Princess zoe: Mondi-cheeks your posts here are very much on point. How can a man get married to another woman just to make money or get papers. People no they fear God o. If that is the case, then there is noting wrong in a woman sleeping with married man/men just to get money to feed her household when her husband's business or job collapses. Devil is really progressing in some people's lives. Immorality has been painted to look decent and okay. God forbid.

God bless you for this! Tufia!

If i knew about the plan earlier, i would have advised him to search for those that take it up as a full time business over there. Where they file for you and you pay them.
In that way,all party is happy.

The dark side is that more and more people are getting morally bankrupt these days. They say it is 'hustling',i say it is wrong.

Nairaland never disappoints

I hate this kind of thing!
If you love to have 2,3, 4 or a millions wife(s)
Why lay? To any of them, for a Green Card
And if you have children with one and then with the other.
What will happen, if the children meet up at university or on a holiday back home and the start something . . . how would you feel, if you have Bleep with your own sister or brother
Useless! All of that! It will kill the men sooner or later

What if . . .one of those men would bring his Nigerian child(en) to the USA or Europe and raise them alongside his mixed/USA/European children . . . all of them as brothers and sister in one household and the Nigerian mother would came and visit . . what if . . . all were ok with it
Black people would shout the USA or Europe wife is stealing the Nigerian children
The white folks would said “He is just using you . . . the African children are different
Therefore which hope is their . . . to be hornet . . .
I never ever heard that same thing like that was tried . . . and worked out in the long run . . . all what I heard ended in disaster . . .
Enlighten me!
What is the solution here!

ItsModella: hahahahahahahahaha!! lalaosky on some aproko tinz mehn!!

Lmao, so you caught me peeping right?. Lmao


Seems like I'll be pitching my tent at the family section from now onwards


Too much testersterone-laden post in this thread. Lol

andromida: The question is this- Who raised this women to believe they don't deserve anything from life except an absentee husband and a marriage certificate to keep their bed warm? who told them its ok for them and their mil to raise kids together when the father is married to an oyinbo and raising oyinbo kids? Who told them as long as they are married anything that comes their way is good enough for them.? Who told them money is everything. Are these women ok? Who told them marriage is an endurance walk? Who defined the "good wife" for them.

hmmm, may God av mercy on us. Marriage isn't meant to be endure bt enjoyed. This life is full of mysteries.

@ Wish I knew who you were


You resurrected this thread with your "likes"

I was chuckling as I read, thanks for making me laugh.

Funny thread.

I'm too persistent sha...just can't stand lazy bums and their advocates and God knows why?

Where's my Frenemie Ile btw?