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Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Aammee77: 1:52pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Marriage is not for everybody 7 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by AkConcept: 1:52pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Understanding The Basics. A lot of people only want the obvious things in the marriage, and pay attention to them, not the Basic elements of mariage 1 Like |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by drey076(m): 1:52pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Tolerance, 1 Like |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by A305: 1:53pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
ElvisPresley:You have a keen sense of ownership and the looseness of the female folks has clearly made your idealogy of marriage warped. 3 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by bloggerpraise1(m): 1:54pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
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Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by SeriouslySense(m): 1:54pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Its important that we know 1) our common values, 2) we make it interesting, 3) we value our children, for me that is important, 4) We make sex interesting 5) We have our purpose in life that keeps us passionate and optimistic, it may be humanitarian, it could be scientific or charity, or community related. 6) That we are gentle and respect each other 7) And we have an understanding that we are not perfect I think it is also important to build good memories together and remember them. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by asahnwaKC: 1:54pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Too much boredom ......most married ppl are just living together cus of the kids.....that's why I love the western world....once its boring...everybody go their separate ways and look for fresh excitement 15 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Godsfavour78: 1:55pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
EmekaBlue:i cant and i wont take this. 3 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Fortyfifty(m): 1:57pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Constantly seeing more beautiful women every day. Some will even give u correct green light but u are stocked with one babe for ever. Its depressing : 11 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by olasaad(f): 1:57pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Kelvin30286063: This is what makes women in marriage happy in the first place. If the man is faithful forget the financial aspects, we'll be happy and satisfied with what ever our man give us 7 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Godsfavour78: 1:59pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
neutrotoba:boss let her have own room na. Then you guys can play home and away depending on who match they hungry pass. Most of this problems na money kill everything last last. Some people have to use intercom to call their wife and kids in the same house cos house to big and rooms too many. Na God go help us 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by otokx(m): 1:59pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
bigpicture001: Some fake pastors preach that the man's money is for the family while the woman's money is for her own use. 1 Like |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Fynchi: 2:01pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
The hardest part is staying with someone who has cheated countless times all in the name of forgiveness! There's no punishment greater than that. 14 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Somgrey: 2:01pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
eddyvilla: eddyvilla: This tread was for married people and never meant for those in BF and GF r/sh. It not only that, its meant for those who are currently managing their marriage and enduring all in every way and with every possible respect. I also believe this tread was prompted by a single person who see persons who has been in marriage for a very long lime like 30-40 years and respects them alot, knowing that relationship is one thing and marriage is WORK WORK AND WORK. 4 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by SeriouslySense(m): 2:01pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
I also think we should be understanding, marriage is hard, when you are tied to one person, so we should learn to appreciate each other, and build ourselves up, and enjoy the process of building the product of marriage, i.e children, we should find activities that bring excitement to all and enriches our mind. For men, sex is very important, So its good to remain physically fit and healthy. 1 Like |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Godsfavour78: 2:01pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
olasaad:its either you are not married, You have never tasted lack(I envy you) or you just dey give us bobo juice madam. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by sanyajava: 2:01pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
The Subject Title is confusing 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by peacettw: 2:02pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
For me, the hardest part is being utterly and completely comfortable around your partner especially during the silent moments. Again, it is extremely necessary to avoid as much as possible the notion that gender roles must be strictly adhered to. Women can be bread winners and men can help look after the kids etc. Kids are huge stressors too. As much as we pray for them, they are almost always the major source of marital disharmony. 5 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by MajorWarren: 2:03pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
tripplephi: It’s sad but this is truly the truth. I hope when it’s my time I find someone that can make it tolerable, and I make hers tolerable too. 2 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:03pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
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Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by BestieQuotes: 2:03pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by tobidipity(m): 2:03pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
srclark: You kinda right though. People become unfaithful for several reasons. Majority do cheat because of lack of real intimacy or some come from a family full of miserable relationships and/or have a long history of miserable relationships, so to them, it’s not even miserable, it’s just normal. So the possibility of someone (who's parents are faithful to each other) to be unfaithful is low. Just my opinion. Yes U can't vouch for anyone, but people who are faithful exist. Yes we do. lol. Been unfaithful as a man is expensive sef 5 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by olasaad(f): 2:04pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Godsfavour78: I am married. My own problem is infidelity. I can cope with any other problem God forbid shaa. 3 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
I think friendship matters because I've learned a lot from my parents. Those guys can gist till midnight without getting tired 9 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Taaooma7103: 2:06pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:06pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
pinkhill: When push comes to shove, the way I'll walk majestically away will shock people, so fret not my dear, don't allow people's experience or narrative scare you, it is very easy. 3 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Dorlovito: 2:07pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
staying truthful and faithful |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by gabicon: 2:08pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Jaubdu: There are many ingredients that build up a successful marriage such as love, commitment, friends, understanding, agreement, collaboration etc. Many people go with the illusion that love is enough in a marriage but forget that things like agreement, companionship, understanding etc all strengthen love itself. The major ingredient to staying in love is to develop the mindset of being of service to one's partner, the minute self-service sets in, it's conflict all the way. 3 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by ednut1(m): 2:09pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Truth is marriage is just an unnecessary burden 3 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by JOHNSONSOLAFUNMI(m): 2:09pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Lamanii22: my mom also, the only woman I trust 3 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by SeriouslySense(m): 2:10pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
martins18: This is on point 1 Like |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by MhizJoyce(f): 2:11pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
SassyGem101:Good one 1 Like |
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