Nightshift: You were perhaps a baby-boy in 1990. Was her Crown taken from her? Definitely not, please don't sound irrational.

Baby mama:

You see the reason why you men should not play away matches
Just marry one woman and stick to her
All these marry here,remarry there,born here born there dey confusing

Nightshift: Such reasoning is only possible in a weak culture like ours. Do you know how many years between Talk Show host Larry King and his current wife? We have to get over unnecessary conservative values. Besides, Onoh later accepted her daughter's wish. Bianca's mother supported her from the beginning.

baby-boy:



She won it yes, but the whole thing was a farce from Silver-bird (Ben Bruce) It was a joke, it was a contestant from Venezuela and another that passed out, tell why did she relinquish the title?

kingoflag:

Yeah, in YOUR society and YOUR Culture! Fortunately, I also share cultures with Larry King and I can blatantly tell you that in the Marital Department (in the eyes of public opinion) Larry King is a failure. So what are you trying to sell me?

I do not care either way that Ojukwu and Bianca ended up together; they were both adults, thus they knew what they were doing. However, I think it is perverted, sick and selfish to decide that the one woman you want also happens to be your god daughter (and child of your friend) whom you were older than by more than 30yrs. I do not care how much you revere Ojukwu, I think that action was sick. Before you Justify Ojukwu's actions with respect to courting Bianca, Google the name "WOODY ALLEN" and see what comes up. His case is eerily similar to Ojukwu's --- Larry King is not a good example.

You are making a mistake thinking I have a problem with the age difference. No, I dont. Anyone can find love in any circumstance. Love transcends a lot of things including age. But, sometimes you gotta let your morals play the lead role in your decisions, and marrying your God-daughter or Step-Daughter-- no matter how you want to spin it-- shows that you lack (and have no respect for) certain simple and very important principles that normal everyday people in modern society are supposed to have.

Baby mama:

Abi o
Why do men leave such conditions,how can you control your wife in death?this is so common
Men think they are smart
That is exactly what any wise woman will do
Sell the land and buy another then re- marry

Nightshift: As a conservative, you are entitled to your opinion and world views; and as a liberal, i'm entitled to my views as wells. We're from different aisle. Isn't that the beauty of democracy?

kingoflag:

Why would you add words to my original post, then put it up as if I originally made the post? When did I ever say anything about conservatism or liberalism?

Besides, my take on an action is what makes you decide that Im conservative and youre liberal? First, it was assuming my culture, now its on to assuming my political leanings or social ideology. What the hell has this discussion got to do with "the beauty of democracy".

Honestly, you sound like you just came off the boat and are just eager to use these new words you just learned.

E_KARO: women are something else.so nowshe was the only one making sacrifices .did someone force her to stay? This will teach men that some women r hoes.period

Nightshift: Sorry, but i quickly corrected it. I'm currently enjoying a bottle of a nice South African red wine in cold Germany(-7degrees). Do conservatives like red wine?

Andre Uweh:
How about the houses in Lagos?. Who got them?.

Nightshift: Back in 1985 after Bianca won Miss Nigeria contest, rumours were that Chief C.C.Onoh was against her coal-city queen daughter having an affair with Ikemba. Nobody could then imagine how strong their love was, or that Bianca would become the most important person in Ojukwu's life. Destiny makes people...

Baby mama:

You see the reason why you men should not play away matches
Just marry one woman and stick to her
All these marry here,remarry there,born here born there dey confusing

Nightshift: Being in secondary school in Enugu when Bianca Onoh came to limelight, having friends who worked for her brother GB and having lived in one of Chief Onoh's houses at GRA Enugu, makes it impossible for me to accept any lies against Onoh family. Bianca was born in a rich and hardworking family. She loved Ojukwu with all her life. Fertig!!

Negro_Ntns:

...did you find who got these houses yet? You have 6 months, no.....make it 60hrs, to find who will get them.

outofthebox:
Are u for real?a light skinned ting brain-washes an old man dat he neglects his first son and dumps his wealth in the hands of smone not old enough as his first son..and u open ur mouth to call him hero?he didnt manage his family well and dats unlike igbo..d family would be in crisis forever..

Classicalman:


Silverbird organised it in 1985? Dude, are u sure u ain't high on some cheap weed?

kingoflag:

Germany!!! And hes here telling us about Larry King, U.S, Conservatives and Liberals. My man, shut the hell up, sit your wannabe a** in a corner somewhere and sip your red wine in peace. You dont sound sane.

Ogojohn: THE LAGOS HOUSES WAS RETURNED TO THE REAL OWNERS.OTL. HIS FATHERS COMPANY

Baby mama:

Let me teach you Igbo culture
Call it what you may but if a man did not carry wine and properly ask for a woman's hand in marriage and perform the necessary marital rights,the child in question cannot be counted as his children.
That is just the way it is
If a woman likes let her deliver triplets,all boys ,if he did not marry her in the proper traditional way before or after the birth,the children belong to the mother not the man and so have no inheritance unless the man chooses to recognize them in a will
Without a will he gets nada
I am surprised he is bearing Ojukwu as his last name
In Igboland if the mother was not a wife,the children bear their mother's last name
There is a clear distinction in Igbo custom between a wife and a concubine or mistress
They are not on equal footing
So the man should stop claiming first son,Ojukwu never married his mother and did not recognize him as first son. .

Nightshift: Who gets mad sipping a glass of wine? Though far away, but well informed about happenings in Igboland. Could i have wrote about someone here in Bavaria than a popular US celebrity? The world is small my friend. You want to hear about Jay Leno? As for a wannabe, what the hell is that, harry?

Negro_Ntns:

Babymama, your wahala too much. Odumegwu put the man in his will. Tell me my sista, in igboland does the culture overrides the will?