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Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Madlov3: 6:58pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
I broke up with my EX some 2 weeks ago, But I feel like sharing my story with y’all guys so y’all will learn and be careful especially with Nigerian girls. So i dated this girl for roughly 1 year and 10months. She appeared as a wife material but i never knew she was a devil incarnate. Am a young guy living very well, own a nice ride and have my own apartment and work in a very noble profession. Am relocating to Canada very soon and my plan was to get married to her before traveling abroad then send for her after settling down. There was this guy in her former lodge I was always warning her about. According to her they were just friends but my instinct wasn’t comfortable with him. Before now, say like 7months into the relationship, I bumped into her whatsapp messages and i read her chat with a guy where they were discussing different sex positions and our sex life. I drew her attention to it and she cried all night begging me for forgiveness. I told her point blank that i forgave her because it was only whatsapp chat and there was NO SEX Involved and i would never have accept her back if Sex was involved Because i met her as a virgin. Fast forward to few weeks ago, I discovered from my sources that she was actually having Sex with the guy in her lodge i warned her about. I Initially confronted her but she denied but after showing her sufficient evidences, she confessed it was true because she knew i was already well informed and she said they had sex multiple times. I asked her what i did wrong to her! According to her, she said this particular guy “Tries Childish stuffs with her and am too matured! Am senior to her with over 5years so am too matured to relate childish things with her. I asked her if that was a ticket to open her legs for the guy she said she actually did what she did because SHE WANTED TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY. Honestly i felt disrespected and betrayed. This was someone that I was planning to get married to in 2020 and take to Canada o! She begged and begged and begged but i told her i will never accept her back even though i forgave her, i just can’t accept her back again. I will be relocating to Canada in 2020 so i have officially closed my door against Nigerian Girls! I know there are good ppl and bad ppl everywhere but i want to open my mind now to other persons. To Canadians, Americans, Britons etc. I used to have this mentality that an African man is not complete if he doesn’t marry an African woman but hey, that has changed now! Am now open to love from any continent. My deal breaker in any relationship is Cheating! We can work other things out but you see cheating?? NO NO NO So my fellow Guys shine your eyes o! That soft spoken and calm looking wife material girl may not be what she seems to be. She may jus be a devil incarnate 60 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 7:05pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
You can't call what you had with a private prostitute a "relationship" 38 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by yanabasee(m): 7:12pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
You dated a Nigerian girl that is childish and haven't been heartbroken by different men... You can't get the best from her..... if you must know, they can only be serious and ready to settle when they'd be approaching 35yrs of age.... 25 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 7:17pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Don't take this as an insult ,but if you want to play the moral game you should have waited before marriage to divide her red sea. More so you noticed tendencies you didn't address it properly,worst of is to think sex is the basis of the relationship. Tell me apart from sex and the fact you meant her as a virgin are there no other qualities you cherish.. Anyway congratulations at least you don chop clean mouth, and you do be expecting someone else to start where you finish... Well your life your decision and her body she isn't married to you yet,so technically she is a free bird. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Madlov3: 7:22pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
uruba23:like seriously?? She wasn’t married to me yet so she’s a free bird? Ppl like you are ppl that go ahead with wanting to sleep with a lady even after telling you she has a boyfriend. Smh 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by emeijeh(m): 7:22pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Erediauwa:Yes she was a Public Liaboylity Company. Imagine her stupid excuse 3 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by emeijeh(m): 7:24pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
uruba23:Hello Op, This was the boy that took your black girl. 11 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by lilmax(m): 7:29pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Before now, say like 7months into the relationship, I bumped into her whatsapp messages and i read her chat with a guy where they were discussing different sex positions and our sex life. I drew her attention to it and she cried all night begging me for forgiveness. I told her point blank that i forgave her because it was only whatsapp chat and there was NO SEX Involved This is how stupid Nigerian guys are They will always tolerate nonsense, even when they know the product of it. The idiot said he forgave her because it's only WhatsApp 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 7:31pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Madlov3:Unfortunately I am not one,but don't come and demonize Nigeria Girls simply because your Eve feel for the Apple again. Just man up and move on ...no offense intended. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Goalnaldo(m): 7:43pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
White girl will cheat on you and still place a bullet on your head. I hope you are making the right choice. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by luvyaself95(m): 7:57pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
lilmax: Mumuness at highest order. 3 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 8:02pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Eyaa, shows u really love her, hence forgiving her after the first incidence, Hope u find another wife material soon, could still be a Nigerian u know, they also cheat over there 4 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 8:10pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Madlov3:Nigerian women are really trashy. I have also given up on any possibility of marriage with them. 9 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by moscow406(m): 8:13pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Romance section is always interesting. Most times, the reports that reach us is about girls breaking men's hearts. Not often do you see a guy break a lady's heart. Actually the heart is meant to pump blood and any other thinking process including love happens solely in the brain, so hearts aren't broken, a loose bolt in the brain just needs screwing. Op beat your chest three times and say 'Odeshi, my heart can't be broken' I wish you success on your next step in the journey of life 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Ryan03(f): 8:30pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Mehn! The rate at which boys nag these days eh, you will think all Nigerian guys are saints who don't break the heart of girls well op, that girl was a baby trying to explore sex life, I'm sure you saw other mature girls but they are all evening news papers and perhaps, she was a virgin. Very important stuff now you dey shout Nigeria girls up and down. 15 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Martinez39(m): 8:57pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Madlov3:They always appear like angels and wife material before marriage. It's their usual chameleon act. Unfortunately, many guys fall for this believing that their girlfriends are not like other girls only to get the shock of their lives later on. There is no NAWALT or unicorn anywhere. Before now, say like 7months into the relationship, I bumped into her whatsapp messages and i read her chat with a guy where they were discussing different sex positions and our sex life.Bad move! You should have discarded her at that moment. Fast forward to few weeks ago, I discovered from my sources that she was actually having Sex with the guy in her lodge i warned her about.They will always deny until you show them evidence. After showing them evidence, they will confess (half truth confessions) and bring forth crocodile tears not because they are sorry but because they want your forgiveness and they want you to take them back since you are an ample provider. Funny enough, they would do it over and over again being more careful after you have caught them. I asked her what i did wrong to her! According to her, she said this particular guy “Tries Childish stuffs with her and am too matured! Am senior to her with over 5years so am too matured to relate childish things with her. I asked her if that was a ticket to open her legs for the guy she said she actually did what she did because SHE WANTED TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY.Bullsh!t, if she likes childish stuff why did she not discuss it with you or, in the proper way, break up with you and go with the guy that likes childish stuff? She is just playing. I will be relocating to Canada in 2020 so i have officially closed my door against Nigerian Girls! I know there are good ppl and bad ppl everywhere but i want to open my mind now to other persons. To Canadians, Americans, Britons etc.Oga, female nature is universal. In fact, foreign girls are worse in their countries because they are empowered socially and legally to ruin you, especially if you are stupid or naive enough to get married to them in their country and stay there. Feminism doesn't even help matters. Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, Omar09, healthserve, AstroG 35 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 9:00pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
yanabasee: pocohantas: |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Starz825(m): 9:04pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Just see aw village pple spoil this girl dreams...u have a lovely plan for some pple and Dem go use hand spoil am... Oga God indeed is good that have showed you she is not worth it 5 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Madlov3: 9:04pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Martinez39:I agree with you except in the last part. It’s the reverse Bro! Ask guys that are based abroad! They are very careful with the type of girls they bring from Nigeria if they decide to marry from Home. Most Nigerian girls become wild when they get abroad! They capitalize on the fact that the system favors them to ruin the guy. Unlike in Nigeria where a guy can put the wife away when she messes up with no fear of legal consequences, abroad is different. I know of a guy that married from Nigeria abroad, when the girl got there, she started misbehaving ! She connived with her mom to create hell for the guy. They eventually had a divorce and as usual half of his property was given to the girl according to USA law. PS: they had a child and till today the guy is still paying child support 3 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 9:15pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Madlov3: FALLACY, HOW CAREFUL CAN ONE BE WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN. 1 Like |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Brownhypo: 9:18pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
I wonder why some girls will always cheat, no matter how nice you are to them 7 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Riele(f): 9:18pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Guess what? No one cares . Because one girl frustrated you , you're done with Nigerian girls ?. 4 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Funmmyastic: 9:24pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Ok seen.Next! 2 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by luminouz(m): 9:35pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
She fuqed up obviously but you met her as a virgin so she wasn't a loose girl. She actually might like the guy more than you. She was way more comfortable with him and most girls are sexually attracted to men who they are very comfortable with. A woman is a woman,anywhere, anytime. Some are good,others bad or ugly,not the issue of naija girls alone. Just shine your eyes in Canada and I hope love finds you there. One love 6 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by luminouz(m): 9:36pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Riele:Jesu!!! You again! Oya goan do your ermmmm assignments now or read something. |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Martinez39(m): 9:37pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Madlov3:Don't kid yourself. Female nature is universal. Foreign women over there are worse than Nigerian women here even though both are brutal, ungrateful, and greedy vultures. The divorce story you mentioned happens so frequently with foreign women. All women will capitalise on the system when it suits them. It so often happens that when men bring a supposed well cultured and traditional lady from his place of origin as his wife to developed countries, the women change when they become familiar with the system and feminism. There is no unicorn anyway. Stop watching Hollywood. All girls are the same. In the Netherlands, there was a bill passed that divorced men were going to pay alimony for 5 years instead of the usual 12 years being from 2020. Guess what? Netherlands witnessed a record breaking number of divorce cases in December 2019. (Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Omar09, healthserve, AstroG) Tell me again how foreign girls are different. The reason why I said Nigerian girls are better even though all girls are the same is because, unlike foreign girls, they don't have the tools to wreck you the way foreign girls would and feminism is not yet political in Nigeria. We can agree to disagree. As long as you are committing your heart to women and entering into relationships and marriage, there is a limit to which you can be careful with women. Besides, you can never know which is a good girl, even if they existed, because you are not a mind reader and women are capable of great chameleon acts. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by CAPSLOCKED: 9:41pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Madlov3: IT'S LIKE THE ONLY TIMES YOU'LL FIND TWO WOMEN WORKING PERFECTLY TOGETHER IS WHEN THEY'RE CONTRIBUTING MEANINGFUL EFFORTS TO UNREASONABLE THINGS LIKE GOSSIPING, MALTREATING A MAID, OR CAUSING RUINS TO MEN'S LIVES. GET OVER YOUR HEARTBREAK MY G. NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE NOT YOUR PROBLEM. YOUR CHOICES ARE. WHAT WERE YOU THINKING BEING WITH A CHILD JUST ABOVE 20? SHE'S IN HER ROAMING AROUND STAGE AND THERE'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO MAKE HER NOT WANT TO EXPLORE. MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING WOMEN WANT. A RICH MAN'S WIFE WILL CHEAT ON HIM WITH A CONDUCTOR. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Madlov3: 9:51pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Martinez39:Bro you still don’t get. I agree that Women nature is universal the exact reason I said you’ve got good women and bad women everywhere! There are some Nigerian women you will take abroad and despite the feminist nature of the society, they will remain with you and endure difficult times in the marriage, others will capitalize on the feminist society and wreck the guy. Also, not all foreign girls are bad too! You’ve got some that will also endure difficult times in the marriage even though they were brought up in a feminist society. The baseline of my argument now is, for me i have opened my mind to love from anywhere! 3 Likes |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Martinez39(m): 9:51pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Brownhypo:Girls are opportunistic with love. They are only after the cash and, to women, men are a utilities. That is why your niceness is unimportant and readily not reciprocated. Once the utility (man) is no longer providing, he is no longer welcomed, he looks irritating to the woman, and he is loathed. Also, your sacrifices, no matter how great, mean nothing to her because in her entitled and selfish mind, you are supposed to provided and meet her needs without any reciprocation because she is a woman. 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Martinez39(m): 9:54pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Madlov3:Well, I rest my case. To each his own. 9 Likes
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Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by Khalidase83(m): 10:02pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
See as this one dey para for woman head wey him no even pay anything. I like 9ja girls leave them for me. 2 Likes |
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