slimyem: yes o..i'm taking it personally.
I can't give an imput that'd be discarded as a lie the moment i click "submit".
I am a prime suspect.He thinks that of all Naija girls already so its not news!!

ifihearam:


My guy i really dont see why you must tell your parents about your girlfriend's age,it doesn't really make sense,provided she is respectful and looks younger than her age

ifihearam:

Dear Slimyem,

For reasons best known to me,can you date a guy younger than you,

A Yes or No will suffice

Obinnau: even if ur parents are dumbass they must definitely know

ifihearam:

I see them as intelligent dumbass then

2buff:

Can you elaborate more please?
What other reasons besides big egos would make you "not try it"?

And please explain how egos even factor in. Dont older men have egos as well?

slimyem: this question and topic has been overflogged..
I have answered it truthfully countless times on this section.
Would have on this thread...until i saw the op's intentions was to make mockery of the answers he'd get from ladies here.
So,No.i won't answer that question again...at least not on this thread.
My answers won't count!

ifihearam:

You sounding so angered,do you have any outstanding misunderstanding with the op

just thinking aloud

AmBeautiful:

well someone older would be better(not that old sha oh!).
though i didn't like the thought before, but after a while, i discovered they are more mature,direct and straight and they are easy to understand and follow.
Though some older ones could be cunning and immature, but not in all cases as compared to younger guys.
Younger guys, are sometimes a pain in the ass, they do not understand what A LADY REALLY NEEDS!
Their brain is still in the developmental stage.
And because the normal culture and the mindset of some Nigerians is be a millionaire then look for girls, they could be quite difficult when young.

So dating someone younger than i am would be like a POLICE CASE! And i wont be able to cope.


Egos...
well, Nigerian guys especially have huge egos,i tell you for sure.
You know that, dont ask me

Amya: My boyfriend is 3yrs younger than I am, and we're doing great!

2buff:

In case of the bolded, would you also possibly agree that the case is also that ladies are generally less mature than guys in the area of communicating what they truly need?
I ask because looking at that particular point that way (i.e. as a personal problem of the lady and not "his" problem) could be the first step to her unrsveling even herself.

I know its asking too much, but your gender tends to find a hard time owning up to their faults and prefer to push it off to someone else. Essentially blaming another human being for not being psychic instead of taking the more logical, "mature" route of seeing your lack of direct communication skills as a self-born problem.

sexkillz:

sexkillz:

2buff: I've also found out that what a naija girl says she's alright with on a public forum and what she is REALLY alright with are 2 different matters entirely.

slimyem: this question and topic has been overflogged..
I have answered it truthfully countless times on this section.
Would have on this thread...until i saw the op's intentions was to make mockery of the answers he'd get from ladies here.
So,No.i won't answer that question again...at least not on this thread.
My answers won't count!

2buff:

So no be only me don notice am.
Why you kon dey form till now?

ItsModella: No, I would not even date a guy my age let alone a younger guy. I'm naturally attracted to older guys because I think they are more mature and understanding and can handle intelligent conversations (my opinion). Plus, I get a better feel of protection. But then, connection and compatibility is what matters.

ghettodreamz: As long as the dude is financially buoyant, wetin concern most of the Naija babes, they will tell you na money sure pass.

sexkillz:

Amya: amebo! Not like he knows or anything. He believes we're age mates.

2buff: I have found that naija girls (or maybe just africans in general) dont even entertain the idea of dating a younger bros and would end or stop anything with a guy when they find out he is younger ...no matter how well the flow....even if it is only by a year.

Id like the girls to speak for themselves on this matter..

Would you date a younger guy?

FlowerPower: I'm not a Naija girl, but I would date a man up to 2 years younger than me if he was stable in life with an education, career, and God fearing.

I hope this is not an ad for a sugarmummy

~vicky~:
dating a guy that's younger than me is really not a problem. Maturity is not an age thing but a thing of the mind and really that's wots needed to make relationship work. I don't mind if d guy is 5 yrs younger than me, d only issue is that he shouldn't still be reasoning like his age mates, for us to get along.

FlowerPower: I'm not a Naija girl, but I would date a man up to 2 years younger than me if he was stable in life with an education, career, and God fearing.

I hope this is not an ad for a sugarmummy

FlowerPower:

Yes I do. You likey lol!!