sweettease:
Is that how people quit marriages? Something tells me you're the one with a problem in the marriage

You’re a woman. Not surprised by your comment.

delkuf:
This is not the issue of Manning up, you don't know what I am experiencing. she gives me time table for sex. is not like I am demanding. the last time I slept with is over three weeks ago. I have talked with her. Her younger sister have talked with her, she is to adamant.

How can your wife be giving you timetable of when to fúck her and when not to?

And the marriage is still very young?

delkuf:
This is not the issue of Manning up, you don't know what I am experiencing. she gives me time table for sex. is not like I am demanding. the last time I slept with is over three weeks ago. I have talked with her. Her younger sister have talked with her, she is to adamant.

Why did u marry her

Davash222:
Treat her the way she treats you! Don't be crossing express for someone that can't cross a gutter for you.

Bro, make sure no financial jist join two of you, make sure you provide basic things that you are capable of providing, don't kill yourself for someone because another man will continue where you stop, if sleeping at home is not interesting get cash and lodge sometimes to give yourself good sleep, take vacations and make yourself happy.

dairykidd:


Why did u marry her

Good question, delkuf why did you marry her? is she from a wealthy home?

delkuf:
guy, I don't have issue with you. Stop putting your stupidity online

oh the irony lol.

WorWorBoy:
Good question, delkuf why did you marry her? is she from a wealthy home?

I didn't marry her because of money. she is not from a wealthy family. The issue is not of money, the issue is she is not caring. Didn't you read that part where I said I am down with fever now for three days, it was some friends I sent to get drugs for me. The only thing she had ask me is how is your body. please you guys should read through. if you are not giving her money, then she is not doing anything.

Asebaba1:

Bro, make sure no financial jist join two of you, make sure you provide basic things that you are capable of providing, don't kill yourself for someone because another man will continue where you stop, if sleeping at home is not interesting get cash and lodge sometimes to give yourself good sleep, take vacations and make yourself happy.

thank bro. I go the extra mile for her, but she can't do little things for me. I will just provide the basic things. I don't hide money

Asebaba1:

Bro, make sure no financial jist join two of you, make sure you provide basic things that you are capable of providing, don't kill yourself for someone because another man will continue where you stop, if sleeping at home is not interesting get cash and lodge sometimes to give yourself good sleep, take vacations and make yourself happy.

thank bro. I go the extra mile for her, but she can't do little things for me. I will just provide the basic things. I don't hide money from her. If am with 100k, she knows. but now, things will be a whole lot different

Graysons:
oh the irony lol.

guy you have issue. go for check up

sweettease:
Is that how people quit marriages? Something tells me you're the one with a problem in the marriage

yeah.....stewwwpeed reason

My advice is do not take advise from unmarried people.

delkuf:
Though on and off we dated for one year, but I never knew she is like this

Carry ur cross

Its 2 late 2 quit d marriage at d moment. Since she's pregnant, use dis opportunity to try n reason tins wit her

Bro, things like these usually happens in marriages. Try to adjust and live with it. Make sure you are always happy and try as much as you can never to ask her for anything you'd be fine.

delkuf:
Guy I don't ask her for money. But there are I got broke, and I want to go do something that will bring money, just maybe transport fare to that place and may money to do something that will bring bigger money, she will bluntly refuse

U no even get common transport fare? Geez. Your wife dey try.

She is disappointed at you for something. You need to find out what it is. Also, do not fail to factor in pregnancy hormones on the sex issue, except this started way before that. But it's too early to quit. Marriage no be beans, you have to work at it. Give it all you have got before deciding to throw in the towel.

AfroKnight:

I have edited my previous comment.

I will tell you one truth. It is better to borrow/collect from your friend (your guy) than from your wife even if it’s for small expenses.

Also, don’t accept that nonsense timetable for sex. Women can be illogical all day but when it comes to enjoyment of sex they’d rather get “rational” and set up impractical timetables. They will deny themselves the pleasure in the bid to deny you. Don’t accept that nonsense.

Sex should not be used as a weapon for manipulation.

That your second paragraph eh!! So I can't ask my wife for help when in need!!! Your assertion doesn't sit well with me. It depends on the type of woman you married though.

GoldenJAT:
That your second paragraph eh!! So I can't ask my wife for help when in need!!! Your assertion doesn't sit well with me. It depends on the type of woman you married though.

Different strokes for different folks

Genset:



U no even get common transport fare? Geez. Your wife dey try.

are you married

Single guys, Hustle oooo

Money answers all things make ur wife no give u time table..... If u like no listen.... Love wont feed u

thorpido:
You dated her enough to know her response to matters or were you two just fvckin?
Na now you wan bend person wey stiff?

You're thinking of quitting the marriage without working at it so your child will suffer?You've got to man up.
People may hardly change when they are grown.You need to talk to your wife from time to time and make her see reasons to compromise sometimes.
The best way to encourage someone to give is by showing examples of giving too.Make sure you do this to your wife often - time,attention,help with house chores and money.

What you should have asked is "how is he trying to resolve this issue?''
Have OP tried having this discussion with his wife?
Have OP ever tried initiating sex with his wife while they were dating? If yes, then she scammed him because certainly, he would have had $ex numerous times without any timetable.

GoldenJAT:
That your second paragraph eh!! So I can't ask my wife for help when in need!!! Your assertion doesn't sit well with me. It depends on the type of woman you married though.

na wa ooo. but I fit dey give am about. now na just food stuff, baby things and nothing else

Genset:



U no even get common transport fare? Geez. Your wife dey try.

Guy, God has blessed me. sincerely am living a good life. I have most of the things I need. am taking good care of her. what I can't stand about her is this, if

Genset:



U no even get common transport fare? Geez. Your wife dey try.

Guy, God has blessed me. sincerely am living a good life. I have most of the things I need. am taking good care of her. what I can't stand about her is this, if I give you 200k for example and I need just 1000 from you, and even though you don't have, there is a way you go about it, but she will just bluntly refuse. I hate such behavior. this is just an example

Ningen:
Her attitude is because you're obviously broke.

Go out and hustle.
Stop asking your pregnant wife for money.

Be her provider and she'll become FLEXIBLE.

delkuf:
Though on and off we dated for one year, but I never knew she is like this

And you rushed to marry her.

AfroKnight:

I have edited my previous comment.

I will tell you one truth. It is better to borrow/collect from your friend (your guy) than from your wife even if it’s for small expenses.

Also, don’t accept that nonsense timetable for sex. Women can be illogical all day but when it comes to enjoyment of sex they’d rather get “rational” and set up impractical timetables. They will deny themselves the pleasure in the bid to deny you. Don’t accept that nonsense.

Sex should not be used as a weapon for manipulation.

If your first paragraph is how you see marriage, then it's warped. No offense sir.
If you or your wife can't cover your unclothedness in times of lack then it's a very useless relationship.

Am I even surprised, Guys that marry superficial girs leaving character and then come here to disturb us with a new account everyday.

Try to explore the fun side of your wife and see her stiffness gone. Maybe your kiss is sloppy, the sex boring , the finance discouraging or she feels dissatisfied with her life or even the preggy.
stop talking and get the job done.

when someone says relationships aren't all about sex, some confused people starts shouting. now look at the result

the time of dating is for interview not intercourse.you were probably doing oblorblo with her while ignoring her traits

Na see finish cos Am.

Guy marriage is not a do or die affair

Send her parking to her fathers house to learn how to be a good wife....

WHILE SHE IS AWAY FLIRT AROUND AND LET IT BE OBVIOUS, WHEN I SAY FLIRT NO GO FALL INLOVE WITH ANOTHER WOMAN OOH

while she is at her father's house let her know you can do without her, and you only come to visit her because of your child

When she finally get back to the house, her brain go don reset.....


If you didnt offend her she has no right to keep sex from you, only on the case you wronged her, and if you force sex on her by this it is considered pure rape,