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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 9:07am On Apr 09, 2020
ednut1:
well there is solution to every problem. Date outside your race or use ur pali find Nigerian husband here in Nigeria. He no hard cheesy. Any 9ja man dem bring come once they carry belle for am he will pay child support. So na win win cheesy
Deep down most can't date outside their race, so option one out the window.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:08am On Apr 09, 2020
Kekereekun123:
Its a norm in canada even white girls too are lonely. That why u see them with dog and cats. In a civilized word any lady that wants kids can buy sperm. Unfortunately our 9ja ladies still carry the i must marry mentality to canada. Men don wise. Marriage is a bondage and can ruin you. You can lose your house and still be paying child support join. Who be fool?
That's why you see me supporting this BABY MAMA OPTION for the unfortunate Guys in Naija.
In BABY MAMA, there is no Legal Binding.
With BABY MAMA, the MAN is happier, since it's less of a burden with no In-Laws, Lesser Responsibilities and the LADIES cherish it a lot. They prefer being addressed as BABY MAMAS grin grin grin, Since it guarantees them cheating Freedom. grin grin grin

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:09am On Apr 09, 2020
Vulcanheph:
Good one....i like this thread, i've always had ambitions of relocatin to canada, because naija matter don Tire me.
Guy go Netherlands

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by akaahs(m): 9:12am On Apr 09, 2020
GloShare:
I'm in canada, and I will tell you for real.

The only excitement a man may get is having sex with a woman or friends with benefits.

The moment you nut in her and she gets pregnant, or the moment you put a ring on it and marry her legally, she immediately has power over you.

Power intoxicates, and because African women have not tasted such power, it gets in their head.

There are a lot of good ones though.

In canada,
Children come first,
Seniors (old people) come second
Women come third
Animals come fourth.
Men come last.
Chai, U got me shivering by ur ranking. I can't take such nonsense ooo

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:14am On Apr 09, 2020
EVILFOREST:

That's why you see me supporting this BABY MAMA OPTION for the unfortunate Guys in Naija.
They are not Legally Bound together.
With BABY MAMA, the MAN is happier and the LADIES cherish it a lot. They prefer being addressed as BABY MAMAS grin grin grin, Since it guarantees them cheating Freedom. grin grin grin
i recently got canada pr. Even from our canada pr whatsapp groups the ladies there don dey hustle men. Some bad guys just dey chop dem for fun o. Marriage is not an ultimate goal in life. These ladies should adjust. They will also want you to take them back to Nigeria for societal wedding lol. I would rather use my. Money for MBA

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by traihit: 9:15am On Apr 09, 2020
Sometimes when I hear men lament over equality, feminism and the social system that's now trending in developed countries, I'd feel as if men are superhumans who have everything going well with them but seeing all the dilemmas here and abroad, I'm made to ask, who is responsible for the new social system, the men or the women?

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by akaahs(m): 9:16am On Apr 09, 2020
adexpa:


I mean not focusing on career n neglect marriage, it can be done hand in hand. She can make money in marriage. Some women neglect marriage n focus money for years n later look for marriage, it is dangerous for women.

I don't know where you see women should not hustle.... Take time to read
Just inspired by your patience. If na me, I won't even reply cause he have selective understanding

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:19am On Apr 09, 2020
Minxie:
Maybe, just maybe, they're not lonely and they are actually enjoying their lives...

In most countries, it's normal to be focused on your career as a woman. It doesn't mean you're lonely. So maybe these girls just adjusted to their surroundings and maybe they're finally happy because they live in a society where people don't expect them to get married at 25.

Just because you don't understand or agree with a culture or ideology doesn't mean that it's wrong. So just because you don't understand why they are single and career driven, doesnt mean you are right in labelling them as lonely.

If that's your logic, you can label me lonely too. I'll proudly accept grin
Did you manage to read some of the comments before you made this comment? Some
Of them are even complaining that no man is
Coming for them even
The Nigeria guys over there normally go for the white ladies.. before you made a comment on post like this
Make sure you read some
To the comments. Nobody is saying they are lonely they are the one complaining of their loneliness..
I also witnessed the same thing in Russia during the World Cup because their are much our ladies going there for studies but las las after studies they will be there to try some other things but the loneliness part of is what is killing them even our Nigeria guys there normally go for the white because I’m Russian as a foreigner all you need to stay in their country is to be with their country women.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:20am On Apr 09, 2020
GloShare:
I'm in canada, and I will tell you for real.

The only excitement a man may get is having sex with a woman or friends with benefits.

The moment you nut in her and she gets pregnant, or the moment you put a ring on it and marry her legally, she immediately has power over you.

Power intoxicates, and because African women have not tasted such power, it gets in their head.

There are a lot of good ones though.

In canada,
Children come first,
Seniors (old people) come second
Women come third
Animals come fourth.
Men come last.
THE SAME with the US.
PEOPLE buy vests for DOGS here.
People pay as high as $3000USD to get back their missing dogs and cats.
I was Lucky because my WIFE had tasted WEALTH and Exposure and, she was brought up well, so she had already planned what she wanted.
She just loved being married.

Despite her WEALTH, she Loved me more and now cherishes the marriage.
I have never seen that kind of woman before.

I saw LADIES, but they were Leeches.
I don't mind getting MARRIED to a Good WIDOW with kids, or loving and caring BABY MAMA, but what I never tolerated was a JEZEBEL no matter her virginity.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:21am On Apr 09, 2020
shollay09:
Well,any Canadian babes willing to roll with me can send me a message..... Let's get to know each other wink wink..... By the way, na naija I dey oo grin grin
Wayray Walai you no well grin shey na Canada you dey

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by akaahs(m): 9:26am On Apr 09, 2020
Minxie:
Maybe, just maybe, they're not lonely and they are actually enjoying their lives...

In most countries, it's normal to be focused on your career as a woman. It doesn't mean you're lonely. So maybe these girls just adjusted to their surroundings and maybe they're finally happy because they live in a society where people don't expect them to get married at 25.

Just because you don't understand or agree with a culture or ideology doesn't mean that it's wrong. So just because you don't understand why they are single and career driven, doesnt mean you are right in labelling them as lonely.

If that's your logic, you can label me lonely too. I'll proudly accept grin
Why not do ur own findings/investigation before coming up with ur hypothesis. The op has done his, d more reason he brought it here for discussion.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by shollay09(m): 9:26am On Apr 09, 2020
ZINIBANKS:

Wayray Walai you no well grin shey na Canada you dey
lol grin grin.... I dey one local village for naija..... You wan take me go Canada? wink smiley

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Asuito7(m): 9:28am On Apr 09, 2020
EVILFOREST:

MY BROTHER the THING that saving me in diaspora today is the Lady that I married.
................ an exceptional Nigerian.

I realized she LOVED me wholeheartedly more than I Loved her then.
Meanwhile, in Nigeria, I had a lot of Ladies humming around me with the expectation of marriage but I was confused.
90% of them were leeches and slay Queens.
But when I realized how much this LADY loves me more than I cherish her, I married her immediately and developed undying LOVE for her.
She's a JEWEL.
She Falls Sick, I fall Sick.
While still in the US, She specifically told me that she would like us to rent an apartment where WHITES mainly resided.
I asked her why... and she said, she wanted a have a peaceful home and was not ready for HOME BREAKERS and GOSSIPERS.
MY BROTHER since we started living among the whites, it looks like we just packed in today.
No Troubles, Nobody has your Time.
Yet you get amazing wishes and gifts at birthdays.

As long as that woman continue to love you, please hold her tight. I wish your union well

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by emmaodet: 9:30am On Apr 09, 2020
princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

And this statement is what i have been echoing on this forum for a long time.
NEVER you make the mistake of coming to nigeria to pick a local wife to abroad. 80% of the time, you will regret it.
If you need a woman, marry someone there with you.
Martinez39s - is this not what have always been saying? A brother has got his hands burnt.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Czarny(m): 9:30am On Apr 09, 2020
BestAccessories:


You are better off with gf and baby mamas there than getting married.

Half of your networth would be gone by the time she decide to leave you or when you wanna move on.

Example: Jeff Bezos paid MacKenzie Bezos $35 billion in 2019 to get a divorce (Source - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_most_expensive_divorces)

Below are amount paid to their wives to get divorced

1. Alec Wildenstein and Jocelyn Wildenstein, 1999 $3.8 billion
2. Rupert Murdoch and Anna Torv, 1999 $1.7 billion
3. Bernie Ecclestone and Slavica Radi, 2009 $1.2 billion
4. Steve and Elaine Wynn, 2010 $1 billion
5. Harold Hamm and Sue Ann Arnall, 2012 $975 million
6. Adnan Khashoggi and Soraya Khashoggi, 1980 $874 million
7. Dmitry Rybolovlev and Elena Rybolovlev, 2014 $604 million
8. Craig McCaw and Wendy McCaw, 1997 $460 million
9. Mel Gibson and Robyn Moore, 2006 $425 million
10. Bob Johnson and Sheila Crump Johnson, 2002 $400 million

(Source - https://www.pulse.ng/bi/finance/the-10-most-expensive-divorce-settlements-in-history-total-over-dollar11-billion/g65zsmq)
omo whites acrimony mad oo!

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by akaahs(m): 9:30am On Apr 09, 2020
EVILFOREST:

MY BROTHER the THING that saving me in diaspora today is the Lady that I married.
................ an exceptional Nigerian.

I realized she LOVED me wholeheartedly more than I Loved her then.
Meanwhile, in Nigeria, I had a lot of Ladies humming around me with the expectation of marriage but I was confused.
90% of them were leeches and slay Queens.
But when I realized how much this LADY loves me more than I cherish her, I married her immediately and developed undying LOVE for her.
She's a JEWEL.
She Falls Sick, I fall Sick.
While still in the US, She specifically told me that she would like us to rent an apartment where WHITES mainly resided.
I asked her why... and she said, she wanted a have a peaceful home and was not ready for HOME BREAKERS and GOSSIPERS.
MY BROTHER since we started living among the whites, it looks like we just packed in today.
No Troubles, Nobody has your Time.
Yet you get amazing wishes and gifts at birthdays.

Wow, happy for you bro, it shows 99% of ur problem is solved

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:31am On Apr 09, 2020
Kekereekun123:
i recently got canada pr. Even from our canada pr whatsapp groups the ladies there don dey hustle men. Some bad guys just dey chop dem for fun o. Marriage is not an ultimate goal in life. These ladies should adjust. They will also want you to take them back to Nigeria for societal wedding lol. I would rather use my. Money for MBA

Don't ever consider MARRIAGE until you find a LADY that LOVES you more than she loves herself and also more than you Love her.
Don't WASTE your MARRIAGE oooo.

For US here, them many but NOBODY they near them again.
I don't match my relatives with NIGERIAN LADIES again. It's a Vow that I have made.
MY WIFE even detests such.
She always ask the MEN to go to NIGERIA themselves and pick their packages grin grin grin grin
My PEOPLE have suffered in their HANDS.
Some even escape right at the AIRPORT and elope with BF Men.
Some choose Social Gatherings to escape.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by flyingdutchman(m): 9:32am On Apr 09, 2020
Nigsrdumb:



It's intuitive to them. They prefer themselves, all you have to do is look.

Off course there are exceptions.
Well, I'm going to be honest here. I just feel that they should GO FUKK THEMSELVES!!! I get you now.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:33am On Apr 09, 2020
shollay09:
lol grin grin.... I dey one local village for naija..... You wan take me go Canada? wink smiley
Guy me self dey Hussle Canadian wife O grin grin

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Samo1122(m): 9:34am On Apr 09, 2020
What's your advice for family (husband, wife & 2 kids) planning to relocate to Canada?
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by skfa1: 9:34am On Apr 09, 2020
Abroad and loneliness.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 9:37am On Apr 09, 2020
shollay09:
lol grin grin.... I dey one local village for naija..... You wan take me go Canada? wink smiley
if you want a canadian wife and you know (you must know oo, make dem no go slap you) girl wey you sabi before we dey canada. Just pop inside her DM innocently and act gentle. Na she go rush you.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:37am On Apr 09, 2020
akaahs:

Wow, happy for you bro, it shows 99% of ur problem is solved
YES oooo, BRO.
Are you not surprised that the BRITISH PRIME MINISTER only has a partner and not WIFE.
He is not married.
He knows that the moment he MARRIES, he will sink like the Titanic.
CR7 is not also married. They all know.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:37am On Apr 09, 2020
gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.
Boss abeg please if you get any Canadian babe please just link me up with her
I go Email you my WhatsApp contact
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by cyrilamx(m): 9:38am On Apr 09, 2020
Jaubdu:
. Are you an African American? Or are you staying in USA?
ok ooo she no like naija staying in naija.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:39am On Apr 09, 2020
Jaubdu:
I have a wonderful friend ( share some sexual intimacy with over short visit to Zambia), we met in 2014, African American, didn't want to marry African long distance relationship not her thing so we become good friend. Fast forward to 2020 she is still single. She has a degree, masters. A job, cars and a house.We sometime engaged in deep conversation here is what she said about men in USA" 1:3% of black men are in jail.2: 4% of black men are gay 3: 45% of black men don't want commitment 4: 45% of black men are married. White men are not her thing. She was 30 when we met now she is 36. In term of marriage, men has an advantage in foreign countries. Sad reality
Hian!!! angry angry angry

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:39am On Apr 09, 2020
ZINIBANKS:

Boss abeg please if you get any Canadian babe please just link me up with her
I go Email you my WhatsApp contact
LEAVE those Babes oooooo., although they can be good if you land a fantastic one

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Minxie(f): 9:39am On Apr 09, 2020
gargoylern:

You didn't get my point. They actually WANT marriage, that's the primary reason they feel lonely and dejected. These are not career women types.
Okay, I hear you smiley
In that case, I know the dating world in other places are tough. Maybe they are struggling to bridge the culture gap?

Many things that would be okay in Nigeria, for example, may not be okay in Canada. Dating is different everywhere and maybe these girls are just struggling to adapt. I have also seen the same thing here in SA. Nigerian ladies don't date much. So I've also theorized about it.

These are just my theories. I always think there's not just one answer when dealing with a large group of people over a large geographical or cultural area.

There can be many reasons why these girls are not finding relationships. I'm also just trying to find explanations for this phenomenon.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:41am On Apr 09, 2020
cyrilamx:
ok ooo she no like naija staying in naija.
. Nope they call immigrant drop from the boat. You ever watch that film called Scarface?
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 9:43am On Apr 09, 2020
Minxie:

Okay, I hear you smiley
In that case, I know the dating world in other places are tough. Maybe they are struggling to bridge the culture gap?

Many things that would be okay in Nigeria, for example, may not be okay in Canada. Dating is different everywhere and maybe these girls are just struggling to adapt. I have also seen the same thing here in SA. Nigerian ladies don't date much. So I've also theorized about it.

These are just my theories. I always think there's not just one answer when dealing with a large group of people over a large geographical or cultural area.

There can be many reasons why these girls are not finding relationships. I'm also just trying to find explanations for this phenomenon.
Lool. You must be a scientist. Which explanation are you trying to find? You just dey try reason am away. This is reality. Though it pains me sha for them, I just kind feel they didn't understand what they were getting into before going to Canada. Some had stable lives and were in some kind of relationship in Naija, even if it was shaky. But now, they can't even figure the direction their live is going. If they were struggling to adapt, that would have been better. But these ladies are molded already, and it will take a lot to do away with the thinking they took with them to CA in order for them to actually see a glimmer of light at the end of the single, lonely tunnel they are looking down.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:47am On Apr 09, 2020
EVILFOREST:

LEAVE those Babes oooooo., although they can be good if you land a fantastic one
Guy good or no good there is possibility that through her I will leave this poo-hole and when I reach there am going to make my own decisions angry

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