I won't be saying much about your brother and his wife making use of your room while you were away. They might be sending you a message, or they ain't aware you might be returning that soon.

One thing is, if you have the capacity, get an apartment and try leaving your brother's place. I imagine you saying you don't like her, hit the point, you hate her; and that ain't healthy for your soul.

Even if she doesn't respect you, learn to ignore whatever will poison your heart. When you ignore it, they will have no impact on you no matter what they bring along. You'd have that inner peace.

But one thing I'll advise you on is, to be a priest as you said, you will have to put up with many things. I am way older than you and I am also a virgin but I won't go into details on why I am still a virgin.

If you tend to find people disgusting to you, you still have a lot of work to do on your person. I'll be frank, being a priest even isn't what you need now, but being a workman for the LORD in His vineyard.

I still have a lot to say, but I'll pause here….

ceeceeuwa:

If this is not made up by you, then I think it is just hatred for your brother's wife! You could simply tell her you would like to change the one in your room. That will simply drive home your point. Most house wives have a spare bedsheets to spare in case the one in use needs to be washed. If you feel disgusted to wash it yourself, you can load it in the washing machine if you have one. Be calming down okay!!

I have a spare bedsheet here which I usually wash and keep, about a week ago she collected the washed one, okay, last week I washed this one, twice, she knows that I'm a neat freak, I wash my bedsheet at least twice a week, but now she took the spare one, my brother gave me money to buy another set of bedsheet and two pillow, she had her own pillows but at one time she took one of my pillows, I did not complain then she took the second one, no complaints, last week she took the spare bedsheet, today she made out in my room and left the room scattered and did nothing it, my brother had warned her to stop attacking me, I'm a really quite person, I don't complain but this is not cool at all

Kayberg:
I won't be saying much about your brother and his wife making use of your room while you were away. They might be sending you a message, or they ain't aware you might be returning that soon.

One thing is, if you have the capacity, get an apartment and try leaving your brother's place. I imagine you saying you don't like her, hit the point, you hate her; and that ain't healthy for your soul.

Even if she doesn't respect you, learn to ignore whatever will poison your heart. When you ignore it, they will have no impact on you no matter what they bring along. You'd have that inner peace.

But one thing I'll advise you on is, to be a priest as you said, you will have to put up with many things. I am way older than you and I am also a virgin but I won't go into details on why I am still a virgin.

If you tend to find people disgusting to you, you still have a lot of work to do on your person. I'll be frank, being a priest even isn't what you need now, but being a workman for the LORD in His vineyard.

I still have a lot to say, but I'll pause here….

Now you had spoken like someone who understands a bit of my plights, I don't hate her despite that she had shown me lots of hate attitude, and body languages that shows shes the boss, I don't complain, my brother had warned her several times to stay out of attacking me, but this particular situation is non of that, my brother is equally a culprit here, and if care is not taken my elder brother may have to wash this sheet or pay for a hotel room for me tonight, but I have decided to work overnight, tomorrow I will sort out everything, you didn't see me complain about petty things like food or trying to show some hateful attitude towards me, this is a different issue.

And if I raise this issue, my brother will not waste time before he washes the bedsheet or take it to the dry cleaners but some things are even shameful that two grown adults will not know the right thing to do.

I said she disgusts me, I never said I hate her despite the way she treats me, i see those as things my mum and every family members had said I should have patients that it a matter of time but this is a different situation. It is disgusting to me.

Gang90:

Now you had spoken like someone who understands a bit of my plights, I don't hate her despite that she had shown me lots of hate attitude, and body languages that shows shes the boss, I don't complain, my brother had warned her several times to stay out of attacking me, but this particular situation is non of that, my brother is equally a culprit here, and if care is not taken my elder brother may have to wash this sheet or pay for a hotel room for me tonight, but I have decided to work overnight, tomorrow I will sort out everything, you didn't see me complain about petty things like food or trying to show some hateful attitude towards me, this is a different issue.

And if I raise this issue, my brother will not waste time before he washes the bedsheet or take it to the dry cleaners but some things are even shameful that two grown adults will not know the right thing to do.

I said she disgusts me, I never said I hate her despite the way she treats me, i see those as things my mum and every family members had said I should have patients that it a matter of time but this is a different situation. It is disgusting to me.

I understand your situation very well, even with the little I've read from your comments, but I won't want to talk about it.
But what I'll still advise is, once you have the capacity, try moving out of your brother's place. Then, you'd have your privacy.

Good luck bro.

Gang90:


I have a spare bedsheet here which I usually wash and keep, about a week ago she collected the washed one, okay, last week I washed this one, twice, she knows that I'm a neat freak, I wash my bedsheet at least twice a week, but now she took the spare one, my brother gave me money to buy another set of bedsheet and two pillow, she had her own pillows but at one time she took one of my pillows, I did not complain then she took the second one, no complaints, last week she took the spare bedsheet, today she made out in my room and left the room scattered and did nothing it, my brother had warned her to stop attacking me, I'm a really quite person, I don't complain but this is not cool at all

Una matter tire me! Improvise with a cover cloth and spread it on the bed. Shikena!

Kayberg:


I understand your situation very well, even with the little I've read from your comments, but I won't want to talk about it.
But what I'll still advise is, once you have the capacity, try moving out of your brother's place. Then, you'd have your privacy.

Good luck bro.

It is just that I get attached to my environment and I'm the last born and almost the major cord of unity in my house, if I move out of my brothers house rashly it may affect him, cause it not even so simple, it takes a lot of strength for me to be here, I was supposed to move out of the country so that's why the whole apartment stuff not making sense right away, even my sisters living in other states had been begging me to come but I get attached to my family house and here.

Gang90:

It is just that I get attached to my environment and I'm the last born and almost the major cord of unity in my house, if I move out of my brothers house rashly it may affect him, cause it not even so simple, it takes a lot of strength for me to be here, I was supposed to move out of the country so that's why the whole apartment stuff not making sense right away, even my sisters living in other states had been begging me to come but I get attached to my family house and here.

My dear brother, well, I know soon enough, you will come to realize you're all alone in this world, and that those you think really love you are not that much of their displayed affection towards you.

I know what I am saying….saying this out of experience.

Gang90:
So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

take it to a dry cleaner. You live with them stop carrying shoulder. Your mates work in a hotel where they wash sperm stained sheets and take out used condom all the time. It's sex not murder. Go rent your own house and stop doing as if your brother and his wife are smelling

Oga, go and rent your own house. You're here ranting yen yen yen cos about couples that could make use of any room in their house. If u don't like it, pack out! What I sense again is: it's not just about the sheet, you don't like your brother's wife. And who says she must be the one to wash the sheet? take your balls somewhere let a Dame suck it for u and feel good. Stop hating on the young woman.. quote author=Gang90 post=99062116]So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.[/quote]

elmagnifico411:
Oga, go and rent your own house. You're here ranting yen yen yen cos about couples that could make use of any room in their house. If u don't like it, pack out! What I sense again is: it's not just about the sheet, you don't like your brother's wife. And who says she must be the one to wash the sheet? take your balls somewhere let a Dame suck it for u and feel good. Stop hating on the young woman.. quote author=Gang90 post=99062116]So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

I have made up my mind and from tomorrow, you will understand that I'm not a refugee or a helpless person, I made my decision not becuase of the rash reviews I'm getting here from sorry excuse of so called men and women who don't understand the moral and spiritual implications of sex, if people chose to work in a hotel those people are not me, whether their secretions taste like honey and vanilla is non of my business, but I have said what I have said personally I can't take that, if you like go and build a sex house for couples that's your business as for me, I said these things disgusts me and the only thing stopping me from doing what I got to is few hours to tomorrow.

I know what to do, there are limits to the things I can take and when you look at it closely the one mostly in need of help may not be the one you presume, hopefully I will update you

Gang90:

I'm an adult Male, and woman of menstrual age do not even enter all places in my culture talk more of sex in my room and not remove the signs, if it angers my faith you will understand, you will see my uplift and you will realise that someone is deeply hurt

Don't hide under culture or religion. You don't like the lady or perhaps women as u seem to sound.

Go rent Ur own apartment. Give access and rules the way that pleases u

Walkee:
take it to a dry cleaner. You live with them stop carrying shoulder. Your mates work in a hotel where they wash sperm stained sheets and take out used condom all the time. It's sex not murder. Go rent your own house and stop doing as if your brother and his wife are smelling

My mates not me, your mates also works as astronauts, why are you typing on nairaland with a phone with broken screen, look, what you don't get is that my stay in my brothers house is mutually beneficial, cause after sex tomorrow they should also get ready to go downstairs and draw water up from over 20 feet water well, cause it is dry season and the pumping machine can no longer work effectively, and me I even need rest, so he wash his car or take it to the car wash, I guess the charge #700 now, I wash two cars every week that's about #1400, do you think if I worked in a car wash from my family house that I can't feed myself not minding that my mum is too happy to feed me.

Since she can't wash her after sex bedsheet, not only will she wash it but she will draw water from a well over 20 feet and my brother, well, he can afford at least #1400 in the car wash every week but he's got sit there and watch it being washed that's what you get when you take some people for granted, at 26, what else do I really need from people that I can't get on my own with the help of God.

Look, I also help with school runs sometimes I guess now either of them might have to stay home more or hirer a maid or get a house help. Case closed.

tonyson010:


Don't hide under culture or religion. You don't like the lady or perhaps women as u seem to sound.

Go rent Ur own apartment. Give access and rules the way that pleases u

I like women, I have a girlfriend, I just don't like people not taking responsibility and the more you do it, the more you look like your actions to me.

It seems you don't know you are discomforting them?..they are trying to be freaky you dey bring your bad Belle inside..
You said you will go and sleep in the parlour who told you they didn't start the action in the parlour before moving to your room, I am sure you are thinking of the kitchen right now...who told you they haven't done it on the kitchen counter?
You shouldn't use their spoon again also because they could have given each other head and used the spoon...
You dey person house you wan create your own rule

Gang90:


My mates not me, your mates also works as astronauts, why are you typing on nairaland with a phone with broken screen, look, what you don't get is that my stay in my brothers house is mutually beneficial, cause after sex tomorrow they should also get ready to go downstairs and draw water up from over 20 feet water well, cause it is dry season and the pumping machine can no longer work effectively, and me I even need rest, so he wash his car or take it to the car wash, I guess the charge #700 now, I wash two cars every week that's about #1400, do you think if I worked in a car wash from my family house that I can't feed myself not minding that my mum is too happy to feed me.

Since she can't wash her after sex bedsheet, not only will she wash it but she will draw water from a well over 20 feet and my brother, well, he can afford at least #1400 in the car wash every week but he's got sit there and watch it being washed that's what you get when you take some people for granted, at 26, what else do I really need from people that I can't get on my own with the help of God.

Look, I also help with school runs sometimes I guess now either of them might have to stay home more or hirer a maid or get a house help. Case closed.

Then,leave them with their issues that require the services of a maid or a house help.
Find your own apartment/house!

rooftops:
It seems you don't know you are discomforting them?..they are trying to be freaky you dey bring your bad Belle inside..
You said you will go and sleep in the parlour who told you they didn't start the action in the parlour before moving to your room, I am sure you are thinking of the kitchen right now...who told you they haven't done it on the kitchen counter?
You shouldn't use their spoon again also because they could have given each other head and used the spoon...
You dey person house you wan create your own rule

I said I will stay up and work through the night then tomorrow, I can sleep a bit in the parlour cause I said I will not touch that sheet until after 24 hours, I had brought my work chair from my chair stack and I know what I'm saying, tomorrow, I might take the bedsheet to the cleaner or wash it with hot water, that's me but I have other reasons to take a little movement, 1. The well is almost dry and the pumping machine no longer works effectively, I wash two cars at least once a week, I help with the school runs or staying with the kids if they are going out, but now that it clear they have no regards whatsoever, I'm going to take a little break until at least work is less, let me see how the wife will not wash the sheet herself this time, she will draw water from over 20 feet underground and my brother might wash his cars himself or go to the car wash and myself will be more than happy to work from home even if it in a car wash, if I wash two cars a week it will be #1400 a week it not a bad start if it even the only option

HellVictorinho:


Then,leave them with their issues that require the services of a maid or a house help.
Find your own apartment/house!

I will update you any time soon, I will just spend more time in my family house, lol. What you don't get is that 26 not 16 able bodied and easy going with potential, if i set out, it won't be long and I'm okay lol, but for those who have no or little regards it won't be funny

This young man is definitely an idiot. People like him end up simps. Disregard the fake show of manliness he's trying to put up. Let nobody waste time replying him.

This is somehow funny but I see you're serious about it.

Just get yourself an apartment if you can afford it and move on. Period.

vincentjk:
This is somehow funny but I see you're serious about it.

Just get yourself an apartment if you can afford it and move on. Period.

I will start with a little space from tomorrow, and at the end they get to wash the sheet and more, and I get be free and pursue my destiny, shelter and food is not enough for an able bodied with some packs of talent and alternatives to be treated with contempt,

tasalanoni:
This young man is definitely an idiot. People like him end up simps. Disregard the fake show of manliness he's trying to put up. Let nobody waste time replying him.

A simp is actually the one who advises everyone not to waste time replying but did so with a reply lol

Why would I leave my own room to go and have sex in my brother's room even if the house is mine? And then leave the room untidy?

Guy, they want you out of that house and the earlier you leave the better.
But tonight, just spread a cloth on the floor or turn the mattress over to the other end. People having sex on my bed disgusts me too.

Aderr:
Why would I leave my own room to go and have sex in my brother's room even if the house is mine? And then leave the room untidy?

Guy, they want you out of that house and the earlier you leave the better.
But tonight, just spread a cloth on the floor or turn the mattress over to the other end. People having sex on my bed disgusts me too.

I can even try to understand that since I had not been around if they decide to have sex anywhere the urge cought up with them it understandable but after, what they especially the woman ought to do is to wash the bedsheet knowing that another adult Male will be in the room.

I brought out my rapper my mum gave me, washed it around 4:30 now it dried but the bedsheet is even thicker, even if I decide to spread my rapper at one side, I'm a careless sleeper and I know I could turn ro still get to the other side.

I could be overreacting but sex in reality had never been something quite clean, I get think of gross things like bacterial through the night, people are different, I might go back to my family house for some times.

Gang90:
So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

am. sorry to say u are grown but not mature

My guy’s bro had sex with his babe in his room and they left poop smeared on the sheets


I wan laugh die

stupidmod5:
am. sorry to say u are grown but not mature

Okay, thanks for the kind statement

Aderr:
Why would I leave my own room to go and have sex in my brother's room even if the house is mine? And then leave the room untidy?

Guy, they want you out of that house and the earlier you leave the better.
But tonight, just spread a cloth on the floor or turn the mattress over to the other end. People having sex on my bed disgusts me too.

when u are married u will even have sex in d kitchen

PAWG:
My guy’s bro had sex with his babe in his room and they left poop smeared on the sheets


I wan laugh die

Lol, if it were me, I will burn such bed right after disgusting, lol, poop kwa, say you be my brother no reach that side ooo, let everyone carry their evil spirit, the one I'm carrying dey enough

Bro you are self absorbed.
You are disgusted by your host, who is likely bearing your living cost. That it's your brother does not make it a right.

If you are too big or righteous to wash the sheets, then go out and buy another sheet to use or are you also broke?

As a young man who wants to succeed in life, never expect people to live up to your expectations. In fact never have an expectation, always bridge thegaps in front of you at least till you pass your points of need.

stupidmod5:
when u are married u will even have sex in d kitchen

Did I say they shouldn't have sex, I only said they especially the woman should have washed the bedsheet early enough, kind of some non mature act, you know how to have sex but don't know how to keep tidy

Gang90:

Did I say they shouldn't have sex, I only said rgey especially the woman should have washed the bedsheet early enough, kind of some non mature act, you know how to have sex but don't know how to keep tidy

my point, when u married u will have d nodge to have sex every where, because bed room sex get boring u wont know this cause u are still a virgin.

Gang90:

Lol, if it were me, I will burn such bed right after disgusting, lol, poop kwa, say you be my brother no reach that side ooo, let everyone carry their evil spirit, the one I'm carrying dey enough

The guy trashed it immediately