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Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by DIG1: 6:56pm On Sep 12, 2012
4reigningqueen: dont keep looking at her breast eventhough you are tempted to .
So what orda options does d dude ve, when d bosom is stirring @ him?
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by musty1987(m): 7:00pm On Sep 12, 2012
be quick to grab her boobs. it works wonder cool
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by goryorhal(m): 7:01pm On Sep 12, 2012
@pearl why wuld u?..@least he is nt touching it..jst feeding his poor eyes
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by DExplorer1: 7:08pm On Sep 12, 2012
- First compliment her dress/look

- Pull the seat

- Direct eye contact (not her b00bs)

- Don't pick your nose!

- Smile when neccessary

- Don't finish the meal (if that's inclusive) etc etc etc.

Dude, rules too much. Pick what works for you.

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Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by switnjl: 7:11pm On Sep 12, 2012
guys. it will be rude for u not to look and stir at the bosom more especially when it is in a low cut blouse and has olive oil smeared all over it.
grin
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by pearlhapi(f): 7:12pm On Sep 12, 2012
goryorhal: @pearl why wuld u?..@least he is nt touching it..jst feeding his poor eyes
lusting after a gals bossom on a first date[wrong impression]its a message
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by Nobody: 7:25pm On Sep 12, 2012
~vicky~:
don't be Late because It gives the impression that you do not respect your date’s time and that you are also someone that cannot be relied on

Nothing is ruder than talking on your cell phone during your date, or checking messaged constantly while on a date. It expresses only rudeness, but that you may also be bored and uninterested in your date, making him/her feel insecure and upset. So wait until the end of your date to check messages and if you must keep your cell-phone on and answer it, then keep your talk short and let the caller know that you are busy and will get back to them later.

See who is talkin...like we don't know who is guilty of this..Sometimes I like to give them a taste of their own medicine...and arrive like 15 to. 30 mins late. They always fume and whine but it always ends well. First date just take it like u're meeting a new friend for the first time. And if u're interested in the girl after the good night hug also give her a good night peck on the cheeks.. And tell her u enjoyed are company, you really like her and you would want to do it again. Make sure she gets the message that you're romantically interested unless u want to end up in the friend zone.

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Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by Nobody: 7:26pm On Sep 12, 2012
D-Explorer:
- First compliment her dress/look

- Pull the seat

- Direct eye contact (not her b00bs)

- Don't pick your nose!

- Smile when neccessary

- Don't finish the meal (if that's inclusive) etc etc etc.

Dude, rules too much. Pick what works for you.


I think u must be high or something. Don't finish the meal? Sorry but in my family we don't waste food and I paid. for it so I av the right to finish or not finish it.
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by Fidelcruiz(m): 7:32pm On Sep 12, 2012
No matter how cruel or carlous u are just try and imitate the normal person u ve never been. Don't be in a hurry to ask of sex
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by Nobody: 7:37pm On Sep 12, 2012
No form say u sabi speak correct english.some guys are fond of this habit.they wanna try hard to impress the lady with grammar but at the end dem go GBAGAUN!
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by DExplorer1: 7:37pm On Sep 12, 2012
12 inches!:


I think u must be high or something. Don't finish the meal? Sorry but in my family we don't waste food and I paid. for it so I av the right to finish or not finish it.
Na hungry hold you go the date? Which kian "in my family we don't waste food" tosh be that?
Is leaving a spoon or two the waste you're talking about. No dey disgrace yourself in the name of "in my family." Hope you're learning?

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Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by pearlhapi(f): 7:41pm On Sep 12, 2012
D-Explorer:

Na hungry hold you go the date? Which kian "in my family we don't waste food" tosh be that?
Is leaving a spoon or two the waste you're talking about. No dey disgrace yourself in the name of "in my family." Hope you're learning?
well I think the guy z ryt•even if u r leavin leftovers it shudnt be out of compulsure or in a bid to please d gal or form one tin[dats fakeing]and it bad•be real after all in my house I don't eat and leave my food halfway
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by Nobody: 7:47pm On Sep 12, 2012
illitrate: scheeeew who have time to waste angry angry angry

while she is eating, ask her may I nyash you? angry angry angry angry

lol, you no want make the girl swallow food ni?
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by clemmonce(m): 7:49pm On Sep 12, 2012
MRbrownJAY: @OP
it all depends on WHO that girl is, and what your intentions are/were when you approached her.
some women are approached for the only purpose of getting into their pants (and some women fully know it and use that as a way to get a free meal), and therefore such women should be handled just as what they truly are.

so no two dates should be evaluated the same and there is no need to treat a dog like a horse or a donkey like a lion, its disrespectful to the dog/donkey!
good yarn. may amadihoha bless u
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by clemmonce(m): 7:50pm On Sep 12, 2012
pearl~hapi:
Be confident,smart and not boring[how I hate timid pepo]crack jokes and make him or her laugh!I repeat don't be boring
na wao wat if u are a quiet person ?
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by Nobody: 7:56pm On Sep 12, 2012
12 inches!:


See who is talkin...like we don't know who is guilty of this..Sometimes I like to give them a taste of their own medicine...and arrive like 15 to. 30 mins late. They always fume and whine but it always ends well. First date just take it like u're meeting a new friend for the first time. And if u're interested in the girl after the good night hug also give her a good night peck on the cheeks.. And tell her u enjoyed are company, you really like her and you would want to do it again. Make sure she gets the message that you're romantically interested unless u want to end up in the friend zone.

is that your problem?
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by tpia5: 7:57pm On Sep 12, 2012
Btw @ topic


Date is different from booty call. The two are not the same.
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by DExplorer1: 7:59pm On Sep 12, 2012
pearl~hapi:
well I think the guy z ryt*even if u r leavin leftovers it shudnt be out of compulsure or in a bid to please d gal or form one tin[dats fakeing]and it bad*be real after all in my house I don't eat and leave my food halfway
Get the picture lass, a clean plate is gross. Lets say it's rice, he would pick every grain till the very last?
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by Nobody: 7:59pm On Sep 12, 2012
pearl~hapi:
well I think the guy z ryt•even if u r leavin leftovers it shudnt be out of compulsure or in a bid to please d gal or form one tin[dats fakeing]and it bad•be real after all in my house I don't eat and leave my food halfway

Me sef I don't understand ooo....Why would I leave food behind wen I'm not thru..unless I'm satisfied. Infact it's bad manners for a guy or girl to buy food for u...and u shud leave half the food untouched or just eat the chicken and few spoons of rice without proper explanation. I see such a person as wasteful and it's a turn off.

@Op, leme give u a hint.. wen u buy ur meals esp if its snacks and not rice, u cn order them all on the same plate in ones ( say one hot dog, one meat pie and maybe a piece of chicken) then u cn get a knife frm the servers so u cn share the meals for her in an extra plate. Then if she takes alcohol, maybe one bottle of wine or if she doesn't a packet of Five Alive and u cn get cups to pour the drinks for her. Try this out and thank me later.
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by tpia5: 8:02pm On Sep 12, 2012
And as per my other post

Those who are independently minded as in not living with parents, see the comment i just made about the difference between date and booty call.

The guy should just watch you enter your door and that's it. Or escort you to the door if there's no raging hormones on rampage. Meaning if you're sure he wont enter the door.

But if the topic is about booty calls then ignore everything i typed.
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by ektbear: 8:03pm On Sep 12, 2012
Paul John: Make sure you eat locus bean(iru) or fried fish before opening you mouth to alter a word, you don win already. The girl go too like you

cheesy grin cheesy
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by ibro360(m): 8:03pm On Sep 12, 2012
sounds funny do dates really happen in 9ja or mayb u guys ar talkin abt nolly n holly wood
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by clemmonce(m): 8:03pm On Sep 12, 2012
pls dont ping or press your phone on a date it is annoying that is why so many girls are stil single even at 35 because of lack of manner i think girl are more ill mannered than boys. second advice to the gi rls dont over order for food or anything it sends a bad message. third advice NO TAKE AWAY. fourth advice ? brb
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by tpia5: 8:08pm On Sep 12, 2012
And like i said before, i know nothing about dating so i'm here to learn.


I'm also a great supporter of chaperoning btw. Dont know why the practice is no longer in vogue.

Guess i'm old fashioned.



@ 12 inches

I doubt you're supposed to finish the food but not sure sha.
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by crisycent: 8:08pm On Sep 12, 2012
I actually had a date with a girl i just met and i took her to a very expensive chinese restaurant....she immediately told me she was single!!!! i bet the white rice and shredded chicken with pork worked. I never still see her pant though cos guy man burn money that day cry....food wen fear no dey let me chop normally. grin grin grin
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by tpia5: 8:09pm On Sep 12, 2012
clemmonce: na wao wat if u are a quiet person ?

You don jeunce be that.
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by Nobody: 8:16pm On Sep 12, 2012
Try to look neat, dress well and smell good !
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by Nobody: 8:19pm On Sep 12, 2012
D-Explorer:

Get the picture lass, a clean plate is gross. Lets say it's rice, he would pick every grain till the very last?

If I'm very hungry yes ooo...I'll pick it to the very last. But then I've been on dates where I could not finish the food cos I didn't av appetite. The food is just by the side jare it's not the important thing. The important thing is the person u're meeting.
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by DExplorer1: 8:25pm On Sep 12, 2012
12 inches!:


If I'm very hungry yes ooo...I'll pick it to the very last. But then I've been on dates where I could not finish the food cos I didn't av appetite. The food is just by the side jare it's not the important thing. The important thing is the person u're meeting.
Whatever works for you dude.
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by timilehin007(m): 8:25pm On Sep 12, 2012
illitrate: scheeeew who have time to waste angry angry angry

while she is eating, ask her may I nyash you? angry angry angry angry

grin grin you well sooooo...
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by Adeks(m): 8:26pm On Sep 12, 2012
tpia@:


You don jeunce be that.
NA BIG LIE!!! If what u said is true, then what's d essence of all dis 'be urself' advice flying around IMO, if a girl likes u, even if u're d quiet type, she'll appreciate d lil efforts u make @ making d date interesting; only make sure u do somtin. @ least u should be able to compliment her n make some little talk like talking 2 a friend
Re: Dos And Don'ts On A First Date by adaptor4all: 8:31pm On Sep 12, 2012
SEX..Don't discuss it bt have it in mind in case d gal wan drop cos if she does n u no do..hahahaha,no 2nd chans,u go b her pastor 4 life...hahahaha

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