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Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by DaddyRochie1642: 4:33pm On Mar 21, 2020
luminouz:


Lmaoooo....I've heard of such too and I wonder why calabar gehs love huge dicks.

U may be a grower you know or did she see you fully erect? Surely the dick is 6 inches and above?


Women are not physical but emotional fighters. What they said is designed to wound u psychologically. Here is how to handle such comments next time.

1. Direct attack: can you blame me? Every dick is small to a borehole pussy na. As you fine reach and young too,see the kind bottomless hole you get between your legs.

OR

You get body,mouth and pussy odour. My dick hates odours...I know body odour can't be cured,but at least go to a lab to fix the pussy odour naaaa...my dick shrank because of it.

This approach is a mudafvcker!!! Most girls can dish out but never take in. Trust me,you'll hit her harder than she hits you.

2. Indirect attack: I have been with other women and they never complained,are you sure you don't mess around or why is it that you think my dick can't satisfy you? Are u cheating on me?

This will cause her to rethink her assessment of you,that is if she cares about you. If she doesn't, this method won't work because she already doesn't have a conscience

3. Indifference: Look at her fixedly for a moment and burst out laughing. Nothing flummoxes a girl more than a guy who laughs her insults off.
The only way you can pull this off is if you laugh heartily,not forced laugh. I can't teach you this. Just know that the thing pain the babe die and if you can pull off a hearty laugh,you don win hands down.



N.B: I need to really do a calabar gurl and find out why the obsession with horse prick. cheesy grin


#luminouznuggets#




Great Admiration for This Knowledge Filled Man Called Luminouz.


Respect
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by DieuDonee(m): 5:22pm On Mar 21, 2020
"Edun arinle" and more but, we move.

I think It means something like church rat.
Not sure though.
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by dammywapes(m): 6:15pm On Mar 21, 2020
He says to me : I don't even know you from eve , the most painful word ever said to me
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Lamanii22(f): 7:15pm On Mar 21, 2020
TkhGuy:


Na wayward girl you be na, that apology is unmerited, mother hardly use such word on their daughter that's very obedient and loyal


I'm not wayward.... Some jealous neighbour went to tell your my mom that they are seeing me every where... When they saw me taking a walk with a guy oo... They are just jealous cause they are now old... I know 'em... But my mom insulted me that day eehn it was as if the ground should open and then swallow me... I didn't talk to her for days... Cause among all my siblings I'm the only one considerate to relieve my mom off every day's stress... I didn't believe she'd take an outsider so seriously.... She now had to call me days after, apologized, I now explained the whole thing to her... What made her angry was that, my neighbors told her that they saw me kissing the guy....
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Lamanii22(f): 7:28pm On Mar 21, 2020
swoopiness:


Are you Nigerian??

African parents never apologize



I'm Nigerian... I and my mom are that close... So my siblings were like you and your mama no dey talk... They relatively call me the "good child".... I explained everything to my siblings, maybe they ask her to say sorry... That was why she apologized....

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Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Lamanii22(f): 7:30pm On Mar 21, 2020
Sacrosanct12:
sorry to say,but I might never have the heart to forgive.



Mehn... The love of christ compelled me Hun...
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Femzaremz(m): 8:28pm On Mar 21, 2020
haha my own is when my aunty who i was staying with back then compared me with their alsatian dog! Actually she even said the dog was better than me!
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by DonMekino(m): 8:59pm On Mar 21, 2020
TkhGuy:


My uncle told me that if I continued to perform poorly theoretically in my exams while in technical school days, that I will end up living from wall to wall, I was 17 when he said that to me, I cried to my mom giving her details, my mom comforted me n gave me assurance to never give in, assuring me that he is not my God, I am terrible with maths, chemistry, but not with skills and flairs,

Before I graduated, I was the best building drawing student in FSTC Otukpo benue state, best fine artist in the school, and among the 2 top 2 best electrician in my department and fstc that year, as well a creative designers back then,

presently I am doing better financially than those who have A1 during my school days, may his soul rest in peace, I was crying bitterly when he passed away by terrible car crash, my pain is, he didn't leave long enough to see that his disappointment in me is my appointment by God, who makes my bank account go green.

I am sharing this with you guys to inspire you not miss a shot at both sides, if you are not good in theories and conjectures, be a practical wizard, Edison or Robert Bosch,

The second I was toasting a girl, after much, she flows with me like we are on the same page, i asked for her number, and she said when i come next time, i changed the music and flow with her to the point that she is now on the same page with me, yet again i asked for her number n this time there is another girl with us, her friend, she repeat, when you cone next time, I smile then gave her two weeks, while coming back, I was with my s8, s7 edge and s7 active,
Girls are quite to spot expensive gadgets, I asked her to get me card of 3k make me a transfer of 50k into another account,
but never asked her of her number,
next time, she saw me with my car to make cash deposits, of 100k and went away without asking for her number, the othrr time, she caught me in a high lander SUV Tinted, and this time she is doing the chasing, I am doing the running,

The poor thing about girls is, they are too quick to show off thier ego to humiliate guys, but if you can turn that table against her, she will get hurted pretty bad than you felt and will start pushing for reconciliation but don't..
Even if you want to, I recommend just use her like twice then dump her for another.

in the case of that ur uncle, it might not cum very well, but u owe that man a million gratitude. u wanted him to sugar-coat the words while u were sinking into mediocrity. his words might be harsh, but they served up the impetus u needed to make it, albeit because u wanted to prove a point and u did. the issue is that many of us don't take criticism on the chin and face the task squarely

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Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by bigcee(m): 9:12pm On Mar 21, 2020
Agaz25:
I approached this girl, told her to spare me some minutes with her.. She agreed I was like (Waw this wan Don enter) I was talking, doing the talking alone; so I asked, why aren't you responding and she was like, I should carry on, so I continued.
After some time, she asked me "you done talk finish"
Me(smilling and full of confidence) = yeah
Nah so the girl start for public = "woooooo, you no dey shame woooh, first time Wey you see person you kun dey toast am, Nah so you dey toast you mama mate.
Brothers and sisters, you need to see the crowd; I look like someone that was accused of stealing iPhone o, to the point that I was looking for the person the lady was shouting at, And asking her what is wrong

Ever since then, I no dey try public wooing again or road side stuffs... That was the most embarrassing day of my life

After two days, I went to see a friend - only to hear two children whispering - "SEE THAT BROTHER WEY DEM DEY TELL YOU NO DEY SHAME" cry
Lwkmd grin ona no go kee me for nairaland, walahi grin

Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Albertone(m): 9:20pm On Mar 21, 2020
Maryjane001:
It was back then in secondary school. I had this class teacher who liked intelligent students and disliked the others esp those at the bottom like me....
I didn't know y tho...

I recall a day she gathered the whole class and was talking Abt her past life in d University. D next thing, Aunty turned to me and started comparing me to the highly intelligent ones. I was used to it, she insulting me in front of the whole class was nothing new. But dat day she bore a hole in my heart when she said...
"She prays never to give birth to a child like me with no brains and anti-social attitude like me. If she could turn d hands of time, dat her son/daughter would marry one of the intelligent ones in our class and not end up like me. She even called me a hermit crab and talked about quiet people having mouth odor"
Omo dat day eh, my classmates taunted me,I went to the back and cried, then cried d remaining at home. I never told my parents cuz they had stopped asking Abt whatever happened in xkul and were busy hustling so we could eat.
But guess what? She taught us biology, ND I scored 94/100 in Jamb biology.
She had a negative impact on my life and sadly it still affects me till today....
Even a day before yesterday, a guy told me to my face dat I had potentials but I just lacked self confidence...


I almost shed tears reading this.

I guess you haven't forgiven her but please do if you haven't.

I wish i could give you advice on how to have self confidence but i too lack self confidence

But in all, surround yourself with good people that give you positive vibes
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by bigcee(m): 9:27pm On Mar 21, 2020
Rhymer2020:
chaii! as you fine, huge reach na dis small prick you com get?? was Soo embarrassed that it took me up to a month to get over it.



fear Calabar girls, the love horse type of prick

Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by bigcee(m): 9:39pm On Mar 21, 2020
doctore212:
Your Dick is small.
My brother, I didn't eat for 2 days.

Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Nobody: 11:44pm On Mar 21, 2020
Albertone:
I almost shed tears reading this.

I guess you haven't forgiven her but please do if you haven't.

I wish i could give you advice on how to have self confidence but i too lack self confidence

But in all, surround yourself with good people that give you positive vibes
I v forgiven her long ago but it z something I can't forget .
Seriously, parents need to go out of their way and listen or ask Abt d child's daily activities. The child might be a bully or be a victim of bulliness from another student or teacher. My parents were not aware dat every single day I came back with fresh insults from my teacher.....lol.
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Albertone(m): 12:19am On Mar 22, 2020
Maryjane001:

I v forgiven her long ago but it z something I can't forget .
Seriously, parents need to go out of their way and listen or ask Abt d child's daily activities. The child might be a bully or be a victim of bulliness from another student or teacher. My parents were not aware dat every single day I came back with fresh insults from my teacher.....lol.
yeah but you can't blame them. The problem of running around to look for money to meet needs is already enough problem as they may not have a settled mind.
I'm glad you've forgiven her.

If i may ask, are you still introverted and extremely reserved like before?

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Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by dontrulee: 12:37am On Mar 22, 2020
Maryjane001:
It was back then in secondary school. I had this class teacher who liked intelligent students and disliked the others esp those at the bottom like me....
I didn't know y tho...

I recall a day she gathered the whole class and was talking Abt her past life in d University. D next thing, Aunty turned to me and started comparing me to the highly intelligent ones. I was used to it, she insulting me in front of the whole class was nothing new. But dat day she bore a hole in my heart when she said...
"She prays never to give birth to a child like me with no brains and anti-social attitude like me. If she could turn d hands of time, dat her son/daughter would marry one of the intelligent ones in our class and not end up like me. She even called me a hermit crab and talked about quiet people having mouth odor"
Omo dat day eh, my classmates taunted me,I went to the back and cried, then cried d remaining at home. I never told my parents cuz they had stopped asking Abt whatever happened in xkul and were busy hustling so we could eat.
But guess what? She taught us biology, ND I scored 94/100 in Jamb biology.
She had a negative impact on my life and sadly it still affects me till today....
Even a day before yesterday, a guy told me to my face dat I had potentials but I just lacked self confidence...


oh, do you need help?
I can help you though. if you're interested
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by dontrulee: 12:45am On Mar 22, 2020
I have heard a lot of derogatory words targeted towards me. I don't call them painful because I never accepted them. No words can pain me or pull me down because I am always true to myself.
I remember in my secondary School, My geography and my chemistry once told me they were disappointed in me, they seriously bashed me but guess what, I ended up having As in both subject in WAEC. I look so small in stature but am mighty in nature, once I converse in you, you will find intelligence..
so do not let people's opinions or idea about you affect how you think or behave. do not let it put you down for he that is in you is far greater than them that are in the world..
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Nobody: 2:13am On Mar 22, 2020
Albertone:
yeah but you can't blame them. The problem of running around to look for money to meet needs is already enough problem as they may not have a settled mind.
I'm glad you've forgiven her.

If i may ask, are you still introverted and extremely reserved like before?
I m quite better than B4. Then I had a clique consisting of three gals. We were always seen together, they had their own fair share of insults too but not compared to mine. Plus then, I was just too emotional.
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Rhymer2020(m): 6:08am On Mar 22, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:





I can Swear with my Balls an Ashawo told you this grin grin ... I laugh in Spanish
your guess is right
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by luvyaself95(m): 6:21am On Mar 22, 2020
Maryjane001:
It was back then in secondary school. I had this class teacher who liked intelligent students and disliked the others esp those at the bottom like me....
I didn't know y tho...

I recall a day she gathered the whole class and was talking Abt her past life in d University. D next thing, Aunty turned to me and started comparing me to the highly intelligent ones. I was used to it, she insulting me in front of the whole class was nothing new. But dat day she bore a hole in my heart when she said...
"She prays never to give birth to a child like me with no brains and anti-social attitude like me. If she could turn d hands of time, dat her son/daughter would marry one of the intelligent ones in our class and not end up like me. She even called me a hermit crab and talked about quiet people having mouth odor"
Omo dat day eh, my classmates taunted me,I went to the back and cried, then cried d remaining at home. I never told my parents cuz they had stopped asking Abt whatever happened in xkul and were busy hustling so we could eat.
But guess what? She taught us biology, ND I scored 94/100 in Jamb biology.
She had a negative impact on my life and sadly it still affects me till today....
Even a day before yesterday, a guy told me to my face dat I had potentials but I just lacked self confidence...



Don't listen or feel sad because of what people say about you. If only the self confidence you lack you can build it by trying what is hard for you to do as times goes on you will be badass.
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by CastingCrowns(f): 7:10am On Mar 22, 2020
' u are a good friend' this coming from a guy I was madly in love with at the time.. I was so hurt.. So despite all this greenlight u no wan toast me abi.. I was devastated.

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Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Albertone(m): 10:46am On Mar 22, 2020
Maryjane001:

I m quite better than B4. Then I had a clique consisting of three gals. We were always seen together, they had their own fair share of insults too but not compared to mine. Plus then, I was just too emotional.
You just have to develop a thick skin towards insults.Its cool you're better than before.
Do not let your introversion deprive you of opportunities.You can achieve a lot of things even as an introvert.

I wish you success in all your endeavours in life. Have confidence in yourself and you'll be good. Have a blessed day Mary...

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Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by TkhGuy(m): 12:58pm On Mar 27, 2020
DonMekino:


in the case of that ur uncle, it might no
you are absolutely wrong about that miscarriage thoughtlessness about me from NY late uncle, his analysis can be applicable if I am a dummy from day one, which I am not,

Do not use that measure to correct your kids if you have any,

The brain we have ain't meant for just one path of life like theories or conjectures like my own, maybe yours dimmed fit, as such you don't expect everyone to follow the same track
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by zexy2030(m): 1:14pm On Mar 27, 2020
doctore212:
Your Dick is small.

My brother, I didn't eat for 2 days.
kill urself, we can't have same dick sizes na. it's genetic just like height n et al.
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by DonMekino(m): 9:23am On Mar 31, 2020
TkhGuy:
you are absolutely wrong about that miscarriage thoughtlessness about me from NY late uncle, his analysis can be applicable if I am a dummy from day one, which I am not,

Do not use that measure to correct your kids if you have any,

The brain we have ain't meant for just one path of life like theories or conjectures like my own, maybe yours dimmed fit, as such you don't expect everyone to follow the same track
stop living in denial, it helped u consciously or unconsciously
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by SkinnyDude(m): 9:34am On Mar 31, 2020
Maryjane001:
It was back then in secondary school. I had this class teacher who liked intelligent students and disliked the others esp those at the bottom like me....
I didn't know y tho...

I recall a day she gathered the whole class and was talking Abt her past life in d University. D next thing, Aunty turned to me and started comparing me to the highly intelligent ones. I was used to it, she insulting me in front of the whole class was nothing new. But dat day she bore a hole in my heart when she said...
"She prays never to give birth to a child like me with no brains and anti-social attitude like me. If she could turn d hands of time, dat her son/daughter would marry one of the intelligent ones in our class and not end up like me. She even called me a hermit crab and talked about quiet people having mouth odor"
Omo dat day eh, my classmates taunted me,I went to the back and cried, then cried d remaining at home. I never told my parents cuz they had stopped asking Abt whatever happened in xkul and were busy hustling so we could eat.
But guess what? She taught us biology, ND I scored 94/100 in Jamb biology.
She had a negative impact on my life and sadly it still affects me till today....
Even a day before yesterday, a guy told me to my face dat I had potentials but I just lacked self confidence...


but do you have mouth odour ?
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Nobody: 10:03am On Mar 31, 2020
SkinnyDude:
but do you have mouth odour ?
Lol...no
I think she was explaining a topic in biology, then she dived into medical conditions of the mouth. She mentioned Halitosis and was like quiet people mostly have Halitosis
NB: Halitosis is mouth odour

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Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by SkinnyDude(m): 10:15am On Mar 31, 2020
seanwilliam:
Hmmmm, mehn it was when I was in school.. I one go buy foodstuff from one alaja like that . People plenty there oo and I waited for all of dem to go.. naso I look for a pick up line and ask alaja to sell rice half Derica and ingredients say I go give am Money the next day .. naso the woman phone ring inside shop, I don dey happy say e don set.. Las Las she come meet me outside dey shout say ," shey u no get mama ni? Na me send you come school? Mehn I one cry, and na dat time guys dey come from football viewing center oo.. I just man up , go dey cry for my room




.

The second one was the day my elder brother told me I was useless
The third and the most painful was the day a guy broke shame in front of ETF say I dress like aboki.. mehn , I one die that day...

The next one was the day I enter yemisi room to steal indomie, naso the girl dey curse , I later tell am say na me and the girl almost kill me with curse.


The next one was when I had no money to pay for house rent, and I dey run from baba landlord, as I was about to enter the bq, I never knew the man was behind me, naso he locked me from back and dragged me outside, shout on top of his voice say i be ONIJIBITI( is like a thief).. naso him wife dey beg am on my behalf...

All these happened like 2 years ago except my brother own..
I pay the baba landlord when I begin dey pick and I dey send him tips time to time self.. so the day I went to the area, naso the baba see me come dey hail me , you would not believe this man later gave me the key to his room to crash that day till I left the second day ... money is good..
.


Another one was when one guy collext my crush, hahahah, I never game that time and the guy fresh pass me, naso the girl tell me say " double your husle"
I have many stories jare.. but the one wey pain me pass na dat ETF own.. I thank God atleast I dey ok SMALL now
why that ETF own pain you pass ?
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by SkinnyDude(m): 10:16am On Mar 31, 2020
Maryjane001:

Lol...no
I think she was explaining a topic in biology, then she dived into medical conditions of the mouth. She mentioned Halitosis and was like quiet people mostly have Halitosis
NB: Halitosis is mouth odour
no problem.. just let everything go..
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Nobody: 10:24am On Mar 31, 2020
SkinnyDude:
no problem.. just let everything go..
Yes.....thanks
I v forgiven her , I only use the experience as a source of motivation to make myself better.

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Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Bluezy13(m): 10:31am On Mar 31, 2020
Maryjane001:
It was back then in secondary school. I had this class teacher who liked intelligent students and disliked the others esp those at the bottom like me....
I didn't know y tho...

I recall a day she gathered the whole class and was talking Abt her past life in d University. D next thing, Aunty turned to me and started comparing me to the highly intelligent ones. I was used to it, she insulting me in front of the whole class was nothing new. But dat day she bore a hole in my heart when she said...
"She prays never to give birth to a child like me with no brains and anti-social attitude like me. If she could turn d hands of time, dat her son/daughter would marry one of the intelligent ones in our class and not end up like me. She even called me a hermit crab and talked about quiet people having mouth odor"
Omo dat day eh, my classmates taunted me,I went to the back and cried, then cried d remaining at home. I never told my parents cuz they had stopped asking Abt whatever happened in xkul and were busy hustling so we could eat.
But guess what? She taught us biology, ND I scored 94/100 in Jamb biology.
She had a negative impact on my life and sadly it still affects me till today....
Even a day before yesterday, a guy told me to my face dat I had potentials but I just lacked self confidence...



What steps have you taken to combat the last of self confidence ??
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Nobody: 10:38am On Mar 31, 2020
Bluezy13:


What steps have you taken to combat the last of self confidence ??
Good question I must confess.....
I read books on self-help.
I payed less attention to what people say Abt me
Formerly I tot that I wasn't good in anything until I discovered my long lost passion.... Writing. Despite the fact, I was a below average student way back in school.....I was extremely good at writing. Many art teachers then were disappointed when I moved to Sciences in SS1. I aced all Commercial and Arts courses but in my Sciences I was having B's, C's, ND D's. But my love for medicine blinded me....I guess.
Tho I didn't get medicine, I m actually studying what I don't like(seriously) but I m working on my passions full-time
Re: Drop The Most Painful Words Someone As Ever Told You. by Bluezy13(m): 10:49am On Mar 31, 2020
Maryjane001:

Good question I must confess.....
I read books on self-help.
I payed less attention to what people say Abt me
Formerly I tot that I wasn't good in anything until I discovered my long lost passion.... Writing. Despite the fact, I was a below average student way back in school.....I was extremely good at writing. Many art teachers then were disappointed when I moved to Sciences in SS1. I aced all Commercial and Arts courses but in my Sciences I was having B's, C's, ND D's. But my love for medicine blinded me....I guess.
Tho I didn't get medicine, I m actually studying what I don't like(seriously) but I m working on my passions full-time

Thanks for sharing the steps.
I really appreciate it.

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