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Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by chibexme(m): 8:32pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
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Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Belafonte(m): 11:42am On Mar 06, 2020 |
Rapecase: Is that not what she told the woman? Would she tell he woman she was going to meet her side boo? Oga, your wife has zero respect and regard for you and that’s why she behaves the way she does. I’m sure she didn’t forget the anniversary, it’s just not that big of a deal to her anymore. You have made yourself too cheap in her eyes. Stop giving her any money apart from the usual household expenses and sternly instruct her to not divert household funds for personal business. The standard in your home must be maintained, and if the standard falls, you know she’s trying to make up for the shortfall in her personal finances with home money. Stop giving it to her totally and find alternate ways of running your home. This is war. You are keeping to your end of the bargain and she is deliberately, ambiguously flouting hers. The more you beg an ardent woman, the more she disrespects you. If she wants to leave, allow her. It USB’s better to be unhappy as a divorcee than as a devoted, but demeaned husband. Funny thing is you’ll be much happier if she leaves. You’ll see 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Belafonte(m): 11:50am On Mar 06, 2020 |
Rapecase: Look, church and church people cannot help you in this matter. They will only help you patch your marriage and help you endure the bullshit till your old age when it would be too late to make any drastic moves. No disrespect intended, but fûck you’re pastors. If they could help, they would have done so with your constant reporting and their constant counseling. Take practical steps and save your marriage or, at least, your dignity 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Itcanbefixed:God bless you. Your number 4 has crashed this table. Most people do not know some women hate third party whether it is their own family or otherwise. That thing is very annoying, it can pain and cause hate to fester and revenge to brew. The grudge this third party causes in the heart of the woman is so big it can cause rift in the marriage. Fear women especially that don't argue during the reporting. That will just be looking and agreeing to the advice. The revenge they are planning eh... only God can save you. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Belafonte(m): 6:54am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Alero3Arubi: I find this funny. For a man to swallow his pride and involve outsiders in his marriage is an embarrassing situation that he will only do when he has tried all he can and his wife is unresponsive to his attempts at resolving issues. If he eventually seeks outside help to straighten things with his wife after failing to do so himself and his wife is hatching revenge plans, then that marriage is as good as over. I wouldn’t invite other people to mediate between my wife and I as I value my privacy. I won’t disturb myself over a recalcitrant wife either. I would just ignore her till sense falls on her. She dey crase 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by ityP(m): 7:57am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Belafonte: You have sense. People don't know how very embarrassing reporting is. If a man does this, he has had enough. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by ityP(m): 8:00am On Mar 07, 2020 |
Alero3Arubi: I blame the men reporting. If It has reached a point where I feel like reporting my wife to family members, I'd just give up on the marriage. That's because my pride won't let me tell anyone. But my wife should forget that marriage. It is over, whether I file for divorce or not 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Nobody: 9:37am On Mar 08, 2020 |
I don't advice people because I never seek or take any from anyone. But, seeing people suffering out of ignorance unsettles me a lot. @OP, when you see your business crashing and all rescue measures fail, only one thing is needed of you; "accept and watch" @OP, marriage is nothing but a cooperative business between two individuals with personal interests and expectations. But, it's also a tool; though not basically natural. Yet, nature teaches and builds souls via it. @OP, there is nothing wrong with your union; except, maybe your expectations. Now, you think you're loosing? What if she's loosing too? Do you think you take care of her needs? What if she doesn't know what her needs her? What if you are to find out her needs by accepting any form she takes? What if she doesn't need you? What if she entered your life for you to find yourself? What if you need to change the way you see and interprete things? what if...? @OP, you have a will and she has a will, but there is another will. There is a will that blindfolded both of you by "sensual love", there is a will that care more about your spiritual growth, and not the fake success of the funning union called marriage; a 'will' that teaches real love and not flesh clinging to flesh. @OP, wake up. No marriage is needed to make the earth functions as earth. You serve no other in your marriage except your ego, and that's why you're in pain; your ego is dented. Accept your marriage as one of the many learning classrooms in life and see your pains evaporating. @OP, your write up shows you've done your part of the business well enough, but, how are you sure? You may have satisfied all socio-religious requirements, what about the requirements peculiar to your very union? What about the 'super will' that make your paths crossed? Do you think you made it happen in the first place? @OP, You are your own problems, your illusory expectations are giving you illusory pains. All your efforts to impress her is for you to possess and control; you call it love though, but it isn't. @OP, Love accepts all. Love possesses nothing. Love seeks no gain. Love expects nothing. Love isn't time bound. Love asks for nothing. Love is ego free. In conclusion, You can choose to deal with the situation based on advices given or base on your discretion, but wherever it ends, don't forget to accept and love whatever comes your way. Pains neither stay longer than necessary nor resurface when accepted; force it out and see it reappear in another form. It's all about learning, if not here it will be there. No accident in nature; we attract what we experience. Never think yourself unfortunate, you wanted this but you may have forgotten. There is more to life than a life span. You aren't what you think. Be calm and loving and see a ferocious beast eating from the hollow of your palms. NB: Caring doesn't mean Loving. Check your intentions very deeply. Do nothing to impress anyone. May wisdom guide you. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Rapecase: 8:47pm On May 10, 2020 |
Belafonte:Thanks for this advise. We will now be separated. They ended up making me the devil, until I started pointing out one by one everything she has done in the last five years. Now they want us to reconcile, not happening until at least we are separated for 6 months. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Nobody: 11:58pm On May 10, 2020 |
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Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Chimasoka: 1:05am On May 11, 2020 |
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Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by flakesy01(f): 2:59pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mac2016: Makes a whole lot of sense. Are you a marriage counselor or you are speaking from experience? |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Mac2016(m): 3:26pm On May 11, 2020 |
flakesy01:I'm gifted in deep thinking only.. Have not turned this into a profession tho! Thanks for the compliment... I appreciate |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by flakesy01(f): 3:50pm On May 11, 2020 |
Rapecase: Please do keep us posted on all what transpired after. Don't get me wrong o, it is for mere educational purpose. Thank you. Wish you luck though. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by flakesy01(f): 3:52pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mac2016: You are welcome.� |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Rapecase: 7:27pm On May 12, 2020 |
flakesy01:She has done worst and even though the church has stepped in, I am moving out. I have done my best and proud of my effort to keep things together but it simply isn't working. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by flakesy01(f): 11:15pm On May 12, 2020 |
Rapecase: Sorry about that. May the Lord see you through. Be prayerful. Good luck. |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Nobody: 1:07am On May 13, 2020 |
crackkhaus:I'm sorry but this is totally wrong do not follow this advice, lol please don't come to social media and listen to rubbish cooked up by people who can't save their own. You are indirectly telling him to go and cheat on his wife because she refused sex. You see all this things you wrote her OP, type it in a letter and send to your wife. Let her know this is how you feel word for word. You said she was over you during your courtship days and then things changed. Did u bother to give her the attention you would usually give her while you two were still dating. Do you take her out, spoil her. Establish a very open communication between yourself and her, do the unusual, tell her you want the other side you saw that made you fall in love, tell her memories, women clings to memories she might not show it immediately but it will awaken a consciousness and she would think about it. Please DON'T CHEAT! undoing it can never happen. God bless |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by crackkhaus: 7:56am On May 13, 2020 |
[s] Sellout:[/s] Please shut up and read his update... Rapecase: |
Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by abescom: 1:37pm On May 11, 2023 |
Shora fun okunrin ooo olorun a wa pelu e😳 |
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