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Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Tayor23(m): 2:40pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
A305:brilliant. 5 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Angelfrost(m): 2:40pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
davillian: The bold parts, trust me, it is not just a feeling... That is the reality of marriage sir!!! Marriage involves so much sacrifice and compromise!... That's why it is colloquially termed "Settling Down" or "Getting Hitched". If you are not ready to sacrifice and compromise most things in your life (especially freedom and personal space), then stay single for as long as it takes you to have a fill of bachelorhood!!! This is why I keep maintaining that marriage is not, and will never be, for everyone!!! 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by lewis512(m): 2:40pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Love is sweet na marriage spoil am 1 Like |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by simplesearch: 2:46pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
There is no soft or hard part of marriage, if you both belong to Christ family and tutored by God's word on the purpose of marriage, it will be fun all day long. If you intend to figure it out, your carbon copy will never give you a perfect picture of what God intends for your marriage, it might then snow-dive eventually. Marriage is not for boys and girls, it's for men who have become Husband and women who have become wife having passed through the processes required to qualify a woman to become a wife, only then can you marry. Marriage is a union between man and woman who are sent out by God to fulfill his purpose. For this cause(purpose).......Gen 2:24, what's the purpose of your coming together in the first place, is it for sex, hidden favor, physique, facial beauty, opportunities, decent apartment, cars or other mundane considerations, then your foundation is faulty. God instituted marriage as a spiritual weapon to give man an advantage he couldn't access while alone, inventing a manuscript to suit your desire will only create more room for complex spiritual engagement which will in turn destroy the physical benefit derivable from such union. Marriage is first and foremost a spiritual institution other things follow after. 12 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Westernlove: 2:46pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
bigpicture001: If someone should check very well. The lady In question must be a Nigerian Lady.... |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by EZENDIZUOGU(m): 2:47pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Dont allow anybody to deceive you there is no formula for marriage, what that works for Mr.B may not work for Mr.A. the most important thing is find out what makes both of you happy and continue to do it. But be open and honest to one another, no secret , no room for suspicion. above all make Love often it helps to heal wounds of marriage. my 10kobo advice 6 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by AfroKnight: 2:52pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Funministicqueen2 so this is your boo. Why is he asking this question without proposing. What is this kind of backyard proposal? Anyway, I suspect he is already gathering excuse just in case. Being your boyfriend must be a chore. Enjoy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Onyekachi419(f): 2:53pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
tripplephi:That's why I love American lifestyle they will divorce and move on no time for fake love. |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by SeriouslySense(m): 2:57pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
A305: 1 Like |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by SeriouslySense(m): 2:58pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
On point A305: 1 Like |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by omoharry(f): 2:58pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
adanny01:That is why it is good to marry in your twenties say 25-28..and enjoy sometime alone to yourselves before having children. Well this will be difficult, as most Nigerians in recent times are late bloomers. Marriage should only be for those that realized that marriage is not a walk in the park as it comes with so many factors/effort needed to make it work.It is for people that desire to be start a family and are ready cherish their partners in good time and bad time ( good partners that are responsible and not stupid ones) Marriage is not for those that dread sharing a space or being stuck with the same person for the rest of their lives. If you know you cannot stick to one partner or cannot stand the discomfort and sacrifices that comes with marriage , then you have no business getting married and making someones life miserable. If you however need to have children as a single man, you can look out for women that are independent and financially viable.Women who also want the same thing, to be the mother of your children. There wont be a problem as long as you support your children as a father... Please do not succumb to societal pressure to get married.They are the reason why 90% of our married citizen are miserable but pretending to be happy (especially the women) . Mean while you find the men spending their precious time either in their offices late at night , in bear parlous or in their side chicks houses. Please players / Casanovas, you have no business getting married.Its not fun when you make your wives cry everyday alone in her bed by your action of infidelity.She will have the impression that she is no longer attractive and needed by her husband. With this attitude , You will eventually turn that innocent quite spoken girl into a scornful and bitter woman. submitting yourselves to one another with whatever possession you have is the hardest part in marriage. In essence entrusting your life to one another 100% is the most difficult part 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by LifeIssues101(f): 2:59pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Keeping the butterflies alive .... This will make you forgive whatever, and stay together forever Marry your friend, someone you love to play with and spend time with. Someone you can never get enough of, even when they turn 70 Valuing each other's dreams and working things out in love So when the kids are gone, you could still enjoy yourselves together 5 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by bigpicture001: 3:02pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Westernlove: Yes na....its starts from stinginess in relationship nd the guys don't complain about 4 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by opribo(m): 3:05pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
There is no hard part it is sweet all the way , but the problem is when the wrong is chosen from the beginning that means disaster. |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by coldFLARES1(m): 3:05pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
bigpicture001:To say, gals are overall very stingy is to have stated it nicely. It would be near impossible to maintain the energy with which vows were exchanged on the wedding day. We both have been constrained by life's experiences to change, in some ways, and some of these changes are hard to cope with. Some wives were very supportive pre-marriage and that was their unique selling point, but you find them being stingy to their husbands because of the need to channel resources to take care of their parents and/or siblings -responsibilities which would break down their husbands if asked to help out. E no easy! We sha dey try. 3 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by alezzy13: 3:07pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Hian! You guys are scaring me oo. . 2 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by alezzy13: 3:10pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
neutrotoba: Ditto for me. |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by drnoel: 3:21pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
SassyGem101: Waking up to the same face na d easy part. It just takes making up one's mind to do that. If not how do men that have had over a thousand body counts survive? The hard part is having to juggle work stress, house stress/chores, family stress (both nuclear and extended) and then Ur partners stress all together and still be sane and still love Ur partner......that is the difficult part. Men don't know how to juggle all those and keep the home but women do. 4 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by ikevictor: 3:26pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
There’s no hard part if you’re married to your true friend and someone who shares same values with you. Even quarrels resolve itself in this instance. And forgiveness is very very key! Over time you’ll feel more like siblings! Then, things just run itself! Key point: marry your friend! No stress! 9 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by PreetyAngel4U: 3:30pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Lamanii22: Seriously? Please don't just say anything because you can. Your mum's prayer for her children is for them to have better in life. Abi you want to marry a cheating spouse as well or have one already? All the cheaters are busy liking this comment. You can have a faithful spouse. Please do not inherit bad things from your parents. 4 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by clems88(m): 3:32pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
bigpicture001:my brother ... Women are generally stingy with there money . there money is Thiers but men's money is ours. It runs through their vein. An elderly man of 75 told told me last December never to ask a woman of her money and how she used it ..if not you are inviting trouble 4 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:33pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Jesus Christ! This marriage business thing is one of the most stressful thing that has ever happened to mankind. The part which scares me in marriage is having to deal with the fact that someday, the ATTRACTION and BUTTERFLIES at the initial stage will fade away. It's a definite boomerang. I hope to stay in love, be in love, forever honor my husband and be LOYAL. Na who go be the right man na him dey scare me, because men of these days have totally lost their sense of worth and are just about themselves. It's a load of work finding one. I think the hardest part for me is having to find the compatible, loyal and understanding person. Once you have these, everything else can be tolerated. Compatibility is very important. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Paramount01(m): 3:37pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
I am still single but over due for marriage, one of my fear is for the other partner, somtines in my life I even hate myself not to talk of another person, how will she feel 6 Likes |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by GreenDee(f): 3:40pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
SassyGem101:wow such a good advice , you are blessed Sis. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by bigpicture001: 3:42pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
clems88: Don't heed DT advise cuz women are asking more rights in marriages,with it coms more responsibility |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Mrice22: 3:43pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
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Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Maxxim: 3:44pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
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Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Mrice22: 3:47pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
SassyGem101:.. You said it all |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Mrice22: 3:50pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
[quote author=and they think the other partner will change; Person way don dey use to a way of life since childhood, na eh one change over night? It doesn't happen like that[/quote] I swear bro.. I have nearly do that kind of mistake I thank Gid I didn't take that step.. She was even the one forcing the marriage on me |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Kingkezie: 3:53pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
tripplephi: LIES FOR ME. YOU FEEL LONELY ONCE AGAIN IF YOU ARE WERE NOT IN LOVE WITH THE PERSON, AND THATS WHY (MARRIAGE in quote) IS FOR MATURED PERSONS WHO HAVE WILLED TO SETTLE DOWN AND BUILD A FAMILY AND NOT A GF OR BF CASE. AND FROM THE QUESTION THE PERSON ASKED OF MARRIAGE(that is for matured and who have willed to be commited) AND NOT A RELATIONSHIP FOR (mostly young or matured individuals who are still on mingling and have not thought of settling down.) |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Ivebeenbanned(f): 3:54pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
zed7:You sound like a fragile man. Quit talking about submission. Its 2020 |
Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by byinks(f): 4:27pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Fortyfifty: I wish all husbands were as ball less as you.. The typical naija male sees side chicks and away match as right of passage |
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