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Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by ModsStopBanning: 9:05am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Women are hypergamous in nature, that is, they desire a partner with a higher status than themselves. So, When a woman has an OLOSHO-ic past, with numerous body count, and turned a saint because the hoe phase is over, seeks for a serious relationship or maybe marriage, then you get to know her, forgives her of her past and get serious with her, you just succeeded in displaying your worthlessness. Women can only go after nice guys when the hoe phase is over because only Nice guys can forgive them. But regardless of their desperation to be wifed, they are not sexually attracted to, or even respect the "Nice guy" although she may seem to do otherwise. They desire a better partner because of their hypergamous nature, so a "Nice guy" that forgives them come across as; -Weak -Lacks self esteem -Lacks confidence -Desperate -Is willing to settle for less -Has no other option -undesirable by other girls -below their status -Does not deserve better. So settling with a former Olosho and forgiving them does seem to be a display of strength to the "Nice guy" and SIMPs alike, but to the Olosho, her friends and families, he's a weak and undesirable man. 15 Likes
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Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by Prayfortheworld: 9:11am On Dec 16, 2020 |
You can take someone out of the ghetto but you can't take the ghetto out of the person 16 Likes |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by ModsStopBanning: 9:14am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Prayfortheworld:Smartest thing I've read this hour 7 Likes |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by khingTony(m): 9:15am On Dec 16, 2020 |
True AsF Peace 2 Likes |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by thatsleepboy1: 9:36am On Dec 16, 2020 |
The truth 6 Likes
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Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by ModsStopBanning: 10:05am On Dec 16, 2020 |
thatsleepboy1:It must be made known 1 Like |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by tobechi74: 10:23am On Dec 16, 2020 |
By watching ladies make their choice. We can attempt to answer the question. Out of about ten ladies I personally know of who proposed to their partner, nine of them had partners who are Non-Alpha. While I admit that ten is too small a number to be used in any study, it is a starting point. I have observed a shift in the taste of a lady. Ladies no longer crave for Alpha guys as most literature suggest. When asked to choose a potential life partner, they tend to shy away from the powerful, dominant, muscular physique guy. Could there be any reason for this https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/06/do-ladies-slut-shame-each-other-more/ |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by cooooooks(m): 10:50am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Meet someone with whom there is mutual love, respect and attraction. Don't leave someone that is perfect with you for someone you can barely laugh with in the name of "I must not 'forgive' her past" 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by Ladikwa(m): 11:50pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
Preach brother preach, the truth shall set us free amen. |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by Nobody: 11:53pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
Knowing too much about her dirty past could hunt feelings |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by FreeSpirited: 11:55pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
That's why they end up disrespecting the nice guy, cheat on him easily, and probably give him bastard to raise 11 Likes |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by nurain150(m): 1:09am On Dec 17, 2020 |
ModsStopBanning:Redpillers 1 Like |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by ibkonekt(m): 1:21am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Facts |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by lyfe(m): 4:31am On Dec 17, 2020 |
FreeSpirited: Facts! |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by Nobody: 4:44am On Dec 17, 2020 |
My hands are too dirty to point finger at another. maybe only a saint can judge 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by alphaNomega: 5:21am On Dec 17, 2020 |
ModsStopBanning gaddmit you're right |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by CuteMike01(m): 5:44am On Dec 17, 2020 |
tobechi74:
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Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by ojuu4u(m): 5:50am On Dec 17, 2020 |
A decent guy can never, ever have peaceful relationship or marriage with a street girl, she has unshakable orientation for drinking, clubbing, partying, not minding body counts No amount of caring, advice, money giving to her can changing her mentality, spirit on the street will surely pull her out from wherever you hide her. 2 Likes |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by falcon01: 6:12am On Dec 17, 2020 |
So basically never ever settle for less, you as a guy deserve em young and fresh 18 to 23, you deserve them in their prime. If they only want you after they've been dicked one too many times then they ain't yours, you deserve better. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by grim33(m): 6:32am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Mgtow guys mgtow 1 Like |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by Greystone: 12:49pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Prayfortheworld: True AF
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Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by ModsStopBanning: 3:37pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
cooooooks:If a hoe is the " perfect " person for you, then you should work on your self esteem There! I said it |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by Nobody: 10:26pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
pcguru1:what do you mean by this |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by Nobody: 6:10am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Zzor: If you can't understand this Statement then I can't help you. It requires some IQ 1 Like |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by Nobody: 7:32am On Dec 20, 2020 |
pcguru1:I know but i hate assumptions and you might end up saying that's not what you meant, you are a promiscuous man ain't you? |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by Nobody: 7:51am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Zzor: Maybe you're not as smart as I thought |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by Nobody: 7:55am On Dec 20, 2020 |
pcguru1:Yen yen yen, wareva |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by DoubleEngine007: 8:22am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Let the good news spread.. No space for hoes.. And some people are still paying bride prize for non-virgins.. This is scam,and must be discouraged. If you can't be decent, you don't deserve the prize... You say wetin?
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Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by mosdii(m): 8:25am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them |
Re: Forgetting Her Past Is Not Strength But Weakness [PICS] by Nobody: 8:52am On Dec 20, 2020 |
I only forgive when I want to retest the kpekus. after that na to ghost u straight up.. audio forgiveness.. |
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