MAN RULE:never ever get back with an ex unless she becomes famous or popular

Going t cum out straight wit u. If a girl has gotten t d level of being a fiancée n still can't keep her focus, then there's something wrong.
It's usually not about d act, but d reason behind d action. Plus, she's a liar n untrustworthy as well.
Yes, u love her n all that, but why subject yourself t a life where u will b questioning her every move, n f how long?
Good things come t those who wait..truth
There's quality out there..seek f it
As f ur girl, if she done it before, she'll probably do it again.
Keep her around if u want, but look n go f something better, it is out there..
My take

Dyt:

Kingwax?

my signature is ma lawyer! Not denyin na!

Op theres a saying " fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me". Never ever be desperate about a woman who has cheated on you because u feel she has everything that you want. I passed through this same situation late last year and I can tell you that what you're most afraid of is change and not not finding someone who does not have your so called strict attributes. If you settle for less than you deserve, you'll get less than what you settled for

dBard: Going t cum out straight wit u. If a girl has gotten t d level of being a fiancée n still can't keep her focus, then there's something wrong.
It's usually not about d act, but d reason behind d action. Plus, she's a liar n untrustworthy as well.
Yes, u love her n all that, but why subject yourself t a life where u will b questioning her every move, n f how long?
Good things come t those who wait..truth
There's quality out there..seek f it
As f ur girl, if she done it before, she'll probably do it again.
Keep her around if u want, but look n go f something better, it is out there..
My take

thanks so much. the bolded parts are my very concern

we communicate a lot but not like 5-10 calls a day

at least we talk twice daily on fone and i do satisfy her
so am just going to stick around and find someone better.
thanks for all the contributions.

You've done the right thing ma brother. Let her go for gud
Similar acts had happen to me too, and I should av let her
Go then but I made mistake of forgiven her. Now it has come back
To hunt me. Nevertheless, we live together but I don't trust her again

Dyt: ^ are u available for d OP?

u dis madam wat is your own sef ?

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some gals need 2 be given the D real hard without mercy.I cannot trust any babe oh.OP,just let her go

MRbrownJAY: @OP

- playing private detective on your partner, while not knowing what to do when you find incriminating evidence of foul play, was your MISTAKE #1

- while confronting her she told you another lie to cover her deceitful behavior. that should have shown you what kind of ¤$£@%?)* (insert proper insult) that this woman is. not acting on that clue was your MISTAKE #2

- staying with someone because of some priceless attributes that they possess, while disregarding the equally awful and very negative "qualities" that she possess, was your MISTAKE #3

- whether your next gf will possess the right attributes or not IS IRRELEVANT to the fact that this particular woman is NOT RIGHT FOR YOU. the fact that your judgment is very clouded in this subject, is your MISTAKE #4

- talking about time ticking, and not wanting to try this and that girl,shows us that you are desperate and not thinking with your head right now. if you want to be with someone at all cost then by all means stay with this "obviously foul and wrong" girl, but that would ultimately be the reason for your MISTAKE #5

- forgiving someone who does NOT deserve forgiveness (or who does not really regret their act) was your FINAL MISTAKE

I have just one question for you. If the poster were to be a lady and the guy treats her this same way, would this still be your advice?

By the way, op, he kinda nailed it. Read his post over a million times.

butta: u dis madam wat is your own sef ?

Lmao
My comments are makin sm niggas go mad
Buhahahaha

Dyt:

Lmao
My comments are makin sm niggas go mad
Buhahahaha

You're wicked oh. You're married with children meaning you've gotten sense and have reached a certain level. Yet you're making comments defending small girls doing foolish things, WHY? Its not good oh

As i am typing this i had a Deja vu moment.

WackyJ1:
You're wicked oh. You're married with children meaning you've gotten sense and have reached a certain level. Yet you're making comments defending small girls doing foolish things, WHY? Its not good oh

As i am typing this i had a Deja vu moment.

Gd u said small gals
Let dem enjoy their moments
Wen dey are done distributin, dey ll know engine oil no b diesel cos wen u tell dem don't do dis n dat, dey won't listen so best let dem hav their ways

Dyt:

Gd u said small gals
Let dem enjoy their moments
Wen dey are done distributin, dey ll know engine oil no b diesel cos wen u tell dem don't do dis n dat, dey won't listen so best let dem hav their ways

So you're admiting that 18-22 are not old enough to have sense? They're not listening but the effects of their foolishness are hurting us guys (recalls my ex)

Sanboy25:
@OP Do not dump her, pray that the Lord would open her eyes for her to see how great of a man you are.
Give her another chance, if she fails then leave her.
You will not find another good woman easily.
Seek help from your pastor, fast and pray.
Do not forget God is all-powerful.

Gaddamit!
Wicked advice.

I will advc u sit her down and knw wat her problem is. Like sm1 said,its nt abt the act bt the reason for the action.
Nobody is perfect,but with patience and peservance we make one another better. I dont see cheating as her problem,wat i see is lying.

Sm are saying dump her, u will find some1 better..hahaha..i can only laf to that.

If u tackle the reason for the action,and she continues,then u can peacefully back out.

head_to_to: Put pepper into her yummy area.

amen

Dyt: Op
Do u give it to her real good?
Am sure u lack somethings she finds in the other guy
Attention, we ladies likes ow men to b romantic, set us on surprises, u know her beta, u shld know wat she lacks
Bt check d emotional area aha

You have a weird history of supporting waywardness, something in me is pointing to guilty conscience. Is it that you don't find their acts wrong or because you do/did it, others doing it shouldn't be condemned?

Just my curious mind tickling me.

WackyJ1:
So you're admiting that 18-22 are not old enough to have sense? They're not listening but the effects of their foolishness are hurting us guys (recalls my ex)

I can feel ow badly hurt u are
Pele

Naija girls no go kill us

honeric01:

You have a weird history of supporting waywardness, something in me is pointing to guilty conscience. Is it that you don't find their acts wrong or because you do/did it, others doing it shouldn't be condemned?

Just my curious mind tickling me.

ROTFLMFAO

Op seriously?
Dump that girl! Do it now!!! Forgive her bt do not ve anythn to do with her anymore! She wont stop cheating on u, until she clocks 40.

[b]dont dump her, wait till you marry her and your first son looks like her ex,......or the gateman[/b]

Dyt:

Lmao
My comments are makin sm niggas go mad
Buhahahaha

shaking my head for the kind of mama u will become baby mama....iShhh

chidyhels: I will advc u sit her down and knw wat her problem is. Like sm1 said,its nt abt the act bt the reason for the action.
Nobody is perfect,but with patience and peservance we make one another better. I dont see cheating as her problem,wat i see is lying.

Sm are saying dump her, u will find some1 better..hahaha..i can only laf to that.

If u tackle the reason for the action,and she continues,then u can peacefully back out.

Which one is reason for the action again? Did she not know that what she was doing was wrong? She got busted not just once but twice. She is just a selfish person. She wants to eat her cake and have it. You people should stop making up excuses for her.

Same tin happened to me sumtime last year. I got My gf(now my ex) a BB. Months later wherever she is, her BB is always with her. wen i confront her, she'll say her friends are always chatting with her. On a faithful nite, i had to wake up and check her phone. Gosh!!! To my surprise, i saw request of nude pic of her from sum of her male friends and she sent some her pu.sy pic, bosom and a55 pic. den sum of dem sent her their di*k pic. My eyes full that day. Den listening to d voice message conversations i just concluded i was with a porn star.
The following morning i did my normal morning intimacy but dis time wit brutality, pleasure, pains and tears. Pls note dat most students in d higher institutions are Potential harlots.

butta: shaking my head for the kind of mama u will become baby mama....iShhh

English pls

@op , I truly feel sorry for you, but have you come to think of it this way ? The guy might be her weak point , she might have been trying to end it with the guy. , but is hard , been that the guy has touched a place in her heart , or body . Who knows , the guy might be good in bed than u , hence she finds it difficult to let go ...you if you love her , then you guys should see a counsellor together , she might just be truly sorry and willing to change ...you guys could start all over again , and right the wrong , you might not be giving her what she wants ...you both should take a test , write down what you guys both want ...I hate it when I see relationship crumble, though have had my own share of it

oses4u: Same tin happened to me sumtime last year. I got My gf(now my ex) a BB. Months later wherever she is, her BB is always with her. wen i confront her, she'll say her friends are always chatting with her. On a faithful nite, i had to wake up and check her phone. Gosh!!! To my surprise, i saw request of nude pic of her from sum of her male friends and she sent some her pu.sy pic, bosom and a55 pic. den sum of dem sent her their di*k pic. My eyes full that day. Den listening to d voice message conversations i just concluded i was with a porn star.
The following morning i did my normal morning intimacy but dis time wit brutality, pleasure, pains and tears. Pls note dat most students in d higher institutions are Potential harlots.

Hope you didn't wound her?
Mr banger... Lolz

Dyt:

English pls

you are a very very bad adviser I pity that your baby daddy who hooked up wiv you

butta: you are a very very bad adviser I pity that your baby daddy who hooked up wiv you

Wat if u find out its ur dad

Dyt:

Wat if u find out its ur dad

Lol