Abu Mikey: Mods,Kindly do remove this thread from FrontPage!!! So many insults and Trolls could make her commit the unthinkable

Exactly, some people are just silly or heartless. I don't blame them but the OP who ought to face the reality of life rather than thinking about unnecessary stuffs.

I've seen many fat girls who're twince bigger,and they're doing doing fine and even choosy.

Intead of her to google or ask folks how to attract men,she's here talking down of herself.

I like it Big

biggirloya2: this is me.

U beautiful now

biggirloya2: this is me.

On a more serious/honest note, you are not really that big. My girl friend is bigger than you and I love her die. Basically I don't care so much about how fat she is as long as she is working on it herself and also working on making herself a better woman (a great wife and mother), that's all that matters. I guess there are men like me that do not care so much about how busty a lady is, all that matters is that she is presentable and has a beautiful face.


Besides, in spite of the fact that my babe was even fat sef, she made me see hell before she said yes. My point, have a healthy self esteem, feel good about yourself, carry yourself with class, be proud about your stature because a man will only treat you the way you treat yourself. If you don't feel proud about your stature, why should I.

Ultimately, there are couple of people who will consider you attractive, who will tell you that you are the most beautiful girl they have ever seen (that's just how nature is, it's balance). There is someone out there who will love you just the way you are, but you have to love yourself first, before he loves you.

You know one thing I have come to realize is that, mature men prefer to marry an asset as a wife. The question thus is this, what do you have to offer to the man who marries you?. How far are you working on yourself, career, goals, future etc. What endearing qualities do you possess (kind, honesty, humility etc). Essentially it all about being a great/good woman.

Just build yourself to that point, where you don't need to be in a relationship to be happy/successful.

I have a lot to say, but I have to go to bed.
In closing, You are beautiful (though I didn't see your face but your stature and curves are great), so stop the self deprecation, you don't need a pity party, it doesn't help at all, it will only make you depress, the more depress you are the lower your chances of finding that special someone.

I don't think that guy loves you because if he does he will create time for you, but I can't blame him, I terminated one of my former girl friends appointment for having a low self esteem about herself.

The only thing you can do is to get down to the gym (have a goal of the amount of pounds you want to shed in the coming weeks), diet (stop eating junks) and focus on being a better you (development all round, career and life generally).

The way you see yourself is the way others will see you, you are special dear, there is someone out there looking for you, but you have to be prepared for him too. What matters most is what is on the inside (your values).

Its not easy for fat girls, wen I was in 200lvs I had this fat girl toasting me, despite my smallish stature den. I jst hope dat @op isn't same person.
Pls did u do Unimaid?

k2039: On a more serious/honest note, you are not really that big. My girl friend is bigger than you and I love her die. Basically I don't care so much about how fat she is as long as she is working on it herself and also working on making herself a better woman (a great wife and mother), that's all that matters. I guess there are men like me that do not care so much about how busty a lady is, all that matters is that she is presentable and has a beautiful face.


Besides, in spite of the fact that my babe was even fat sef, she made me see hell before she said yes. My point, have a healthy self esteem, feel good about yourself, carry yourself with class, be proud about your stature because a man will only treat you the way you are. If you don't feel proud about your stature, why should I.

Ultimately, there are couple of people who will consider you attractive, who will tell you that you are the most beautiful girl they have ever seen (that's just how nature is. There is someone out there who will love you just the way you are, but you have to love yourself first, before he loves you.

You know one thing I have come to realize is that, mature men prefer to marry an asset as a wife. The question thus is this, what do you have to offer to the man who marries you?. How far are you working on yourself, career, goals, future etc. What endearing qualities do you possess (kind, honesty, humility etc). Essentially it all about being a great/good woman.

Just build yourself to that point, where you don't need to be in a relationship to be happy/successful.

I have a lot to say, but I have to go to bed.
In closing, You are beautiful (though I didn't see your face but your stature and curves are great), so stop the self deprecation, you don't need a pity party, it doesn't help at all, it will only make you depress, the more depress you are the lower your chances of finding that special someone.

I don't think that guy loves you because if he does he will create time for you, but I can't blame him, I terminated one of my former girl friends appointment for having a low self esteem about herself.

The only thing you can do is to get down to the gym (have a goal of the amount of pounds you want to shed in the coming weeks, diet and focus on being a better you.

The way you see yourself is the way others will see you, you are special dear, there is someone out there looking for you, but you have to be prepared for him too.

Niceeeeeee

k2039: On a more serious/honest note, you are not really that big. My girl friend is bigger than you and I love her die. Basically I don't care so much about how fat she is as long as she is working on it herself and also working on making herself a better woman (a great wife and mother), that's all that matters. I guess there are men like me that do not care so much about how busty a lady is, all that matters is that she is presentable and has a beautiful face.


Besides, in spite of the fact that my babe was even fat sef, she made me see hell before she said yes. My point, have a healthy self esteem, feel good about yourself, carry yourself with class, be proud about your stature because a man will only treat you the way you are. If you don't feel proud about your stature, why should I.

Ultimately, there are couple of people who will consider you attractive, who will tell you that you are the most beautiful girl they have ever seen (that's just how nature is. There is someone out there who will love you just the way you are, but you have to love yourself first, before he loves you.

You know one thing I have come to realize is that, mature men prefer to marry an asset as a wife. The question thus is this, what do you have to offer to the man who marries you?. How far are you working on yourself, career, goals, future etc. What endearing qualities do you possess (kind, honesty, humility etc). Essentially it all about being a great/good woman.

Just build yourself to that point, where you don't need to be in a relationship to be happy/successful.

I have a lot to say, but I have to go to bed.
In closing, You are beautiful (though I didn't see your face but your stature and curves are great), so stop the self deprecation, you don't need a pity party, it doesn't help at all, it will only make you depress, the more depress you are the lower your chances of finding that special someone.

I don't think that guy loves you because if he does he will create time for you, but I can't blame him, I terminated one of my former girl friends appointment for having a low self esteem about herself.

The only thing you can do is to get down to the gym (have a goal of the amount of pounds you want to shed in the coming weeks, diet (stop eating junks) and focus on being a better you (development all round, career and life generally).

The way you see yourself is the way others will see you, you are special dear, there is someone out there looking for you, but you have to be prepared for him too.

Gbayi! Ur head is dia! Chop it

Louis007: Its not easy for fat girls, wen I was in 200lvs I had this fat girl toasting me, despite my smallish stature den. I jst hope dat @op isn't same person.
Pls did u do Unimaid?

Hmm! Nah wah to some nairalanders oo.. Why asking her? If atall she did schooled there, do u xpect her to affirm she was the one stalking you?

I am a very tall woman, infact I was the tallest girl in my secondary school(6ft2") and seriously, it wasn't funny. I got all the names in the world. From tallest to letter "I". I felt bad. I asked God why I couldn't be like those petit girls of 5ft and below. Boys avoided me and told me my height scared Them. I didn't tell you I was quite skinny too. I could never get a dress in the shops because if I found the one that was my length, I would be hanging in it like I borrowed. So I always had tailor-made clothes! Then I went into the university and decided that no one was going to call me names and make me inferior. I challenged everyone that tried to make fun of my height. And before long, I had become popular and every tom, dave and harry wanted to befriend me. I made friends with only girls as tall as myself and believe me, we were so admired wherever we went.
What I'm trying to tell u in essence is that, if you don't hold up your head, no one will do it for you. Go to places where younger boys are, associate naturally with them and u will see the change. Goodluck to you, my dear.

Idowuogbo:
U and I no starving na no no!

Haba! Na kpako style of dieting u dey teach d chiquito joor!

Jesus christ,Never see a funniest lady like you in my life.

collynzo2: This must be gbagaun Tuesday!

Lmfaoooooo bullet yi pooooo

@OP,
You are still young at 26. Stop lamenting about some guy. Get into a diet program and hit the gym. The boys will come when you do that, and your self-esteem will go up notches

buddymate: I am a very tall woman, infact I was the tallest girl in my secondary school(6ft2" and seriously, it wasn't funny. I got all the names in the world. From tallest to letter "I". I felt bad. I asked God why I couldn't be like those petit girls of 5ft and below. Boys avoided me and told me my height scared Them. I didn't tell you I was quite skinny too. I could never get a dress in the shops because if I found the one that was my length, I would be hanging in it like I borrowed. So I always had tailor-made clothes! Then I went into the university and decided that no one was going to call me names and make me inferior. I challenged everyone that tried to make fun of my height. And before long, I had become popular and every tom, dave and harry wanted to befriend me. I made friends with only girls as tall as myself and believe me, we were so admired wherever we went.
What I'm trying to tell u in essence is that, if you don't hold up your head, no one will do it for you. Go to places where younger boys are, associate naturally with them and u will see the change. Goodluck to you, my dear.

Tall chics rock

seedord247:

Lmfaoooooo bullet yi pooooo

Lol gbenu e soun jor

Why Scared ? U dont need to listen to what people say...

biggirloya2: ooh i forgot to mention that when someone my age approaches me i am also too judgemental and i will be scared of what people will say when that person is my bf so i just say no MAINLY BECAUSE I WILL BE TOO SCARED

Texas.Cowgirl:


Una no sabi me
Ask ppl that know me abeg
Take bullshoit lowo tani? Plz stop am if na joke

Aunty please dont kill us oooo.....

[size=16pt]@OP, Loose weight, Monique did it...case closed![/size]

Its so funny to know some guys insulting the Op, are soo skiny like dem amphibian skeletons, skeletals of Lizards and Wall ghekos, covered with dry skin like those of Frogs
Forming 6 packs - products of compusory hunger and irresistible generational starvation..

Someone had to bear all the pain so she could seek matured and responsible advice here only for some to hijack the thread for some nonentity show of immaturity..

Where are the mods self??

You guys shouldn't joke with sensitive issues that can affect human psychology and physiology...

Don't let anyone let you down... You are big and beautiful... Do your thing gal

publisher: [size=16pt]@OP, Loose weight, Monique did it...case closed![/size]

Seedord, se o ri Nnkan to cause?

Acidosis: Its so funny to know some guys insulting the Op, are soo skiny like dem amphibian skeletons, skeletals of Lizards and Wall ghekos, covered with dry skin like those of Frogs
Forming 6 packs - products of compusory hunger and irresistible generational starvation..

Someone had bear all the pain so she could seek matured and responsible advice here only for some to hijack the thread for some nonentity show of immaturity..

Where are the mods self??

You guys shouldn't joke with sensitive issues that can affect human psychology and physiology...

*faints*

Texas.Cowgirl:


Seedord, se o ri Nnkan to cause?

Please dont break my fast ooooooo

Bullet ti kan ni mo ju ooooo

seedord247:

Please dont break my fast ooooooo

Bullet ti kan ni mo ju ooooo

Omo, Yoruba e gan le

I jux av 2say somtin. Hi miss, u'r fat, I av a big head (dats off d record tho) I'm sure none of us r perfect.
If u don't feel rite wit ur boyfrnd,then call it quit, and wait for Mr.right, yeh Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worse kind of suffering. The greater your capacity to love, d greater ur capacity to feel the pain.
No one should suffocate beneath pain on top of pain.
You should have time to breathe, time to scream it
out until it doesn’t exist anymore.
A wise man once said "Of all forms of caution, caution in love is perhaps the most fatal to true happiness". Try at much to live in d present, b wit whoeva u feel comfortable with (som1 u trust). Buh most importantly luv urslf.cheers

I will lyk 4 u to see urself as a wonderful being with special attribute.i know it might nt be easy bt u av 2 build ur self esteem n dis wil help u on a long run. u've gat 2 be moderate wit ur eatin habit/cut d amount of food u take per day n also do exercise daily.i hope dis help a bit