Blackmoran:
The law in the western region is anti men,. If I am based there I will avoid anything involving women like a plague...
First of all both adult where in a night club. Obviously drunk...
Both of them did the deed.... But it seems the lady didn't think it through in the first place....
After a couple of minutes she felt bad about it.... So this young man is paying for this lady foolishness.....
Have you watch a movie or romantic novel seeing intimate peopleasking for consent before sex or forwplay... How stupid would that be....
The issue here that people are not talking about is what consistute consent.... How can a a adult with brains feel is ok to have sex with someone and later feel bad about it and call it rape..

simplesearch:
Vivor will most likely do well next time, but Sanwo-Olu seems to have the upper hand for now. Notwithstanding with the new wave of political awakening among the populace, it will be difficult for anyone to win election and sit back doing nothing.

IbeOkehie:


Not true at all. Just Boko Haram, herdsmen and unkown gunmen alone makes your statement a LIE.

DaddyYankee:
USA has more murder and crime cases than Nigeria.

Chidiesta:
Good day nairalanders,

She knows it very well that I am not stable yet in this country , life is hard just because she is taking care of my daughter and she want me to carry the responsibility of her three children.


I am angry my own sister is draining me financially and I have a lot of bills to pay too and a small child to cater for.

Hassanmaye:

Shut up fool

Olayetan:


He doesn't have to do it in an empty room, I've seen where Masquerades turns into python but the turning process was hidden with sacks but was later revealed after he has turned and when he was turning back into human, they hide if again.


Person wey never see jazz, nah hin dey call am vegetable.

whiteroses:
Character is like smoke, you will know by their fruits. If you only have 2 weeks to spend with someone they will show you a fruit. If a woman will give you problem she will form and pretend a lot. You will keep buying her love. The signs will be there. With that being said, Lets narrow the issue down by Marrying African, then marry west African. Ghana, Nigerian it really doesn't matter.
Leave whites out of this except she's someone who loves and knows the African culture really well. They always have mental crisis and not many of their marriages lasts.
Any woman who loves you and is God fearing can be taken anywhere.
Goodluck

Iyaebe:
I consider 36 as a very young age for a man to get married considering the fact that most men in their 20's are nothing to write home about.You are good to go.

Boss13:


Chief. I decided to weigh in here after reading your post and the comments from others.

First, I'm married and have been for a long time so in this regards, I'm very experienced than you. I was also in a long distance relationship with my wife, then my girlfriend. Honestly, she worked for the relationship because I had many ladies on rotation. She worked extremely hard. I read where you said you loved being the boss in your relationship.

First, you cannot be the boss. You are only the man and should dictate how the relationship goes. I also read you make 4x your lady friend. That's good. Now, being the man, you have to make her relocate to where you are. As a doctor, she can get a job in your location and since you earn good, money shouldn't be the problem. If your lady friend says no - then you have a problem on your hands.

Trust me on this, family is everything regardless of your job, career or the money you make. You don't want a woman who doesn't have time for you or the kids. That won't go well and it will result to resentment in the future. If you think your relationship is hard, wait till you get married without fixing these issues. Women love what gives them meaning and it seems your ladyfriend is in love with her job/career and that's not good for a marriage.

Control your relationship now before you create a lifetime of pains in your marriage. Forget the 8 hours of video calls - long distance relationships are not true relationships. I know this from experience. Be the man in your relationship and lead it in the direction you want. Your lady friend should be compromising to you and not the other way around. She should be doing the visiting and not you. You can foot the flight tickets but the commuting should be on her and you have to give her a deadline when she has to relocate to be with you.

I speak from extensive experience. You may choose to ignore or implement it. However, if you do nothing and end up marrying her, you won't be satisfied in your marriage. Trust me on this - marriage is very hard, very very hard.

Finally - there is nothing as a high value woman. High earning, yes. But high value woman - no. All the best.

jawalis:

Leave him. Let him be there fooling himself. Mumu man. He’s even defending the b!tch. A woman who call you by her colleague name. When she’s neither a Director Manager nor a Consultant. I wonder what she’s always doing for been always too busy. And to crown it. The lady is always here on NL commenting on every threads.

sirjamesjnr:
I do not know how to educate fools. A high-value woman has nothing to do with her profession. This is what my girl stand for
1: She Is Emotionally Stable
2: Has A Good Command of The Gramma and Diction
3: She Is Radiates Positivity & Lifts People Up
4: She Is Socially Skilled
5: She Plays Little or no Game
6: She Knows When to Set Boundaries
7: She Is Emotionally Intelligent
8: She Has a Growth Mindset (And Don’t Take Things Personally)
9: The Unapproachable Style
10: Has Vast Knowledge
11: Comes From a Good Family
12: She Is Smart.
If this does not qualify her as high value, what else?

Tejuri:


If she has indeed seen this thread, her respect for you has dropped a little. Smh.

Keep your frame bro, very important, else she’ll start feeling she is too good for you.

jawalis:
All I see in picture is a man with a very low self esteem who bows at the hearing of a female doctor. Trust me, yes You have a low self esteem. I can bet you are one of the people who worship doctors, lawyers and engineers. I’ll advise you work on your self esteem, Work on it and you will realize you are been enslaved. Forget all these high value silliness. It’s just what you think in your mind. I have worked with a female doctor here in Lagos who is social too. All of these blah blah blah about sleeping in 3 different hotels before you could meet her is trash. It’s not as if she work with National hospital or is she the only doctor in the hospital where she works? I read you stated that she had colleagues. So she don’t just value you as you portrayed, you are only trying to comfort yourself by those jargons you wrote up there. Not having time for you and you moving from one place to another just to see the woman whom you claimed took you for her colleague is not an evidence of high value woman. She’ll definitely make time for you if she respects and value you like you did for her. The doctor friend I have got married in 2018. She works with 2 different hospitals and still balance up her social life. All I see in your case is a man who has a low self esteem and got flattened by a doctor. Been a doctor doesn’t make a woman high value, ok? Adesua Etomi is more career oriented and trust me, she made up her time for Banky. We all know Funke Akindele’s family. So wake up and address her or you walk away. We have lots of female doctors on Nigeria, infact; There are hundreds of them out there. There are female barristers, female accountants and engineers who earn decently. So stop the foolishness in your heart and confront her.

YorubaPrince:


There's no need for that. It's just next to the city I reside. I'll conveniently drive to the particular location she works at in Edina, MN and ask to discuss with an ethics and moral professional.

Trust me... I'm really angry and would play my part to get justice for the late innocent hubby.

Tomorrow morning... we move!

Bello1004:


The woman is desperate,wicked, greedy and she is an unmitigated disaster, who any man in his right sense should avoid by all cost.

Aksnoopy:
So the HOE who opened her legs for him on numerous occassion isn't to be blamed, right ?
The HOE who ran away to USA after realising her game was up isn't to be blamed, right?

Are you sure you are even a man, or should we call you FESTACWOMAN?

seanwilliam:
God bless you and yoruba yorubaprince and everyone trying to help out there. Honestly I almost cry reading that news. It pained me so deep as if it was my family member.. hahaha fear woman.. even if the man no die , he would forever be a shower of himself.. God bless you

yahjac:



big ups to anybody trying to bring the bitch down.
I get pained when good people lose/suffer.

thank God for social media exposing this bitch.
I just wonder how many of them have gotten away with this in the past.

RedPanthar:




Nice one bro


We can't allow a strange specie take out one of our own without making them feel the heat. No way




Let's share the petition link on different platforms and get more people to come. On board


We must stop the steal

Tinyemeka:


Done!