kandiikane: Lool!^probably because you don't get it often?

kandiikane: This thing sef, ahh, the truth has been exaggerated abit. Beggars running up to you saying fine boy, fine boy? Lool


P.s, I have never met anyone who complained about looking good. I understand complaining about the random unpolished guys that come up to you or when you go to a nightclub getting approached here and there but to actually say you wished you weren't good looking.

You guys are lying, jare.

ArQueBusieR: Seeing as people tend to prescind from the downside of being good-looking, I'll make an effort to enumerate or accentuate some ubiquitous disadvantages:

-People expect you to be less talented. Especially in academics.

-You're perceived - by myopic people - as a player.

-You're surrounded by fake people.

-You can't stay covert for long periods, as you're easily recognizable.

-When you give people an inch, they try to take a yard.

-You may cause someone's death or embarrassment. Just ask me how.

-You somehow find yourself in the cross-hair of psychos.

-Your self-esteem soars to unhealthy levels.

Add more disadvantages, please.

fubbyy:

Who's beautiful and who's not? This question has no answer, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, am a cute guy and I know that, and I always get compliment about it everywhere I go but at the same time some people thinks its because am fair in complexion that's why I get all the attention, therefore they don't see me that attractive

My mum always see rita dominic as a cute girl but 2 me that gal is not in anyway pretty

The girl that won miss unical many years back stole the show because of her natural cat eye but I (not only me) hate cat eyes with passion, it irritates me a lot,

So as you can see what you view as beauty may be otherwise to another, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder for real

Beside this onila of a girl and other beauty self acclaimed peeps here should post there pics let's judge

This has nothing to do with female brain. That's nonsense. This has to do with general human behaviour. People complain but still continue to do what they do.

pendo89: No I will add advantages
1. Receive compliments every so often
2. Nobody ignores you when you say Hi
3. You are given a moment to express urself
4. There's a confidence that comes with being beautiful
5. It's easy to talk to anybody regardless of position. Beauty opens the door and knowledge keeps you there
6. It's easy to talk to little kids.I find kids get attracted to beautiful faces.They fear scary ones
7. You get served very fast anywhere you go.Forget the motives.
8. Your challenge is how to sift guys not how to woe them

Having said that,beauty lies in the beholder's eyes. My standard of beauty may not necessarily be yours.

pedestal82: I agree there is a downside to being good looking. Back in
Pharmacy skool, a female course mate, men this babe was beautiful,
Front and back in the right proportion, coupld with a very beautiful face.
During night jacking in year one I pity her, U see guys queeing
Up to chat her up. One sitting in the nxt seat waiting for the other
Guy to stand up. Men that was when I knew she could not survive,
Pharmacy skool! True to my word she was sent packing! Definitly, not
All rosy for the Beauties!

Donalð Genes:
hahhahaahahhahahahahhahaa* you are not serious oooooo
was even qlancinq tro your pro pix but didnt see none

centje:
Nice write up buh this thread waz for disadvantages

centje:
Nice write up buh this thread waz for disadvantages

All these ladies and guys claiming to be good lookin,isn't it time you guys let us be the judge?

pleep: Kandikanne that is textbook female behavior. Take it or leave it.

kandiikane: This thing sef, ahh, the truth has been exaggerated abit. Beggars running up to you saying fine boy, fine boy? Lool


P.s, I have never met anyone who complained about looking good. I understand complaining about the random unpolished guys that come up to you or when you go to a nightclub getting approached here and there but to actually say you wished you weren't good looking.

You guys are lying, jare.

tpia@:
@ topic

spiritual issues most times, from what i've seen and heard.Not speaking from personal experience o- i have none in this aspect.

besides, in parts of nigeria, being too fine is considered a bad thing.

possibly because if you look oyiboish, maybe an oyibo or arab/tuareg played an away match somewhere along the line, and vamoosed?

just guessing.

safarigirl: preach sistah! The way some peeps are making being good-looking seem like some kinda life sentence with hard labour is beyond me. If you think being good looking is a curse try life on the other side, where nobody wants to get to know you better at first sight, where snide remarks and mocking laughter are components of just another day in your life, you do not get toasted and if you're a guy, woe betide the day you walk up to a girl to chat her up, for you shall receive the embarrassment of your life (especially if you don't look like you're worth a million dollars).

pendo89: No I will add advantages
1. Receive compliments every so often
2. Nobody ignores you when you say Hi
3. You are given a moment to express urself
4. There's a confidence that comes with being beautiful
5. It's easy to talk to anybody regardless of position. Beauty opens the door and knowledge keeps you there
6. It's easy to talk to little kids.I find kids get attracted to beautiful faces.They fear scary ones
7. You get served very fast anywhere you go.Forget the motives.
8. Your challenge is how to sift guys not how to woe them

Having said that,beauty lies in the beholder's eyes. My standard of beauty may not necessarily be yours.

6. It's easy to talk to little kids.I find kids get attracted to beautiful faces.They fear scary ones

ArQueBusieR:
I'm not kidding. My big bro gets the same treatment.
I can't speak for others. And I feel the advantages far outweigh the disadvantages. In French, les avantages l'emportent de loin sur les inconvénients. I hate French.
Only a lowlife would make up such lies. And I haven't even said anything yet, I've been in more awkward situations. Maybe it's just my luck. I make my own luck.

ArQueBusieR: Seeing as people tend to prescind from the downside of being good-looking, I'll make an effort to enumerate or accentuate some ubiquitous disadvantages:

-You're perceived - by myopic people - as a player.

-Your self-esteem soars to unhealthy levels.

tpia@:
rin si waju.

pleep: thats an odd one.