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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by visijo(m): 6:18pm On May 10, 2020

Lol

Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by OsuIgboIpob: 6:18pm On May 10, 2020

Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by GreatResearcher1: 6:18pm On May 10, 2020

nyzeo:
I am 33 and I come from a state from the south south. I met a girl in Lagos 4 years ago who is from the south east and we have been very good friends ever since then.

I have developed very strong affection for her over time and we started dating. We really love each other now and we have have finalized plans to get married anytime between this year and early next year.

The issues now is that my parents are insisting I marry from my state, somebody who speaks the same language. It has caused me to have issues with my mother because she is the orchestra of all this tribal bigotry.

Please lala and house memeber make una advice me abeg. I have found someone who truly complements my life I really sincerely love this lady. Thanks

Children obey your parents in the Lord for this is right. Honor your father and mother for this is the first commandment with promise.

Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by PureGoldh(m): 6:18pm On May 10, 2020

Hmmm... Sometimes e get matter wey dey weak me.

Family matterx is not an exception

Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by kaziblake(f): 6:18pm On May 10, 2020

At this age and time and they are still tribalistic?
Thank God for the kind of parent I have

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by baconline(m): 6:18pm On May 10, 2020

Had the same problem, I stuck to my guns, now its history

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by GboyegaD(m): 6:19pm On May 10, 2020

You decide whom to marry and notify them of your choice. You are the one who would be in the marriage and not them.

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by Sultty(m): 6:19pm On May 10, 2020

nyzeo:
I am 33 and I come from a state from the south south. I met a girl in Lagos 4 years ago who is from the south east and we have been very good friends ever since then.

I have developed very strong affection for her over time and we started dating. We really love each other now and we have have finalized plans to get married anytime between this year and early next year.

The issues now is that my parents are insisting I marry from my state, somebody who speaks the same language. It has caused me to have issues with my mother because she is the orchestra of all this tribal bigotry.

Please lala and house memeber make una advice me abeg. I have found someone who truly complements my life I really sincerely love this lady. Thanks

Tell ur mum that it's either u marry her or u will not marry any other person. It's time to grow some balls and have u made ur intension known to the girls parents? What was their taught

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by Abalado(f): 6:19pm On May 10, 2020

So na mama still they control u at ur age.... Mama pikin

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by Coldie(m): 6:19pm On May 10, 2020

E concern una 2... Me way be Igbo guy never fvck one single Igbo girl before and one falling in love with u e concern her

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by emetisuccess(m): 6:19pm On May 10, 2020

My brother handle it with care oooooo

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by Lastorator: 6:19pm On May 10, 2020

nyzeo:
Akwa ibom

ntak mmor etangá ntro o

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by Isoduwa(m): 6:20pm On May 10, 2020

topedoski:
@33 well u still have 6 more years to be fool forever

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by ignis: 6:20pm On May 10, 2020

33 years old....

Shame on you

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by valirex: 6:20pm On May 10, 2020

nyzeo:
I am 33 and I come from a state from the south south. I met a girl in Lagos 4 years ago who is from the south east and we have been very good friends ever since then.

I have developed very strong affection for her over time and we started dating. We really love each other now and we have have finalized plans to get married anytime between this year and early next year.

The issues now is that my parents are insisting I marry from my state, somebody who speaks the same language. It has caused me to have issues with my mother because she is the orchestra of all this tribal bigotry.

Please lala and house memeber make una advice me abeg. I have found someone who truly complements my life I really sincerely love this lady. Thanks

What do you want us to do? Insult your mother or tell you disobey her? You already know what you want to do so do it, but have one thing in mind whatever you do now is what your kids will do too.

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by Nobody: 6:20pm On May 10, 2020

They have low mentality..

Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by OsuIgboIpob: 6:20pm On May 10, 2020

Renida:

You're Akwa Ibom. Let me speak to you as an elder. Dismiss that love immediately and go do your mother's bidding. I won't state my reasons. You were told o

People like you are the reason why this country has remained like this.
Very myopic.

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by kerry57: 6:20pm On May 10, 2020

Yr problem

Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by helinues: 6:20pm On May 10, 2020

Well, only those who are not independently matured still waiting for their parents approval on marriage

Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by masterflowx(m): 6:21pm On May 10, 2020

Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by Lastorator: 6:21pm On May 10, 2020

nyzeo:
Akwa ibom

AFO abor ke item iki dorr ayin ukeh so nditor nnyin, anieh ibi dorr mmorh ?

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by Staphylococcus: 6:21pm On May 10, 2020

nyzeo:
I am 33 and I come from a state from the south south. I met a girl in Lagos 4 years ago who is from the south east and we have been very good friends ever since then.

I have developed very strong affection for her over time and we started dating. We really love each other now and we have have finalized plans to get married anytime between this year and early next year.

The issues now is that my parents are insisting I marry from my state, somebody who speaks the same language. It has caused me to have issues with my mother because she is the orchestra of all this tribal bigotry.

Please lala and house memeber make una advice me abeg. I have found someone who truly complements my life I really sincerely love this lady. Thanks

At 33, You dont know what you want in life yet.

You 7 years away from 40.

smh...

Cant believe this if I didnt read it.

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by ofiko123(m): 6:21pm On May 10, 2020

So what do you want me to do now..

Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by Melezenawii: 6:21pm On May 10, 2020

This one strong o ... since you mother is involved

Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by Craaaa: 6:22pm On May 10, 2020

Be a man bro. If she truly compliments u like u said. Make ur mum understand that it's either u marry her or u don't get married. Enough of this tribal stuff. If she is dangote daughter she won't reject her.

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by Nobody: 6:22pm On May 10, 2020

Just AVOID MARRIAGE If U can.
Just avoid it, however if you enter and realise you have made the worst mistake, Please Run away..... Just evacuate yourself from it.
Your DEATH is not worth it.

Being unmarried doesn't stop you from having a CHILD or being a FATHER.
IF you invest that MILLION NAIRA meant for the wedding, as a Single FATHER.... You will reap bountifully.
Memory Verse:
Nowadays MARRIAGES draw you closer to the DEVIL. DEVIL now has a permanent resident permit

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 6:22pm On May 10, 2020

All I can say is, girls from the south east i.e igbo girls are awesome

ur parents are trying to block your blessing

go ahead and marry the love of your life and damn the consequences

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 6:22pm On May 10, 2020

sharrap abeg

EVILFOREST:
Just AVOID MARRIAGE If U can.
Just avoid it, however if you enter and realise you have made the worst mistake, Please Run away..... Just evacuate yourself from it.
Your DEATH is not worth it.

Being unmarried doesn't stop you from having a CHILD or being a FATHER.
IF you invest that MILLION NAIRA meant for the wedding, as a Single FATHER.... You will reap bountifully.
Memory Verse:
Nowadays MARRIAGES draw you closer to the DEVIL.

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by freshkpomo(m): 6:23pm On May 10, 2020

I am not a bigot but parents are right about not marrying some particular tribes as some traits might be common among them, but my only issue with your mum is her restricting you to your tribe alone. Wish you good luck.

God bless Nigeria

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by tatatar: 6:23pm On May 10, 2020

They won't allow you marry from the SE is different from not allowing you marry from any other tribe.
I wonder why that should be an issue to you...you ought to know by now why you shouldn't marry from there.
Believe me,you should not!
You've been warned.

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Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by Lamanii22(f): 6:23pm On May 10, 2020

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

Where's your advice lol... Abi kini "damnnnnnn niggarr" ni shey kpelu what the OP said
...

Re: My Parents Won't Allow Me Marry Outside My Tribe by Sommydisaster(m): 6:24pm On May 10, 2020

Everyday, same wahala....... I'm very sure you had an idea that what's happening would happen

But you went ahead, now you're too deep in the relationship and you want NAIRALANDERs to help you...... To be honest young man, you're on your own

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