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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by madgoat(m): 9:26am On Apr 01, 2020
youngvikthor:
My brother was staying with my aunty since 2017 so early this year he decided to rent his own apartment after saving some money

So January this year, he told my mum that I should come and stay with him that he will look for work for me which he did. Since my arrival to this place, my cosin sister alway visits us. The house is not far from ours. She will come in name of helping us to cook.

While she and my brother will be touching themselves even when am around, most people in our compound thought she is my brother's girlfriend. I also noticed some used condoms in our room and my brother did not have girlfriend.

Fast forward to yesterday Monday, I went to work
and our boss said we should go back due to the issue of this covid 19, I reach House only for me to see my sister lying dawn with just singlet, playing game with my brother's phone.

And my brother was in the bathroom. I don't really know what to do, if I should tell my mother or not, my aunty is such a kind person she at times gives us food stuff and even money and I don't want my brother to get angry with me.

Please I need your help, he is 26, I'm just 21

Mind ur business.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Oyindaberry(f): 9:33am On Apr 01, 2020
I’m really surprised reading comments like ‘Whats your business, mind your business, face your work”! Really?? He’s sleeping with his cousin and y’all sees nothing bad in that? How do we neglect something this grievous? Haba! It’s best not to comment than typing things like that, it’s very bad

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Funaki: 9:36am On Apr 01, 2020
Donaldoni:


Please show me where... embarassed

Joshua 15:16-17 NKJV
16 And Caleb said, “He who attacks Kirjath Sepher and takes it, to him I will give Achsah my daughter as wife.” 17 So Othniel the son of Kenaz, the brother of Caleb, took it; and he gave him Achsah his daughter as wife.

1 Chronicles 23:21-22 NKJV
21 The sons of Merari were Mahli and Mushi. The sons of Mahli were Eleazar and Kish. 22 And Eleazar died, and had no sons, but only daughters; and their brethren, the sons of Kish, took them as wives.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Hassan88(m): 9:39am On Apr 01, 2020
Agboriotejoye:

I hope you're just joking. It's wrong to speak ill of the dead not to mention your father. It makes you look like a b******

May His Soul rest in peace
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Philinho(m): 9:42am On Apr 01, 2020
youngvikthor:





till she get pregnant and put the both of us in trouble abi
Don't mind some people who talk as if we are not in Africa. How can a right thinking human being sleep with his own cousin sister. Is he coursed ? I pray you have your money and get a house.Talk to him and let him know that her mother may eventually hear about it which will cause more harm....

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by similarasteroid: 9:44am On Apr 01, 2020
SavageResponse:


It probably started whnile your brother was living at your aunt's place.

At 26 your brother should know that incest is not not proper and usually leads to birth defects in new born babies
nothing like birth defect
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Purifiedsoul: 9:49am On Apr 01, 2020
See Wahala..
Then what is your own?
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by tbliss22(m): 9:49am On Apr 01, 2020
youngvikthor:



she is 19
did you mean I should mind my business and leave them?

Bros.... You don't handle this of this nature with too much patience.

Blow hot on them both or better still try to be sure they are actively doing the nonsense to have concrete evidence.

Set a camera or video recording for them to have concrete proof.

Don't laugh or be calm over it because if you don't do something now and your aunty or mum discover from a third party, they will never trust you again.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Purifiedsoul: 9:51am On Apr 01, 2020
tetula123:

Say no to incest. And for that man quoting me down there. I know people who did it doesn’t mean I support incest. It’s a taboo where I am from and I know the detriment of it both traditionally and medically.
I used a whole lot, I shouldn’t have, but try going to sites like quora and reddit and see a lot of story foreigners who do it even when it’s a taboo there as well.
In my own culture and tradition, You can marry you cousin. There is nothing wrong with it. It's not incest or abomination at all.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by alexmakaay(m): 9:51am On Apr 01, 2020
youngvikthor:
My brother was staying with my aunty since 2017 so early this year he decided to rent his own apartment after saving some money

So January this year, he told my mum that I should come and stay with him that he will look for work for me which he did. Since my arrival to this place, my cosin sister alway visits us. The house is not far from ours. She will come in name of helping us to cook.

While she and my brother will be touching themselves even when am around, most people in our compound thought she is my brother's girlfriend. I also noticed some used condoms in our room and my brother did not have girlfriend.

Fast forward to yesterday Monday, I went to work
and our boss said we should go back due to the issue of this covid 19, I reach House only for me to see my sister lying dawn with just singlet, playing game with my brother's phone.

And my brother was in the bathroom. I don't really know what to do, if I should tell my mother or not, my aunty is such a kind person she at times gives us food stuff and even money and I don't want my brother to get angry with me.

Please I need your help, he is 26, I'm just 21

I understand how unbearable it can be for you...I also take in cognizance how seniority plays in Nigeria. Use any avenue that usually makes you guys discuss and tell him that people are suspecting him of sleeping with your cousin sis..of which if it's truth he will certainly have untold hardship in future. That's incestuous!!
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by extol1(m): 10:01am On Apr 01, 2020
Glink2018:


Guy, there is more to what your eyes can see. There are a lot of things happening in the spirit that only those who can discern it will be able to explain it.
Lev 18 explained that the sin of incest is abominable. And if you really want to understand what is an abominable things. Ask those who are deep into spiritual things. This scope is more that what you can philosophiize or expatiate with your minuscule grammar or your figment of imagination. Is it a thing that you meant to be tutored on.


don't mind that guy, if he read his Bible very well, he will know that such things happened before God gave his law to his servant Moses and the nation of Israel
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Nobody: 10:04am On Apr 01, 2020
everydayboy:


The way you mix words is uncommon. I literally search between lines to locate your contribution.
I Liket grin cool By the way.... I am just here to read comments.... But...


To this incest issue.....

Joke about it in an investigative inquisitive manner and watch his reaction .... If guilty as suspected you will know (That is, if you're as smart as I expect) play it off otherwise and plan the killer coup to catch them red handed .... Thereafter, explode in grievance and tell when confirmed "Okay to treat"... Peace! I'm out... grin grin grin


Thank you for liking the way I type/write cheesy
Good morning/ stay safe
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Tapout(m): 10:06am On Apr 01, 2020
Martinez39s:
Is he also sleeping with your Tangent and Cosecant? grin


grin grin grin
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by extol1(m): 10:12am On Apr 01, 2020
Oyindaberry:
I’m really surprised reading comments like ‘Whats your business, mind your business, face your work”! Really?? He’s sleeping with his cousin and y’all sees nothing bad in that? How do we neglect something this grievous? Haba! It’s best not to comment than typing things like that, it’s very bad
that is why Nigeria is not progressing as a nation because of the words "mind your business" or "face your work. " you will someone embezzling money or doing wrong things, what people will say is mind your own business. the question I always ask is for how long are we going to keep our minding our business when things are not done properly. unfortunately most people that are saying mind your own business, can not happen such an abomination acts to within their families.

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Aksnoopy: 10:15am On Apr 01, 2020
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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by ChristineC: 10:16am On Apr 01, 2020
Ishilove:
Is sex among first cousins incest?
depends on culture.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Engraced80(f): 10:25am On Apr 01, 2020
Erediauwa:
Did you come to work or you are there to report your brother and "Cosine" sister to your mom?


Why don't you face what brought you there?


Akpan, becareful, nah Express you dey go.
When the righteous sees evil and remain silent, he becomes a partaker.
Be careful with what you endorse.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Engraced80(f): 10:28am On Apr 01, 2020
Oyindaberry:
I’m really surprised reading comments like ‘Whats your business, mind your business, face your work”! Really?? He’s sleeping with his cousin and y’all sees nothing bad in that? How do we neglect something this grievous? Haba! It’s best not to comment than typing things like that, it’s very bad
My thought exactly.
Humanity have really lost it.

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by tonididdy(m): 10:34am On Apr 01, 2020
Some comments here dey shock me.

This is a taboo and even worse than same sex.


Your cousin is your father or mother brother or sisters child. Your cousin is family.

@OP I know the shame this will bring to your brother, the cousin and all parents involved, best bet is you confront both your cousin and brother together. If your brother send you packing no problem but please never disclose this to anyone else not even your parents.

If they stop fine but your conscience will be free because you rebuked them.

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by K4daniel: 10:34am On Apr 01, 2020
Best way to scatter the ungodly relationship is to tell your mum now befire its too late..it will save the two ignorant youth and avoid danger. It is a taboo and curse.

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by tonididdy(m): 10:36am On Apr 01, 2020
Purifiedsoul:

In my own culture and tradition, You can marry you cousin. There is nothing wrong with it. It's not incest or abomination at all.
Your culture is shitt
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by tonididdy(m): 10:37am On Apr 01, 2020
Aksnoopy:
Contact me for face mask and hand sanitisers anywhere in Lagos. Delivery also available for oyo,Kwara,kogi,Abuja and portharcourt. # face mask 10000 for a pack of 50pcs, 100ml comart hand sanitiser for 600 each. Limited quantities available.
Oga drink your sanitizer...


If you cannot gift it to your neighborhood for free or a discount price, then use am cook soup
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Goodmarlian: 10:37am On Apr 01, 2020
AFONJACOW:
He might probably not sleeping with her every one has his or her special relatives, like me I was very close then and attached with my Little cousin sister before she got married about 6yrs ago, I live in town while she live in the village with my uncle her father, during festive seasons Christmas , I used to Lodge in hotel because I don't usually like people (parents) wey over righteous disturbing my privacy, my cousin use to come to the hotel to bring home made food for me... We sleep together in same bed with me wearing only boxers, we were very close to the extent our parents start suspecting we are fxcking, my eldest brother once said if I have anything going on with her I should say it so they can perform some ritual for purifications, but down inside me, I like my sister because her way matches mine , infact lemme say the truth, she use to introduce her friends to me as her bigger brother lol, hehehehe that's why she's my special cousin, paddies and someone I can trust with my secret, the other of my cousins from paternal and maternal sides , we don't go along. During my cousin's wedding I was the chairman , I gave her 50k as gift and splashed 20k when she was dancing.. so Charlie before u lay filthy accusing fingers have concrete evidence, try and catch them in the act...

did you read the post well.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by tonididdy(m): 10:38am On Apr 01, 2020
E nor go pass yoloba comment wey dey say mind your business.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by perryy(m): 10:41am On Apr 01, 2020
If banging cousin leads to birth defect we are all defected at birth since we all came from Adam and Eve. Otherwise, the story of Adam and Eve being the first two humans is false.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by AreaFada2: 10:43am On Apr 01, 2020
Oyindaberry:
I’m really surprised reading comments like ‘Whats your business, mind your business, face your work”! Really?? He’s sleeping with his cousin and y’all sees nothing bad in that? How do we neglect something this grievous? Haba! It’s best not to comment than typing things like that, it’s very bad
My dear, it appears many are doing it, would do it or have done it in the past.

It's not like the the OP is just a friend of the boy. But a close blood relative of the boy and the girl.

These comments give you an idea of the moral decadence of these times we live in. When everyone claims to be either a pastor or a Mallam.

In traditional society it's a great taboo that has to be atoned for. But they say tradition is primitive.

I guess knacking one's first cousin and everyone looking the other way must be civilization and modernity then. shocked

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by silibaba: 10:50am On Apr 01, 2020
if you ask me, na who i go ask?

youngvikthor:
My brother was staying with my aunty since 2017 so early this year he decided to rent his own apartment after saving some money

So January this year, he told my mum that I should come and stay with him that he will look for work for me which he did. Since my arrival to this place, my cosin sister alway visits us. The house is not far from ours. She will come in name of helping us to cook.

While she and my brother will be touching themselves even when am around, most people in our compound thought she is my brother's girlfriend. I also noticed some used condoms in our room and my brother did not have girlfriend.

Fast forward to yesterday Monday, I went to work
and our boss said we should go back due to the issue of this covid 19, I reach House only for me to see my sister lying dawn with just singlet, playing game with my brother's phone.

And my brother was in the bathroom. I don't really know what to do, if I should tell my mother or not, my aunty is such a kind person she at times gives us food stuff and even money and I don't want my brother to get angry with me.

Please I need your help, he is 26, I'm just 21

Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Aksnoopy: 10:53am On Apr 01, 2020
tonididdy:

Oga drink your sanitizer...


If you cannot gift it to your neighborhood for free or a discount price, then use am cook soup
Ok!
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by maasoap(m): 11:00am On Apr 01, 2020
Erediauwa:
Did you come to work or you are there to report your brother and "Cosine" sister to your mom?

Why don't you face what brought you there?
milliman:
Wetin concern you I will tell you mind your business. Odabo...

This is his family too. It concerns him more than you guys wanted him to admit. If this is happening in your family, would you guys look the other way until it becomes problem?
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by soonest(f): 11:00am On Apr 01, 2020
I never knew people can be this evil. So people are telling him to ming his business in the face of this evil? May people also mind their business when they see evil hovering around you. Tueh!

Poster please speak to your brother, if it persists report to your mum. Don't let the benefit you are getting from your brother blind and make you condone evil. God sees and judges all both perpetrators and accomplices.

God be with you

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by maasoap(m): 11:04am On Apr 01, 2020
excanny:


A lot of people don't sleep with their cousins, only insane people do.

Don't make incest look Ok.


Inbreeding results to low quality offsprings, in the Muslim world where this is practiced, they have the lowest IQ and close to stupid reasoning individuals. Read ur Biology textbook, Genetics.

Dumb, it is Arab world. There's a clear difference between Muslim world and Arab world or culture.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by AsapBentley: 11:06am On Apr 01, 2020
Where did you all get this 'Cousin Sister' that you all say? It is very bad English! It is either Cousin or Sister please!

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