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Bad In Bed? by Needlelady(f): 1:59am On Apr 07, 2008
It's always the women that complain that men are bad in bed because most of them especially the fat ones rarely last in bed till the woman reaches orgasm. Why do we find it difficult as women to blame ourselves for any bad sex? Can a woman also be bad in bed or must every bad sex be blamed on the man?


Brothers, what will a woman do for you to call her bad in bed?
Re: Bad In Bed? by Cadet(f): 4:05am On Apr 07, 2008
poster, am sorry, but should this not be in the sexuality section?


well, of course, women can be bad in bed, esp. ones that are virgins. they have or should not have any knowledge about sexual activities if they're true virgins. not ones that knows all the high and lows about sexual escapades, but yet persist in wanting to be called a virgin just because she hasn't been poked. grin

women find it hard to blame themselves just as men find it hard to blame. it's nature, why blame myself while i can blame him, that's what we think most times. the man is suppose to be more sexually experience because it is the nature of a man to behave as sexually deprive dogs and to investigate those feelings. therefore, they most know all the hallows and surface education about sex. People often see it as, a man is not a man if he is weak in bed. therefore, if the sex is not good, who else to blame but the man?



this is just my opinion, ofcourse
Re: Bad In Bed? by Nobody: 4:09am On Apr 07, 2008
well, of course, women can be bad in bed, esp. ones that are virgins. they have or should not have any knowledge about sexual activities if they're true virgins. not ones that knows all the high and lows about sexual escapades, but yet persist in wanting to be called a virgin just because she hasn't been poked.


so because she doesn't behave like a stick she shouldn't be called a virgin?
Re: Bad In Bed? by Cadet(f): 4:12am On Apr 07, 2008
stillwater:

so because she doesn't behave like a stick she shouldn't be called a virgin?
madam, i do not understand you. please rephrase the question. thanks
Re: Bad In Bed? by Cadet(f): 4:16am On Apr 07, 2008
Just to let you know. there are virgins and there are Virgins
ex:
Virgin 1:
knows everything there is to know about sex. Knows every position, watches porn, heard stories. Knows how to make a man climax. she has not been poked

Virgin 2:
Naive about sex, but has taken sex education at school. does not know how to excite a man. just a beginner. She too has not been poked
Re: Bad In Bed? by Nobody: 4:19am On Apr 07, 2008
Sir/Ma I was referring to this

they have or should not have any knowledge about sexual activities if they're true virgins. not ones that knows all the high and lows about sexual escapades, but yet persist in wanting to be called a virgin just because she hasn't been poked.
Re: Bad In Bed? by Cadet(f): 4:23am On Apr 07, 2008
stillwater:

Sir/Ma I was referring to this
Basically, I've already explained. there are virgins and there are virgins. read up
Re: Bad In Bed? by Nobody: 4:24am On Apr 07, 2008
So virgin one is no more a virgin all because she knows stuff? In this age of globalization?
Re: Bad In Bed? by Needlelady(f): 4:24am On Apr 07, 2008
People often see it as, a man is not a man if he is weak in bed. therefore, if the sex is not good, who else to blame but the man?

It's a good assumption tho because it took the stress off women. You just don't wanna hear a woman describing a man that is bad in bed, aaaarrrrgh.
Also, nobody wants to listen to a man whining about a particular woman that is bad in bed, double standards I guess.
Re: Bad In Bed? by Needlelady(f): 4:26am On Apr 07, 2008
Basically, I've already explained. there are virgins and there are virgins. read up
What about the uneducated village virgins that knows nothing about sex, will they be called virgin 3?
Re: Bad In Bed? by Cadet(f): 4:30am On Apr 07, 2008
Needlelady:

What about the uneducated village virgins that knows nothing about sex, will they be called virgin 3?

if that's what you think, sure. so which would be virgin 4?

but not completely uneducated,friends talk. kiss and tell wink
Re: Bad In Bed? by Needlelady(f): 4:31am On Apr 07, 2008
so which would be virgin 4?
HotFunmilayo.
Re: Bad In Bed? by Cadet(f): 4:31am On Apr 07, 2008
stillwater:

So virgin one is no more a virgin all because she knows stuff? In this age of globalization?
in my opinion, yes. a slit sheet of tissue might make you a virgin, but educationally and sexually you're not. you already know ways to please a man, what is stopping you from doing good in bed compared to one that is sexually naive?
Re: Bad In Bed? by Cadet(f): 4:32am On Apr 07, 2008
Needlelady:

HotFunmilayo.
ok
Re: Bad In Bed? by Needlelady(f): 4:41am On Apr 07, 2008
ok
I bet you are a guy, which means you lost your virginity at age 5.
Re: Bad In Bed? by Cadet(f): 4:45am On Apr 07, 2008
Needlelady:

I bet you are a guy, which means you lost your virginity at age 5.
rofl.it's ok. everybody makes assumptions.
Re: Bad In Bed? by tpia: 5:49am On Apr 07, 2008
of course women can be bad in bed.

Plenty of complaints over in the sexuality section. undecided
Re: Bad In Bed? by Scopium: 9:45am On Apr 07, 2008
[size=13pt]Some women are really BAD in bed. Some women are simply a log of wood in bed leaving you with one option, cut the damn wood and leave.[/size]
Re: Bad In Bed? by alextayo(m): 11:33am On Apr 07, 2008
From personal experience, some Girls are really bad in Bed that they dont even know how to Bleep a man not to talk of styles and positions. I had to teach some of them wat to do in Bed. All they do is just lie down and moan. Wat a boring LIFE.
Re: Bad In Bed? by Needlelady(f): 2:58pm On Apr 07, 2008
From personal experience, some Girls are really bad in Bed that they don't even know how to mess a man not to talk of styles and positions. I had to teach some of them what to do in Bed. All they do is just lie down and moan. What a boring LIFE.
Pelee, you don't wanna hear her tell her friends how you also suck in bed.
Re: Bad In Bed? by pahtahkee: 3:24pm On Apr 07, 2008
Can a woman also be bad in bed or must every bad sex be blamed on the man?

Brothers, what will a woman do for you to call her bad in bed?
Bad is a relative word. Are you talking of bad implying being excellent? tongue Or bad implying being terrible? embarassed

Yes a woman can also be bad in bed same as the man. And both parties should be blamed often times. It is probably that one party does not feel like having sex while the other is terribly Hot. undecided

For me to refer to a woman to be terrible in bed means if she expects me to do all the hard labor and she just lies down there and enjoys it all. Immediately, I realize such, I get up and off I go. tongue

A woman who cannot use her brains sexually while in bed is terrible. A woman who cannot control her man to make him come when she so desires it is bad in bed. embarassed I am not giving this as an excuse for the men or myself, but as the saying goes, it takes two to tango. . . . . . grin

Just my views though.
Re: Bad In Bed? by Needlelady(f): 3:55pm On Apr 07, 2008
by pahtakhee,
For me to refer to a woman to be terrible in bed means if she expects me to do all the hard labor and she just lies down there and enjoys it all. Immediately, I realize such, I get up and off I go
Yea right! off you go but not before you climax. Isn't that one of the sexual characteristics of men?
Re: Bad In Bed? by Nobody: 4:01pm On Apr 07, 2008
Needlelady:

Yea right! off you go but not before you climax. Isn't that one of the sexual characteristics of men?
lol
Re: Bad In Bed? by pahtahkee: 4:07pm On Apr 07, 2008
Needlelady:

Yea right! off you go but not before you climax. Isn't that one of the sexual characteristics of men?
I intentionally made that statement just to poke at you. tongue I knew you were going to be back with the Male bashing thereafter.

As I said, my views. tongue

Enjoy.
Re: Bad In Bed? by Needlelady(f): 4:12pm On Apr 07, 2008
I intentionally made that statement just to poke at you. I knew you were going to be back with the Male bashing thereafter.

As I said, my views.

Enjoy.
Don't poke me agin please because you men always want to be sleek. Women have learnt to shoot without missing.
Re: Bad In Bed? by pahtahkee: 4:20pm On Apr 07, 2008
Needlelady:

Don't poke me agin please because you men always want to be sleek. Women have learnt to shoot without missing.
What are you shooting at, without missing please? undecided Men?

Enjoy.

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