mondi_cheeks:
U r judging a person based on trivial things that lead most of yall into fvcked up marriages that's what I'm saying. U spend so much time focusing on things that are less important. I know a guy who ditched his gf because she had a miscarriage. he had impregnanted another girl on the side. he went on to marry the side-chick because he thought that his real gf myt have a problem wit carrying a child again. Funny thing is the other gf was promiscuous but he has no knowledge of it. She only told him she was pergnant after 5months...probably stil trying to figure out who in the hell was responsible... Lucky enough the child looks a whole lot like his mother so he may never know if the child is truly his or not. That's what yall want right? What seems perfect before the eyes, that's all

Sagamite:

You have not answered my question. Will you date a dwarf?

AyaSammy:

Spoilt goods by some contaminated and infectious being (guys)

cantell:

I'd like to be a father when I'm ready not in compromise.

mondi_cheeks: why not if I love him?

cantell:
You sound like a single mother - fighting everyone with a negative opinion about single mothers.
@topic,
If not for the new generation and the constant change in our society, women used to keep their virginity for their wedding night as a gift to their husbands.
These days, some give birth to one or two children while they're single and they still wish for a knight in shining armour.
Getting married to someone is a problem on its own, add a little brat to the equation and you have situation in your hands.
I'd like to be a father when I'm ready not in compromise.

Sagamite:

What took you so long to answer?

So you have to love a dwarf before you date him?

So what are the chances you can fall in love with a dwarf?

mondi_cheeks: I'm sure I made my answer clear. Am I suppose to be on NL all day

Sagamite:

That does not really answer my questions. It appears evasive.

I will ask again:

So you have to love a dwarf before you date him?

So what are the chances you can fall in love with a dwarf?

mondi_cheeks: I have to fall in love wit a guy before I date him, whether dwarf or he is as tall as victor matfield

SAGirl: This still all boils down to one simple conclusion: everyone to his own. If you are a man and you feel you do not want anything to do with a woman who has already born a child... then fine. It is okay. Single women are not missing out on anything by not having an opportunity to be with you... you are doing THEM a favor.

I have a friend who is dating a single mother of 3: one of her own, one adopted, plus her young brother. He adores her and her kids.

Children are a gift, and men who choose to be with women who have children undertand that. They are not baggage, they are not a burden, they are a gift.

I'm in love with a man who has a little daughter. And i fell in love with the little girl before her father. She is to die for and i would love nothing better than to contribute to the woman she is going to be one day.

Sagamite:

Okay, that answers the first part. Thank you very much, mondi_cheeks.

Now the second one:

So what are the chances you can fall in love with a dwarf?

mondi_cheeks: I'm not a prophet I don't know when I will meet a dwarf that will like me and want to have a relationship wit me

Sagamite:
It would sound evasive if they come with such answer.

mondi_cheeks: "you sound like you are avoiding the question" would have been the correct way of putting it. Clear and simple, please don't use verbose words if u don't know when to use them

mondi_cheeks: Well if u were as clever as u try to make urself sound, u would jus know that it means 'I don't know'

mondi_cheeks: Well if u were as clever as u try to make urself sound, u would jus know that it means 'I don't know'

mondi_cheeks: Smh let me go to sleep

mondi_cheeks: A Stupid man focuses on a girl's mistake and forget the shitload hey did in his own past. He probably made a couple of women mothers and a few other abort. The value of a woman is not measured by the mistakes she made in the past but what she is willing to have and maintain a healthy relationship with a man she loves. I don't see anything with ending up with a divorcee because the are human too and they probably have more insight about what not to do in marriage

mondi_cheeks: I wouldn't mind. Women are mature enough to understand that his child can never stop her from loving and sharing a happy life with him ans it wld be good for tht child to grow up in a home where the parental figures are living together too. We stil have mature pple who think and reason beyond ur level

mondi_cheeks: so u wld rather sacrifice a whole life time of happiness wit a woman u love simply because u wld not be okay with what will happen on her child's wedding day (one day) wow...ur reasoning amazes me

mondi_cheeks: u reason like a child. Having a child outside marriage has never affected a woman's capability to be a good wife or girlfriend, labeling her before you even know her is simply childish. My father married my mother when she had twins as a result of rape in her teenage years. He took the twins like his own and now they are married, he adores his grandchildren from the twins, they turned out to be so beautiful and successful. A real man sees beyond what is considered perfection by society. My mother is an amazing woman, she loves her husband dearly and she has been through thick and thin with him. The fact that she had children at 19 never affected her capability of being a supportive, faithful and loyal wife.

mondi_cheeks: negate rule of of lack of reasoning logically? Being prejudious, yet not wanting to be judged for ur own errors? So explain to me if it's all about choices, why do men get emotional when a woman finds him unsuitable because he isn't rich. The same people who show no loyalty to a woman because of her past expect to be shown loyalty when he is broke? horse crap

mondi_cheeks: I have grown up...well enough to know that I shud never focus on a person's past..stuff happens and it can never be changed...focus on the future because that's what's important. Only a grown up person would understand that. Juveniles are too focused on the past that they fail to see the future and the joys it can bring. My dear a logical person sees beyond past mistakes, those mistakes don't determine what the future will be like

mondi_cheeks:
how is a convertible car a requirement, for a guy? I can afford taking myself out for dinner,why should I wait for another man to it for me? Just because u have been around woman that expect a whole lot they can't give back in return,doesn't mean every woman is like that. And jus because a woman had an extra-marital child does not mean should be valued less...don't prejudge...if don't take the time to find a woman with the right qualities u will always think that big butt and pretty face is all there is to a woman. Material possession can attract a woman but once she finds better, she will leave quicker than she came into ur life. My point being u base ur decisions and opinions on trivial things. I said u are not being logical because u value a woman according to her past choices or mistakes instead of a bright and happy future she is capable of providing for

mondi_cheeks:
U r judging a person based on trivial things that lead most of yall into fvcked up marriages that's what I'm saying. U spend so much time focusing on things that are less important. I know a guy who ditched his gf because she had a miscarriage. he had impregnanted another girl on the side. he went on to marry the side-chick because he thought that his real gf myt have a problem wit carrying a child again. Funny thing is the other gf was promiscuous but he has no knowledge of it. She only told him she was pergnant after 5months...probably stil trying to figure out who in the hell was responsible... Lucky enough the child looks a whole lot like his mother so he may never know if the child is truly his or not. That's what yall want right? What seems perfect before the eyes, that's all

Shollypopz:

Sagamite:

If you want me to notice you, I will never notice you like that.

You will have to work far harder and in different style to get my attention.

mondi_cheeks: I have to fall in love wit a guy before I date him, whether dwarf or he is as tall as victor matfield

mondi_cheeks: sagamite I don't know why u wasted ur time quoting and writing long azz paragraphs wch I wil never bother to read. That quote alone answer all ur question if I love a guy (regardless of race, deformity or height) I will date him. U really put in all ur effort I must say, I wld never waste that many words on u in one post.

Sagamite:

Lying hypocrite.

https://www.nairaland.com/1104680/consider-height-major-issue-choosing/1#13026167

mondi_cheeks: women love nd marry men whose ugliness they re not comfortale with...how am I a hypocrite . I never said I wldnt love the person...I said I wldnt be comfortable

2sexy: chei chei chei.. oga mi Sagamite... you don finish this Angolan!

She sabi claim holy holy no be small.... no be today I know her. Imagine!


[size=20pt]Nailed To The Cross[/size]

2sexy: Oga Sagamite, you get enough time ooo
Not me. I know this girl wella... she is very good at arguing blindly...