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Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by Rukkydelta(f): 8:34am On Dec 22, 2019 |
You made the right decision my dear |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by moscow406(m): 10:53am On Dec 22, 2019 |
My question is, how sure are you that there are just two?
You don't know anything |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by BlueAir: 12:22pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Rubbish[s][/s][quote author=IAmStrange post=85104299]OK, realistically speaking, I think your idea is somewhat faulty. "If you like someone enough, there'll be no room for number two" is somewhat faulty We are humans, we have heart and the heart has feelings. The heart has been fashioned in such a way that it reacts to whatever it is exposed to depending on what it feels about that thing. The heart has no control, when it is exposed to something, naturally, it reacts. That's one of the reasons why we were created with a brain. The brain/mind due its power to distinguish what's right from wrong or what's good or bad, is the one that we then use to control, tame and discipline our heart desires. So what you said is somewhat faulty because the fact that she loves you doesn't mean she can't love somebody else. She has a heart and if that heart sees in another person what it desires, it will definitely be drawn to that person. it is now left for the owner of that heart to control the heart desires and discipline it from going overboard or to extreme. So basically what I'm saying is your girlfriend can have feelings for you and still have for someone else. It's now left to her to decide with her mind which one of you she wants and then use her mind to control the heart to stick to her choice and not look elsewhere. So you giving up on her should depend on how far she went with the other guy to discover if she seems to have made her choice between you two or maybe, she has even chosen to have you two (you know that levels now ). So what really transpired between them during their "meeting"? Did the guy just ask her out and that was it? Did they just talk? Or they have taken it to the level of which she took it with you of which gives you the impressions that she wants something serious (relationship) with the other guy? If it's just that they met and talked or the guy just asked her out? That's something that's almost inevitable so that shouldn't be enough reason to break up But if they have taken it serious, I'm not going to advise you on what to do... But if I were you, I'll run... I personally cannot stand someone I love sharing her love, affection and commitment between me and some other guy. I'll just leave in peace. Well, that's me. perhaps I'm wrong. maybe if I had experience of relationships, maybe i would know better to know that's wrong. But as I am now, that would be my choice. All the same, I advise you to use your sense and open your eyes. I repeat use your sense on your judgement Meanwhile I don't want to see that Riele girl on this page If you come across this thread, just skip. Go and wash plates for your mummy. If I see you here, na serious spanking [/[s][/s]quote] |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by Riele(f): 12:29pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
BlueAir: It's not like i'm poking my nose in your word cancelling occupation . Just that you quoted a comment that i was mentioned in . Here's my point , you shouldn't cancel people's opinion just because you don't agree with them . |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by extwoo(m): 12:39pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Hello Mr Top 2. |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by Korllami007: 12:53pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
ichidodo: The girl is still in the peak of her career (hoeing) so no retirement plan for now. She will come back to op when she hangs boot. Op, please wait for her to retire and I'm sure she will come back to you. 1 Like |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by Edmundbill(m): 12:57pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
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Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by BlueAir: 1:09pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Madam I can cancel it if it irritates my mind or aches my stomach and did he make any sense in trying to justify infidelity from the psychological angle.. bullshii from beginning to the end..its people like them that will say nothing is right or wrong in life but will be ready to invoke the traditional gods if someone steals the phone they aare managing Riele: |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by BlueAir: 1:10pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Lol in this era theres hardly anything like two of us.. its all a game of self gratification moscow406: |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by ichidodo: 1:15pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Korllami007:Instead of him to shoot his shot and move it along...he's catching feelings. 1 Like |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by HawksDude(m): 1:27pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
moscow406: Hmmmm |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by HawksDude(m): 1:28pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
ichidodo: All of us cannot be shooting shots and simply be moving along. Some of us want to settle down biko. |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by HawksDude(m): 1:30pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Korllami007: Come back ke... . Never. I dont accept returns of second hand items. |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by HawksDude(m): 1:30pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
extwoo: What's that one now. |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by ichidodo: 1:40pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
HawksDude:Yeah....So of all place to look to settle, you just had to use an escort service app. Why don't you save yourself the trouble and go to Obalende then pick from the thousands of call girls to settle down with. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by HawksDude(m): 1:46pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
ichidodo: Not everyone on the app is a LovePeddler. Some people just sign up regularly like you do on Facebook and IG. Just that the bad ones have tarnished the image of the app. |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by ichidodo: 1:52pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
HawksDude:But you logged in to catch some fun, didn t you? but instead you 'catch' feelings...If that wasn't a simp move right there then i don't know what it is.. Thank your stars she isn't retired yet, i shudder to think otherwise at your expense.. 1 Like |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by HawksDude(m): 1:53pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
ichidodo: I thought so too, until I really got to know her. You cant generalise like that. |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by loswhite(m): 1:54pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
ibkayee:reverse the situation I hope you will come still type the same thing right? Imagine your boyfriend telling you that there are two of you on top of his list ....lol |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by ichidodo: 2:04pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
HawksDude:Wrong move again....She painted a picture for you to see what you wanted to see....Kinda like a mirror. She become a mirror to project the image you've always wanted to see.So you don't really know her,do you? The only snafu in her plans was you came on to her one too quickly...infact too fast for her to 'tie up loose ends'forget that talk about the other guy because they are way more than one guy infact it is a business in full flow....If you really want her then be around her periphery till she's ready for you... |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by ibkayee(f): 3:03pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
loswhite:I’d say the same thing lol |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by extwoo(m): 3:50pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
HawksDude: Bro get another woman while she still dey reason her list. |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 11:32am On Dec 23, 2019 |
ibkayee: Merry Christmas and happy new year to you in advance. May God touch your heart so you can be my second wife next year. Amen |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by ibkayee(f): 11:34am On Dec 23, 2019 |
GoTV:Lol thank you, merry Christmas to you too. Has your divorce not been finalised yet? |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by Thegamingorca(m): 11:50am On Dec 23, 2019 |
ibkayee: Holy Lord...this guy is back again? Same time of year too 1 Like |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 11:56am On Dec 23, 2019 |
ibkayee: We're still on it but hopefully soon. |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by oodua1stson: 12:12pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
My own is I hope say u don phuck her well well |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by Beyin7: 12:59pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
you have a heart .she has a choice and it is not that easy since you are both wonderful guys. do not expect life to be perfect. |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by ibkayee(f): 10:51am On Dec 24, 2019 |
GoTV:Lol good luck |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by HawksDude(m): 10:57am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Beyin7: Thank you |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 12:10pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Re: Did I Make The Right Decision Or Did I Overreact? by ibkayee(f): 12:28pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
GoTV:Yeah sure, can’t wait. Why is it taking so long though? Since |
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