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Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by damiso(f): 2:37am On May 21, 2013 |
dayokanu: Ok o.Motigbo o o motigba. .I really wished it was as easy get papers anyway but its all good. jidegirl12: Dami *sighs* morals eh? Well this might sound selfish coming from me , but I really don't mind being the bad guy on this Topic. Jydoegirl(i liked that moniker ) my point is which i think you got is clearly highlighted in your last paragraph.He is not like people who have been stuck for years and so as not to sound preachy,He is only just starting this whole schitzo so his case is slightly diff from someone who has been on it for years.Ok o,dont let me use morals in this case nigbayen jidegirl12: Lol.Easy .Ok o.I keep saying it and people tell me not to but seriously having seen first hand (family members o i no come from Dangote or Adenugaish background ejo)what people have to face living illegally abroad for me it was and will always be a no no.Dats all. Omi ti eniyan ma mu ko ni san koja eyan(water that you are ought to drink wont flow past you, apologies if translation or yoruba sef is not spot on ). |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by baby124: 2:41am On May 21, 2013 |
OP, If you cannot provide necessities and luxuries that family desires, I suggest you mind your business. Don't give advice when you have nothing to offer as a remedy. All this gboromidieleru from a man is unbecoming. Married people should learn to talk less to outsiders about private issues. |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 3:19am On May 21, 2013 |
Dami So what would he rather do? Exhaust the whole visa before he starts the runs? He's clearly concerned bout his newly wed and want to get it over with ASAP. He's very nice. I always tell the newcomers fist thing first, go back to school and upgrade to secure a good job rather than working at McDonald's right away, once you get used to the money flow, it's very hard to stop and think bout schooling again, age's not on anybody's side. Same goes to the guy in op's story too. The earlier the better. --------------------------------------------------------------------------- As for the holier than thous that don't 'roll' with THE : hungry, criminally minded, fraudulent, adulterous desperados and riff raffs ( wow ile) but can clearly mark them from afar in meetings and occasions & social gatherings ( together with them oh ) or from their cars , or even their neighbours AS: the loud, uncultured Naija wives , poorly educated and no option Naija crew ( wow wow wow) and still claim here that they don't know them with all those convinced qualities? ( damn!!) How you take know all those attributes without knowing them in person boggles mind and sounds stalky too. I'm done now. Ish! |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by jeffizy(m): 3:39am On May 21, 2013 |
baby_123: OP,It's funny writing that after what everybody has written. I guess you were in such rush to post a reply. Let me re-state my earlier stand...ignore the messenger but not the message. Gboromideleru is not such a bad idea if it's about seeking a better path for people you hold dear. If you are not okay with the topic , kindly add yourself to the viewers or mind your business. Don't bring your stress here please. 1 Like |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 4:33am On May 21, 2013 |
Yes o! I know many more attributes; they are also greedy, lack contentment, immoral, lack the fear of God, deceitful and are common criminals. Oh and did I say desperate and razz? As for the people 'arranging' them had better watch it cause they could be rounded up by authorities at any time T. 1 Like |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 4:45am On May 21, 2013 |
^^^ you've got more the messianic one? ..... I'm sure they don't give a rat bout what you think of them, like you'd even know see? Unless you know them ( friend & relatives) , then your deductions are all pointless. Tsk got it? Orrrrrr Confused? |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by miredia(m): 4:52am On May 21, 2013 |
ileobatojo: Yes o! I know many more attributes; they are also greedy, lack contentment, immoral, lack the fear of God, deceitful and are common criminals. Oh and did I say desperate and razz?ile is becoming fierce o. U right though |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 5:02am On May 21, 2013 |
Pfft, why would I care what a bunch of criminals think? With their blatant disregard for the law of the land and their deception of poor innocent women in some cases, they are nothing but fraudulent, adulterous, disgusting menaces. The authorities will soon come for them and their criminal masterminds 3 Likes |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 5:03am On May 21, 2013 |
miredia: ile is becoming fierce o. U right though How u dey? |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by miredia(m): 5:05am On May 21, 2013 |
ileobatojo:i dey o, ur analysis always on point but u'r vexing these days ehnnn... |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by MMotimo: 5:09am On May 21, 2013 |
Aaaaaaaaaw, the internet touts aka gutter babes are on heat Lord, please grant them contentment and happiness in their lives so that they may spare the rest of us their uncouth and uncultured behavior and not constantly misbehave on a public forum . . . Also grant them the discernment to recognize those of like minds so that they may direct their Orisirisi, so they expect Mmotimo to start trading words with two obviously bitter and unfulfilled people with a reputation for gangsterism! Tufiakwa! I was raised better! Egbe isu ko ni iyan Knock yourselves out, afterall an omo alata is an omo alata is an omo alata 3 Likes |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 5:13am On May 21, 2013 |
miredia: i dey o, ur analysis always on point but u'r vexing these days ehnnn... Lol! Abeg I'm innocent! |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by miredia(m): 5:14am On May 21, 2013 |
ileobatojo:u use to be... |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 5:18am On May 21, 2013 |
miredia: u use to be... No comment. |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 5:21am On May 21, 2013 |
Oops I touched a Nerve I guess I'm right she knows them afterall ------------ Ile And Yet you didn't figure it out. Look Neither both of us are mind readers, we are talking bout attributes/qualities of a person. Just cause they're involved in such doesn't make them all those disgusting characteristics you came up with bout their person. , otherwise except [b]you're related [/b]with those people ( then you're right) But if not then all those features you stated are Not only inefficacious but irrelevant . Got it now?? *Kicked to the curb* 1 Like |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 5:24am On May 21, 2013 |
awwwwww MMotimo: Aaaaaaaaaw, the internet touts aka gutter babes are on heat Pot calling kettle black buhahahaha ... Who sounds omo akara ish now?? you need that prayer points on yourself , guess that's why it came in handy for you. Agbaya yamayama !! 1 Like |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by miredia(m): 5:32am On May 21, 2013 |
MMotimo: Aaaaaaaaaw, the internet touts aka gutter babes are on heatur write up is a call to engage a discourse. If uncomfortable with any character, wat a superior mind would typically do is ignore or trivialise.don't sound petty chief 5 Likes |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by miredia(m): 5:34am On May 21, 2013 |
ileobatojo:abeg comment |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 5:35am On May 21, 2013 |
jidegirl12: Oops I touched a Nerve I guess I'm right she knows them afterall Of course I can call a person that commits a crime a criminal without knowing them intimately. The proof of a pudding.... Anyway, not interested in a back and forth. The bottom line is what they do is fraud (and in the case of this guy in the OP, bigamy + adultery) and I really don't understand how you can throw the whole weight of your support behind that. Have a good night. 3 Likes |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 5:42am On May 21, 2013 |
miredia: ur write up is a call to engage a discourse. If uncomfortable with any character, wat a superior mind would typically do is ignore or trivialise.don't sound petty chief I'm forced to ignore that post because if any of it was actually directed at me, it's so far out of the looney left field that it is just best dismissed. #this is the thanks I get for actually coming to her defense. #lesson learned. 1 Like |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by miredia(m): 5:44am On May 21, 2013 |
ileobatojo:In the event of a circumstantial need for survival, ideals and ethics are relegated. And yes it is wrong but just stating the obvious |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 5:49am On May 21, 2013 |
miredia: In the event of a circumstantial need for survival, ideals and ethics are relegated. And yes it is wrong but just stating the obvious I do agree with you that there could be some really pitiful cases but as a general rule, it should not be the default course of action. |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by prologue: 5:53am On May 21, 2013 |
@op... These are very delicate lines. You just have to be careful. It seems to be in your nature to care, but even brothers might read different meanings. Think of peace in your family too. @ post: a good man is usually d man that has not been sufficiently tempted. Saw most scenarios like this in benin and lagos. It is a fraud and most times, the wives have very little options. After say 2 to 3 kids, u want to fight for ur rights? Even when d reason is constructed on better lives for the kids n everyone? If she doesn't agree, she is seen as wicked n selfish n be ready for trouble with the in laws. Bottomline... Manage ur resources and build with what you have. Its those husbands that are looking for huge "home runs" that falls into these. Watch out for d guy in a relationship that dreams of "hitting it big". They usually end up hitting you below d belt n it might look wicked for u to even let out a cry. 2 Likes |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by biolabee(m): 6:21am On May 21, 2013 |
Across the slug fest of sarcasm and who come from silver spoon or not , good to know that DK and mama jhyde hit the nail on the head Liked!!! 1000 times Money na the main thing Simples That man wey dey beside you on the subway or that owambe you don't really know he sorted himself Everybodi on fire today 1 Like |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by jeffizy(m): 6:32am On May 21, 2013 |
prologue: @op... These are very delicate lines. You just have to be careful. It seems to be in your nature to care , but even brothers might read different meanings. Think of peace in your family too.Thanks. Your advice is highly valued. Although some find being out for other people over-bearing. Life is in black and white. |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 6:46am On May 21, 2013 |
Women need to stop putting up wit such nonsense |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by MMotimo: 8:08am On May 21, 2013 |
Crossfire comment, deleted |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by MMotimo: 8:20am On May 21, 2013 |
@ ileoba Sorry you got caught in the crossfire! Frankly, I was surprised at what I felt was an unprovoked attack from you. You've never struck me as the type with a bottomless capacity for mischief and a need for e-fights to cope with the misery of real life. The other gal, I know exactly what her troubles are, clear for all to see. I usually just ignore characters like that because it is an inbred thing and it can be hard to outrun your circumstances but I realized this one's IQ is so low that her local, razz, crass, bushito self will keep pushing because she sees herself as an internet warrior and zero breeding to re-arrange herself. A pathological liar with illusions of grandeur who has been exposed for what she is over and over again, hopefully she gets the help she needs, almost all of her sparring partners have counselled her. This much venom and psycho behavior online, the real life must be truly . . . . . . Now that she has had a chance to call me names, maybe she will feel better and consider getting professional help for what ails her. Apologies again! Now I know why my conscience was bothering me, I owe you an apology. 1 Like |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 8:40am On May 21, 2013 |
damiso: Her hypocrisy is baffling . . . talking through both ides of her mouth. One side encourages immorality, the other side condemns it . . . as the spirit directs eh ye . . ye! 1 Like |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 8:45am On May 21, 2013 |
MMotimo: @ ileoba Apology accepted! No biggie. To say I was stunned when I read your post is an understatement because at no point did I attack you. I can't even figure out which of my posts you thought was directed against you. In actual fact, the primary reason I came into this thread was because I saw Jide deliberately targeting you (with her snide comments) unecessarily and I agreed with your point of view. As for Jide, what can I say, she and I have finally agreed to be "frenemies" otherwise, she would have been directing all the negativity at me. Jide, please leave Mmotimo alone. |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 8:48am On May 21, 2013 |
jidegirl12: Uju today is Victoria Day .... I'm heading to the parade as I speak and a guy I just filed PR for is driving me and my family there..... I came to the west solo (student) with my britiko passport to refresh your memory ..... yeah I thought you need that explanation from me. bla bla bla bla . . . The diff b/w you and I is that I'll call you out, even quote you . . but you prefer the I'm not here to trade words/fight with you, but I won't look the other way if you talk trash . . . it disturbs my sensibilities! |
Re: Which Wife Can Accept This? by Nobody: 8:51am On May 21, 2013 |
ileobatojo: It's her modus operandi . . . cowards way out? Honestly this is getting old . . . instead of giving her opinion like everybody else and taking a hike, she'll decide to launch unnecessary attacks at innocent posters. Tried to figure her out but the mind boggles . . . 1 Like |
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