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Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by DaBogu: 9:01pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Op, what does your sister husband do for a living? |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Never borrow money you can't pay back. Never lend money you can't part with. 8 Likes |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by lavylilly: 9:07am On Feb 10, 2020 |
what are you saying? phlegmatic007: |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by IyaTola: 2:58pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
MRcocaFanta: 2 Likes |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by IyaTola: 2:59pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
ok DaBogu: |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by IyaTola: 3:00pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
ok donbachi: |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by MZrapper(f): 4:45pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
MRcocaFanta: Did you just blame the girl? They should support the weak horseband at the detriment of their mum's well being? They should keep waiting for him till the unexpected happens? Weak men everywhere. 12 Likes |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by DaBogu: 6:09pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
IyaTola:I know you going through a lot at the moment. You will be fine. |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by PerfectMatchNG: 11:30am On Feb 11, 2020 |
@Mrcocfanta Instead of making dumb statements like that, I would rather you ask questions with a view to learn. Let's be guided 10 Likes |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by PerfectMatchNG: 11:48am On Feb 11, 2020 |
I disagree completely. donbachi: |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by cococandy(f): 12:17pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
My advice is for the rest of the family to start planning on how to treat your mom.That’s the ONLY realistic solution you guys have at this point. The husband may or may not pay back. He might pay back in installments or when your mom’s health is deteriorated beyond repair. He might pay back but not when the money is needed for test, treatments etc. Honestly the whole situation will most likely end up with them not speaking to you guys anymore. You don’t want it to get there before you realize that you should have been taking care of your mom’s health all along. Since the husband has a habit of borrowing, I’d be careful not to put the hopes of your mom’s treatment on his ability to pay back. For one, he initially stated he was going to pay back in week. If he was going to have access to that type of money in a week, why didn’t he wait? After all it’s a business not an emergency. That’s how you know when someone has no plan. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:18pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
MRcocaFanta: It's either you're slow in assimilation or comprehension is far from you, so becos he once helped their mum means they in turn must help him at the expense of their mum's health? Disgusting ass men springing up day by day, That your sister's husband is a money waster and mischievous person, the moment he had the effontery to tell you to keep his borrowing from you from his wife, that is when you all should have careful of him, he sees you guys as his money ticket available to him at anytime ever since y'all sponsored their wedding, that is why he can borrow from you, your brother, your sister his wife, and if he doesn't pay back, y'all won't sweat it cos he is family, very manipulative, narcissistic irritant, If I were you, I don go police station straight, my mama's health comes first above any nonsense husband, wife or any bullshit, and they must vomit the money out in full before this month runs out, nonsense. 10 Likes |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by donbachi(m): 12:31pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
PerfectMatchNG:no worry na...go and borrow. 5 Likes |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by yazga: 3:27pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
YOUR SISTER withhold information from you, and it won’t equate to LYING. I think we often overestimate our capability to LOGICALLY handle information. Timing is important. Give your SISTER AND HER HUBBY the benefit of the doubt, WHEN & HOW best to tell it. Secrets have a way of building up into complexities and backfiring in the end. But PRIVACY and TRUST on the hand are two necessary ingredients to making marriages last. |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by yazga: 3:28pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Why not explain in details to him, some y'all Nles are just too ignorant or lack knowledge donbachi: |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by donbachi(m): 3:33pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
yazga:ur village people don use ur brain fry chinchin...why didn' u tell him to also explain in details,why he disagreed with my opinion. 6 Likes |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by frozen70(f): 10:06pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
IyaTola: That was a careless one from her, putting her immediate family over her mother and siblings Well don't make much trouble with her, just take your mum to their house and let she and her husband look after her Simple, if she develops any health challenge, they will face it Fighting her to get back the money will amount to family trouble You too stop letting them know you have a penny to give or borrow to anyone 4 Likes |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by Pascopele: 9:24pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
The matter get a e be and e be as e get |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by Pascopele: 9:25pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
donbachi:Calm down everythingno be fight |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by Pascopele: 9:26pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth:For your own sister matter you go go Police Station, na WA o blood is not thicker after all |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:03am On Feb 14, 2020 |
Pascopele: Which sister? Is she the one that spent the 2M? Nor be the husband? if she wants to support him good and fine, but he must produce the money he said he'd return back after or within a week. P.S my sister can never be so foolish to give money meant for mama's health to her husband. 4 Likes |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by Pascopele: 10:11am On Feb 14, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth:Do not be too quick to conclude, you know your sister finish o |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:13am On Feb 14, 2020 |
Pascopele: I will be quick to conclude cos I know my sister finish. 2 Likes |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by IyaTola: 6:15pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
DaBogu:Thank you |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by Nobody: 3:44am On Feb 15, 2020 |
lavylilly: U wanna get banged bitch |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by elektra(f): 5:36am On Feb 15, 2020 |
Experience has taught me never to trust family with money I am not ready to forfeit. A lot of people take family for granted, they will do anyhow with your money believing that you will forgive them. After all they are family. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by Pojomojo: 6:29am On Feb 15, 2020 |
elektra:Well said. |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by DaBogu: 6:06pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
cococandy:Spot on |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by DaBogu: 11:01pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
elektra:true tho |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by IyaTola: 6:17am On Mar 27, 2020 |
Thank you for all your inputs. |
Re: Borrowing or Lending money from or to in-laws, I need help? by sisisioge: 7:02am On Mar 27, 2020 |
Femsyn: The way God go take bless you go amaze you!...so many irresponsible fellows better off single! Now mama may expire because sis loves her irresponsible husband so much! How could he have taken the money knowing what its meant for? OP, look on the bright side, this should definitely teach you guys a lesson. Good luck. 3 Likes |
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