jidegirl12:

Okay I hear you! I just don't get what you're implying,

a parternity test versus phone drama ,

not even close,

I will lose my spark for that man after he recieves the result of the DNA.

We are DONE!!!

Czar-Chris:
I know the ladies will hate me for what am about to post, but what the hell, if don't like it, go bathe on top transformer. .
This is all true, it happened before my eyes(not some nollywood ishh). I was in Schlum then, I had a boss, real big man in all true sense of it and very kind. He had hotels and estates everywhere. He loved and trusted his wife so much, she had everything. One day we were having some drinks in his house, he went into his house to grab more bottles and overheard his wife telling someone "I love you" over the phone in a hiden corner of the house. O boy all hell broke loose that day. When we calmed the situation, he pretended to forget the whole issue. He somehow managed to take his six kids to South Africa on vacation, silently did a paternity test and found out that only two of his six kids where actually his. You should see a grown man crying like a baby, it was just heart rendering(i believe that this and other experiences i had in life made me view women differently, but this was the defineing one). Any woman I marry must sign a pre-nup, and the kids must undergo a DNA testing to put my mind at rest, that am not raising another man shit as mine.

PS:It later came out that his colleague in the office was responsible for 3 out of the external 4.
Guys underesteemate a woman at your own doom. QED

Czar-Chris:
I know the ladies will hate me for what am about to post, but what the hell, if don't like it, go bathe on top transformer. .
This is all true, it happened before my eyes(not some nollywood ishh). I was in Schlum then, I had a boss, real big man in all true sense of it and very kind. He had hotels and estates everywhere. He loved and trusted his wife so much, she had everything. One day we were having some drinks in his house, he went into his house to grab more bottles and overheard his wife telling someone "I love you" over the phone in a hiden corner of the house. O boy all hell broke loose that day. When we calmed the situation, he pretended to forget the whole issue. He somehow managed to take his six kids to South Africa on vacation, silently did a paternity test and found out that only two of his six kids where actually his. You should see a grown man crying like a baby, it was just heart rendering(i believe that this and other experiences i had in life made me view women differently, but this was the defineing one). Any woman I marry must sign a pre-nup, and the kids must undergo a DNA testing to put my mind at rest, that am not raising another man shit as mine.

PS:It later came out that his colleague in the office was responsible for 3 out of the external 4.
Guys underesteemate a woman at your own doom. QED

pro01: Only a dubious woman demands trust from her husband or partner. A genuinely virtuous woman earns it. . .and strives to retain it - simply by keeping her hands clean and her path straight. You don't insist on keeping male 'friends' or going on 'business trips' with your randy boss, and yet expect a sensible husband to trust you.

Any sensible man would NEVER trust any human being (let alone a woman) 100%. That's pure foolishness. If there are sufficient grounds for suspicion, then by all means a man must conduct a paternity test to clear all doubts. A truly good woman wouldn't get angry with her husband for doing that. She would get angry with herself for not doing enough to earn his trust.

Only sneaky, slimy, deceitful women (and they are in the majority) would make foolish noise or threaten divorce (you can imagine) when their serial unfaithfulness is under suspicion.

lastpage:
Tell your guy that "Once a cheat, always a cheat".
It is still good that its early days and no kids are yet involved.

No need to cheat, let her have the "Corper guy" that is so sweet she cant wait.
Let them enjoy themselves to the fullest, no need to hide.

As for your guy, let him go to church and do "Thanks giving"!
God just added to his years on earth!
He will meet a better woman than that 'Bleep-addict'!

Lastpage!

Sagamite:

When Sagamite drums this into people's head on NL time and time again, they will say "Sagamite is abrasive".

I know women. Years of serious experience. I don't bury my head in the sand.

Bambela: Does it mean DNA can't give wrong result?

lastpage:
You no go kill persin for this place!
Imagine them catch thief for market around 9pm (all those OPC people).. and the thief come be nobody else than the "Chief" of the area!

Now tell me, wetin "chief" no go PROMISE, just make them no expose am for daylight?
If na me, l will promise to make those wey catch me, the richest men in Babylon sef!
Shay l get money wella na im l come dey steal, abi?

Anyway, back to your topic:
Good news....There is a way out!

As long as your friend is ready to import one full container of High Blood Pressure Pills/drugs,
Let him continue to salvage the situation!

if im Mama don die, l will understand (the poor woman wont have to bury her child),,,
...but if she is still alive, pls message her quickly to convene family meeting before one "opeke Corper" go ruin their community effort!

Wahala sit down jeje now, you say "e beautiful wella wella" ....okay o, l don talk my own!

Growing up (my teens) my friends and l did some research and came out with an "hypothesis" which we christened "Deebee hypothesis" (in simple Grammar, it means "reach there".

We postulated that "Once Deebee, ALWAYS Deebee" (For my Turanshi brothers, l will translate: "Once you reach there, you will ALWAYS reach there"

May the Good Lord forgive us, we were badt, very very badt, in those days!

It means that "once a guy has 'reached there' with a lady, He will always 'reach there' any time any day he wants"!

The data that we collected and analysed over our "Youth Years" proved our hypothesis to be correct and reliable to 99.99% confidence level! Walahi!

That "Corper" has "Deebee" and whether your friend marry her or not, He can and He will ALWAYS Deebeee!

See why l suggested your friend import a whole "Container of High Blood Pressure Drugs"? He will need it o!

I don talk my own, second base joor!

Lastpage!

BTW: I urge all the guys and babes in the house to put this theory to test ( you dont need to disclose your result to anybody, its just for "a personal evaluation-copy" .....as we say with software!)

Sleek05: I've never seen such hypocrisy I'm seeing on dis topic on nairaland. I mean WTF See how guys r bashin ladies as if dey r any better. Many of dem keep 3, 4 or 5 lovers yet r here crucifyin ladies because dey r d ones dat carry d child. As a poster rightly said, u sow wat u reap, ure busy messing around with other married women n u want ur wife 2 remain faithful 2u...how does dat work? Diaz smthn cald karma dudes! If men were d ones dat bore children, can any guy on dis site beat his chest and say d number of bastards wil be reduced....see hypocrisy in d highest form, see all of dem formin saint wen in actual fact, dey jump frm pillar 2 pillar despite d fact dat dey r legally married. If dia'l be any correction for women who carry bastards, definitely not frm Nigerian men cuz dey r worse worse species, experts in cheatin and dickology. Mtcheeew!

Czar-Chris:


Cool it lady, your temperature is about to hit a record high for the books. You talking of karma? Most of the guys that go through this ishii is usually the good "God fearing" type, no wonder women always say they want a God fearing guy(a mugu). My wife to be no fit try that nonsense with me nah, she no dey fear face? Nah amadioha, ogun and 50 other gods go strike both of them to oblivion. You come here to talk about karma, what does karma have against these God fearing guys? The bad guys always take care of business no slacking. But woe betide you if your wife finds out that your weak. My brother nah gateman go they nak am akpako. But if she fears your every move, she will be too scared to find out if you put magun there or not. So coming back to karma, you are a young girl dating your father's senior as a sugardaddy, do you expect your man now, not to be a sugardaddy to some other young girls? Well just asking. Remember ladies karma is a biatch.

carefreewannabe:

You can't be serious. Do you really think that it only happens to the good, God fearing guys? Do you also think that only good wives are cheated on? It can happen to everyone. Watch out boy, you might be next

Czar-Chris:


I love it when chics call me boy, makes me feel young again. Well honey, i ain't married yet and I would just love her to cheat on me, make she just do am. I'll make an example of her. You can believe that.

Ocutegan: All ya'll will continue lamenting about Nigerian women until you learn that its not a must you marry a nigerian girl jus because you're a native too. Dump all this nigerian bi.t.ches and find yourself a western or carribean girl that's only if you wanna live a good life. My 50cents

Decryptor: You are soo on-point! I'm currently hookin up with a cutie from Seychelles who came on a diplomatic visit to Nigeria and intends to work here! She's just way tooo cool! Who gives a rat-ar$ee abt 9ja gal

Decryptor: You are soo on-point! I'm currently hookin up with a cutie from Seychelles who came on a diplomatic visit to Nigeria and intends to work here! She's just way tooo cool! Who gives a rat-ar$ee abt 9ja gal

Czar-Chris:


Cool it lady, your temperature is about to hit a record high for the books. You talking of karma? Most of the guys that go through this ishii is usually the good "God fearing" type, no wonder women always say they want a God fearing guy(a mugu). My wife to be no fit try that nonsense with me nah, she no dey fear face? Nah amadioha, ogun and 50 other gods go strike both of them to oblivion. You come here to talk about karma, what does karma have against these God fearing guys? The bad guys always take care of business no slacking. But woe betide you if your wife finds out that your weak. My brother nah gateman go they nak am akpako. But if she fears your every move, she will be too scared to find out if you put magun there or not. So coming back to karma, you are a young girl dating your father's senior as a sugardaddy, do you expect your man now, not to be a sugardaddy to some other young girls? Well just asking. Remember ladies karma is a biatch.

pro01: Only a dubious woman demands trust from her husband or partner. A genuinely virtuous woman earns it. . .and strives to retain it - simply by keeping her hands clean and her path straight. You don't insist on keeping male 'friends' or going on 'business trips' with your randy boss, and yet expect a sensible husband to trust you.

Any sensible man would NEVER trust any human being (let alone a woman) 100%. That's pure foolishness. If there are sufficient grounds for suspicion, then by all means a man must conduct a paternity test to clear all doubts. A truly good woman wouldn't get angry with her husband for doing that. She would get angry with herself for not doing enough to earn his trust.

Only sneaky, slimy, deceitful women (and they are in the majority) would make foolish noise or threaten divorce (you can imagine) when their serial unfaithfulness is under suspicion.

calculusx: Men are so funny as if it's only the women alone that can get pregnant. Am not condoning unfaithful women but it takes two. Men are the ones going up and down pursuing married and unmarried women too. So if men stop that then where will the women get another man's baby. Both parties are to blame but men are always quick to blame the women smh. A few encounters or even 80percent of your encounters or other men encounters does not mean that all women have kids for other men and you can't trust them. Those kind of women who do that shows alot about what kind of women you go for.

Yes i listened to the programme that particular Saturday and i was surprised with the revelation. He also confirmed a greater percentage of First Born are not with their biological fathers. Women women women, i hail thee