slimyem: lol
In summary "suffer in silence" shey?
Things women do just to stay married..
Besides,that it worked for her doesn't mean it'll work for others..
The man's escapades could even become worse on the long run..especially since his wife is fully supportive and cooperative...
Similar strategies do not necessarily work for similar situations.

EyesWideOpen: This coming from a man is rather funny.
So you're telling the ladies here that if their man is a philanedaring bast.ard, they shud just ignore him until he wen deems fit to quit, ryt?
In other words it's men's birth right to trample on women, ryt?
*I'm speechless!*

KINGwax: see, slimyem, i refuse to biliv that your character online is exactly that in the real sense of life. You seems to be a woman who has suffered so many heartbreak and hates men all along. U act as a saddist. The truth is, any lady dt bilivs the cancelled statement is jes overbloated in pride and pretence. There's nothing like 'extra mile' when it comes to gettin what u want. Pls undstnd dt. The rest is pretence. If u biliv in God, didn't God gave out Jesus? Does it means He's weak? Besides dt, why will u burn the candle jes to get dt degree if that's wot it'll take? But since degree aint gonna talk to boast of how important it is to you dt u had to burn a candle to have him, it doesn't matter to you, does it? But when it comes to d issue of men, you proud females alwys pretend they aint dt important and accepts to suffer inside. Or better yet they smile to d world as if nothin is wrong. Have u watched, 'desperate house wives?' dt movies in the early 2000? i'm sure u knw who was mrs perfect there! bTW, the bolded is very true.

taryour: Very very nice.. I realy hope and pray that all of the women on this forum learn from this and for thoes going tru same with hubby learn that divorce isnt the way out. I wish every woman a very happy and fufilled home....

Opoki: Its simple, the woman might have use JUJU!

Aqva: A former female colleague of mine who's husband was a chronic womanizer told me how she changed him. The man's case was so bad that he would sometimes have his girl friend in the car when he goes to pick his wife and kids from church. She even moved out of the house a few times yet the man kept cheating.

I met her recently and she was cruising in this lovely Ranger rover Autobiography. She was looking so happy, this was a woman that was perpetually sad and was even begining to age. I had to ask her wussup? How oga and d kids? It was then she revealed to me that her hubby bought her this car and even now attends social functions with her. He is always at home now and most times takes her and the kids out for shopping, visiting, holidays etc.

I had to ask her the secret, that is when she told me hw she managed to finally change him by.

1. Ignoring him---she stopped complaining even when he doesn't come home for days.
2. She never denied him sex even with his cheating habit though she insisted on protection which the man always obliged.
3. She kept his room and clothes clean and always prepared his meals.

According to her, the husband called her one day and asked why she pretends not to notice his womanizing anymore. She told him that it doesn't bother her again as long as she is the one officially married to him. Few days later she started noticing a chane.

My reason for this narration is to encourage women who have husbands that are dogs to try out this method. Sometimes men hate being challanged and may want to teach the wife a lesson. If itcan work for her it can work for others.

slimyem: what is this?

slimojas89: Life has taught me that when you fight with someone and expect them to respect you, you only elevate them to your strata. There is power in silence

mikkyphp: @kingwax ...Ol boy u dey vex o!

KINGwax: i've alwys undstod d fact dt u have a low IQ, i've tried to make dt simple enough, if you can't still get it, get a lawyer and sue me for making life so difficult for you! Slumbag!

shymexx: Bwahahahaha

The guy changed because he got bored of cheating, you can't change anyone..

It has to come from the person, not you..