Ms_Steph: pls tell me d benefits I want to know. Pls poster don't let any1 deceive u here. If u are not willing to change ur religion no nid 4 dat marriage. As 4 ur ex bf don't go back to him even if u marry him he will still cheat on u nd say after all u knew his lifestyle b4 u married him

wazobia_for_u: So many people have not learn from others mistake, there are so many people that are living in sadness now because they left what MARRIAGE is for, (LOVE) for another thing ( Money,Fame,Ethnic,Religion,Color) if you ever marry because of this then you are having your marriage attach to something that can not hold you back when fall, is only LOVE that can hold you back.
Its better if you can meet a marriage councellor because many people here will advice you with a bias mind, imagine : davroca16, Eze Promoe, they spoke only on the religion perspective and said nothing about your first BF.
There are many Christian men that marry more than one wives now, some are even pastors, check within your street and your family and also you will see some muslims that never cheated on their wife talkless of having more than one, there are millions of muslim that now smoke and drink alcohol in which there religion forbid it while you see xtian that never taste alcohol before even xtianity permit it to some extent.
My advice for you is that, try to know him very well, if he is the type that carry religion for head (dont marry extremist) but if he has all you want and not decieving you, then hook to him
As for your first BF, the first relationship someone has in his/her life is the Best considering if you are mature by then, and if that relationship fail and full of sorrow, i doubt if the relationship will ever work again because you are now full of experiences and your best was given at first.
Dont be suprise many that advice you to go for something else apart love will go for love if they were in your shoes.

You can attack me and call me atheist, you fools

foliks: I am a christian lady dating a Muslim guy for about a year now,the guy has been everything a woman can ever ask for in a man. Before I met him I dated my first boyfriend for 5yrs but those years were the saddest years of my life and each time I try to leave,he comes back begging and another relationship.

I was supposed to have left me because he found out my first boyfriend is still around now my first bf is back begging again and has gone to beg my aunty. Now my aunty who is like my mum cos my biological mum is dead has refused to support my new relationship and even said I should give my ex another chance since my new bf is a Muslim and now we are not even speaking to each other because she feels my new relationship is the reason am not accepting him back...


I don't know what to do,please what do you advice

bunmila:
That christian lady has totally lost her way and needs serious prayers

Eze Promoe:
Dating is advisable for you two but marriage? Hell no. If it leads to marriage, then you're a sad being forever. Islam don't support equality between men and women!

dridowu: Undastanding each is d most imp tin in marage, my dad a practising muslim, my mum a practisng christian, 35years of marraige and still counting. GOD SO GRATEFUL TO MY PARENT AND FAMILY

mutaalim:

Count your yourself among the luckiest person on earth for the opportunity Allah has already bestowed on me (as long as you will become a muslima)you will see the benefit, reward ................

Regards

enigmagu1: if he will chng frm darkness to light den marry him....what communion has light with darknessss?
If truly ur a born again christain den u shud knw wat is good for u and wat is not.
D Bible made it clear dat we shud not be equally yoked together wit d unbelievers..

You dnt nid ani advice just follow bible instruction...
Goodluck....

bunmila:
That christian lady has totally lost her way and needs serious prayers

nwando:

Do you want the truth or do you want people to tell you what you want to hear?
I will give you the nak.ed truth.

Are you a Christian or a church goer?
If you are indeed a Christian ,you should know what your Bible tells you about unequal yoking
do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers your Bible says.
People can give you all sorts of examples but what does God say about your marriage with a non Christian?
It is outside the will of God for you and it is clear
If he is not ready to be a Christian,forget about him
A Nigerian woman in London was stabbed to death the other day by her Muslim partner because he wanted the children to be raised Muslims
That is the dilemma you will be faced,what will your children be?

If you truly believe that Jesus is the Son of God and Savior of the world and died on the cross for you and that no one comes to the father but by him,why on earth would you even consider marriage with a non believer?

open your Bible and read it and allow God to lead you.

Marriage is tough in itself,them to add an unbelieving to the mix
Who are you going to pray a prayer of agreement with when things are not going right?
What scripture will he admonish with?
What principles will you teach your children
Have you thought about other women on your matrimonial bed along the line

[size=18pt]Do not let this young man sweet talk you or deekmatize you into a funke Akindele mess

The Scripture is clear but the choice is still yours

If you want a big sister to talk to more on this issue,email me
Cheers
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Btw forget that old BF

kpencheruwe:

They call muslims unbelievers but if a muslim refer to xtians as kafir them go bribg doen the whole NL!

Afam4eva: Firstly, i'll advice you not to label yourself a Christian. It's not everyone that goes to church that is a christian. If you were a Christian, then you'll have no reason being with someone whose belief is at variance with the bible. I'm quoting the bible.

Ericsdm55: Want an honest advice?, then run as fast as ur foot can tek u.

mutaalim:

Count your yourself among the luckiest person on earth for the opportunity Allah has already bestowed on me (as long as you will become a muslima)you will see the benefit, reward ................

Regards

kasheemawo: are u quoting from Queen James version

Saksreal:
Fallacy of irrelevant conclusion.

[size=18pt]Ignorance is truly a disease[/size]

nwando:

Do you want the truth or do you want people to tell you what you want to hear?
I will give you the nak.ed truth.

Are you a Christian or a church goer?
If you are indeed a Christian ,you should know what your Bible tells you about unequal yoking
do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers your Bible says.
People can give you all sorts of examples but what does God say about your marriage with a non Christian?
It is outside the will of God for you and it is clear
If he is not ready to be a Christian,forget about him
A Nigerian woman in London was stabbed to death the other day by her Muslim partner because he wanted the children to be raised Muslims
That is the dilemma you will be faced,what will your children be?

If you truly believe that Jesus is the Son of God and Savior of the world and died on the cross for you and that no one comes to the father but by him,why on earth would you even consider marriage with a non believer?

open your Bible and read it and allow God to lead you.

Marriage is tough in itself,them to add an unbelieving to the mix
Who are you going to pray a prayer of agreement with when things are not going right?
What scripture will he admonish with?
What principles will you teach your children
Have you thought about other women on your matrimonial bed along the line

[size=18pt]Do not let this young man sweet talk you or deekmatize you into a funke Akindele mess

The Scripture is clear but the choice is still yours

If you want a big sister to talk to more on this issue,email me
Cheers
[/size]


Btw forget that old BF

nwando:

Do you want the truth or do you want people to tell you what you want to hear?
I will give you the nak.ed truth.

Are you a Christian or a church goer?
If you are indeed a Christian ,you should know what your Bible tells you about unequal yoking
do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers your Bible says.
People can give you all sorts of examples but what does God say about your marriage with a non Christian?
It is outside the will of God for you and it is clear
If he is not ready to be a Christian,forget about him
A Nigerian woman in London was stabbed to death the other day by her Muslim partner because he wanted the children to be raised Muslims
That is the dilemma you will be faced,what will your children be?

If you truly believe that Jesus is the Son of God and Savior of the world and died on the cross for you and that no one comes to the father but by him,why on earth would you even consider marriage with a non believer?

open your Bible and read it and allow God to lead you.

Marriage is tough in itself,them to add an unbelieving to the mix
Who are you going to pray a prayer of agreement with when things are not going right?
What scripture will he admonish with?
What principles will you teach your children
Have you thought about other women on your matrimonial bed along the line

[size=18pt]Do not let this young man sweet talk you or deekmatize you into a funke Akindele mess

The Scripture is clear but the choice is still yours

If you want a big sister to talk to more on this issue,email me
Cheers
[/size]


Btw forget that old BF

nwando:

Do you want the truth or do you want people to tell you what you want to hear?
I will give you the nak.ed truth.

Are you a Christian or a church goer?
If you are indeed a Christian ,you should know what your Bible tells you about unequal yoking
do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers your Bible says.
People can give you all sorts of examples but what does God say about your marriage with a non Christian?
It is outside the will of God for you and it is clear
If he is not ready to be a Christian,forget about him
A Nigerian woman in London was stabbed to death the other day by her Muslim partner because he wanted the children to be raised Muslims
That is the dilemma you will be faced,what will your children be?

If you truly believe that Jesus is the Son of God and Savior of the world and died on the cross for you and that no one comes to the father but by him,why on earth would you even consider marriage with a non believer?

open your Bible and read it and allow God to lead you.

Marriage is tough in itself,them to add an unbelieving to the mix
Who are you going to pray a prayer of agreement with when things are not going right?
What scripture will he admonish with?
What principles will you teach your children
Have you thought about other women on your matrimonial bed along the line

[size=18pt]Do not let this young man sweet talk you or deekmatize you into a funke Akindele mess

The Scripture is clear but the choice is still yours

If you want a big sister to talk to more on this issue,email me
Cheers
[/size]


Btw forget that old BF