::Andrew:::
Could you lend me the friend?

::Andrew:::
Could you lend me the friend?

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Mynd_44:
Ole

190-the-clown:
Ure dealing with 2 Nigerian Girls - CARRY GO
I'm sure u have 2 wills for both of them cos by the-time they are done with
You - come January you would visit your bank and get kicked out for wasting their time checking your account balance

::Andrew:::

hahaha u wan chop d two?

wetin concern you nah

::Andrew:::

ok borrow me the stubbron 1

Are you ready to woo her for a year ?

::Andrew:::

life_style:

wetin concern you nah



Are you ready to woo her for a year ?

Mynd_44:
Thief

life_style: Hello everyone,

I am in a very confused and devastated state as i write this, After my ex jilted me few years ago, i decided to move on with my life and start all over again - It has been difficult i must confess.

I meet a girl that I admire, she is beautiful,tall,slim, fair in complexion and most importantly, hard working + she is a calabar girl.

I decided to ask her out but she turned my proposal down immediately, i advised her to think about it letting her understand that the plans i have for her is of good and not of evil but she was adamant.

I persisted trying to convince her but all my efforts proved abortive. she was very stubborn, it got to a point where she said she will never give in no matter what i say or do and advised me to give up on her.

Given up means losing, i don't want to be tagged a loser, i hate losing, i have invested a lot and i couldn't afford to let go at that point.

Last month she introduced her friend to me and i took them out for a lunch date, her friend is beautiful- birds of a feather, we chatted and had fun, i thought that was all but i was amazed when i saw her request on facebook to be my friend, i added her and we started chatting.

A week later, i asked her out and she inquired about my relationship with her friend but i told her there was nothing between us and sincerely speaking as at that time there was nothing.

Surprisingly, the same day i asked her out she said YES. I was happy. Two weeks later, the first/stubborn girl said YES, After a year. i was speechless. Now i am confused i don't know what to do.

Please, I will like to know if any one has ever been in this situation of mine ? ever dated two friends at the same time? what was the out come ? can i eat my cake and have it ?

I will like to stop here, waiting for mature advice on what to do cos i am in a confused state.

Thank you in advance.

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I feel like keeping both of them, I find it difficult to drop one for the other that's why i am here to seek advice.

If i drop the stubborn girl, i will be at lost. And if i drop the "easy girl" she will think i lied to take advantage of her.

dmcdad:

Ha ha ha ha ha ga ga ga ga ga. This guy, u 2 funny.. Naija gurlz dn really suffer 4 ur hand

mondi_cheeks: What mature response can u possibly expect from asking such a stupid question. The first girl wldnt have said yes unless u were still perusing her even after the other one accepted to date u

Rocktation: Only one week?...guy, I fear you oo.



Before you get your fingers burnt, why don't you ask her friend whether she's told her about your relationship already?

I don't think she told her friend about it. she wouldn't do that.

She may have been spurred to say yes, given the competition she saw. And if it turns out that she's been told, would that be the kind of person you would want to be with? A person so heartless, that wants to steal her friend's man...plus very selfish; not wanting to have you but not letting any else to.

dmcdad: @OP, its plain and simple. Plz, dont make a mountain out of a mole-hill. Search ur heart and discern on both of them to know the one you would really love to be with.. After that, you just have to call the other and explain everything to her and make sure she understands.. It might bring about a bit of complication, buh it's better of in the long run. Plz, don't try to play the smart-guy cuz you are gonna lose at both ends..

Be wise and... Act fast!

Thank you bro, i will act fast.

life_style:

Thank you bro, i will act fast.

fairygeh: hehehe,so shes now an 'easy girl' cos she accepted you,now this is why some ladies actually take their time before they say YES to a guy,if she takes her time,u say shes playing hard to get,she agrees immediately now u call her easy.SMH for guys o,what do guys realy want?nyway @ topic you are in the best position to choose who you feel is best for u.

life_style:

I feel like keeping both of them, I find it difficult to drop one for the other that's why i am here to seek advice.

If i drop the stubborn girl, i will be at lost. And if i drop the "easy girl" she will think i lied to take advantage of her.