1one: Why not just break up the relationship,and go fix urself...honestly i don't know why some of us guys act so funny(trust me I could have used another word in place of "funny"...it's just too early to start with those toxic words).
What is in a relationship that some of us just run into like a brakesless train(watch the movie unstoppable..u'll get a clearer picture).

You're a man,ur first responsibilty,ur first desire,ur first goal in life should not be a woman,it sd be in defining ur self,achieving ur life goals,being financially secure!!!....Before God brought Eve to Adam,Adam had a job(he was tendering the garden).

I don't even know what a man is doing in a relationship without a job,love is not about money,but money gives expression to love,u need money to properly express love

So dude,My advice is simple...tell her u want to let her go considering the fact that u don't have enough financial weight to bear her needs.

If she's yours,she'll stay and temper her lifestyle to suit ur present circumstance atleast till when u're more financially bouyant.

black_beau: Wow,guys are so self-centered.pls if u can't afford to take Care of a girl,then you don't need a girlfriend.for those of you,that are saying that it isn't your duty to take care of your girlfriend,then,I put it to you that it isn't her duty to warm your bed,cook your meals and do your laundry.I'm not saying that its right for a lady to depend totally on her boyfriend neither am I saying you should buy her a jeep when you aren't working but then,you should be able to at least provide some of her needs. @Op,a relationship with a broke guy is very frustrating.I'm speaking from experience.

Beync: If ur girl has been with u those good times and can't just understand and adjust her lifestyle to accommodate ur present situation which is going to improve with time, then u need to free her.

maximum007: Guys chicks eyes dey red well well for Naija. For some time before now I didn't have a constantly paying job and it seemed as if all the chicks I knew easily ran away from me. But recently I just got a job in an oil sericing company and the way this chicks dey come around sef I no fit understand. How them even carry know say I don get job sef I no know.

gmyguy: well, at Op, better get some hardcore porn on ur laptop and some body lotion...its a lot cheaper and the girls in the video will always be happy...and you get your endorphins! and you dnt die early...when its your time, broke or rich, you'll find love

chuquiz:

, you be complete mad man!, dont heed his advice oh.

gmyguy: well, at Op, better get some hardcore porn on ur laptop and some body lotion...its a lot cheaper and the girls in the video will always be happy...and you get your endorphins! and you dnt die early...when its your time, broke or rich, you'll find love

chillaz: I don't see anything wrong in dating a broke man. If for one I date a broke guy, my first aim is to stand by him when he has nothing, motivate and support him, be with him and always assure him you're there. Don't get fed up of his lifestyle as no condition is permanent and lastly, refuse to take any bad and misleading advise from friends and relatives.

1one:
I feel like I've snatched the thread from the original poster...120likes!!!..wow!!!..thanks a lot you'all...I guess it was the Tea I drank that morning,I mistakenly added salt instead of sugar...maybe my brain Fiiiiired up!

*Running to meet seun*...seun!...how much for that moderator application form