Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,162,801 members, 7,851,700 topics. Date: Thursday, 06 June 2024 at 05:52 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex (102504 Views)
I’m Dating A Nigerian Minister Who Gives Me N5M For Upkeep — Jay Boogie / My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? / He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) ... (20) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Karemarealty288(m): 11:01pm On May 18, 2020 |
Graysons: Haba! If you find yourself in his situation... Am sure you will be explaining to us in your native dialect. This man is having deep and painful family issues ....... good and constructive ENGLISH Language is not what matters now....I believe you have PhD in English then go find a sit beside Queen of England and leave nairaland tutoring. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Nobody: 11:01pm On May 18, 2020 |
WHAT MEN GO THROUGH |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Peterside44: 11:03pm On May 18, 2020 |
My friend, I think you need to man up and become a responsible husband. You are just young into this marriage and have started talking about walking away from your marriage. For God sake when will our young men start thinking right? Marriage is a very serious institution that need to be preserved by taking the right steps in it. Constantly try to initiate conversation on some traits you observe on her and advice on the way forward, develop patience and maturity at home.Please from what you highlighted, it seems you are not in-charge of your home. Guy try and secure a skill that will make you busy, take good care of your wife and unborn child, constantly develop your self, network with people you can learn from them and boost your income. You will earn the respect of your wife when she discovers that you are someone that she can lean on, some one she learns from, someone that inspires her to achieve her dreams. Yes sex is good in marriage but let that not bother you as we have better things to be worrying about. The lock-down should be a time for you to review your career, strive for opportunities and emancipate your self! All the best. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by MetalJigsaw(m): 11:03pm On May 18, 2020 |
Davash222:Which brand of beer do you take bro? |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Omotaday(m): 11:04pm On May 18, 2020 |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Odemok(m): 11:05pm On May 18, 2020 |
Please give her time to deliver and watch her behavior again. Some women can behave like "ogbanje" when they are pregnant. It happened to me that I nearly sent my wife parking when she was pregnant but I was advised and mentored by a close friend that passed through the same issue and we got better at the end. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by kanmi4gold: 11:05pm On May 18, 2020 |
delkuf:You have to get mature with the wife of your youth,If you quit now then you are weak,be strong bro,talk it over with her. |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by walexbiz(m): 11:05pm On May 18, 2020 |
Sir, all women comes with different shades, some are caring, some are stingy some have bad attitude, some have anger problem you just have to deal with it. If you decides to marry another woman what kind of character do you think she will exhibit, if you say you want a woman with the best of character I bet you, you would marry more than 2000 women and you would still not get what you desire. Let me give you a life scenario of my matrimony, my wife is a very hardworking woman and I am the kind of layback guy if you don't push me I don't get to do things but my bright side is I take everything practically as joke and I don't get involve in wetin no concern me. Out of my joyful exuberance if I decide to touch my wife buttocks or breast she will flare up saying she doesn't like it and me I will kuku ma tell her why can't she pull my jonny so that we can settle score but rather she will prefer to nag. Sometimes my wife gives me some unrealistic demand rather than than get annoyed with her, I just laugh if off and move on by telling myself when she is serious she will tone down her demand. A few days ago I discovered there was vacuum in our matrimony she needs to fill and it was really affecting me badly so I decides to man up and had a straight face conversation and I pointed out the flaws to her and let her understand the intending implication of the gap. She too in her defence accepted her shortcomings while also pointing out my own shortcomings at the end of the day. At the end of the day we both resolve how we will overcome these shortcomings while also looking out for each other. What I am really trying to tell you here is that you need to have a straight face conversation with her even let her understand the dire implication of her action, if she is denies you sex inform her there are others who will offer you free. if she doesn't lend you money, pls don't stop buying her things when you are financially buoyant but when she is broke and she is in need of financial assistance deny her and let her know why you her denying her. Tell her karma is a bitch cos it will always come around to Bleep you up. In summary, (1) Communicate her shortcomings to her and let her respond to it (2) Serve her own attitudinal delicacy if she refuse to change (3) Lastly, if she fails to assist you when you are down, get yourself up, move on and smile at yourself because life is too short. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Samfloxin(m): 11:08pm On May 18, 2020 |
Akube1z:sorry |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by verifiedlegacy: 11:08pm On May 18, 2020 |
Ningen: so in the absence of that. he should go and die.. u all talk as if hustling means sure money. haven't u seen people who hustle yet broke and poor.. pls op talk things with ur wife 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Seventy7kings: 11:08pm On May 18, 2020 |
Graysons:GrammarNazi1 doesn't go around bashing people. He only corrects mistakes. |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Nobody: 11:10pm On May 18, 2020 |
The truth is, you only get to know the real character of your partner after wedding. The true characters are not manifested during courtship or dating, even when they manifest, the love you profess wouldn't let you see and act rightly. This goes down to the basic things to look out for during courtship or dating. As for your case, be patient and communicate with her. I still work on how best to communicate with my wife of seven years. |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by obyno55(m): 11:12pm On May 18, 2020 |
You went to school Davash222: |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Thegoodone13(m): 11:15pm On May 18, 2020 |
We are many. |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by osazsky(m): 11:16pm On May 18, 2020 |
delkuf:she Is pregnant .u want to kill d baby maybe it's on doc advise...u dat is abled and not pregnant how can u still be asking her for money..psychologically she is not ok.and now u day add ur own. Buy her gifts everyday pet her provide her with all her needs and let's see how it goes but concentrate on yourself first go and work sex is overrated |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by kabillionaire(m): 11:17pm On May 18, 2020 |
marry her a rival, let the competition begin... |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Mcslize: 11:20pm On May 18, 2020 |
Bola146: Bola, hope you won't be like that to your husband. "My husband money is my money but my money is not my husband money". Women! |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by verycheese: 11:20pm On May 18, 2020 |
Why so wise sir? Your mother succeeded on you. Good advice. thorpido: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Maliqcious: 11:23pm On May 18, 2020 |
She's pregnant multiple mood swings in between act the man You are... women never fit in the crown. She maybe testing. |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by verycheese: 11:23pm On May 18, 2020 |
Simple as ABC. Grow up OP. Asking your pregnant wife for money every now and then as if you are her son. And instead of you to think, you want to blackmail her into sponsoring you and like a sulky child, you want out of your marriage cos your wife isn't giving you money. Go and find work, ole Ningen: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by ngwababe(f): 11:23pm On May 18, 2020 |
This marriage sef, me wey like to stay alone pass anything. |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Tribalism123(m): 11:24pm On May 18, 2020 |
Park well Some marriage got divorced same day so yours has lasted long. Divorce her and be masturbating 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Mcslize: 11:24pm On May 18, 2020 |
delkuf: The question that is bugging my mind and every other person's mind now is was that how she behaved when you were courting her? Did she show any sign of uncaring attitude during your Courtship with her? What's your answer to those questions? |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by osazsky(m): 11:25pm On May 18, 2020 |
kabillionaire:person never fit manage one u say make e manage two Kia our forefathers try o only those that came from polygamous family can relate...u be telling ur friend that mean I live in hell where is hell...my house 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by verycheese: 11:28pm On May 18, 2020 |
Sannu oga! Sweet story, so you are all good and she's the only one with issues? Have you considered that her pregnancy may be causing her aversion to sex, ever heard of pregnancy hormones?? You better step up and be serious with your roles as a provider and partner, respect is earned. You will have enough sex with your wife, you Ll be amazed... Find work first before your baby comes, stop bn so negative and look inwards, how can you be a better husband and man?? delkuf: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by uuzba(m): 11:30pm On May 18, 2020 |
kanmi4gold:All these issues could have bee discussed in a proper marriage course. But you people won't do marriage course before marriage. Just carry somebody from express road and marry. Now see it. Be sincere with yourselves before marriage. Open your mouth and talk. Don't be too desperate before marriage pray more Because how a person is, is how they will remain. Guy is even begging his wife for money again. So he's really messing up. The women would start to draw graph for you. You're complaining of timetable. 1 Like
|
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Thegoodone13(m): 11:30pm On May 18, 2020 |
You can't know woman. They always pretending during courtship. 60% of them don't like sex and this always cause problems in the family. Money, sex and unfaithful are the major problems of marriage. |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Thegoodone13(m): 11:32pm On May 18, 2020 |
ngwababe:. One spotted |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Foodforthought: 11:32pm On May 18, 2020 |
sweettease:You're obviously biased. |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by Nobody: 11:33pm On May 18, 2020 |
Davash222:This guy is always blunt! |
Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by mkoabiola: 11:33pm On May 18, 2020 |
Always asking for small money every tym. Y she ni go stiff. 1 Like |
(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) ... (20) (Reply)
The Day I Almost Died After Checking My Girlfriend's Phone / How I Fuc,k Mama Nkechi Oversized Puss¥, Sex Story (adults Only) / Uju Obianujueo: "My Big Boobs Bring Joy And Pain" (Photos)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 50 |