An undergraduate being burdened with the issue of marriage and you expect him to jump at it with a smile, eh?
Most girls slowly chase their guys away by doing this same shit.
Do u realise the fact that  he gets the feeling that you R trying to tie him down at his young age?
why him no go fear
C'mon give him some breathing space, Haba "aunty Ruth abokoku"

And all u girls talking shit, assume your young prommising brother with a lot of prospects was struggling through school and a girl started bugging him that way what would u advise. Tell the truth!
Trash!

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Are you still crying? I thought you've stopped.
Now, I command you to stop crying in Jesus name(amen)

LMAO, Kola,u are seriously disturbed

av made d same mistake b4,pls run out of his life b4 u regret and cry blood.all d best in ur decisions

d guys ladies die for are BASTARDS,while d ones dat die 4 u are potential life partners.

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LMAO, Kola,u are seriously disturbed

Yes o my sister. Ladies are meant to be treated like angels.

i say we concur n ban men from dis world n den take over

power 2 d females

who's wit mi

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i say we concur n ban men from this world n den take over

power to the females

who's wit mi

For this one i totally disagree with you. Don't you realise that there is no world without men.
Like i said before,women should not be frustrated by men but for women to take over - NO WAY.

Sweetheart,
one thing i know for sure is that men don't like feeling being tied down or committed, hence they don't like talking about marriage especially when they seem not to be ready for it.

Nevertheless, 4 years is a long time enough for you 2 to understand each other. I believe so much in dialogue so i'd advice you sit him down and let him know what and how you feel. He should tell you in plain terms where you two are headed. At least there should be a level of commitment so that you won't be left hanging.

Make out a date, make the setiing romantic and discuss the issue with him, i'm sure he will say something reasonable.
i wish you the best

dont fool your self use your head and your heart will follow. use your heart and you will go mad dump the fool.

@ topic
I'm sorry Miss poster, pele o

It's ur Choice My Dear!--- Must U even Marry him?

Just dump him my dear. There is no a future with such a man,

@Poster
That's all u get when u turn the rules upside down.

Haven't you heard that HE that finds a wife finds a good thing? now u want to be the one to find?

give the young man a break please. let him plan his future first. if you are part of it, let him be the one to tell u ok?

@Topic

If that brother makes you cry, drop his @ss like a bad habit. Life is too short to be wearing clothes made of metal.

Hello girl,
I think u should tk it eazy on him because u guys r still in skule ok.Don't be too pushy about it,wit time u'll know if your B.F. is truly urs or jst tking adv of u.Always be yourself don't crack the relationship jst like that bt be sensitive do what u got to do n standby him when the need arise,make him proud about u that will make him think twice if he wants to hop out.
At this moment i'll like to ask if he contributes at all to the relationship?, because it takes two to TANgle,
Take kia of yourself and do ve a nice day.

When a man really cares for you he is excited about the fact that he will have you in his life in the future. And he will occasionally make a statement pertaining to the future.  And he  won't make you cry . He would rather see you smile . Some men hold on to us until something they think is better comes along. Then they try to get us to leave so that they can avoid the drama. Because if we chose to leave, we are more apt to take them back when things don't work out with the girl they weren't man enough to tell you they were leaving you for.
?You have to determine if this is YOUR situation?
The two of you have been together for 4 years and you have gotten too comfortable with your relationship and he knows it.  You are in school enjoy it. Don't give him all of your time and attention.
Here's the test if he loves you he will chase you. Just don't run too fast if you know what I mean. lol.

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True Talk.

@ poster

my dear what do u need a boyfriend for? What u need now is to finish school, get a job and build urself as a woman then the main man will come.
Dnt waste ur time with that little boy jare.
The guy is still in school, he has a long way to go. he cant add any meaning to ur life.
Y dnt u go for someone older, mature in all areas, capable and wise uh.
i dey tire for una oooooooo.

i guess i av to finish that bible verse for steriod101,the heart of men are desperately wicked so says the bible.Good for you,you still in school,forget him and move on with your life,have been there for 7years too and i know it hurts but life as to continue,Only God decides for a lady,better guys are out there,thou,they all the same but if u go out the matured ones ready to settle,who knows you might be lucky and then the bastard will realise what he lost, stay attractive babe and always pray for direction.

@poster

Hope this video help


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koP3GOIPUyc&feature=related