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Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by cfours: 2:21am On Nov 26, 2012 |
Hmmm beauty is in the eye of the beholder but there are many categories of "good-looking" For a "cute beauty". The advantage is that both males and females are nice to you and automatically assume that you are a gentle pure heart. THe first word they use to describe you is "innocent" or "cute." You receive lots of smiles from people. The disadvantage is that people assume you are naive or sheltered. Guys can become over-protective and women can demean you and make you feel like a child. For a "sexy beauty" things will be different, girls may be jealous of you and attack you for no reason. They assume that you want to steal their man. And guys may treat you like a slut or want to be with you for the wrong reasons. but overall, there are benefits and advantages too.You may have to mature faster than other girls because of the way you are treated from a young age for the way your body is shaped. You also will get your choice in men (good and bad) For a "classic beauty," people may not notice you as they should because other girls wear make-up and dress to look like you. So, since so many do things to look like you, you appear to be a dime a dozen. But when all make up is gone, everyone realize you are the real-deal. But it can be frustrating knowing that you have the perfect face shape, people who look like you grace magazine covers and tv commercials, you are a genevieve nnaji carbon copy, yet you don't get the superstar treatment you feel you deserve. But overall, you are treated above average and you recognize that. This type is more likely to contest in pageants or try to work as a model (if she's tall). For an "exotic beauty" people tell you all the time that you are beautiful but you don't see it. These beauties tend to be foreigners who most time are not even special among their own people but when they arrive in a new place, all of a sudden, you are treated as a beauty and it is a shock. This beauty is more likely to have lower self confidence. Also the guys who swoon over you tend to be a bit insecure or have "fetish" thoughts. so it can be work to separate the weed from the chaff. for a "graceful beauty" you are maybe average looking but you are bubbly and smile all the time. There is just that glow about you. It's what people call "inner beauty that shows on the outside" It may take a short while for people to see your beauty but they certainly dd see it. Most guys want to be friends because of your personality and then it doesn't take long before they want to be closer. THis type of beauty is best for sustaining a relationship. It is not superficial. So it depends on what "good-looking" category you belong in. You can add other categories |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Nobody: 2:29am On Nov 26, 2012 |
[quote author=c.fours]Hmmm beauty is in the eye of the beholder but there are many categories of "good-looking" For a "cute" girl. The advantage is that both males and females are nice to you and automatically assume that you are a gentle pure heart. THe first word they use to describe you is "innocent" or "cute." You receive lots of smiles from people. The disadvantage is that people assume you are naive or sheltered. Guys can become over-protective and women can demean you and make you feel like a child. For a "sexy girl" things will be different, girls may be jealous of you and attack you for no reason. They assume that you want to steal their man. And guys may treat you like a slut or want to be with you for the wrong reasons. but overall, there are benefits and advantages too.You may have to mature faster than other girls because of the way you are treated from a young age for the way your body is shaped. You also will get your choice in men (good and bad) For a "classic beauty," people may not notice you as they should because other girls wear make-up and dress to look like you. So, since so many do things to look like you, you appear to be a dime a dozen. But when all make up is gone, everyone realize you are the real-deal. But it can be frustrating knowing that you have the perfect face shape, people who look like you grace magazine covers and tv commercials, you are a genevieve nnaji carbon copy, yet you don't get the superstar treatment you feel you deserve. But overall, you are treated above average and you recognize that. This type is more likely to contest in pageants or try to work as a model (if she's tall). For an "exotic beauty" people tell you all the time that you are beautiful but you don't see it. These beauties tend to be foreigners who most time are not even special among their own people but when they arrive in a new place, all of a sudden, you are treated as a beauty and it is a shock. This beauty is more likely to have lower self confidence. Also the guys who swoon over you tend to be a bit insecure or have "fetish" thoughts. so it can be work to separate the weed from the chaff. for a "graceful looks" you are maybe average looking but you are bubbly and smile all the time. It takes a while for people to see your beauty but they certainly do eventually. Most guys want to be friends because of your personality and then it doesn't take long before they want to be closer. THis type of beauty is best for sustaining a relationship. It is not superficial. So it depends on what "good-looking" category you belong in. You can add other categories [/quote] hmm! baba abi na mama done analyze am finish. It's quite true in some ways though. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by pleep(m): 2:36am On Nov 26, 2012 |
Wow Vanneni absolutely brilliant post so true. My favorite is by far the cute girl. Of course the exotic is a close second! |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by pleep(m): 2:37am On Nov 26, 2012 |
ooooh actually that was you c.four. nice one |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by cfours: 3:58am On Nov 27, 2012 |
thanks, but what are you doing on this thread? Are you also one of those who are suffering for their beauty? rotfl |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by pleep(m): 3:59am On Nov 27, 2012 |
i was gunna ask you the same thing. small world |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by cfours: 4:05am On Nov 27, 2012 |
hmm ok. you didn't answer my question. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Adeks(m): 4:59am On Nov 27, 2012 |
ArQueBusieR: I disagree wit u on d 1st pt. Bt we'r 2geda on d 2nd pt. I ws 2 hv my IT in an estab some yrs bck & d 1st guy i was supozd 2 be friends wit strted tellin me abt glz in d diff offices coz he said he knw i wld lyk glz coz of my luks & i ws lyk 'WTF'. One adv tho, if u'r free wit ppl & u hv a kind smile, many wil leap 4 joy wen u talk 2 dem |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Nobody: 12:07pm On Nov 27, 2012 |
you keep hearing crap like...you are so beautiful everyday...its annoying and sometimes embarrassing entering a room and everybody stares..i hate it nobody ever believes you when you say you dont have a boyfriend |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Nobody: 12:36pm On Nov 27, 2012 |
yess oo thank god i am goodlooking.babes jus dey pursue me all over 4 my area |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Nobody: 12:45pm On Nov 27, 2012 |
lefulefu: yess oo thank god i am goodlooking.babes jus dey pursue me all over 4 my area Before or after they hear you talk? |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Nobody: 12:47pm On Nov 27, 2012 |
poshdiva:e be like say u dey trip for me tooo |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Nobody: 12:51pm On Nov 27, 2012 |
lefulefu:whatever happened to my Dog? |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Adeks(m): 6:13pm On Nov 27, 2012 |
ooouuuchhh!!! |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by adabeke12(f): 1:36am On Feb 20, 2013 |
pendo89: ughhh sometimes it can be a curse! |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by YorubaOmoge: 1:37am On Feb 20, 2013 |
adabeke12: I've seen you and the girl in your profile aint you, unless weaves get that much power sha |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by YorubaOmoge: 1:37am On Feb 20, 2013 |
Nice pix btw |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by pleep(m): 1:40am On Feb 20, 2013 |
yea thats fake. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by adabeke12(f): 5:36am On Feb 20, 2013 |
Yoruba_Omoge: woow so they follow me like this you haven't seen me until now |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by adabeke12(f): 5:37am On Feb 20, 2013 |
pleep: yea thats fake. who you be? |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by pleep(m): 8:29am On Feb 20, 2013 |
Je suis pleep! but if that is really ur pic i apologise |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by chikeorji123(m): 8:59am On Feb 20, 2013 |
Dimples 316: Ok I hear you, and am glad to see you didn't take this the wrong way. I was almost afraid your come back/response would be really harsh & insultive. l like ur lines...treading with c-caution. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by mcdreeezy: 4:31am On Jul 30, 2013 |
I'm goin to bed...... |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by Passion22(f): 10:07am On Sep 30, 2013 |
Seriously, there where times when i feel dat i would be btter off being d ugly one in ma circle of friends and ma relations. Cus d attention is too much for me to handle sometimes, it made me become shy, i cant walk pass a group of guys, females hate me, guys want me and ma sister hate me cus her two exes want me. Guys are scared of approching beautiful babes, and if u are intelligent, dats a big prob, cus dey will feel intimidated by u. Since have got d two Bs (beauty and brains) dats a big prob to me. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Being Good-Looking by chineloSA(f): 1:49pm On Sep 30, 2013 |
tpia@:lol |
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