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Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by bukatyne(f): 7:26pm On May 11, 2020 |
KanwuliaBaby: Too long a post saying nothing on a question 'what is marriage to you?' considering you have been married for 20yrs plus. A mad person also thinks a sane person is insane. It is all a matter of perception. 4 Likes |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by crackkhaus: 7:35pm On May 11, 2020 |
bukatyne:Lol, okay. Taking it like a champ. I like it |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by ibkayee(f): 7:38pm On May 11, 2020 |
Lol 'everybody has the duty to discover their purpose and fulfil it'…as long as it isn’t x, y, z though 1. Personal experiences/opinions being framed as the standard for everyone? Check 2. Can't for the life of her comprehend why anyone would take her wording this way? Check 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by bukatyne(f): 7:44pm On May 11, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Won kere They are too small and not real. Just how you know a lot of atheists online and never see them offline. |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by blank(f): 8:58pm On May 11, 2020 |
My work and my calling is to help people account for their money and keep proper records. I am fulfilled and will die empty. I am glad i pursued work and career first. If not, i would never have known true fulfillment. I don't hide it when I tell people that my job fulfills me and if I did not have kids, I would be sitting pretty right where I want to be. But I have made my compromises and I have made my peace with what I have chosen. 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by Nobody: 9:19pm On May 11, 2020 |
bukatyne: This your last line is termed “using the name of God in vain” in Christian parlance. Kaamisha and KanwuliaBaby said everything I feel/deduce about you. They just did it in a more orderly way, I would have been all over the place with my submission. I hope you are happy, because it is misery that loves company . You have your unicorn- marriage, and are supposed to be as content and happy as a cat. But no, for some reason you constantly peck at the unmarried and rub their “poor, hopeless , hapless noses” on the floor. Why do you have this intense need to see them sad? You are either unhappy or mean (or both) to be this way. You deviously add career/work to your “beef” but I know that your grouse is really with the unmarried who are daring to dare, to have orgasms, to “prostitute”, to either live or try to live as the case may be. Who don’t do your shiloh-living because well, because they don’t roll like that. A good (fair) soul would be happy for these “poor demographic” but not you, because, you . I once made a post and you quoted me with a “why?”. That, and other threads I have seen from you decided my opinion about you. I remember I replied you with a zed I had typed a long post using myself as a case study, however I decided that any thread from you would not get to catch a glimpse of my life/soul, and so deleted it. I will leave that for another (better) thread or for any direct question about my life(outside of your thread). I kind of feel crazily sorry for you sha. And please try as much as possible not to come back with the “ I know you are secretly unhappy and wish you had my marriage bla bla bla”. Cheers 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:24pm On May 11, 2020 |
KanwuliaBaby: 2 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by bukatyne(f): 11:50pm On May 11, 2020 |
blank: You have found your calling which coincides with your work; touche! 1 Like |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by IamPlato(m): 11:54pm On May 11, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl:This Life Sha. Some People Mouth Can Make You Loose Appetite 2 Likes |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by bukatyne(f): 12:02am On May 12, 2020 |
merahki: 1. , I am touched you feel something about me. Eku feelings. 2. I am happy, thank you for the concern. 3 - 5. I am wondering if you are talking about yourself here. I have been accused of telling married women what to do; now it is 'dragging' unmarried women and 'laughing' at them? How many of my threads even talk to older unmarried ladies? The recent one I opened was to young ladies, the other one was women knowing their worth. You said you had commitment issues and I asked 'why'? 6 - 7. And you think I am interested in your life because? 8. You sound pathetic. I rarely talk about my marriage on NL nor have I ever told peeps 'I wish people had my marriage'? Seriously? Now, I really wish you God's peace. I am serious. 1 Like |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by bukatyne(f): 12:05am On May 12, 2020 |
merahki: @bold: Ha Ha! I don't care what you or anyone else here feels about me. If you are not a good sister or daughter, don't project on me please. That is the first and last warning. I do not play with my family. 4 Likes |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by bukatyne(f): 12:14am On May 12, 2020 |
merahki: You are really my fan sha. |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by bukatyne(f): 12:15am On May 12, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Thank you crachkkaus. |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by Amhappy(f): 1:56am On May 12, 2020 |
Work - Something you do that pays the bills Career- A professional expertise that you grow in Calling- Your purpose on earth that gives you fulfilment. Sometimes they are all interwoven. Balance work and family life,create time for personal life and for God. It's for both men and women. 5 Likes |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by KanwuliaExtra: 3:23am On May 12, 2020 |
bukatyne: Well! Another long post for you! Just got my “KanwuliaExtra” ID back from that busybody “Spambot” for celebrating my SWEET MOTHERS’ DAY from work yesterday. Someone was “extremely embittered” that I was spending the almighty “UTERUS day” at my “career center” fa! What a DARE! Instead of being home as a “companion” to my “HUSSEY” and breast-feed children aka “god-fearing” robots around my house! What marriage means to me is simply none of your BEEZWAX! Not the topic of YOUR THREAD. We nor dey compete. LAI-LAI!!! Take the suggestions offered from discerning minds and work on delivering your “flight of ideas” COHERENTLY! Thanks for the entertainment. Just returning from by “career-WITH-PAY-$$$” RUNZZ abeg and off for the next 4 days to concentrate on “family”. MY CHOICE. I can do both! What areas I choose to place the “wrong emphasis” on, and get ZERO FULFILLMENT in my life, is also my GADDEM BIZZZZZZ! NOT YOURS. Yes o! 20 years +++++. . . . without making a single effort FROM MAN OR GOD too! Whether it crashes or survives is not my gaddem bizzz. Stop acting like this “marriage“ should be a competitive sport among women with “MEN AND CHILDREN” as the ONLY FOCAL-POINTS/TROPHY FOR EVERY FAMILY SET-UP. Me? I nor kukuma ask you. Na your “companionship and godly-children” wahala be dat! You are lucky you are expressing all these view-points online. Try yourself offline and experience “stories that touch”! You know what happened to the son of your “GOD” abi? Na gospel him try to preach too. Nitey-Nitey! *waiting in anticipation for the next BUKA-T marital exhibition* 9 Likes |
Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by Kaamisha: 5:04am On May 12, 2020 |
KanwuliaExtra: She might actually be one of the Jehova's Witnesses nutheads who think that preaching gets them a ticket to heaven and when you reject or chase them away God is even more pleased with them. This or she is indeed totally insane to keep opening these threads addressing women who would be anything but her. 3 Likes |
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