Badadvisor:

You belong to yaba left young man. You need to be placed on some mental injections before you bite someone.
You need urgent help.

It okay, how you abuse someone you don't know becuase of a situation you don't quite understand the implications to the other person, please go to your sister inlaw and after sex lick up the sheet, please you disgusts me

Gang90:

So there is something nauseating to you, thought everything can go, bro take a chill peal, I had moved out the city but my brother not stopped calling, he knows there is something about this particular move lol, and one more thing, I'm having fun currently, lots to eat and drink and no Niga is going to shag here without washing the sheet

You eyes go soon clear for this world.
All these empty headed big for nothing last borns with one stupid feeling of self importance.
So you think your brother would choose you over his wife and kids? Keep living in your foolishness.
He's only calling you because you were placed under his care and by mistake anything happens to you he'd be held responsible.
But because of your stupid false sense of self importance. You feel you're important

You need urgent help because you're a mental patient

Badadvisor:

You eyes go soon clear for this world.
All these empty headed big for nothing last borns with one stupid feeling of self importance.
So you think your brother would choose you over his wife and kids? Keep living in your foolishness.
He's only calling you because you were placed under his care and by mistake anything happens to you he'd be held responsible.
But because of your stupidly false sense of self importance. You feel you're important

You need urgent help because you're a mental patient

This got nothing to do with choosing me between his wife and kids, remember, someday I will have my own wife and kids, nobody has a monopoly of wife's and kids, but anyway I'm important oo, very very important lol, self love, so now that you had seen that I matter maybe you should find the closest restaurant, eat very well, drink also then kill yourself, don't die hungry for someone you don't know.

You think I'm some lazy ass last born, lol it will shock you how things will turn around, those who knows knows, I'm an asset not a liability.

dohyn:
I read the first page and jumped to the last page now,17.

My humble opinion, this OP is just a fool

He has some deep seated issues with his sister-in-law and that is the crux of the matter. Leave the house and rent your place if you hate her so much. She's your brother's wife, not girlfriend.

Na him type dem wash toto water inside food wey no go know and go dey chop belleful.

That's without my knowledge and it got nothing on me but the moment I realise, such person's next stop will be hell

RoyalPearl:
Definitely whatever the woman does he will always have a problem with it. My question is why force yourself to be in an environment you hate. After reading his post it's clear he is narcissistic, sexist and tribalistic. He also suffers from delusions of grandeur and OCD with archaic beliefs(imagine saying women of menstrual age are not allowed in some places). People like him should not get married and procreate. The society is already bleeped up as it is. Sad part is one day someone could marry him. Smh

The best part is, a lot of people really wants to marry me,

cybriz82:



O pari niyen I tot aa much ur bro own d bedsheet also that's y fear no catch am to do d do on ur bed...n u can't never challenge them cus they will beat u in n out..

Lol, like beating someone dey hungry this one, lol I won't talk further on that, you in particular why not try to raise your hand at me, I won't talk further

If there was no blood stain, then soak the bedsheet in water with detergent. If it's pure white no colored design on it, you can use hypo to help remove stain. Washing it won't reduce ur personality or remove anything from you. Thanks

WoundedLamb:


Hahaha... my bro, but why are you wicked like this?

Seriously, let's not undermine his plight. Yes, the lady can use the room. But it's only fair that she washes the sheets too. It's just that the guy said no one was expecting him. So it's possible she planned to wash it later. Besides, the guy already has some deep hatred for her so nothing we say can change anything.

But your comment got me laughing.

I came back around 2:40, and left so they can enjoy themselves, she already knows I'm back those moment I stepped out, i spent about an hour coming back at about 3:40 if she wanted, she could wash the bedsheet within those periods, she knew I'm back,

EmekaA125:
If there was no blood stain, then soak the bedsheet in water with detergent. If it's pure white no colored design on it, you can use hypo to help remove stain. Washing it won't reduce ur personality or remove anything from you. Thanks

Me that's already in another city trying to continue my hustle lol, it feels like puke nothing about personality or reduction

RoyalPearl:
Whew just reading the OP's post is very draining. I think you have Obsessive compulsive disorder like someone earlier mentioned. You also don't like your brothers wife(tribalism/bad beef etc) which just makes the matter worse because if it was your sister who did that would you be this upset?

I agree that it was wrong for them to sleep on your bed but you need to get control of yourself and stop whining like a brat. When you stay in someone's house most times there will be clashes but you either control your emotions or move out so you get your own peace of mind.

You say married women are hitting on you and entertaining you. How do they get your number or get access to talk to you? It means you are also entertaining them and enjoying their attention. If you don't want anyone to talk to you or bother you, you know what you need to do.

A lot of people here have said that you sound irrational and immature etc. Sometimes you need to look inwards and take the advice good and bad and try and be a better person. To be honest you sounded crazy talking about goats, evolution and all that ish. Sounds like you have delusions of grandeur and OCD. I think you are also asexual hence the lack of interest and desire in sexual activity. Try and get more control over your emotion and feelings. Don't let emotions control your life. You don't have to love your brothers wife but at least respect that she is his wife and let go of all the pent up anger and frustrations. Life is way to short for all that sh1t. It shall be well.

If it were my sister I will just call her straight to go and wash it, keep talking your shitty OCD, I had told you, they ought to wash it cause now they will still wash it, cause I'm no longer in the house currently miles away. Everyone can be a doctor but not all doctors are rational, you are giving advice, adding all sorts of nonsense I had told you what is the issue whatever you add, make sure it affords you a cup of garri

Lewisdinho:
Bro, stop complaining. You sound very weak in emotions. A grown up guy like you should know that it's proper you have more than one bedsheets should in case one is dirty you make use of the other one, stop nagging please. Just change the bedsheets and use another one. If the other still disgust you, throw it to the trash can or burn it. QED

Kiliwe, you emotions are so strong, did you read the part where I said last week she took the second bedsheet, and I used to have two pillows which she took both and I said nothing but there are limits to things I take

berrystunn:


In your brothers house
You should cook for them to eat after sex
Did you do that ?

I could have done that if that's what they wanted, I love cooking all I said is they should wash the sheet, most importantly the wife becuase she's a stranger to me.

blesoh:

Young man, are you her father?
You lack respect please pack out or wash the beddings

In my place any male can be a father depending on circumstances, If she has no respect for me, and has no respect for my brother should she also have no respect for my fathers, cause I let the issue slide not that I can't register my disgusts with at least my brother but what's the need, I can always make a move

Gang90:

I'm not looking to confront her, I can wash the sheet, but it disgusts me to wash an after sex sheet of a woman that naturally looks disgusting to me, for this I will leave the house soon, but note maybe it feels this way cause I had not really had sex, the fact is that I can't touch that bed sheet, the closest I had come with a woman is kiss here and more mild romance but this us in a whole new level for me to handle, I know what sex looks like when I see one, my mind could be playing an exaggeration scene in my head but it still disgusting, if I can go through this kind of horrible moments it should be at least for my own women not for a woman that has no atom of respect for my person, the issue is not about washing a bedsheet, sometimes ago when I abd my sister used to visit the orphanage I wash the kids clothes including their bedsheet but washing this particular one it totally dirty to me,

seems like you have an attitude problem 8i might be wrong though).... but why and how can you use such derogatory word to describe your brother's wife... she disgust you??... or are you crushing on her and you're angry that someone went down with her on your bed

Gang90:

Who is talking about grown here, I'm talking about tonight, where I'm I going to sleep, washing it is not the problem, I can get a new one tomorrow or get the dry cleaner to come pick it up and wash, I'm talking about today, where should I sleep, i had told you that sex from strange people disgusts me, so it not about pick it up and wash, that bedsheet currently looks like puke to me, or even worse

guy no dey form here you know waiting u have to do abeg go sleep oh

2buffagain:
OP You sound like a phucking diva and I detect hints of the GAE in your speech.
You can wash man's body fluid but not woman because it disgusts you?

Remember your place in that house or GTFO.
It's very simple.

I said I can try if it were my brother, same day I washed my brothers clothes but I don't wash his boxers, you can read every other meaning into it, but that's just about it

YemmyKamor:



seems like you have an attitude problem 8i might be wrong though).... but why and how can you use such derogatory word to describe your brother's wife... she disgust you??... or are you crushing on her and you're angry that someone went down with her on your bed

It really shows how low some people are, the act disgusts me, she disgusts me, even at that point my brother disgusts me, cause how could two grown up not know what right, it simple I left the house, let everyone answer his name abeg

Gang90:

It really shows how low some people are, the act disgusts me, she disgusts me, even at that point my brother disgusts me, cause how could two grown up not know what right, it simple I left the house, let everyone answer his name abeg

You disgust me... same way your bro's wife disgust you.

Gang90:

These things are abominable, but I won't talk much to you of no moral or spiritual consequence, I'm my fathers son and if you can't do it to my father don't do it to me so that you won't invite some consequences, I only said she should have washed the sheet since an adult Male uses the room, but it okay

"Im my father's son" really got me laughing ngl

I'm really sorry this happened to you man. But well we both can't do nothing, so just try and remove the bedsheet and sleep on it like that. It's not the end of the world, it's just one night, just try to bear it.

YemmyKamor:



You disgust me... same way your bro's wife disgust you.

Good, it your God given right to feel disgusted,

Uzi11enzo:
I'm really sorry this happened to you man. But well we both can't do nothing, so just try and remove the bedsheet and sleep on it like that. It's not the end of the world, it's just one night, just try to bear it.

I'm already miles away in another city

What's there to remove the sheets and lay another? If there is none sleep on the floor na! Or better still sleep on the three sitter chair in d sitting room. See why I say just make money?

Gang90:

Good, it your God given right to feel disgusted,

Now I confirmed it, My opinion about you is right,,, you're crushing on your brother's wife...that lad needs to send your sorry little arse packing ASAP inorder to avoid story that touch.

litaninja:
Oshey Houseboy. They'd employ a maid to sort all those out in less than a week. Next??

Then they pay the maid, lol and the made will do all the things, lol like how old would the made be, I guess to be able to do all those at least 18, lol, they should bring the ugliest made in the world that my major plea, you think it is just so easy these days to bring a Made over, anyway that's no longer my business, I had fun eat, and drank today, I still got shelter please I'm already dealing with my life as you adviced they should deal with theirs for the time being

So u even quarrel with your mother?! Na wah for you.I have been reading ur posts and all the complaints u started since 1900. Lie in d floor, Take the sheets to dry cleaners tomorrow, always lock ur doors when going out,find a way and get ur own place.simple.You just hate that woman..takote author=Gang90 post=99073504]

My brother is a nice guy, but It not easy to be the only one they talk about, I'm like this kind of person that does not talk much but really loud, I don't want to bring issues to the family cause to my brother a wife is already a part of him, but to me the wife remains a stranger, my brother after that went out coming back this night, it a merry go round day and currently sleeping.

So how would I say or so, don't you know your wife or you should wash the sheets after doing like, lol that's the most ridiculous thing ever, I got pretend like honestly I don't even know you guys did something like this, I don't have to know that why a mature woman should make the bed and wash the sheets.

I don't tell her to wash my sheets, in fact most times I cook my food I love cooking, at home my mum do help me with washing and my mum is about the only woman I allow to wash my bedsheet, if it were at home my mum could have washed it, like once I quarrel with my mum sef I stop her from washing my football kits which she love doing, to me I don't naturally like just anybody washing my personal effects.

I don't ask her to wash the bedsheet on a good day, I wash my stuff myself I enjoy doing it and watch my fingers look clean but this is different, even in my room in my personal house, they can have sex there they are married, but after that, restore my room to earlier state. That's all I'm asking. And I don't have to tell them becuase somethings are not what you say, we can all send a silent message.[/quote]

Imagine the nonsense entitlement.
1. You are not sure they had sex there - you were not there, they may have been having a private moment together
2. You are 26, squatting, no mind of your own and still childish
3. You are holding grudges of "late father's properties to be shared". Like 26 years old and waiting on father's properties. Properties that rightfully belong to the eldest son in most traditions.
4. You have the audacity to say someone disgusts you. A wife that was simply in her home enjoying her marriage. Something you are incapable of doing (someone used your tracksuit and you trashed it).
5. You have insulted everyone here who has tried to proffer a solution which shows you are completely delusional
6. You are miles away from a house that you do not own but intend to return there after your 'slave' has washed beddings in her house for you to return to.
7. You are very mad.

If e sure for you, write your address for ground make I bring better bulala come whip your baby bumbum till mark show. Cry baby.

You said it all

Badadvisor:

You eyes go soon clear for this world.
All these empty headed big for nothing last borns with one stupid feeling of self importance.
So you think your brother would choose you over his wife and kids? Keep living in your foolishness.
He's only calling you because you were placed under his care and by mistake anything happens to you he'd be held responsible.
But because of your stupid false sense of self importance. You feel you're important

You need urgent help because you're a mental patient

Emeraldgreene:
So u even quarrel with your mother?! Na wah for you.I have been reading ur posts and all the complaints u started since 1900. Lie in d floor, Take the sheets to dry cleaners tomorrow, always lock ur doors when going out,find a way and get ur own place.simple.You just hate that woman..takote author=Gang90 post=99073504]

My brother is a nice guy, but It not easy to be the only one they talk about, I'm like this kind of person that does not talk much but really loud, I don't want to bring issues to the family cause to my brother a wife is already a part of him, but to me the wife remains a stranger, my brother after that went out coming back this night, it a merry go round day and currently sleeping.

So how would I say or so, don't you know your wife or you should wash the sheets after doing like, lol that's the most ridiculous thing ever, I got pretend like honestly I don't even know you guys did something like this, I don't have to know that why a mature woman should make the bed and wash the sheets.

I don't tell her to wash my sheets, in fact most times I cook my food I love cooking, at home my mum do help me with washing and my mum is about the only woman I allow to wash my bedsheet, if it were at home my mum could have washed it, like once I quarrel with my mum sef I stop her from washing my football kits which she love doing, to me I don't naturally like just anybody washing my personal effects.

I don't ask her to wash the bedsheet on a good day, I wash my stuff myself I enjoy doing it and watch my fingers look clean but this is different, even in my room in my personal house, they can have sex there they are married, but after that, restore my room to earlier state. That's all I'm asking. And I don't have to tell them becuase somethings are not what you say, we can all send a silent message.

I quarrel with my mum, last year, I didn't want to go home but I had to go home just to spend sometimes with her but when I decided to go back on December 31st she said i should stay back to spend the new year with the rest of the family, I told her I came back since 25th, and I had been home all the while, other family members came back 29th and you want me to spend more time here when you knew I didn't want to stay back, later my elder brother were asking me why won't I stay back so we can all stay together through new year,I thought it was my mum that told him to also implore I stay back I confronted my mum and asked her so if I say no to you, why would you involve others, she made me understand they did not discuss it, and that if I want to go back it fine, I had to stay back anyway but that's the kind of water I get with her

ElSherriff:
Imagine the nonsense entitlement.
1. You are not sure they had sex there - you were not there, they may have been having a private moment together
2. You are 26, squatting, no mind of your own and still childish
3. You are holding grudges of "late father's properties to be shared". Like 26 years old and waiting on father's properties. Properties that rightfully belong to the eldest son in most traditions.
4. You have the audacity to say someone disgusts you. A wife that was simply in her home enjoying her marriage. Something you are incapable of doing (someone used your tracksuit and you trashed it).
5. You have insulted everyone here who has tried to proffer a solution which shows you are completely delusional
6. You are miles away from a house that you do not own but intend to return there after your 'slave' has washed beddings in her house for you to return to.
7. You are very mad.

If e sure for you, write your address for ground make I bring better bulala come whip your baby bumbum till mark show. Cry baby.

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You are trying to prefer a solution by calling me all sorts of name, I have my reason for being mad at them but what reason do you have for being mad at me, about my fathers properties yes, I'm more than proud to ask for it, cause it is better to stay in my fathers properties than to be treated with disregard and contempt in my brothers house ^[/sup][sup]