ripo: Hmmm... I am seeing dis from a different angle. I think the Op is in a very big trouble. She needs serious fasting and prayer 2 break her from dis 'bondage'. I understand dat some muslim peeps use some fetish means (ofcourse, gud muslims dont encourage dis) to tie down gals of their choice. Such a gal will not see anytin gud in other mean while stil under d influence. The spell naturally breaks after some yrs, but d damage might have been done. Op, if u can be in ur senses, this is d time u need 2 be close 2 God. (Btw, u never told us if both of u are of same tribes, sharing dsame culture eg Yoruba-Yoruba. Dat could mean another tin entirely. Just saying o)

davroca16: Apart from the fact that ur not going to be the first, second, or third wife, the holy bible is not in support of that....

simpleseyi: Pastor Chris Okotie has married two born again Xtians at different times, today he has divorced them at different times. Tinubu and Fashola are muslims who are happily married to Xtians.

simpleseyi:

This person is an illetrate who unfortunately can read and write and even operate the computer. Please if you know any voodoo that can tie people down please give me, I want to tie Sanusi Lamido down so that I can empty CBN vault. NONSENSICAL

murtalaa: my only reservation for marrying a christian girl is that i detest leftovers. Despite abhorrence of premarital sex in the bible, christian of nowardays have made premarital sex a pastime..So no christian girl for me...only a god fearing, untapped muslim girl.

foliks: I am a christian lady dating a Muslim guy for about a year now,the guy has been everything a woman can ever ask for in a man. Before I met him I dated my first boyfriend for 5yrs but those years were the saddest years of my life and each time I try to leave,he comes back begging and another relationship.

I was supposed to have left me because he found out my first boyfriend is still around now my first bf is back begging again and has gone to beg my aunty. Now my aunty who is like my mum cos my biological mum is dead has refused to support my new relationship and even said I should give my ex another chance since my new bf is a Muslim and now we are not even speaking to each other because she feels my new relationship is the reason am not accepting him back...


I don't know what to do,please what do you advice

wazobia_for_u: So many people have not learn from others mistake, there are so many people that are living in sadness now because they left what MARRIAGE is for, (LOVE) for another thing ( Money,Fame,Ethnic,Religion,Color) if you ever marry because of this then you are having your marriage attach to something that can not hold you back when fall, is only LOVE that can hold you back.
Its better if you can meet a marriage councellor because many people here will advice you with a bias mind, imagine : davroca16, Eze Promoe, they spoke only on the religion perspective and said nothing about your first BF.
There are many Christian men that marry more than one wives now, some are even pastors, check within your street and your family and also you will see some muslims that never cheated on their wife talkless of having more than one, there are millions of muslim that now smoke and drink alcohol in which there religion forbid it while you see xtian that never taste alcohol before even xtianity permit it to some extent.
My advice for you is that, try to know him very well, if he is the type that carry religion for head (dont marry extremist) but if he has all you want and not decieving you, then hook to him
As for your first BF, the first relationship someone has in his/her life is the Best considering if you are mature by then, and if that relationship fail and full of sorrow, i doubt if the relationship will ever work again because you are now full of experiences and your best was given at first.
Dont be suprise many that advice you to go for something else apart love will go for love if they were in your shoes.

You can attack me and call me atheist, you fools

Eze Promoe:
Dating is advisable for you two but marriage? Hell no. If it leads to marriage, then you're a sad being forever. Islam don't support equality between men and women!

Mobsync:
NB: before una start to dem yab me, I'm not sure if the spelling of abolution (or is it abulution) is correct. So if it is incorrect, just correct me, no sweat

JOYCEOUS: hehehe!!! C ur hed, I tink it's spelt ABLUTION.

foliks: Tanx to all those who gave quality advice and to dose who started by being a Judge in a supreme court,kudos to u bt one thing I hate most in sum people is hw dey call themselves "christians" instead of "CRITICS" evn Jesus made it clear that we are not allowed to judge bt sum christians continue to judge without evn askin questions and den forget to win souls because rather than preaching,they crucify,if Jesus had done that when He came,I jst wonder where we'll all be by nw so to those who sat in the corners of u house callin me all sort of names,may God forgive u anyway am not surprised because most of u ran to God cause u had problems so you cant rily know much,u call people sinners forgeting what u do in secret,God have mercy on us all

foliks: Tanx to all those who gave quality advice and to dose who started by being a Judge in a supreme court,kudos to u bt one thing I hate most in sum people is hw dey call themselves "christians" instead of "CRITICS" evn Jesus made it clear that we are not allowed to judge bt sum christians continue to judge without evn askin questions and den forget to win souls because rather than preaching,they crucify,if Jesus had done that when He came,I jst wonder where we'll all be by nw so to those who sat in the corners of u house callin me all sort of names,may God forgive u anyway am not surprised because most of u ran to God cause u had problems so you cant rily know much,u call people sinners forgeting what u do in secret,God have mercy on us all

foliks:
He is single o,nt yet married nd he's from a family of 7 where 4 are nw christian so dey see nothing bad wth being a christian

murtalaa: my only reservation for marrying a christian girl is that i detest leftovers. Despite abhorrence of premarital sex in the bible, christian of nowardays have made premarital sex a pastime..So no christian girl for me...only a god fearing, untapped muslim girl.

JallowBah: Damn, there is a lot of prejudice on muslim people in here..

First; The Quran acknowledge Jesus as a prophet. So the people saying "THE MAN MUST KNOW ABOUT JESUS!!!"...he probably already does.

2: A muslim man can marry more than one woman IF, and only IF, he is able to take care of them equally, and the kids it will lead to.

3: A christian can also marry more than one, and many do.

4: Marriage is about compromise, trust and respect.



I could not have said it better.
The hardest thing for us ( he is a muslim, I am agnostic, brought up liberal-christian ) has been the outsiders trying to influence us.
Stranges, family and friends. It takes much work to keep their prejudice on it all outside, and focus on OUR life and happiness, and how WE can make it better, and enjoy OURSELF.
This is OUR marriage, it does not concern anyone else, as long as it is good for US.

Just remember that you will have to teach your kids about both religions. You will be responsible for the christian part, he will e responsible for the muslim part.
You have to decide on how to do with name-givings for the kids.
Christian school, muslim school, public school...
Sunday school, arabic school.
Pig-meat?
Etc, etc.

You will probably have some more obsticles on the way than others, it depends on how you both are as a person, and HOW religious you both are.

kasheemawo: Samkoro,all d Quran and Hadith that quoted are blatant lies which are wrongly misinterpreted.secondly i give u kudos for knowing that Jesus is a messenger of God (same class wit David,mosses,abraham,noah,Adam etc).if many Christians can reason that Jesus has no power to do anything except wit the will of Almighty God; i think they wouldnt be calling him lord. @OP i love ur courage and dont be discouraged,move on with him.may Almighty God bless the union amin.