EyesWideOpen: This coming from a man is rather funny.
So you're telling the ladies here that if their man is a philanedaring bast.ard, they shud just ignore him until wen he deems it fit to quit, ryt?
In other words it's men's birth right to trample on women, ryt?
*I'm speechless!*

KINGwax: [s]i've alwys undstod d fact dt u have a low IQ, i've tried to make dt simple enough, if you can't still get it, get a lawyer and sue me for making life so difficult for you! Slumbag![/s]

irecruit: i hope it works out for everybody. Not everybody are the same you know, some men may even see it as the opportunity to cheat even more.

dwas: She did not change him, she change herself. It might be that she had been "a civilize woman" that don't prepare meal for her husband often, denied him sex, talk him down often. Every sensible man wants to care and be with their family but if the environment is always hostile, most men takes off. proverb says "It is better to be on top of the roof than to be with a nagging woman". Respect him, God says. Don't deny him sex except when fasting and that should be with his consent. God made both man and the woman. We cant know better than God. He Knows how men are wired, His prescription for solving family issues has never failed. I know some people may say i am knot. they will say African mentality. Oh no..., This is God mentality. The civilized mentalities have always been Satan tools to go against God words.

However, men have their role to play too. Whenever our wifes shows up with their thing (you know), we should love them still, and never yield to bad friends advice. "I will deal with you" syndrome will only aggravate the matter besides it is not Godly. If our wives are not doing well, then we have failed in our responsibility.

God will help us build a Godly family that will positively influence and encourage people in family problems.

megxo: she neva jam real dog>>>>>
ignore him, u'll becim d 6th wife

slimyem: lol
In summary "suffer in silence" shey? Things women do just to stay married..
Besides,that it worked for her doesn't mean it'll work for others..
The man's escapades could even become worse on the long run.. especially since his wife is fully supportive and cooperative...
Similar strategies do not necessarily work for similar situations.

slimyem: lol
In summary "suffer in silence" shey?
Things women do just to stay married..
Besides,that it worked for her doesn't mean it'll work for others..
The man's escapades could even become worse on the long run..especially since his wife is fully supportive and cooperative...
Similar strategies do not necessarily work for similar situations.

a1solution: Nice fiction, but it may not work for a chronic womanizer

Mad Cow:


Stories that Touch.. If juju no involve, man no fit stop to cheat!

lurkee: I reject men that agree with the OP from my life and that of my sisters'. Eek. The look away mentality cannot work for me. There is massive difference between a mistake and a deliberate act of repetitive cheating.

I will always choose being a single mother than to be wife of a serial cheater.

You cannot change someone like others have mentioned, the woman has learnt to cope for herself but she should keep her rotten advice to herself. It will not encourage any healthy marriage.

amyliajane: @ dwas,kingsleyinfo, I like what u guys wrote,there are some things u just need to commit to the hands of God inorder not to have a high BP, cause if u die tomorow the man will mourn u for a while n move on wit his life, dat is why a woman ought to be prayerful @ all times, committing her family into the hands of God, ignoring and overlooking too also helps cause come to think of it for how long will u continue to shout n quarrel over d same things,u shout for husband, children too de dia wey u go shout for maybe for upsetting u or something b4 u know wats happening, ur lifespan will shorten n u'l begin to look older than ur age cause u'l be stressed up. May God guide us accordingly and give us wisdom to handle situatns as they come our way as terms of temptations.

sanb: hahaha LOL...couldn’t stop laughing

@OP…That would definitely not work for everyone. I guess the woman just turned a blind eye… But she should remember that AIDS and HIV are real!!!! And one more thing ehh a leopard can never change its spots… this cheating man just went underground in his cheating ways and that’s it……

Kingsleyinfo:

how come a cheating man can't change?
but a non-cheater can become one?

talk about leopards changing its spots.....

yuzedo: Long hiss!

The woman told your friend the "Official Story". .

Let her confess the Strong Baba that helped her prepare juju to tame her husband!

Range Rover Autobiography ko, Range Rover Manualbiography ni!

sanb: hahaha oh my days.....it appears that hurts

dwas:

I cant stop laughing my friend.

To be serious, the best juju ever is what the poster did.
1. Ignoring him---she stopped complaining even when he doesn't come home for days.
2. She never denied him sex even with his cheating habit though she insisted on protection which the man always obliged.
3. She kept his room and clothes clean and always prepared his meals.

That is absolutely Godly. No matter how hard the man is, Do your part as directed by God, he will change.

We men claim to be the "HEAD" (God said it), women are the body. the body start from the neck. If the neck becomes stiff, the HEAD becomes useless. It is a useless man that cheat around, abandon family, violate wife so on.

See, I have been guilty of some of this thing, truth is, they no pay at all. If women soften, the man head go correct.