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Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by beejaay: 2:23pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
nwando:there is truely no difference between you and boko guys. yours is mind terrorist while they are what they are.people like you need to be shipped out of this country to where u all belong. kei we are in trouble in this country |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by harbibi: 2:24pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
Afam4eva: Firstly, i'll advice you not to label yourself a Christian. It's not everyone that goes to church that is a christian. If you were a Christian, then you'll have no reason being with someone whose belief is at variance with the bible. I'm quoting the bible.Shikena! Case closed. 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by ziccoit: 2:25pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
Eze Promoe: Islam preaches and supports equity between male and female. There is nothing like equality. It is an attempt at deception. There is no law whether civil, traditional or religion that can bring equality between male and female. |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by beejaay: 2:25pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
doctorbabs: . am telling u religion will neva allow dis country to grow, why are we deceiving ourself as if polyggamy is perculiar to muslims, according to our holy is allow to mary more than one wife but not compulsory, abi whay is essemce of one wife, thousands concubines outside. who is decebong who?. if lady love the muslim guy let her go ahead if she ready to practise his faith or look for broda ezekiel in ur denominationthanks for your post. the muslims call them kafr and they call them unbelievers. kettle calling pot black. we are in it for a long ride |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by kasheemawo(m): 2:26pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
dnawah: Point of correction a church goer dating a moslem.may the Holy spirit slap u front and back,so dat ur eyes will open.4 u to see wat u r doing with the uncircumcise.give Jesus ur life 2day and c 4rm to June u will be happily married.how can i give my life to human being like me;can Jesus create a life? Stop joining almighty God wit marry son.think with ur head that Jesus was merely messenger to Israelites.SMH for u. |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by slye(m): 2:29pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
Even the ignorants claim to know sth! you dated a guy and he keeps f**king up and he keeps coming back and begging? you'd better run for ur life! so when you're married nko. will he stop f**king up ? i doubt that. cos we're who we are. IGNORANTS LEAVE RELIGION OUT OF THIS AND TALK TO HER! !! |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by ebucha: 2:32pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
Remind me of the xtain-muslim riot in kaduna in 2000. Was living in kotoko barracks, kaduna. Unfortunately, most ladies taking refuge in the barracks were xtain blinded by love and married to muslim. If he is yoruba, dear he is ok. If he is a northern muslim, u are already a GONA! Also pray to God ,look good n decent always, travel more, u'll surely find a xtain. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by beejaay: 2:34pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
foliks: I am a christian lady dating a Muslim guy for about a year now,the guy has been everything a woman can ever ask for in a man. Before I met him I dated my first boyfriend for 5yrs but those years were the saddest years of my life and each time I try to leave,he comes back begging and another relationship.my dear dont ever allow anyone to derail you with their reasoning. religion =culture+spirituality. being spiritual has nothing to do with religion but religion has everything to do with culture. check xtianity and u will see its full of roman culture while Islam is full of arabs culture. the spiritual aspect if u check standout the same for all the religions of the world. dont be cajoled for this is you life and not a dress rehearsal and only can create the reality you want from it not what people tell you.interpretation differs which is why some people study hermeneutics of languages which happen to be the major problem of philosophy(the problem of infinite regression). in the end all that matter is you before you reconnect with everything else (how can you reconnect with everything else if you dont really know hw to create your own reality, the real essence of Christ which is SALVATION, the real wisdom of Muhammad which is SUBMISSION, the real understanding of Buddha which is Enlightment 'the end of suffering'. please my dear follow your heart |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by beejaay: 2:37pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
kasheemawo: how can i give my life to human being like me;can Jesus create a life? Stop joining almighty God wit marry son.think with ur head that Jesus was merely messenger to Israelites.SMH for u.can u also see you are silly how did u know Muhammad was a prophet, were u there?? how did u know Jesus was a messenger (ohh because your Quran said so), grow up and respect individual way of reasoning and conviction.how are u even sure u are real and existing (can u prove it??) 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by Nobody: 2:37pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
The truth is, its not going to work.. At some point he's gonna marry another wife.... And another, And another. Islam doesn't preach equality between men and women... So when you get married, your gonna become a typical house wife, or a sex slave...And the truth is, at some point one religion is gonna give way for the other. So its your choice... Marry a Christian man and live a life of freedom, or marry a Muslim man, get converted and end up as a slave. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by mutaalim(m): 2:43pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
Let respect people view, less abusive words |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by beejaay: 2:45pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
Toluwarni: The truth is, its not going to work.. At some point he's gonna marry another wife.... And another, And another. Islam doesn't preach equality between men and women... So when you get married, your gonna become a typical house wife, or a sex slave...And the truth is, at some point one religion is gonna give way for the other. So its your choice... Marry a Christian man and live a life of freedom, or marry a Muslim man, get converted and end up as a slave.who tell you there is equality in xtianityyour post actually expose that you have never study your bible or you dont understand everything you have been reading. women have been seen has property from time memorial and its peculiar to almost all religions of the world (with each showing different kind of intolerance the female gender). intolerance to female gender is another reason why all religions are seeing as fallacy by some people of the world. madam/sir read your bible or google it and look for inequalities among genders |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by Nuzo1(m): 2:47pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
Go ahead and marry him: 1. If you truely love each other. 2. If you are both Yoruba. 3. If you guys are compatible. Don't marry him: 1. If he's Hausa. 2. If he lives in the north. Except you are willing to convert to Islam. Its your choice. |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by kasheemawo(m): 2:47pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
beejaay:prove what mumu |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
I dnt see any tin wrong in u marrying him except he is d type dat carries his religion on his head,i broke up wit d moslem guy i ws dating 2yrs ago becos he said b4 we get married i shuld change my religion and it wsnt as if i was askn him to change,even though i loved him so much then,bt love wasnt enuff,i had sit him down and we trashed it out like adults n we broke up.as for ur ex pls dnt even go there,trust me i ve bin there n done dat,it's beta u move on my Dear. |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by Temi231(f): 2:52pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
NO GO AREA |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
beejaay: Its MR. not MADAM.... Got it? |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by kingingkinging: 2:54pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
bunmila: You picked it from my mouth. Jesus said What shall it profit a man 'lady' that gains the whole world 'enjoys love in this world' and loses her soul. What will she give in exchange? Painful. Will the guy accept the sonship of Jesus? Will the guy accept the Lordship of Jesus? Will the guy allow you to worship your God in Spirit and Truth as the Father desires it? Will Love/ Marriage take you to Heaven? Your salvation is greater than any earthly or terrestrial relationship. 4 Likes |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by bukatyne(f): 2:55pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
foliks: I am a christian lady dating a Muslim guy for about a year now,the guy has been everything a woman can ever ask for in a man. Before I met him I dated my first boyfriend for 5yrs but those years were the saddest years of my life and each time I try to leave,he comes back begging and another relationship.For you to date a muslim and entertain thoughts of marrying him means you are not a christian. That said, if you two love each other, why not? |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
kasheemawo: Am a Muslim guy and engaged to Christian lady since there is true love;now she can read and write in Arabic even telling me sometimes to go and pray,OP if you truly loves him and he loves u too pls go ahead of your second dating......Sorry to burst your bubble, the gurl you are referring to is not a christian but one of the bench warmers. 4 Likes |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by olapluto(m): 2:57pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
My dear sister, please ignore most of the comments from your fellow Christians here. They are mostly hypocritical. Some of them have denounced/rejected your Christianity. Others have said you're not well yoked, and they dont dress in omellette either. They have been fanatical even to the point of rejection. Such is the unfortunate intolerance amongst some Christians. I am a product of a Muslim/Christian marriage and I will not advice you against it. You endured 5 years of pain in the hands of your equally yoked Christian, and your fellow Christians are asking you to continue in this pain just to 'preserve your salvation'. You need to sit down and ask where your happiness fits in. Someone said Islam does not treat women right and does not respect women. I will use your story (and mine) as a rebuttal. Your Christian fellows have refused to consider your pains and happiness in their faith appeals. This is never done in Islam. I personally grew up with annoyingly intolerant maternal Uncles and cousins who come to our house and want to 'enforce' Christianity. They ask us to lose our eyes and pray to Jesus even in my dad's presence. The tolerance I learnt from my dad's action is what is helping me to date. You know what you see and like in this Muslim brother. You see his respect for you and your values. The ball is in your court. You do not need to convert to Islam by marrying him. My mother has been married for over 30 years now and is still not a Muslim. While she is closer to Islam than Christianity, no one ever forced a religion on her. She says 'inshaallah', recites suratul fathia, etc, simply because she has seen the work of Allah on her family. In Islam, there is no compulsion. You will see the beauty in it and join because of that. No matter how others try to portray it otherwise, the truth is with those close to Muslims. 5 Likes |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by Jazzgreen(m): 2:58pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
kasheemawo: how can i give my life to human being like me;can Jesus create a life? Stop joining almighty God wit marry son.think with ur head that Jesus was merely messenger to Israelites.SMH for u.this is the kinda tinz dat ur husband wil tel u one day.imagin wen ur husband says this crap to u,YOU BETA BE WISE AND QUIT DAT SH*T. All muslims are the same.jst as dis ÜSELESS one jst said dis ÜSELESS tin,so wil dat ur muslim bf say one day.tink twice i say again. 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by mutaalim(m): 3:00pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
fem30:what is the meaning of bench warmers? Regards |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
kasheemawo: how can i give my life to human being like me;can Jesus create a life? Stop joining almighty God wit marry son.think with ur head that Jesus was merely messenger to Israelites.SMH for u.Jesus said I and the father are 1,,to have seen me,is to have seen the father, and NO 1 can go 2 d father except tru me.............the book of John confirms that he z God............. |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by bukatyne(f): 3:03pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
GodzBELOVED: 1st Corinthians 7:13-14 >>>> And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her NOT leave him. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband.Abeg! stop misquoting! IICor 6:14 - 18 and Amos 3:3 says it all! That situation occurs when they were both unbelievers and one party changed. 3 Likes |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by ghetomum: 3:12pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
sayso: WOLE SOYINKA THE JUNIOR CORRECT ME OOOO |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by kasheemawo(m): 3:16pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
fem30:are u reading the post on ur phone from behind? The gurl was a Christian. Op welcome to the religion of peace.
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Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by Saksreal(f): 3:17pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
agabasam: Jesus said I and the father are 1,,to have seen me,is to have seen the father, and NO 1 can go 2 d father except tru me.............the book of John confirms that he z God.............Mark 12:29, "Jesus answered him, the first of all the commandments is; 'Hear O Israel, the LORD our GOD, the LORD is one". |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by EzePromoe: 3:32pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
wazobia_for_u: So many people have not learn from others mistake, there are so many people that are living in sadness now because they left what MARRIAGE is for, (LOVE) for another thing ( Money,Fame,Ethnic,Religion,Color) if you ever marry because of this then you are having your marriage attach to something that can not hold you back when fall, is only LOVE that can hold you back.FYI, and for others who quoted me, I never said anything about bad Islam but lets tell ourselves the truth. Can a woman be an Imam in Islam? No. But a good number of women are pastors in Christianity. A woman has no choice to decide or to be among the law makers in the typical Islam context. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by beejaay: 3:36pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
agabasam: Jesus said I and the father are 1,,to have seen me,is to have seen the father, and NO 1 can go 2 d father except tru me.............the book of John confirms that he z God.............why is it that we dont understand the scriptures most of us claim to follow(muslims inclusive). Jesus saying I and the father are 1 means u become 1 with the almighty once u are operating on the same wavelength with him.u also become one with God once u are in harmony with nature plain simple (the muslims call it friend of Allah, Buddhist call it NIRVANA). that was why jesus what does it profit a man to gain all the world and losses his soul (he is not talking of material things but telling you that everything u are looking for is already within you, looking for it is like giving your soul away. He also said pe patient like the servant waiting for the arrival of the master) ponder on all this meaning. the book will guide you (The Power of NOW by Tolle Echkart) |
Re: What's Your Take On A Christian/Muslim Relationship? by Sike(m): 3:39pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
yuzedo: Gov. Babatunde Fashola = MuslimFirst Lady koh, Her Excelency ni. |
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