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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by franchasng: 4:52pm On Mar 18, 2020
Gemineye:
Your post is just too incoherent and devoid of any logical reasoning. Have a nice day
don't let me lose my temper oh because I will beat you till you vomit blood and develop coronavirus, dare meangry
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ubunja(m): 4:53pm On Mar 18, 2020
Arthur21s:
I you found this post as trolling than you are a cry baby or poopy pants. What was wrong in what I said? Did I judg you?explained to her you are a pro-man,or you want me to lick your a$$?

I wish you had the guts to tell off trolls like funmi and sexy lassie in this manner
don't lick ass. But I think you can put your point across without invoking my moniker.

And don't involve monikers whose history with me you don't know. But Keep up this ubunja this ubunja that and you will join them in being ignored.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 4:54pm On Mar 18, 2020
damocool:

seal being intact doesn't make any lady a virgin 100%... many of these so called virgins masturbate and still reckon themselves as a virgin, which is totally false..


If she masturbates, the hymen should break, right? Those ones no follow for virgins abeg
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 4:56pm On Mar 18, 2020
Pataricatering:
I hope it’s not ur gbola that is tiny sha ? It’s usually u men that have two inches gbola that are always talking shit .


Do you have borehole? It's usually borehole ladies that get angry at two inches gbola guys grin grin grin

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Gemineye: 5:02pm On Mar 18, 2020
franchasng:
don't let me lose my temper oh because I will beat you till you vomit blood and develop coronavirus, dare meangry
like wise buddy angry
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Nobody: 5:05pm On Mar 18, 2020
ubunja:
don't lick ass. But I think you can put your point across without invoking my moniker.

And don't involve monikers whose history with me you don't know. But Keep up this ubunja this ubunja that and you will join them in being ignored.
yawns....
You don't tell me what to do,I am not your errand boy,you can order your disciples like Martinez,not me...
No one orders Arthur.
But I will ignore you henceforth as you desire
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by DexterousOne(m): 5:09pm On Mar 18, 2020
franchasng:
there is no virgin man, stop deceiving yourself or stop being deceived. Breaking of vagina hymen is used to know when a woman is deflowered, what can you use to know when a man is deflowered Many guys that claim to be virgin have probably fvcked more than 5 girls but maybe as them never fvck their desired girl, they consider themselves virgin to fool willing ladies, wise up.



Nature didn't create man and woman to be equal, women get pregnant and give birth men don't get pregnant and give birth.


There is nothing like a virgin man, it is a hoax created by western gender equality proponents. A man's virginity is inconsequential, get that into your skull
shocked

I disagree
A virgin by definition is one WITHOUT SEXUAL EXPERIENCE

Thus, a man who has no sexual experience whatsoever is a virgin

But if you don knack kpomo before

Well
*shrugs*

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by DexterousOne(m): 5:11pm On Mar 18, 2020
wordlord:


But I was a virgin when I met my virgin wife!!!!

Your experience is not a meter for others


That's very good.


Awesome
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Kolinakano: 6:02pm On Mar 18, 2020
Vega100:
Disclaimer This thread does not in anyway encourage promiscuity nor does it propergate indecency but rather it underscores some real facts for young ladies to be aware and more mindful of what's ahead.

So a very close friend of mine I happen to know very well married as a virgin, this was about 11 years ago. After about a year of blissful marriage, her marriage turned hell in the ensuing years that followed, she never opened up to me until last week when she did; she is blessed with kids, but her husband has been giving her hell in the marriage, abuses her, both physically, mentally and emotionally, carries various young girls and flaunts them to her face. She is about calling it quite. This is a girl I know very well as we grew up together, and I can vouch for her on many fronts, one thing I know about her is how genuine, cool headed and humble she is, she's someone meek at heart, I am sure she wouldn't create problems for her husband in a home, she was just unfortunate falling into the wrong hands

I also happen to come from a large family with 5 sisters (all married), from all my sisters, the one with the best marriage is the one that lived more of a party life style in school, attended many parties etc, and the one with the worse marriage was the one that married a virgin (actually, she has the kind of personality I wouldn't be surprised might cause problem for her , her husband and husband relatives, as she could be selfish).

My point is, for the Ladies, being chaste and maintaining high morals is something any parent will be proud about and will long for their child to uphold; but do not see that as all you need to portray yourself as suitable enough "wife material". Marriage is something very dynamic and complex, it entails a lot, and has to do with both you working on various facets of your life (of which sexuality is just one) as well as being able to choose an appropriate partner for yourself.

Do not see being a Virgin as the price you have to uphold for your husband, as it doesn't in anyway guarantee a good or perfect marriage (far from it), it is rather more dependent or perhaps a fine and infallible blend of various facets of your life viz a viz personality, charisma, behaviour, sensibility etc. as well as your keen sagaciousness in choosing an appropriate partner who is sensible and will be very well compatible with you..

Just a food for thought sageful minds can ruminate and mull over!!

Thank you very much for your time.

Yours truly

There is alot of ways that a lady will LOST HER VIRGIN.

Vega100
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Kolinakano: 6:06pm On Mar 18, 2020
There is alot of ways that a lady will lost her VIRGIN...

Sex is the only word that are penting virgin!
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Nobody: 6:10pm On Mar 18, 2020
Kolinakano:
There is alot of ways that a lady will lost her VIRGIN...

Sex is the only word that are penting virgin!

What exactly are u trying to say

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by DexterousOne(m): 6:18pm On Mar 18, 2020
Mrpsly247:
Choose your suffering jejely.. Marry virgin u go suffer marry olosho u go suffer. Choose to nor marry or raise family u go suffer, choose to marry raise family u go still suffer las las. All life is suffering.. Sense adapted 4rm the subtle art of not giving a fvck.


You have a point
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Toluwashe778: 8:07pm On Mar 18, 2020
Hummmmm
I kept reading comment and I am so amazed
so funny
am not supporting being a virgin or not will help u have a peaceful home
but please guys, can u answer these question with all honesty ?

1.the ones who got disvirgined, who disflowered them

2. can any one of you be in a relationship and not ask for sex?
so what are we saying?
let the change start from u
of course, being a virgin is superb, but u guys are not helping matters.
and u that u are accusing someone of not being a virgin, are u a virgin too
have u forgotten the numbers of ladies u slept with. both the ones that have witch and ogbaje. u think it doesn't tell on men too. no wonder some life's are stagnant
guys why didnt u preserve urself too. it will go along way to help u fulfill God plan for ur life
let every one change their ways and discipline ourselves.
God will help us

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Stillthebest: 8:39pm On Mar 18, 2020
Lucrativress:

Please next time write "what's the essence of a *woman*
If every woman was meant to keep her virginity till marriage and they did,we would focus again on character and values
Nothing concerns virginity with a woman's character or values
Long notes on what's the essence of a virgin biko write " woman"
For the ex runs girls,we all have a choice in life to either thread a path or not,they chose that,it's no virgins fault biko move on to the attributes of the woman and not the condition of the pussy


Lol
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by damocool(m): 9:13pm On Mar 18, 2020
ityP:



If she masturbates, the hymen should break, right? Those ones no follow for virgins abeg
I ain't sure they go to the extent of doing that... That's what many of them do..
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by hibrahim(m): 10:18pm On Mar 18, 2020
obicoolnino:
Being virgin or not does not matter but being compatible with clear understanding of each other with fear of God is all u need for a successful marriage



Did You say "fear of God? No no no!
90% of non virgins are love peddlers. They don't have the fear of God. No one with the fear of God can do what they did
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by unmask: 10:43pm On Mar 18, 2020
Mrpojj:

Wetin u want use adventure do
That's what keeps me in a relationship..... without it I get bored and I move
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by unmask: 10:46pm On Mar 18, 2020
angelfallz:

i asked because you said most of them are socially awkward and unadventurous. But you can teach them to be adventurous(sex wise if that is what you meant), also, maybe you should try to get to know them and they would eventually come out of their socially awkward shells.
There is something about old dogs and new tricks......yes, some are teachable true......but a whole lot have rigid mindsets
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by unmask: 10:49pm On Mar 18, 2020
bukatyne:


Marry an open-minded person.

An 'adventurous' non-virgin girl today can lock up two years after marrying her if she is not ready to evolve.
certainly...... can't do otherwise

And if she locks up after marriage.....we settle amicably at the court When we can no longer continue.
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by bezimo(m): 6:11am On Mar 19, 2020
Korllami007:
There are millions of non virgin women giving their men wahala by fvcking their exes a day before their marriage then probably give you someone else kid to train. There millions of non virgin women a cross the world that they characters can turn north pole to desert. Most infedelities in the world are mostly perpetrated by non virgin women.

I would rather marry virgin with wahala and enjoy my tight pussy than marry a community sperm depot with wahala. grin grin

It's a food for thought.
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by freesoul12: 6:32am On Mar 19, 2020
Personality speaks more than virginity. Don't ever joke with character. Not all virgins possess that wifey character. Choose wisely..
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Zeinymira(f): 7:19am On Mar 19, 2020
Nina Ivy got married anyway
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Rukkydelta(f): 7:49am On Mar 19, 2020
A marriage where both couples are Virgin marriage never get ruined
No cheating
And the love themselves till eternity

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Leezah(f): 7:56am On Mar 19, 2020
Thank you. Waiting patiently for the link
ubunja:
I used to have that pic and others by the same girl in different poses from the same shoot. If you browse darkpanthera dot com you'll find it. It's a sexy girl. I forget her name. If I had time I would find her and send you the link
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Mrpojj(m): 8:17am On Mar 19, 2020
unmask:
That's what keeps me in a relationship..... without it I get bored and I move

No wahala
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by rosalieene(f): 11:17am On Mar 19, 2020
How will you see Virgin to marry when you lots will be demanding for sex in a relationship?
how is it possible? who disvirgins the girls?
If you all will keep your dicks in check and work on a no-Sex relationship, the world will be a happy place.

Even when she is not a virgin and doesn't want to do the do, you will pressurize her and claim she is doing it with someone else...... afterwards you will still open your rotten mouth to call her borehole and a slut.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 11:33am On Mar 19, 2020
rosalieene:
How will you see Virgin to marry when you lots will be demanding for sex in a relationship?
how is it possible? who disvirgins the girls?
If you all will keep your dicks in check and work on a no-Sex relationship, the world will be a happy place.

Even when she is not a virgin and doesn't want to do the do, you will pressurized her and claim she is doing it with someone else...... afterwards you will still open your rotten mouth to call her borehole and a slut.


Lmao. Even if the guy wants to be a good guy and not ask for sex, she will still ask. How comes some girls are still virgins? Abi you think say virgins don finish? Or you think they've never been in relationships before? They have. Still, they lay down their standards and don't give a Bleep when the Bleep boy leaves. Maybe you lost your virginity to someone who pressured you to, but know this: YOU, AND YOU ALONE DECIDED TO GIVE IT. IT WAS YOUR CHOICE TO MAKE. So instead of foaming with anger, accept it. Las las, some dude here says they don't care about virginity. So, make your pick from there angry

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by rosalieene(f): 1:24pm On Mar 19, 2020
Toluwashe778:
Hummmmm
I kept reading comment and I am so amazed
so funny
am not supporting being a virgin or not will help u have a peaceful home
but please guys, can u answer these question with all honesty ?

1.the ones who got disvirgined, who disflowered them

2. can any one of you be in a relationship and not ask for sex?
so what are we saying?
let the change start from u
of course, being a virgin is superb, but u guys are not helping matters.
and u that u are accusing someone of not being a virgin, are u a virgin too
have u forgotten the numbers of ladies u slept with. both the ones that have witch and ogbaje. u think it doesn't tell on men too. no wonder some life's are stagnant
guys why didnt u preserve urself too. it will go along way to help u fulfill God plan for ur life
let every one change their ways and discipline ourselves.
God will help us
Please help me ask and tell them ooo
All of them talking rubbish now, if a thread pops out tomorrow of how a gf denied her bf sex, you will see how they will be insulting the girl Upandan.
May God have mercy on this generation of men.
Most girls were pressurized and some were manipulated into having sex..... it's only a few that gave it willingly.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by rosalieene(f): 1:28pm On Mar 19, 2020
ityP:



Lmao. Even if the guy wants to be a good guy and not ask for sex, she will still ask. How comes some girls are still virgins? Abi you think say virgins don finish? Or you think they've never been in relationships before? They have. Still, they lay down their standards and don't give a Bleep when the Bleep boy leaves. Maybe you lost your virginity to someone who pressured you to, but know this: YOU, AND YOU ALONE DECIDED TO GIVE IT. IT WAS YOUR CHOICE TO MAKE. So instead of foaming with anger, accept it. Las las, some dude here says they don't care about virginity. So, make your pick from there angry
You make it seem like its just exactly how it is.
Do u know what virgin girls are passing through? All because you guys are pressuring them into sex..... saying you can't have a relationship without sex. Some are already so frustrated because of you guys.
You know the truth!
If you've had sex before, did you do it with ghost? Then you have no right to condemn anyone.
The change starts from you all.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 1:52pm On Mar 19, 2020
rosalieene:

You make it seem like its just exactly how it is.
Do u know what virgin girls are passing through? All because you guys are pressuring them into sex..... saying you can't have a relationship without sex. Some are already so frustrated because of you guys.
You know the truth!
If you've had sex before, did you do it with ghost? Then you have no right to condemn anyone.
The change starts from you all.


Abegi. Everybody is pressuring. Y'all just feel it's the guys that ONLY enjoy and crave sex. See eh, come back to reality. Codedly, U guys are to blame. How many ladies sincerely believe a relationship can be without sex? Very very few. Y'all just know how to pretend. She wants to knack, gives the guy signs, then when he attempts to initiate the knacking, y'all start the pretense. Like I said, there are many ladies out there who are virgins, who are pressured to give in, mostly by their fellow females sef and guys too, but they don't. You know why? Because they value virginity. No one is condemning anyone sha. Any guy who craves to get married to a virgin has made a choice. Like I said, some guys even prefer the non virgins. So, forget about them changing. Find your category

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 1:59pm On Mar 19, 2020
rosalieene:

Please help me ask and tell them ooo
All of them talking rubbish now, if a thread pops out tomorrow of how a gf denied her bf sex, you will see how they will be insulting the girl Upandan.
May God have mercy on this generation of men.
Most girls were pressurized and some were manipulated into having sex..... it's only a few that gave it willingly.




Continue fooling yourself. Apart from those who were raped and sexually abused, all the non virgin ladies gave their virginity away willingly. Stop living in denial. Except he raped you, you willingly decided to let go of it. Quit the blame game. If a bf talks of leaving because the lady denies him sex, she should know clearly that the guy isn't for her. Except ofcourse, she is interested in letting go. Accept responsibility for once please

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Phenomenal16(f): 2:12pm On Mar 19, 2020
1StopRudeness:


What exactly are u trying to say
..lmaoo
The thing weak me joor
I became confused

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