jennykadry:

she typed it here because obviously we all don't know d mum,and we don't know her too,so she did d right thing coming here for advise,atleast its better dan telling friends that know d family

jennykadry:

she typed it here because obviously we all don't know d mum,and we don't know her too,so she did d right thing coming here for advise,atleast its better dan telling friends that know d family

welli:

xerxes,please can i understand you?wats your view:that d poster is wrong in her observation or she is not suppose to post it here?

anyways u've got nuttin to do wit it nd so ve i.i think d best tin is to lettit slide nd let d good advicers on nl advice her since u nd i can't contribute.but just for d records,it will be much better if u learn to listen to people when dey cry out dan to mk them feel like dey're liein or smtin . . . its going to be an advantage on your path

stillwater:

Was that necessary?

Sweet T:

@Poster

Is your Mom from Ekiti?? Most women from the southern Nigeria are incapable of being faithful. Especially the ones from Ekiti and Ondo states.

stillwater:

Was that necessary?

Sweet T:

what are you talking about?? Ain't that the truth?

toyinrayo:

Seriously




Sweet T, why would you bring our fight here
You're not serious
Just b/c TOH got on your @$$ and I got on your @$$, now ekiti women are unfaithful?
You need serious help before I start bashing you again, and trust me, this time, seun will have to ban me again
oniranu

Sweet T:

@Poster

Is your Mom from Ekiti?? Most women from the southern Nigeria are incapable of being faithful. Especially the ones from Ekiti and Ondo states.

Sweet T:

I was expecting that. Truth could be very bitter at times. pele, Toyin.

toyinrayo:

Trust me hon, when I start my own truth, na only seun go seperate me and you
when will you grow up?
grown ass man,
I wonder, will you ever use your common sense?
today it's Bleep her, tomorrow it's tribe bashing. . .

while you may be right, some people may feel pushed to the wall and unable to confide in any 'close' friends, as the shame would be too much. Sometimes online forums like this one represent one of the few places you can anonymously vent without risk of discovery or exposure.

~Xerxes~:

It's shameful!!!!!
The moral decadence has reached a high level. . . . . . .Can't people be WEB SHY for once in their lives?
Who brings family issues to Nairaland?



The poster is wrong in her shady, inconclusive observation and she is also wrong to bring such family issues to a public forum.
Where are the morals n scruples?

Sweet T:


bla bla bla.

jennykadry:

Stephen tell your friends and im sure they wil be happy to spread d good news for u ,rubbish

debosky:

Sweet T don come again. You just love to rile up the ladies don't ya

If the OP's story is indeed true, then it is really sad to hear.

@ Stephen

while you may be right, some people may feel pushed to the wall and unable to confide in any 'close' friends, as the shame would be too much. Sometimes online forums like this one represent one of the few places you can anonymously vent without risk of discovery or exposure.

StephenP:

@Jenny and Welli, I've to admit Xerxes has a point. If I thought my mom was cheating, hypothetically speaking, I wouldn't come to Nairaland and say my mom is cheating.  I mean even if I knew for sure that she was, I'd be ashamed to come to the Web and spill it out. If anything, I would actually talk to my friends and tell them to advice me instead of total strangers. Ok even if I was gon' risk it all and come to Nairaland for help, I wouldn't be like "My Mom is Cheating!!!!!" I'd be like "Help Wanted" or something mild. That is probably one of the reasons why this story is hard to believe.

StephenP:

@Jenny and welli, I've to admit Xerxes has a point. If I thought my mom was cheating, hypothetically speaking, I wouldn't come to Nairaland and say my mom is cheating.  I mean even if I knew for sure that she was, I'd be ashamed to come to the Web and spill it out. If anything, I would actually talk to my friends and tell them to advice me instead of total strangers. Ok even if I was gon' risk it all and come to Nairaland for help, I wouldn't be like "My Mom is Cheating!!!!!" I'd be like "Help Wanted" or something mild. That is probably one of the reasons why this story is hard to believe.
Completely irrelevant to the story.

savanaha:

What if her mother is on Niaraland?

welli:

i wan u to get smtin straight here.she's in a mess(that is if d story is true) nd she needs to talk to sm1 about it.isn't it better she said it on nl where nobody knw she nd her mum dan tellin it to her friends that mite la8er turn around to mock her?that sm people fake stories on nl doesn't mk her guilty(tho i can't say 4 sure if its true)for me ohhh:i think she respected her mum enough by sayin it on nl nd nt tellin her friends.

~Xerxes~:

Did u say she needs to talk to someone about it?
Blimey. . . . . She is now talking to 200,000 people who are giving different ideas n opinions. . . .
If she's so confused to come here for help, best believe it, she would be more confuzzled to choose whats best for her in the many comments i have seen maself. How is this supposed to help her? Take my advice or welli's or stephen's?
comin here is not a good idea at all

i'm so tired of takin panadol for sm1 else's headache.i dnt knw y but sm1 shud give dis babe a shoulder to lean on ohhh pls we seem to ve sm pple who dnt care abt pple's joy on nlmy last statment no offence meant