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If your dad was truly educated like you claim he wouldnt think that sleeping with other women would grant him the holy "male child" considering the Y chromosome comes from men.

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If your dad was truly educated like you claim he wouldnt think that sleeping with other women would grant him the holy "male child" considering the Y chromosome comes from men.

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If your dad was truly educated like you claim he wouldnt think that sleeping with other women would grant him the holy "male child" considering the Y chromosome comes from men.

yemivictor:

Yes o!

e.g. Dr. Doyin Abiola and even many more of MKO's wives were very well educated!

So what are we saying here, that they didn't know what they were doing?

THINK AGAIN!

The summary of this thread is that, much as a man will take a second wife out of greed and selfishness . . .

Will an educated woman also be a 2nd or 3rd wife to a man out of the same greed and selfishness!!

I keep stressing it on this forum that no gender is guiltier than the other on any issue whatsoever!!!

Capish!!!

lucabrasi:

hey y' all,kind of new on nairaland,but i felt the urge to contribute to this thread cause im from a polygamous home,polygamy is not just as a result of lack of education cause my dad is highly educated and all his friends and contemporaries were as well,he got into polygamy cause of his quest for a male child and he onli got a male child after the 3rd and 4th wife.he was lucky to be wealthy as well so all of us all schooled in uk after sec school and there was not trouble or nethn while growing up the onli disadvantage i cud think of his the undercurrents between wives competing and cause i lost my mum while i was young,me n ma brothers tend to bear the brunt of the verbal abuse but it didnt go out of hand but on the whole i[b] think polygamy isnt right at all[/b]

lucabrasi:


please i was onli contributing to the thread and sharing my personal experience and not calling for insults from you,please for the fact that the internet is ananymous isnt a lincense for u to insult my dad or cast aspersions on his person cause he is neither your mate or your equal,i don't have the foggiest idea about y chromosone or whaeva and im sure a lot of people don't as well unless its related to their discipline or their interests and for a 78 yr s old man i don't think a lot of people thought that way in his time of youth so that wasnt realli called for at all

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First off, I really hope you are in school, before it's too late . How old are you? You should know bout X and Y chromosomes.

Secondly if you are going to brag about your dad being "highly educated", you should know a truly educated person wouldnt go around spreading his seeds in hopes for a male child when anyone that actually has been to school SHOULD know that the chromosome required for a male kid lies in the man.

get it now?

nwando:

You've summarized well.
That is one of your dad's example you must not follow.

D-reloaded:

MKO was a Moslem, he has an excuse for his idiocy and he wasnt educated in the right sense. He was a foolish thief which is why he's dead.

Dont know why people keep using him as an example. So he went to school aboard, big deal. He wasnt smart in the way that matters.

lucabrasi:

im sorry but dyu have a problem with the "highly educated" bit or with the fact that he is into polygamy?there are so many highly educated people that are polygamous,mko abiola was highly educated,and thousands of wealthy men who are polygamous and if u read my post and understood ull notice what i wrote was, that was the reason my dad gave rightly or wronglyand its not for me to judge, the onli thing that concerns me as an individual is that i was not maltreated and i and all the rest of us never wanted for anything till this very moment, so he has not failed as a dad to us,i was not boasting i was onli responding to the other posts and pointing out that its not just illiterates that marry many wives ,
he might be spreading his seeds like u say but the most important thing is that he made sure every single one of us had the basic i.e quality education both in naij and abroad,we had no reason to want for food or clothes or anything and before u say, i wasnt boasting but sayn these so u ll realise he s taken care of all "these seeds he d brought into the world"
and between what d u say about professors who r polygamous,

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I think he rather just lash out instead of trying to understand my point

I'm just saying chromosome lectures is Basic Biology that anyone who has taken a science class should know

lucabrasi:

  and with the basic biology thing i wasnt a science student either in sec schl,uni and up till now so as u can see i havent got the foggiest idea but 'preciate the whole x and y chromosone thingy now than u v rephrased yourself

doyin13:

A bountiful bosom, waists that wiggle from side to side and booty that you can bounce off
is a sure recipe for y-chromosomes

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You're an idiot if you took what I said as a blatant insult to the poster's father

Dalby:

No body has the right to insult another persons parent, whatever the circumstance, full stop
I really don't know how some people delight in insulting other, when their views hit the rocks in any intellectual discuss

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^ Was I referring to you? gbeborun.

At least, now you know that having a baby boy does not start & end with X and Y chromosomes!

yemivictor:

At least, now you know that having a baby boy does not start & end with X and Y chromosomes!

@ nwando,

The cruelty you claim is meted out to the first wife by reason of polygamy is done by the man in collaboration with the stupid & greedy subsequent wives!

Men & women alike, are equally guilty of polygamy!!

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Lol if you like, go around looking for women with posters or tattoos on their heads stating 'acidic" or "alkaline vagina"

Wetin concern me?

ROFL!

You are one very funny babe you know?

Perhaps we could start with you!

A tattoo in your groin indicating which category your snatch falls into would be way classier than your suggestion though!!

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I do agree with your last statement although not ALL polygamous homes are due to the fact that the women WANTED to be a secondf or third wife yada yada, some are forced into that crap

Oh yeah!

Just like some men are seduced into the same crap!

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forced aka child brides. They still exist in case you werent aware

I'm quite aware!

But thanks to education & enlightenment!!

It is on the decline world northern nigeria-over!!!