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cococandy: Why will he bar his phone and not give me the password?
Op look before you leap.
Or
Maybe she thinks you're coming on too strong as you guys haven't gotten married yet.

I have not even shown any sign as if I am interested in knowing why she passwords it, not to say asking..

For me right now, relationship is strictly business..

No pictures ?

Sehindemi: Nah quarrel?

Anywayz,b4 I go further,I need to ask U a questn...*Sincere answer plz*

Like how many ladies av done dis to U?(I mean,after pretendin to be wat they are not,they wrecked U & flee)

I am an average sharp boy who on meeting a new lady, 7 out of 10 will want to go to bed. U know ?

The insincerity of women show once you mention marriage and a good mannered guy is not interested in bedding a woman instantly once it is marriage on his mind.

Ladies tend to exploit the good mannerisms of decent young men whose sole aim of meeting and engaging them in a relationship is marriage. This tends to make this good mannered guy to unleash again his player instincts which he has already jettisoned in search of a life partner.

Guess you get my drift ? Long story cut short,.most single ladies should have been married long ago but greed and insincerity marred their relationships and made either them or the guys to walk away..

plaetton: We are talking about marriage here, the deepest and most intimate kind of commitment, and you are talking about privacy. What privacy are you talking about that should reside in a woman's phone but beyond the reach of her life partner?

In what delusional world do you live in where married couples keep secrets from each other?

No wonder marriages are crashing after 3 months these days.

Bros errn, many men are seeing things in their marriages.

I have met 3 ladies who do this. They will hardly present a cogent reason for that act but once you are with them, they pick your phone instantly and start going through all the contents..

Mondisweets: show me where he mentioned he had access to her body. So if a girl has access to your body she should have access to your bank account pin number too stop being illogical. Some people keep important private info in their phones and their privacy should be respected. If she keeps her important pin codes in her phone, she shouldn't protect it because some random guy, who is not even fully committed, expects her to do so because he is insecure?

Why do some ladies often like playing this insecurity card ? A man who was confident enough to walk up to you in public and engage you in conversation and extracted your phone number and made you laugh the same day and you fell in love one month later is being branded as insecure.. I can't buy that..

Why not just give what you can take ?

abagoro: Now what is the condition of the environment of the shoemakers? They don't look rich to me despite this staggering turn over.

Abeg, which location is this ?

Haha.

Aba noo there !

Ozonna: When next you go to Aba, meet a shoe maker and tell him that you want foreign standard. He'll only ask you if you can afford it. If you agree on a price, get ready to collect a shoe that you'll pass down to your descendants .

Exactly !

nyabingi: Let me just let out some Aba traders secrets, do you know than large tons of made in aba shoes and clothes are daily shiped to the middle east i.e Dubai, Europe and other African countries, Nigerians who travel over ther still buy these products more than 300% the cost in Aba, the truth is that these guys make so much money through these trade secrets, infact its hard these day for an avarage Aba shoe or fashion designer to take jobs from end users except they are willing to pay more,this is because they work day and night to meet up international demands, many igbos who returned from the mass exodus in the north are already learning the trade either as manufacturers or marketers, its a big market .

I am interested in this business o.

What are you into ?

There was this imported leather slippas I bought, but it disappointed me as it didn't last.

When I was through with about 2 of those fancy kind of slippas which put together couldn't last.me up to 2 years, I opted for Aba made.

Since 2012, this is 2 and a half years, I still wear one of the Aba made Leather slippas of high grade leather and sole. Repairs have been light...

What a good way to save money..

l laugh at them.

They would lose 80% of the 3rd world market.

Of, course I dont have business with Facebook except their constant notifications that disturb my phone...

$3 is greedy, they couldn't start with $1..

OBJ get dog..

Mondisweets: my point being it was her phone before you met, so u should let her be. Whats wrong about passcodes exactly? i would really love to know

Since i don't password mine, I should be asking you.

Mondisweets, why do you password your phone ?

Pictures or it is a lie.

kITATITA: Leave her phone alone. She's entitled to some privacy. My wife doesn't password her phone yet I don't touch it; even though I bought it for her. You may not like what you see there.

For me nothing takes me to a lady's phone unless she is busy fiddling with mine.. You have already said she doesn't password her phone so you have nothing to suspect..

Will you be comfortable as you are, if she passwords it ?

Mondisweets: Unless you bought the phone for her then you have no business knowing why she puts codes on it. Women usually just do it for security purposes in case it gets stolen or lost anyway.

I don't understand this issue of buying phone and not buying phone. Should that be a guide between doing right and wrong ?

Okay, should I ask her to throw it away and I buy her a costlier one so she will please me by not barring it ?

greatgod2012: If you too bars your phone with codes, then, she has every right to do likewise. Afterall what is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

I have never bared my phones since I was born. I am an advocate of transparency, but I just keep meeting these kind of ladies...

Odunharry: i wan deposit 5k 4 u

Yes sir, the money will be used for my ministry..

She needs Jesus..

Tymax: It's hard for me to be friends with married women. Some friends of mine who are now married women have complained that I have grown distant.

Marriage changes a woman in ways I don't understand. It's like I sense the change and unconsciously grow formal to them.

Exactly my stand.

lastchild: I remembered in those days when I was a teenager,me and my friends used to visit girls schools during their inter house sport events,strange things kept happening in my life,every1 would get girls except me,whoever I talk to either don't want or has gotten someone else,who agrees go home and change her mind before meeting me tomorrow

I said to my self,"let me wait till when I entered university,I will find so many girls there"

2005 I got admission in unical,it became worse,everyday I kept talking to girls,either she's in a relationship or she's not ready for one,the ones I managed to get jilted me after few days,some accepted and changed their mind before we could meet tomorrow

Some people reading this may think am ugly,if I am I would say it here because am actually using a new I'd to pour my heart out,whatever you read here is nothing but the fact,the truth is that am a definition of "handsome" to an extent I won the most handsome guy in the department during our award night in 2007

I went four years in school without a gf,I said to my self again "well, let me wait till I start making money,they will come"

Now I've started making the money,the same thing is now happening in advanced way,its either she is in a relationship or she's not ready for one or she came,the next thing she's out without any reason,some of them didn't even know what's pursuing them

I said to my self again"let me get a bit older so I can marry once and for all"

Now am ready for marriage but can't find anyone,the same thing keep happening,someone matchmake me and a girl late last year,I went straight to the point that am here for marriage,she was happy,the next thing she changed her mind,after I left she came back crying that something came over her,well I accepted and tried to continue my plans,she suddenly changed her mind again,I had to cut her off totally

This year I met someone else,something funny happened,when I proposed for marriage she went and gave testimony that God has answered her,the same sunday night she did,she called me to inform me that she has changed her mind (although I was expecting that because that's how it usually happen)

I laughed and moved on,3 days later she called and started begging(I was also expecting that)I invited her to see if she would tell me what's chasing her away atleast I would use it to know what's wrong with me for years, she said something bigger than her keep ordering her to quit, I asked her if she's still interested she knelt down with tears while saying yes

Bigger strange things happened which I won't disclose here for now and am all alone again

I bought a new car 2months back,relocated to a bigger apartment,with all these still can't find anyone

This is why people should seek the face of God and get born again.

Brother, a demon spirit is responsible for your dilemma.

I hate to hear the devil keeping people in bondage. But you can also set yourself free by believing in the word of Christ and prayer. Get born again, cry to God, he will hear you. Read the word of God, I mean the bible. That is God's word to man.

I have also heard a lady telling me such in the past, " I was coming to your house and I heard a voice telling me to go back ". She will get to my gate and turn and go home. Maybe a good or bad spirit. Looking critically at your case, it is a bad spirit working from your side scaring the ladies away.

These things do happen but most people do not believe them. I have seen very pretty ladies being unable to secure husbands. Ladies that when she goes to market, even in the company of a man or boyfriend, other men in the market cannot resist temptation to toast her right in front of her boyfriend. Leading to daily embarrassing altercations.

Yet when it is time for marriage, something will happen, she will break up with her bf and no other man will be able to marry her.

Bro, Jesus is your answer..

Maybe it was the baby's introduction but I can't see the people coming for her hand.. in marriage...

I have dated a lady in the distant past who bars her phone from other users with a code. I won't go into details, the experience was totally bad because whenever I had opportunity to peep into that phone, the sight was disaster.

What will normally prompt a lady to bar her phone with a code

I am asking pertinently because the lady currently falling head over heels for me right now barcodes her phone. Its marriage on my mind. I don't want what happened in 1960 to repeat again..

ggrin:

comment abi you no get phone number ?

OnyeEgo1: God i can't believe christians still think like dis... It is obvious op, u don't read ur bible... By the way are u trying to say eternity is by works?... Go and read ur bible

2cor 5:17-22

lack of knowledge is one of the problems in the body of christ becos d believer av often time been told half truth and are so lazy and gullible to read there bible...

A believer? Goto hell? Haba! Then if it is so mr OP u are the next to goto hell cos u must av broken one of dose rules YOU av set for urself and not d believers the bible describe as free from all Laws...

One of dose reasons i dislike religion section in NL

James 2:20, James 2:18, James 2:26. Faith without works is in vain/ is dead.

If we claim we have no sin, we deceive ourselves.

Should we continue in sin, that grace may abound ?

There is no relationship between righteousness and sinfulness.

If you say, you are saved by only grace after which you continue living as usual, bro, you are very far from the truth.

We are a new creation, old things have passed away and all things have become new..

James 2:20. But wilt thou know, o vain man, that Faith without works is in vain.

1Timothy 5:8 But if any provide not for his own, and especially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.

1Thessalonians 4:11 And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you...

Job 14:15. Thou shalt call, and I will answer thee, : thou wilt have a desire to the work of thine hands..

It is shocking to know that police doesn't extort people in the north. Once you cross Nsukka heading towards Otukpa in Benue state, that is the last extortion block you will find Northwards...

What's the problem with police extortion and the south ?

Gboliwe: Is there anything they haven't opposed? Not like they can stop the government if it really wants to shift dates. They just make noise.

lol..

The also beat chest..

3cycle: Don't mind 100cents that story never happened, he lied.
I couldn't help but report the virgin girl's story to the mods using the report button

Hahaha.

What did you caption the report as ?

What your husband did was very wrong. It is an open invitation to cheating.

Give him the hard time of his life and make him promise never to try such again. Moreover you offered to attend with him but he refused only to invite another random girl. That is an insult on your marriage..