyfriend did what!
sonflex: baby calm down, he means well, he just did what any guy would do

girl: i'm goin to confront him, he has to tell me the meaning of what he did!

sonflex: please baby don't, you're not supposed to know this

girl: okay i won't if you promise you won't leave me

sonflex: i promise

i don't know what you were thinking when you snitched like this

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by eazzzy1(m): 7:49pm On Nov 19, 2019
You need to talk to her boyfriend as a gentleman. Tell him his girl likes you and both of you can be playing her because she isn’t right for him.

The girl will cheat on her boyfriend either with you or someone else. Just ensure you use protection with her and don’t fall in love with her either.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by clapper04: 7:50pm On Nov 19, 2019
A snitch, that is what you are bros. A fucking snitch. You deliberately turned the girl against her boyfriend by telling her her bf had a conversation with you and pls stop acting as though you need a 6 month training on how to walk away. You really want to hit that kpekus, go for it but remember, what goes around comes around.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 8:17pm On Nov 19, 2019
kenir:
Lets try this convo
girl: sonflex you have changed o

sonflex: swiri how do you mean

girl: you haven't been calling as usual, neither have you been texting, what's wrong? Did i offend you?

sonflex: no babe, it's complicated

girl: then uncomplicate it

sonflex: hmmm, you will not understand

girl: talk!

sonflex: ur boyfriend had a chat with me and politely asked me to stay away from you cause he's not comfortable with how close we are

girl: my boyfriend did what!
sonflex: baby calm down, he means well, he just did what any guy would do

girl: i'm goin to confront him, he has to tell me the meaning of what he did!

sonflex: please baby don't, you're not supposed to know this

girl: okay i won't if you promise you won't leave me

sonflex: i promise

i don't know what you were thinking when you snitched like this
bro u make me laugh
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 8:19pm On Nov 19, 2019
clapper04:
A snitch, that is what you are bros. A fucking snitch. You deliberately turned the girl against her boyfriend by telling her her bf had a conversation with you and pls stop acting as though you need a 6 month training on how to walk away. You really want to hit that kpekus, go for it but remember, what goes around comes around.
Bros I didn't just tell her what transpired, she demanded to know why I changed for the past three days then.. please read it again
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:20pm On Nov 19, 2019
kenir:
Lets try this convo
girl: sonflex you have changed o
sonflex: swiri how do you mean
girl: you haven't been calling as usual, neither have you been texting, what's wrong? Did i offend you?
sonflex: no babe, it's complicated
girl: then uncomplicate it
sonflex: hmmm, you will not understand
girl: talk!
sonflex: you have a bf and as much as i like you, if you were my gf i wouldnt like you to be close to someone (like we are). so unless you sort your life out and break up with that man, i dont want to have nothing to do with you... as it aint right to HIM, YOU or ME. bye

case closed!

FIXED

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 8:21pm On Nov 19, 2019
eazzzy1:
You need to talk to her boyfriend as a gentleman. Tell him his girl likes you and both of you can be playing her because she isn’t right for him.

The girl will cheat on her boyfriend either with you or someone else. Just ensure you use protection with her and don’t fall in love with her either.
I think I will take the matter to her bf.. the way we had gentlemans chat the first time. even though we have never met
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:21pm On Nov 19, 2019
clapper04:
A snitch, that is what you are bros. A fucking snitch. You deliberately turned the girl against her boyfriend by telling her her bf had a conversation with you and pls stop acting as though you need a 6 month training on how to walk away. You really want to hit that kpekus, go for it but remember, what goes around comes around.

exactly...he is a dirty rat.... planning all along for the babe.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by chigoizie7(m): 8:22pm On Nov 19, 2019
Baba, you know exactly what to do.

You do not need our advice
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 8:22pm On Nov 19, 2019
kenir:
Lets try this convo
girl: sonflex you have changed o

sonflex: swiri how do you mean

girl: you haven't been calling as usual, neither have you been texting, what's wrong? Did i offend you?

sonflex: no babe, it's complicated

girl: then uncomplicate it

sonflex: hmmm, you will not understand

girl: talk!

sonflex: ur boyfriend had a chat with me and politely asked me to stay away from you cause he's not comfortable with how close we are

girl: my boyfriend did what!
sonflex: baby calm down, he means well, he just did what any guy would do

girl: i'm goin to confront him, he has to tell me the meaning of what he did!

sonflex: please baby don't, you're not supposed to know this

girl: okay i won't if you promise you won't leave me

sonflex: i promise

i don't know what you were thinking when you snitched like this
Bros this was just how the call went.. just like this.
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by theTransporter: 8:23pm On Nov 19, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
bros I was willing to back of.. you should have seen the way this girl cried and plead that I should not leave her life completely...i agreed to be her best friend.. there was no issue at first but just recently she started behaving abnormal.i told her I v always respected the fact that she has a man.. that if I was in his shoes, I will be feeling bad to what she is doing.

all of you that are bashing op, forming saints could have even done worst sef... una for Don even kpansh d babe teh teh, but for op to come here still shows that this wasn't his initial plan, make una reason am like that... that guy has been dating himself for long thanks to op, op shouldn't have stayed glued to a lady in a relationship cos with time feeling start to build up from d girl... I have a similar story which I don't want to share yet... d op just needed advice, if you have a nice one, then help him out, if you are here as accuser of the poor naive dude, then f**k off...we agree here to read up things and help one another out not to accuse

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 8:25pm On Nov 19, 2019
MrBrownJay1:

FIXED
bros I never asked her to break up o..
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by chrisking125(m): 8:26pm On Nov 19, 2019
charleff512:
Nna! You know what to do. Why asking?
All you want is approval and validation.No be so?




Carry gooo.... It's your turn.....



Fleeeeee

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:27pm On Nov 19, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
bros I never asked her to break up o..

we all know that you didnt.... because thats what a REAL man would have done.
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by clapper04: 8:28pm On Nov 19, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
Bros I didn't just tell her what transpired, she demanded to know why I changed for the past three days then.. please read it again

How old are you please?

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:29pm On Nov 19, 2019
theTransporter:
all of you that are bashing op, forming saints could have even done worst sef... una for Don even kpansh d babe teh teh, but for op to come here still shows that this wasn't his initial plan, make una reason am like that... that guy has been dating himself for long thanks to op, op shouldn't have stayed glued to a lady in a relationship cos with time feeling start to build up from d girl... I have a similar story which I don't want to share yet... d op just needed advice, if you have a nice one, then help him out, if you are here as accuser of the poor naive dude, then f**k off...we agree here to read up things and help one another out not to accuse

just because he doesnt like our advice, does NOT make our advices wrong...thats complete BS! this is the help we have for him.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by murphyibiam15(m): 8:29pm On Nov 19, 2019
MrBrownJay1:


bro, again, you have to be honest with your own self....A) you are indeed a r/ship breaker and B) this woman is in a r/ship and you fully well know that the dude is uncomfortable with you being around his woman ( to which you have agreed to back off)... only for you to do exactly the same thing AND even considering her deceitful dishonest disrespectful demands.

here is what you should do: tell her you would do anything she wants the day she breaks up with her man, and you can confirm it with HIM.

then you can be happy with this cheating woman until she cheats on YOU the exact same way.




she reacted in such a way because of A) your cheap tricks (staying around her while saying you would back off) and B) you snitching on her man (despicable dude).... how can you expect their r/ship to get better?!?! you have to take your fair share of the blame for having their r/ship being such a failure (partly thanks to you).



well done....brotha "captain save a hoe"
that guy is only interested in banging the babe, he's only pretending.. he's being emotionally cunning claiming not to want the gal.. LMAO

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by Sunisonflex39(m): 8:30pm On Nov 19, 2019
theTransporter:


all of you that are bashing op, forming saints could have even done worst sef... una for Don even kpansh d babe teh teh, but for op to come here still shows that this wasn't his initial plan, make una reason am like that... that guy has been dating himself for long thanks to op, op shouldn't have stayed glued to a lady in a relationship cos with time feeling start to build up from d girl... I have a similar story which I don't want to share yet... d op just needed advice, if you have a nice one, then help him out, if you are here as accuser of the poor naive dude, then f**k off...we agree here to read up things and help one another out not to accuse
bro u understood me better, I didn't plan for any of this.. it was just normal friendship.

and I she demanded to know why I changed at first.. as the close friends we were, and I really don't have anything to hide, I told her why.. and said am all good with it.. the young girl begged me to be her best friend cos over the years we have got closer which I agreed on..
Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:31pm On Nov 19, 2019
murphyibiam15:

that guy is only interested in banging the babe, he's only pretending.. he's being emotionally cunning claiming not to want the gal.. LMAO

exactly...and wanted to use this thread as a medium to feel better about his ill actions... and the ones henceforth.

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Re: My Friend Told Her Boyfriend That I Am Just A Friend,, Now This Is Happening. by murphyibiam15(m): 8:31pm On Nov 19, 2019
Sunisonflex39:
bros I was willing to back of.. you should have seen the way this girl cried and plead that I should not leave her life completely...i agreed to be her best friend.. there was no issue at first but just recently she started behaving abnormal.i told her I v always respected the fact that she has a man.. that if I was in his shoes, I will be feeling bad to what she is doing.
LMAO, you're playing emotional game with her, I know your type..How can u be a best friend to her? how?

her cries mean nothing and you know this

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