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Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by Gasmore: 7:52am On Aug 01, 2013 |
Its ok to be absolutely open, but wisdom is profitable to direct, so know your spause and consider the outcomes before devolging informations. Secretes kept about you and your spouse often turn around to hurt you both.... |
Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by extremelygolden: 8:50am On Aug 01, 2013 |
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you, is the Golden Rule. If you want your spouse to be open to you, then you should learn to be open to him/her too. Being open in a marriage or any given relationship will help in no small way in shielding intruders and keeping them at bar from the affairs of such marriage or relationship. Though people oftentimes tend to abuse the opportunity, but it is really what given a try. 1 Like |
Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by TheMatrix3: 11:20am On Aug 01, 2013 |
It is often said that "it is only a lady you hate that you tell the truth always". Don't get me wrong, I believe you should be honest with ur lady/man but some untold things and some questions are better left unanswered eg: who do u tink of wen u wnakk ; the money u gave to the relative u know ur partner hates; "who" or "what' you were looking at before you ran into an electric pole , Did you use to "enjoy it" with ur ex? etc... |
Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by fiolaP(f): 11:31am On Aug 01, 2013 |
it is not everything that u tell people(male or female) 1 Like |
Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by Wahala90: 12:43pm On Aug 01, 2013 |
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Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by Wahala90: 12:45pm On Aug 01, 2013 |
Wait a minute! 1 Like
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Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by coputa(m): 1:09pm On Aug 01, 2013 |
To be open in marriage does'nt mean you should lay all your family secret on the table,.being open means telling your partner about your plans and asperation and not about your office gossips,pay rise,past family wragglings,past relationship and stuffs like that....keep the joker card close to your chest....marriage is an adventure,you dont know where it will lead you to....be a bit reserve, because there are some things you may say that can lead to the collapse of the marriage... Say things that are necessary and jettison unecessary comments...too much talks kills relationship.... 1 Like |
Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by paschalomenihu: 1:21pm On Aug 01, 2013 |
BE OPEN TILL DEATH DO YOU PART.JUST BE OPEN IN ALL ISSUES |
Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by wonyi: 1:33pm On Aug 01, 2013 |
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Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by doubleportion: 2:02pm On Aug 01, 2013 |
i wouldn't comment until the marital status of u all is known! 1 Like |
Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by deliveryboy: 3:49pm On Aug 01, 2013 |
In as much as it's good to be open, some information should be left the way they are for peace to reign, no individual or family that has not got some secrets they are not very proud to share, and this may result to scaring your partner away. Always say the truth when asked but don't go around talking every negative secrets about yourself or your family. ( Read guidance and counselling books to see this is scientifically established) |
Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Aug 01, 2013 |
I think you should be very open but if my parents say something, I might not tell him. I don't mind releasing the password to everything to him but some things are better left unsaid if it isn't gonna be In the best interest of everyone. |
Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by judano: 12:25am On Aug 02, 2013 |
Every_LadY: When it comes being open to ur spouse,pls be very and totally open about urself.Wisdom demands that u protect ur loved ones from some information that will not make any positive contribution to their lives.So why tell him/her what mummy said since am not going to implement it?sounds childish to me. Correct! Moreover, not every partner is matured enough to handle every bit of information. Factor in your partner's maturity and temperament. 1 Like |
Re: How Open Should One Be In Marriage? by AlphaSoul: 10:28am On May 14, 2021 |
uche13:Well said. |
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