Baby mama ti take over.... ....if you are above 35yrs...no husband be wise enough to have a child....anyman that will love and appreciate you from above 35yr will do so even if you have a child. ...

Dande55:

So, you are an evening news paper according to op?

ezicuzi me sire, i am an evening newspaper reader and buyer

IAMBlesssed:
The way you guys carry women matter for una head eee...
Is it your age??
Is being single a disease/curse?
Is not everyone's prayer to live long and grow old?
So what's ur problem with her age and relationship that you have to rush to NL to create a thread to mock the Lady..

You guys be acting as if ur lives are perfect. Haven't you seen your mates achieved greater feat than you, but you won't create a thread about your own life.You better focus on ur life and leave women alone..

Madness everywhere..

lafmaoooooo

IAMBlesssed:


My worth is none of ur business likewise anybody's worth.Just focus on ur own worth and leave other people's lives alone..

Meanwhile who's talking about worth here

sweetie life will be so boring if everyone minds his or her business, your business is our business


Petty Things and fight topics like this one are what keeps us entertained and coming back to Nairaland the home of Kongfu fight

franchasng:
ezicuzi me sire, i am an evening newspaper reader and buyer

Oh. Good to know.

Age plays an important role in relationships. However there are always exceptions as ladies do venture in incompatible types of relationship n manage 2 succeed with perfect luv stories

lefulefu:
but some bad habits we engage in also tend to age us quickly..like smoking,drinking doing drugs etc.for ladies who age quickly i will say its because many of them dont maintain their weight.when a lady is too big for her age she looks older .have u seen a recent video and pix of jlo? jlo is in her 50s but she looks like she is in her early thirties.why is that? i know u will say its surgery just like many other guys would but when u exercise and u dont eat anyhow u look good as u get older.thats just the secret.and as for someone looking haggardly aged as he or she gets older abeg its not in anyone"s gene.the bad habits u engage in in ur youth tend to show in ur body when u get older or sometimes when have a terminal illness like diabetes or cancer it ages u prematurely.like i said before and i will say again i have seen some 35 yr old ladies looking much younger and fresher than some 24 yr old ladies.why do u think such happens? the secret for many ladies who are older is try take good care of yourself when u getting older and men will come .men wont come when u have a big stomach with all those folds around it like that michelin model or u have fat fluffy arms as in sister amaka arms .see jlo in her 50s men still dey beg her for a date .

lol, lefu oh aside surgical enhancements and all, jlo have a good gene.


If you want to know how your wife would look like when aged, go and take a look at her mother.

Gene plays the most role in how people age, good dieting and exercise play some roles but gene makes the final decision.

Check some footballers who later became fat despite constant exercise and defined dieting by professional dietician.

My sisters hubby is chubby, it runs in his family gene....despite all the exercise my sister's kids engage in they still look huge and bigger than their age unlike kids from our own side.


Your family gene determines how your entire life panes out at the end; whether you will develop terminal illness or the other, your gene play major role even in longevity

MissGodOwn:
U are a wicked soul for wanting to waste another five years of her life, people just do things without thinking it through, that's why I'm not quick to pity someone who's having a hard time coz most times they are paying for their wicked deeds.
Don't just look for pity or come to cry on nairaland all over again when karma comes knocking on your door.

A very wicked one at that.
I don't know what wasting five years of her life will add to his life.
people act without thinking through their actions.

angelfallz:


You're missing the point. It is not just about looks. The older a woman gets the harder it gets for her to give birth and the older a woman is, increases her risk for pregnancy complications.
https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/best-age-to-get-pregnant
Men naturally go for younger women.

stop l running into conclusion, many celebrities gave birth above 35 and have wonderful children today, that why I insist on making better money. Besides marriage is not about bearing children. It's about finding a person you bond with. There are so many men who wish they did not have children bc the bond is divided or not as it use to be before

HRHQueenPhil:
stop l running into conclusion, many celebrities gave birth above 35 and have wonderful children today, that why I insist on making better money. Besides marriage is not about bearing children. It's about finding a person you bond with. There are so many men who wish they did not have children bc the bond is divided or not as it use to be before

. Please can you give just one example of such men.

pansophist:


Age has biological, social, physical and legal consequences. You seem to limit the understanding of age to appearances. Because there are women that are 30 years old but look 25 doesn't invalidate this relevance of age, using your line of thought, why not compare a 70 years old woman to 17? If age is just a number, then a 60 years woman should not be menopausal, a five years old boy should be allowed to smoke, children allowed to drive, etc.

u are intelligent enough to know what I mean when I say its a number so bringing children as an example is uncalled for. I am not limiting it to appearances alone, a disciplined woman with a healthy lifestyle and weight can still carry children at 45 and that is a fact.

Blu03:
Space booked

turned back to f?

JONNYSPUTE:
. Please can you give just one example of such men.

matured men don't air their dirty laundry on social media or hide behind monikers or decide to open a thread about the older unmarried women, noooooo.. It's through intelligent conversations they let you know how they feel about the effect of children in their marriage

HRHQueenPhil:
matured men don't air their dirty laundry on social media or hide behind monikers or decide to open a thread about the older unmarried women, noooooo.. It's through intelligent conversations they let you know how they feel about the effect of children in their marriage

. Well,I'm yet to see or hear from one though.

franchasng:
Not true......the grace of looking young even when old comes from gene and family....not by taking care of yourself or your body like you assume.

My mother is close to 80yrs but if you see her, she looks like 60.

My dad is 80+ but he can pass as a 65yr old agile man.

I am approaching 34 but I look like 25


Guess what I don't apply creams.....if I ever buy, it will stay in my room and expire....only the first few days I bought it that I will make use of it. If you see me and my mates, you will think they are my father....I look young and fresh like 16


My father doesn't rub cream or lotion or anything.....I can't remember him doing any special thing to look young. But I have a friend, a childhood friend who happens to come from an averagely rich family (rich parents) but if you see his dad who happens to be around my father's age, he looks almost 100yrs despite the wealth and how this man took care of himself when we were growing up; he was known as whiteman because he lives life like white people.....my friend's mom is late though....and my friend inherited this gene from his parents.....if you see him now, he looks 40something and he is my mate.


So its not by eating or taking care of yourself.....its mostly goes with your family gene and body structure.

Family gene and body structure kor.. Abeg shift the reason why it's that way is because your family is blessed. They may not be the limousine driving type but they are definitely not the hawkers or gutter diggers/bricklayers. Women don't need to rub cream, just earn the one that will maintain your appearance and help you enjoy the sweet things of life

lefulefu:
but i have seen some ladies over thirty who even look younger than some ladies in their mid twenties .its all about taking care of urself.stop over eating and exercise so u will be looking chic instead of looking overbloated.when u look overbloated u look older than your age and ppl will be saying good morning ma or good evenin ma not knowing u not that old and men wont be looking ur way.also another thing is when you younger and u have a serious boyfriend who is focused try build up with him instead of looking for ready made men.e no easy to get a ready man who is single .most are already in relationships.best is he makes u a side chick or third wife.

after marrying her, she stop those strict routine and become your grandma?

Lostz:
turned back to f?

Yep

lastchild:
we are all human, any guy that's in my shoes will be happy that the bitch is single and getting old, you won't understand anyway, yesterday I lied to her that I had nobody to be my Val and she increased the volume of her attention to me, the funny thing is that I had money when she rejected me in 2012 than now, in fact I would make a better husband then than now, I would've been a good lover to her more than now wey my head no dey house again,

Na now she know say age na number, I will just play along, if I can be able to waste another 5 years from her age then I will bless the name of the lord

I keep wondering what makes this fat old woman thinks that am getting serious with her, some people are delusional, well make I taste the thing she denied me 8 years ago first first because na e be the reason am still talking with her

E dey pain me shaa, something wey I for eat when it was young, slim and fresh na e I wan come chop when it's old, fat, ugly with stretch marks

Button line is, girls should know that things have changed, this is 2020, girls plenty everywhere these days, if you can go along with a guy just do, if you can't it's fine also, not when you are out of market you will come up with the useless age is number of a thing

I love your honesty bro.

Lostz:
after marrying her, she stop those strict routine and become your grandma?

if she stops then encourage her to keep on doing it.in short u join her doing it together.me for example i cant stay with a lady who doesnt take care of herself oo.me dey try take care of myself then u as a lady just fat full everywia eating all the food in the house and lieing on the sofa all day.i know some men dont mind but i do .

Blu03:
Yep

Hi

lefulefu:
if she stops then encourage her to keep on doing it.in short u join her doing it together.me for example i cant stay with a lady who doesnt take care of herself oo.me dey try take care of myself then u as a lady just fat full everywia eating all the food in the house and lieing on the sofa all day.i know some men dont mind but i do .

who get that time? me that can't keep to any eating or exercise routine will join someone? I get luck say I get better body and maybe the street football when I been dea play.
I would have been fat because I eat everything

Blu03:
Yep

thought you love being male?

Lostz:
who get that time? me that can't keep to any eating or exercise routine will join someone? I get luck say I get better body and maybe the street football when I been dea play.
I would have been fat because I eat everything

u not sedentary thats why .now imagine u sitting on a chair before ur computer or tv from 6 am to 10pm and u do such everyday, 7 days a week,12 months a year then imagine the difference

lefulefu:
u not sedentary thats why .now imagine u sitting on a chair before ur computer or tv from 6 am to 10pm and u do such everyday, 7 days a week,12 months a year then imagine the difference

i will still not exercise. I have a big problem with sticking to any schedule. my body burn calories at a very fast rate so I eat everything .

my job also involve sitting a lot and I spend almost every Saturday and Sunday at home doing close to nothing

Froshloaded:
Hi

i've replied Frosh.

Lostz:
thought you love being male?

nah! It's lame...

Blu03:
i've replied Frosh.

Have you messaged the page

Blu03:
nah! It's lame...

I knew you only trying to hide from moderators

HRHQueenPhil:
stop l running into conclusion, many celebrities gave birth above 35 and have wonderful children today, that why I insist on making better money. Besides marriage is not about bearing children. It's about finding a person you bond with. There are so many men who wish they did not have children bc the bond is divided or not as it use to be before

Please name these celebrities. Also I didn't say it is not possible to give birth at 35, I said it becomes harder to get pregnant and the risk of complications during the pregnancy becomes higher.

IAMBlesssed:


Are they begging for ur pity?
So if she doesn't meet the right people to settle down she should just accept any man that comes along abi so that you and ur likes will be happy..
The ones that are killing their partners/cheating up and down are better in as much as they have 'Mrs tittle'..
U people should leave single ladies alone biko and quit creating unnecessary pressures where there's none. Life is more complex than you think so mind ur business.. Or when ur daughters are of age, advice them to settle with any man that says hi to them without proper checks..

You made great points.

lefulefu:
but i have seen some ladies over thirty who even look younger than some ladies in their mid twenties .its all about taking care of urself.stop over eating and exercise so u will be looking chic instead of looking overbloated.when u look overbloated u look older than your age and ppl will be saying good morning ma or good evenin ma not knowing u not that old and men wont be looking ur way.also another thing is when you younger and u have a serious boyfriend who is focused try build up with him instead of looking for ready made men.e no easy to get a ready man who is single .most are already in relationships.best is he makes u a side chick or third wife.

Happy new Year darling

This guy is still hurting from years rejection. He still went to converse with her. Are you not ashamed?